{"id":427730,"date":"2025-11-30T22:06:50","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T21:06:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=427730"},"modified":"2025-11-30T22:06:50","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T21:06:50","slug":"mecanisme-mental-trahit-personnes-se-victimisent-sans-le-savoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/mentalni-mechanismus-prozrazuje-lidi-kteri-se-nevedomky-stavaji-obetmi-427730","title":{"rendered":"Tento ment\u00e1ln\u00ed mechanismus prozrazuje lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed nev\u011bdomky hraj\u00ed roli ob\u011bti."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee se proti nim \u017eivot spikne, kdy\u017e jen reaguj\u00ed na ud\u00e1losti. Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b jste se s n\u011bk\u00fdm setkali. Mo\u017en\u00e1 dokonce jednoho v\u00edd\u00e1te ka\u017ed\u00fd den. Ani\u017e by to cht\u011bli, upadaj\u00ed do pasti mentality ob\u011bti. Toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed je ve skute\u010dnosti zalo\u017eeno na mnohem jemn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm ment\u00e1ln\u00edm mechanismu, ne\u017e se zd\u00e1.<\/p>\n<h2> Ment\u00e1ln\u00ed mechanismus nev\u011bdom\u00e9 viktimizace<\/h2>\n<p> Za opakuj\u00edc\u00edmi se st\u00ed\u017enostmi, dramatick\u00fdmi vzdechy a slavn\u00fdm <em>\u201es t\u00edm nic nenad\u011bl\u00e1m\u201c<\/em> se skr\u00fdv\u00e1 p\u0159ekvapiv\u011b siln\u00fd psychologick\u00fd obrann\u00fd mechanismus. Nev\u011bdom\u00e9 postaven\u00ed se ob\u011bti je automatick\u00fd reflex, kter\u00fd vede n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi k tomu, aby sv\u00e9 pot\u00ed\u017ee p\u0159ipisovali vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm faktor\u016fm, ani\u017e by v\u016fbec zv\u00e1\u017eili svou vlastn\u00ed roli v dan\u00e9 situaci. Je to mozek, kter\u00fd se vyhne nepohodl\u00ed ze sebezkoum\u00e1n\u00ed a odvrac\u00ed odpov\u011bdnost. Je to, jako by stiskl tla\u010d\u00edtko \u201eobrann\u00e9ho re\u017eimu\u201c, ani\u017e by se s n\u011bk\u00fdm poradil.<\/p>\n<p>Tento mechanismus nen\u00ed charakterovou vadou, na rozd\u00edl od v\u0161eobecn\u00e9ho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed. Je to vnit\u0159n\u00ed, dlouhodob\u00e1 strategie, \u010dasto zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00e1 v minul\u00fdch zku\u0161enostech, kdy uzn\u00e1n\u00ed odpov\u011bdnosti st\u00e1lo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 vysokou emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed cenu. Aby se \u010dlov\u011bk vyhnul vin\u011b, obvi\u0148uje vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed sv\u011bt: spole\u010dnost, sm\u016flu, ostatn\u00ed lidi, sv\u00e9 okolnosti. V\u0161echno se st\u00e1v\u00e1 dal\u0161\u00edm d\u016fkazem toho, \u017ee \u017eivot je proti n\u011bmu.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.doctissimo.fr\/psychologie\/comment-reconnaitre-une-personne-qui-se-victimise-et-gerer-ce-comportement\/12e687_ar.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Psycholo\u017eka Am\u00e9lie Boukhobza shrnuje<\/a> tuto my\u0161lenku fr\u00e1z\u00ed, kter\u00e1 jako by vych\u00e1zela z neust\u00e1l\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho monologu: <em>\u201eNen\u00ed to moje chyba, \u017eivot je prost\u011b proti mn\u011b.\u201c<\/em> Tento typ diskurzu slou\u017e\u00ed k legitimizaci utrpen\u00ed, ospravedln\u011bn\u00ed pasivity a n\u011bkdy nev\u011bdom\u011b k vyvol\u00e1n\u00ed soucitu. Nev\u011bdom\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165 toti\u017e ne v\u017edy hled\u00e1 podporu prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm manipulace; \u010dasto se prost\u011b chce c\u00edtit pochopena, sly\u0161ena a uzn\u00e1na.