{"id":429968,"date":"2025-12-25T12:34:43","date_gmt":"2025-12-25T11:34:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=429968"},"modified":"2025-12-25T12:35:20","modified_gmt":"2025-12-25T11:35:20","slug":"ils-veulent-juste-paraitre-polis-ce-que-cache-comportement-selon-psychologues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/chteji-jen-pusobit-zdvorile-podle-psychologu-toto-chovani-ve-skutecnosti-neco-skryva-429968","title":{"rendered":"Cht\u011bj\u00ed jen p\u016fsobit zdvo\u0159ile: co toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed podle psycholog\u016f skr\u00fdv\u00e1."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Zdvo\u0159ilost je \u010dasto vn\u00edm\u00e1na jako univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed vlastnost, zn\u00e1mka vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed a respektu. Za n\u011bkter\u00fdmi p\u0159ehnan\u011b zdvo\u0159il\u00fdmi fr\u00e1zemi se v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017ee skr\u00fdvat n\u011bco \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00e9ho. Psychologov\u00e9 varuj\u00ed, \u017ee ne v\u0161echny dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky jsou synonymem laskavosti a n\u011bkter\u00e9 slou\u017e\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm k z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159evahy.<\/p>\n<h2> Kdy\u017e se zdvo\u0159ilost stane velmi praktickou maskou<\/h2>\n<p> Na prvn\u00ed pohled je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 podez\u0159\u00edvat n\u011bkoho, kdo mluv\u00ed ti\u0161e, pe\u010dliv\u011b vol\u00ed slova a sv\u00e9 v\u011bty prokl\u00e1d\u00e1 omluvami nebo opatrnost\u00ed. Koneckonc\u016f jste se pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b dozv\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee zdvo\u0159ilost je zn\u00e1mkou emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed zralosti. Specialist\u00e9 na lidsk\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1m v\u0161ak p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed jednu z\u00e1sadn\u00ed v\u011bc: laskavost nevyjad\u0159uje t\u00f3n, ale z\u00e1m\u011br a skute\u010dn\u00fd dopad slov.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 skute\u010dn\u011b zvl\u00e1dli um\u011bn\u00ed verb\u00e1ln\u00edho eufemismu. Pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed klidn\u00fd, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed jazyk k sd\u011blov\u00e1n\u00ed sd\u011blen\u00ed, kter\u00e1 by bez tohoto obalu byla jasn\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1na jako zra\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed nebo dot\u011brn\u00e1. Fr\u00e1ze jako <em>\u201eMysl\u00edm to s nejlep\u0161\u00edmi \u00famysly\u201c<\/em> nebo <em>\u201ePros\u00edm, neberte to \u0161patn\u011b, ale\u2026\u201c<\/em> p\u016fsob\u00ed jako emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed anestetikum. Sni\u017euj\u00ed va\u0161i ostra\u017eitost a vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed ve v\u00e1s dojem, \u017ee to, co n\u00e1sleduje, je nutn\u011b spr\u00e1vn\u00e9, ba dokonce prosp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Ve skute\u010dnosti tato strategie slou\u017e\u00ed hlavn\u011b k tomu, abyste se vyhnuli jak\u00e9koli sebereflexi. Pokud reagujete \u0161patn\u011b, probl\u00e9m z\u0159ejm\u011b pramen\u00ed z va\u0161\u00ed citlivosti, a nikoli ze samotn\u00e9ho koment\u00e1\u0159e. Pak zjist\u00edte, \u017ee pochybujete o sv\u00fdch pocitech, i kdy\u017e v\u00e1m intuice \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee m\u00e1te opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u00e9 nepohodl\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u011bta, kter\u00e1 si zaslou\u017e\u00ed va\u0161i plnou pozornost<\/h2>\n<p> Podle <a href=\"https:\/\/sain-et-naturel.ouest-france.fr\/phrases-polies-intentions-manipulatrices.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mnoha psycholog\u016f<\/a> se v manipulativn\u00edch v\u00fdm\u011bn\u00e1ch n\u00e1zor\u016f \u010dasto opakuje jedna v\u011bta: <em>\u201eNerad ti to \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, ale\u2026\u201c<\/em> Za touto v\u011btou se skr\u00fdv\u00e1 dob\u0159e nacvi\u010den\u00fd mechanismus. Doty\u010dn\u00e1 osoba se prezentuje jako odv\u00e1\u017en\u00e1, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ob\u011btav\u00e1, jako n\u011bkdo, kdo si bere za \u00fakol sd\u011blit ti t\u011b\u017ekou pravdu. Ve skute\u010dnosti tato otev\u0159enost slou\u017e\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm k tomu, aby se \u010dlov\u011bk vyhnul odpov\u011bdnosti za emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e, kter\u00e1 z toho plyne.<\/p>\n<p>Toto \u201eale\u201c \u010dasto otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e k soud\u016fm ohledn\u011b va\u0161eho vzhledu, \u017eivotn\u00edho stylu, milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota nebo osobn\u00edch rozhodnut\u00ed. A p\u0159esto se od v\u00e1s o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee tuto kritiku p\u0159iv\u00edt\u00e1te jako dar, proto\u017ee je \u00fadajn\u011b \u201epro va\u0161e dobro\u201c. Va\u0161e t\u011blo, va\u0161e rozhodnut\u00ed a v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivotn\u00ed styl se pak st\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159edm\u011btem hodnocen\u00ed, bez skute\u010dn\u00e9ho respektu k va\u0161im hranic\u00edm.