St\u00e1le v\u00edce heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edch \u017een se unavuje obt\u00ed\u017eemi a nerovnov\u00e1hou, s nimi\u017e se setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch s mu\u017ei, a vol\u00ed se pro \u017eivot svobodn\u00e9. Tato volba je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u0161ir\u0161\u00edho trendu zvan\u00e9ho \u201eheteropessimismus\u201c, kter\u00fd v n\u011bkolika zem\u00edch roste.<\/p>\n
Od roku 2010 se pod\u00edl lid\u00ed \u017eij\u00edc\u00edch osam\u011ble zv\u00fd\u0161il ve 26 z 30 bohat\u00fdch zem\u00ed, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e po\u010det nezadan\u00fdch osob se zv\u00fd\u0161il o 100 milion\u016f oproti roku 2017. \u010casopis The Economist<\/a> (2025) a sv\u011bdectv\u00ed \u017een v It\u00e1lii zd\u016fraz\u0148uj\u00ed tuto volbu mlad\u00fdch \u017een, kter\u00e9 se popisuj\u00ed jako \u201esvobodn\u00e9, svobodn\u00e9 a \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9\u201c. Tato zm\u011bna je \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b vysv\u011btlena spole\u010densk\u00fdm v\u00fdvojem. V mnoha z\u00e1padn\u00edch zem\u00edch jsou \u017eeny nyn\u00ed vzd\u011blan\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, finan\u010dn\u011b nez\u00e1vislej\u0161\u00ed a ji\u017e nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed partnera, kter\u00fd by je podporoval. V minulosti n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny setrv\u00e1valy ve vztaz\u00edch z ekonomick\u00e9 nutnosti. Dnes si mohou vybrat: z\u016fstat svobodn\u00e9, ne\u017e sn\u00e1\u0161et neuspokojiv\u00fd nebo nevyv\u00e1\u017een\u00fd vztah.<\/p>\n Koncept \u201eheteropessimismu\u201c, kter\u00fd v roce 2019 zavedl Asa Seresin, popisuje heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed diskurz obklopuj\u00edc\u00ed dysfunk\u010dn\u00ed vztahy. La Stampa, jeden z nejti\u0161t\u011bn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch italsk\u00fdch den\u00edk\u016f, na\u0159\u00edk\u00e1 nad \u201edomem v plamenech\u201c kv\u016fli mu\u017esk\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed, zat\u00edmco The Washington Post<\/a> poznamen\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed mu\u017ei se pot\u00fdkaj\u00ed se vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00edm, zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00edm a emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed zralost\u00ed. Tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 t\u00e9to situaci n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed zpochyb\u0148ovat samotnou my\u0161lenku, \u017ee vztah s mu\u017eem je samo\u00fa\u010deln\u00fd. Ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kde se hrout\u00ed tradi\u010dn\u00ed role \u2013 \u017eivitel rodiny, z\u00e1visl\u00e1 \u017eena \u2013 ztr\u00e1c\u00ed tradi\u010dn\u00ed heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed model svou p\u0159ita\u017elivost.<\/p>\n V Ji\u017en\u00ed Koreji feministick\u00e9 hnut\u00ed 4B zt\u011bles\u0148uje tuto revoltu je\u0161t\u011b siln\u011bji: \u017eeny odm\u00edtaj\u00ed man\u017eelstv\u00ed (biyeonhal), mate\u0159stv\u00ed (chaesaeng), heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00ed intimitu (seksa) a romantick\u00e9 vztahy (yeonae). Tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 extr\u00e9mn\u011b patriarch\u00e1ln\u00ed kultu\u0159e, rekordn\u011b n\u00edzk\u00e9 porodnosti a p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edmu sexismu se tis\u00edce jihokorejsk\u00fdch \u017een rozhoduj\u00ed pro radik\u00e1ln\u00ed autonomii a inspiruj\u00ed tak glob\u00e1ln\u00ed debatu o emancipaci.<\/p>\n N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed sociologov\u00e9 navrhuj\u00ed kompletn\u00ed p\u0159ehodnocen\u00ed na\u0161eho pohledu na romantick\u00e9 vztahy a navrhuj\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad flexibiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed formy, jako jsou do\u010dasn\u00e1 man\u017eelstv\u00ed nebo polyamorie. Jin\u00e9 anal\u00fdzy zd\u016fraz\u0148uj\u00ed novou generaci \u017een, kter\u00e9 se rozhodly \u017e\u00edt sv\u00e9 touhy s jasnost\u00ed, ani\u017e by se nechaly uv\u011bznit romantick\u00fdmi ide\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 se staly utla\u010duj\u00edc\u00edmi. Tato rostouc\u00ed neklidn\u00e1 situace s tradi\u010dn\u00edmi modely tak vede k rozvoji svobodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch a spravedliv\u011bj\u0161\u00edch model\u016f vztah\u016f, kter\u00e9 l\u00e9pe odpov\u00eddaj\u00ed sou\u010dasn\u00fdm aspirac\u00edm.