<\/p>\n<p>Probl\u00e9m je v tom, \u017ee se z t\u00e9to role rychle st\u00e1v\u00e1 klec. \u010clov\u011bk se do n\u00ed uzav\u0159e proti sv\u00e9 v\u016fli. Neust\u00e1l\u00fdm opakov\u00e1n\u00edm, \u017ee je v\u0161echno mimo kontrolu, nakonec uv\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee u\u017e nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dnou moc. Ztr\u00e1c\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bru ve svou schopnost jednat a jeho \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti se za\u010dnou to\u010dit v kruhu. Je to jist\u011b pohodln\u00e9, ale stra\u0161n\u011b omezuj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Z\u00e1kladn\u00ed strach a jeho vztahov\u00e9 d\u016fsledky<\/h2>\n<p> Pokud se pod\u00edv\u00e1me na povrch tohoto mechanismu, odhal\u00edme univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed emoci: strach. Strach z chyb. Strach z ne\u00fasp\u011bchu. A tak\u00e9 strach z dosp\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. Proto\u017ee v\u00fdvoj vy\u017eaduje odvahu, pohyb a zodpov\u011bdnost. A kdy\u017e tato slova vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed v\u00edce \u00fazkosti ne\u017e motivace, role ob\u011bti se st\u00e1v\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00edm \u00fato\u010di\u0161t\u011bm, i kdy\u017e dus\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00fd osobn\u00ed r\u016fst.<\/p>\n<p>Hran\u00ed si na ob\u011b\u0165 vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 riziku spojen\u00e9mu s jedn\u00e1n\u00edm. Dokud je \u201echyba\u201c jinde, nen\u00ed t\u0159eba na sob\u011b nic m\u011bnit. Je to zp\u016fsob, jak uniknout tlaku volby: <em>\u201eKdy\u017e se o ni\u010dem nerozhodnu, nem\u016f\u017eu selhat.\u201c<\/em> Jen\u017ee toto psychologick\u00e9 pohodl\u00ed m\u00e1 vysokou cenu. Ve vztaz\u00edch vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed nev\u011bdom\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165 nerovnov\u00e1hu. Komunikace se st\u00e1v\u00e1 zabarvenou st\u00ed\u017enostmi, skryt\u00fdmi v\u00fd\u010ditkami a n\u011bkdy i obrovsk\u00fdmi emocion\u00e1ln\u00edmi o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edmi. Bl\u00edzc\u00ed se zase st\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u016fv\u011brn\u00edky, zachr\u00e1nci a improvizovan\u00fdmi terapeuty. Sna\u017e\u00ed se pom\u00e1hat, uji\u0161\u0165ovat a naslouchat, znovu a znovu, dokud nenastane vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Proto\u017ee role ob\u011bti, i kdy\u017e ne\u00famysln\u00e1, vys\u00e1v\u00e1 energii ostatn\u00edch. Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 jednosm\u011brnou ulic\u00ed: jeden \u010dlov\u011bk vyjad\u0159uje sv\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed, ani\u017e by ho kdy zpochyb\u0148oval, zat\u00edmco druh\u00fd ho vst\u0159eb\u00e1v\u00e1 a poskytuje mu podporu. Postupem \u010dasu to m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k frustraci, odstupu nebo dokonce k form\u011b tich\u00e9ho hn\u011bvu. Pro osobu, kter\u00e1 hraje ob\u011b\u0165, se tento vztahov\u00fd d\u016fsledek m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t nespravedliv\u00fd. C\u00edt\u00ed se opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00e1, nepochopen\u00e1, ponechan\u00e1 sama, zat\u00edmco trp\u00ed. Paradox je krut\u00fd: \u010d\u00edm v\u00edce hledaj\u00ed podporu t\u00edm, \u017ee se uzav\u00edraj\u00ed do t\u00e9to role, t\u00edm v\u00edce riskuj\u00ed, \u017ee ji odstr\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Sm\u011brem k uzn\u00e1n\u00ed a odpov\u011bdnosti<\/h2>\n<p> Osvobodit se od tohoto vzorce vy\u017eaduje v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b jeho uzn\u00e1n\u00ed. Neobvi\u0148ovat se, ale pochopit, co chr\u00e1n\u00ed. Nev\u011bdom\u00e1 ob\u011b\u0165 nen\u00ed vadou, kterou je t\u0159eba vymazat; je to sign\u00e1l, kter\u00e9mu je t\u0159eba v\u011bnovat pozornost. \u010casto odhaluje dlouhodobou \u00fanavu, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/amis-faible-estime-soi-conseils-272756\">nedostatek