<\/p>\n Tato vlna \u017eensk\u00e9ho celib\u00e1tu v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku zdaleka neodm\u00edt\u00e1 l\u00e1sku, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed touhu p\u0159edefinovat pojmy intimity na zdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00edch a rovnost\u00e1\u0159\u0161t\u011bj\u0161\u00edch z\u00e1kladech. To, co n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed \u201eheteropessimismem\u201c, je pro mnoh\u00e9 z\u00e1rove\u0148 nov\u011b nalezenou jasnost\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 zastaral\u00fdm vzorc\u016fm vztah\u016f. Po cel\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b se \u017eeny rozhoduj\u00ed znovu se zam\u011b\u0159it na sebe, odm\u00edtat bolestiv\u00e9 kompromisy a n\u00e1rokovat si prostor pro emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed svobodu. Toto hnut\u00ed nesignalizuje konec l\u00e1sky, ale mo\u017en\u00e1 konec ur\u010dit\u00e9ho druhu vynucen\u00e9 l\u00e1sky \u2013 a za\u010d\u00e1tek spojen\u00ed, kde respekt, souhlas a reciprocita ji\u017e nejsou v\u00fdjimkou, ale z\u00e1kladn\u00edmi principy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"St\u00e1le v\u00edce heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edch \u017een se unavuje obt\u00ed\u017eemi a nerovnov\u00e1hou, s nimi\u017e se setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch s mu\u017ei, a...","protected":false},"author":8394,"featured_media":429801,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[72943],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-429800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-feminisme"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Pourquoi-de-plus-en-plus-de-femmes-ne-veulent-plus-vivre-en-couple-_-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Pourquoi-de-plus-en-plus-de-femmes-ne-veulent-plus-vivre-en-couple-_-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Pourquoi-de-plus-en-plus-de-femmes-ne-veulent-plus-vivre-en-couple-_.jpg","author":{"name":"L\u00e9a Michel","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1721220128171-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":72943,"name":"Feminismus","slug":"feminisme","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":73115,"taxonomy":"category","description":" Rubrika Feminismus v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist se v\u011bnuje rovnosti \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f v ka\u017edodenn\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b: b\u011b\u017en\u00e9mu sexismu, n\u00e1sil\u00ed, pr\u00e1ci, dom\u00e1c\u00edm povinnostem, pr\u00e1v\u016fm i reprezentaci. Rozbory, osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a praktick\u00e9 rady jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em, kdo cht\u011bj\u00ed nerovnostem rozum\u011bt a postavit se jim, se zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed pozornost\u00ed k tlak\u016fm, kter\u00e9 dol\u00e9haj\u00ed na \u017eensk\u00e1 t\u011bla.<\/p>\n Reakce na ka\u017edodenn\u00ed sexismus za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 t\u00edm, \u017ee pojmenuje\u0161, co pr\u00e1v\u011b zazn\u011blo, ani\u017e by ses obhajovala nebo omlouvala. P\u00e1r \u00fa\u010dinn\u00fdch reflex\u016f:<\/p>\n Nemus\u00ed\u0161 zvl\u00e1dnout v\u0161echno najednou: i jedna klidn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka nebo podpora kolegyn\u011b m\u011bn\u00ed atmosf\u00e9ru v\u00edc, ne\u017e se zd\u00e1.<\/p>\n N\u00e1\u0161 pohled zahrnuje v\u0161echny \u017eeny: tlust\u00e9 i huben\u00e9, \u017eeny jin\u00e9 barvy pleti, lesby, trans \u017eeny, \u017eeny s posti\u017een\u00edm, mlad\u0161\u00ed i star\u0161\u00ed. Velk\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky rovnosti propojujeme se za\u017eit\u00fdmi situacemi, od pozn\u00e1mky v kancel\u00e1\u0159i po d\u011blbu dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00ed, a p\u0159ed polemikami d\u00e1v\u00e1me p\u0159ednost vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed a mo\u017enostem, jak jednat, bez hierarchizov\u00e1n\u00ed boj\u016f a bez stav\u011bn\u00ed \u017een proti sob\u011b.<\/p>\n Feminismus je souhrn my\u0161lenek a hnut\u00ed, kter\u00e9 usiluj\u00ed o rovnost pr\u00e1v, p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed a \u017eivotn\u00edch podm\u00ednek \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f. Zahrnuje r\u016fzn\u00e9 proudy, kter\u00e9 spojuje stejn\u00e9 zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed: nerovnosti mezi pohlav\u00edmi jsou spole\u010densky vytvo\u0159en\u00e9, a d\u00e1 se jim proto \u010delit, v z\u00e1konech i v my\u0161len\u00ed.