sebe\u00facty<\/a> nebo osobn\u00ed historii poznamenanou dobami, kdy p\u0159evzet\u00ed odpov\u011bdnosti bylo p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 bolestiv\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Prvn\u00edm krokem je zd\u016fraznit, co m\u016f\u017ee dan\u00e1 osoba ovlivnit. M\u016f\u017ee se jednat o mal\u00e1 rozhodnut\u00ed, prosazov\u00e1n\u00ed jej\u00edch pot\u0159eb a jednoduch\u00e9 \u010diny, kter\u00e9 obnovuj\u00ed pocit moci nad jej\u00edm \u017eivotem. Je to forma emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed rehabilitace, kter\u00e1 s trp\u011blivost\u00ed obnovuje sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Pro jej\u00ed okol\u00ed je stanoven\u00ed hranic z\u00e1sadn\u00ed. Podpora n\u011bkoho, kdo si hraje na ob\u011b\u0165, neznamen\u00e1 schvalovat jej\u00ed pora\u017eeneck\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy. Znamen\u00e1 to nab\u00eddnout soucitn\u00e9 ucho, ale tak\u00e9 ji jemn\u011b v\u00e9st zp\u011bt k jej\u00edmu vlastn\u00edmu smyslu pro zodpov\u011bdnost. A samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed podpora m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt neoceniteln\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Pochopen\u00ed a rozpozn\u00e1n\u00ed tohoto mechanismu v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku nab\u00edz\u00ed t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou v n\u011bm uv\u011bzn\u011bni, p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost znovu se spojit se svou vlastn\u00ed silou. Poskytuje tak\u00e9 \u0161anci transformovat bolestiv\u00fd cyklus v pohyb sm\u011brem k v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed jasnosti, zodpov\u011bdnosti a napln\u011bn\u00ed. Vymanit se z nev\u011bdom\u00e9 ob\u011bti znamen\u00e1 p\u0159ijmout pohled na sv\u016fj \u017eivot s jasnost\u00ed, odvahou a jemnost\u00ed. A to je v podstat\u011b jeden z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch dar\u016f, kter\u00e9 si \u010dlov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 maj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee se proti nim \u017eivot spikne, kdy\u017e jen reaguj\u00ed na ud\u00e1losti. Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b jste se...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":427749,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":true,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1784],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-427730","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-confiance-en-soi"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Karola-G-_-Pexels-3-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Karola-G-_-Pexels-3-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/Karola-G-_-Pexels-3.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":1784,"name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","slug":"confiance-en-soi","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1890,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6138,"count":380,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1784,"category_count":380,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","category_nicename":"confiance-en-soi","category_parent":6138}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/427730","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8375"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=427730"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/427730\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":428994,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/427730\/revisions\/428994"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/427749"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=427730"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=427730"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=427730"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}