<\/p>\n Sexismus zahrnuje p\u0159edsudky, stereotypy a diskriminaci na z\u00e1klad\u011b pohlav\u00ed, \u010dasto tak za\u017eit\u00e9, \u017ee je ani nepost\u0159ehneme. Misogynie ozna\u010duje konkr\u00e9tn\u011bji pohrd\u00e1n\u00ed \u017eenami nebo nep\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed v\u016f\u010di nim. Vtip o \u201e\u017eensk\u00fdch za volantem\u201c je b\u011b\u017en\u00fd sexismus; projev, kter\u00fd \u017een\u00e1m up\u00edr\u00e1 jakoukoli kompetenci, je misogynie.<\/p>\n Ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e (anglicky mental load) ozna\u010duje neviditelnou pr\u00e1ci spojenou s pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00edm a organizac\u00ed dom\u00e1cnosti a rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota: myslet na term\u00edny u l\u00e9ka\u0159e, n\u00e1kupy, narozeniny, na to, co chyb\u00ed. I kdy\u017e jsou \u00fakoly rozd\u011blen\u00e9, roli \u201edirigentky\u201c \u010dasto st\u00e1le nesou \u017eeny, co\u017e se odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed na jejich \u00fanav\u011b i voln\u00e9m \u010dase.<\/p>\n V mnoha zem\u00edch funguje bezplatn\u00e1 a d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e1 linka pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed: vyhledej tu, kter\u00e1 p\u016fsob\u00ed ve tv\u00e9 zemi, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b se obra\u0165 na specializovanou poradnu. V bezprost\u0159edn\u00edm nebezpe\u010d\u00ed volej t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku. Ozvat se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 i tehdy, kdy\u017e si nejsi jist\u00e1, jestli to, co za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161, u\u017e je n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/p>\n Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e t\u00e9mata najde\u0161 v rubrice Spole\u010dnost<\/a> a v rubrik\u00e1ch Fatfobie<\/a> a LGBTQIA+<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":5678,"count":217,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":72943,"category_count":217,"category_description":" Rubrika Feminismus v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist se v\u011bnuje rovnosti \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f v ka\u017edodenn\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b: b\u011b\u017en\u00e9mu sexismu, n\u00e1sil\u00ed, pr\u00e1ci, dom\u00e1c\u00edm povinnostem, pr\u00e1v\u016fm i reprezentaci. Rozbory, osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a praktick\u00e9 rady jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em, kdo cht\u011bj\u00ed nerovnostem rozum\u011bt a postavit se jim, se zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed pozornost\u00ed k tlak\u016fm, kter\u00e9 dol\u00e9haj\u00ed na \u017eensk\u00e1 t\u011bla.<\/p>\n Reakce na ka\u017edodenn\u00ed sexismus za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 t\u00edm, \u017ee pojmenuje\u0161, co pr\u00e1v\u011b zazn\u011blo, ani\u017e by ses obhajovala nebo omlouvala. P\u00e1r \u00fa\u010dinn\u00fdch reflex\u016f:<\/p>\n Nemus\u00ed\u0161 zvl\u00e1dnout v\u0161echno najednou: i jedna klidn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka nebo podpora kolegyn\u011b m\u011bn\u00ed atmosf\u00e9ru v\u00edc, ne\u017e se zd\u00e1.<\/p>\n N\u00e1\u0161 pohled zahrnuje v\u0161echny \u017eeny: tlust\u00e9 i huben\u00e9, \u017eeny jin\u00e9 barvy pleti, lesby, trans \u017eeny, \u017eeny s posti\u017een\u00edm, mlad\u0161\u00ed i star\u0161\u00ed. Velk\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky rovnosti propojujeme se za\u017eit\u00fdmi situacemi, od pozn\u00e1mky v kancel\u00e1\u0159i po d\u011blbu dom\u00e1c\u00edch prac\u00ed, a p\u0159ed polemikami d\u00e1v\u00e1me p\u0159ednost vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed a mo\u017enostem, jak jednat, bez hierarchizov\u00e1n\u00ed boj\u016f a bez stav\u011bn\u00ed \u017een proti sob\u011b.<\/p>\n Feminismus je souhrn my\u0161lenek a hnut\u00ed, kter\u00e9 usiluj\u00ed o rovnost pr\u00e1v, p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed a \u017eivotn\u00edch podm\u00ednek \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f. Zahrnuje r\u016fzn\u00e9 proudy, kter\u00e9 spojuje stejn\u00e9 zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed: nerovnosti mezi pohlav\u00edmi jsou spole\u010densky vytvo\u0159en\u00e9, a d\u00e1 se jim proto \u010delit, v z\u00e1konech i v my\u0161len\u00ed.<\/p>\n Sexismus zahrnuje p\u0159edsudky, stereotypy a diskriminaci na z\u00e1klad\u011b pohlav\u00ed, \u010dasto tak za\u017eit\u00e9, \u017ee je ani nepost\u0159ehneme. Misogynie ozna\u010duje konkr\u00e9tn\u011bji pohrd\u00e1n\u00ed \u017eenami nebo nep\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed v\u016f\u010di nim. Vtip o \u201e\u017eensk\u00fdch za volantem\u201c je b\u011b\u017en\u00fd sexismus; projev, kter\u00fd \u017een\u00e1m up\u00edr\u00e1 jakoukoli kompetenci, je misogynie.<\/p>\n Ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e (anglicky mental load) ozna\u010duje neviditelnou pr\u00e1ci spojenou s pl\u00e1nov\u00e1n\u00edm a organizac\u00ed dom\u00e1cnosti a rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota: myslet na term\u00edny u l\u00e9ka\u0159e, n\u00e1kupy, narozeniny, na to, co chyb\u00ed. I kdy\u017e jsou \u00fakoly rozd\u011blen\u00e9, roli \u201edirigentky\u201c \u010dasto st\u00e1le nesou \u017eeny, co\u017e se odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed na jejich \u00fanav\u011b i voln\u00e9m \u010dase.<\/p>\n V mnoha zem\u00edch funguje bezplatn\u00e1 a d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e1 linka pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed: vyhledej tu, kter\u00e1 p\u016fsob\u00ed ve tv\u00e9 zemi, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b se obra\u0165 na specializovanou poradnu. V bezprost\u0159edn\u00edm nebezpe\u010d\u00ed volej t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku. Ozvat se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 i tehdy, kdy\u017e si nejsi jist\u00e1, jestli to, co za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161, u\u017e je n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/p>\n Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e t\u00e9mata najde\u0161 v rubrice Spole\u010dnost<\/a> a v rubrik\u00e1ch Fatfobie<\/a> a LGBTQIA+<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Feminismus","category_nicename":"feminisme","category_parent":5678}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8394"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=429800"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429800\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":429861,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429800\/revisions\/429861"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/429801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=429800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=429800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=429800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}} Heteropessimismus a jeho ko\u0159eny<\/h2>\n
Hnut\u00ed 4B v Ji\u017en\u00ed Koreji<\/h2>\n
Sm\u011brem k nov\u00fdm model\u016fm?<\/h2>\n
Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Feminismus<\/h2>\n
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Jak reagovat na ka\u017edodenn\u00ed sexismus?<\/h2>\n
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N\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edstup: inkluzivn\u00ed a konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed feminismus<\/h2>\n
\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n
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\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n
Co je feminismus?<\/h3>\n
Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sexismem a misogyni\u00ed?<\/h3>\n
Co je ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e?<\/h3>\n
Co d\u011blat p\u0159i n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve vztahu?<\/h3>\n
Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Feminismus<\/h2>\n
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Jak reagovat na ka\u017edodenn\u00ed sexismus?<\/h2>\n
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N\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edstup: inkluzivn\u00ed a konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed feminismus<\/h2>\n
\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n
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\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n
Co je feminismus?<\/h3>\n
Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sexismem a misogyni\u00ed?<\/h3>\n
Co je ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e?<\/h3>\n
Co d\u011blat p\u0159i n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve vztahu?<\/h3>\n