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u0161\u00edmejte si \u00fa\u010dinku sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e slov<\/h2>\n<p> Odborn\u00edci na komunikaci doporu\u010duj\u00ed zm\u011bnit \u00fahel pohledu. M\u00edsto anal\u00fdzy zdvo\u0159ilosti koment\u00e1\u0159e si v\u0161\u00edmejte, jak\u00e9 pocity ve v\u00e1s vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1. C\u00edt\u00edte se podpo\u0159eni, pochopeni, ocen\u011bni? Nebo se c\u00edt\u00edte znev\u00fdhodn\u011bni, provinile nebo pon\u00ed\u017eeni? Va\u0161e t\u011blo a emoce jsou vynikaj\u00edc\u00edmi ukazateli. Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b laskav\u00e1 pozn\u00e1mka vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed prostor, zvy\u0161uje sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a respektuje va\u0161i integritu.<\/p>\n<p>Naopak, fr\u00e1ze maskovan\u00e1 jako fale\u0161n\u00e1 sladkost \u010dasto zanech\u00e1v\u00e1 ho\u0159kou pachu\u0165. M\u016f\u017ee vyvolat pocit studu, nutit v\u00e1s ospravedl\u0148ovat se nebo ve v\u00e1s vyvolat pocit, \u017ee s v\u00e1mi n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku. A tento pocit si zaslou\u017e\u00ed br\u00e1t v\u00e1\u017en\u011b, proto\u017ee vypov\u00edd\u00e1 o va\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed pot\u0159eb\u011b respektu.<\/p>\n<h2> Znovuz\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00ed hodnoty a omezen\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> P\u0159ijet\u00ed uv\u011bdom\u011blej\u0161\u00edho p\u0159\u00edstupu k t\u011bmto v\u00fdm\u011bn\u00e1m je tak\u00e9 emocion\u00e1ln\u011b zdrav\u00fdm \u010dinem. M\u00e1te pr\u00e1vo milovat sv\u00e1 rozhodnut\u00ed a svou jedine\u010dnost, ani\u017e byste je museli obhajovat p\u0159ed skrytou kritikou. M\u00e1te pr\u00e1vo stanovit si hranice, a to i s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo mluv\u00ed laskav\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Stru\u010dn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno, opravdov\u00e1 laskavost nikdy nedrt\u00ed, ned\u00e1v\u00e1 pocity viny ani se nesna\u017e\u00ed ovl\u00e1dat. Povznese v\u00e1s, podpo\u0159\u00ed a respektuje v\u00e1\u0161 osobn\u00ed prostor. Nau\u010d\u00edte-li se rozli\u0161ovat mezi opravdovou laskavost\u00ed a zdvo\u0159ilou manipulac\u00ed, vyp\u011bstujete si zdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vztah s ostatn\u00edmi, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm sami se sebou. A to je forma tich\u00e9 s\u00edly, kter\u00e1 nepot\u0159ebuje masku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Zdvo\u0159ilost je \u010dasto vn\u00edm\u00e1na jako univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed vlastnost, zn\u00e1mka vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed a respektu. Za n\u011bkter\u00fdmi p\u0159ehnan\u011b zdvo\u0159il\u00fdmi fr\u00e1zemi se v\u0161ak...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":429973,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6138],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-429968","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-psycho"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Timur-Weber-_-Pexels-2-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Timur-Weber-_-Pexels-2-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Timur-Weber-_-Pexels-2.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":6138,"name":"Psychologie","slug":"psycho","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":6310,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Psychologie v magaz\u00ednu <strong>The Body Optimist<\/strong> se zab\u00fdv\u00e1 vnit\u0159n\u00edm \u017eivotem: emocemi, sebe\u00factou, vztahem k t\u011blu, vztahy s druh\u00fdmi a rodi\u010dovstv\u00edm. Praktick\u00e9 rady, rozbory a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu otev\u00edraj\u00ed t\u00e9ma du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed bez odborn\u00e9ho \u017eargonu a bez pocitu viny, v duchu body positivity, kter\u00e1 odm\u00edt\u00e1 dikt\u00e1t v\u00e1hy a vzhledu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Psychologie<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/strong>: cvi\u010den\u00ed na pos\u00edlen\u00ed sebe\u00facty, jak vyzr\u00e1t na syndrom podvodn\u00edka a nau\u010dit se ozvat, to v\u0161e v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Body positivity<\/strong>: p\u0159ijet\u00ed v\u0161ech t\u011bl, od stri\u00ed po jizvy, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed normy kr\u00e1sy, v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">body positivity a p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/strong>: v\u00fdchova, \u0161kola, poporodn\u00ed obdob\u00ed matek i otc\u016f a rodiny v\u0161ech podob v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, \u00fazkost, ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e nebo my\u0161lenky, kter\u00e9 se to\u010d\u00ed v kruhu, a jak s nimi l\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vztahy<\/strong>: \u0159\u00edct ne bez v\u00fd\u010ditek, rozpoznat toxickou rodinnou dynamiku, pochopit chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mate v pr\u00e1ci i mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak poznat, \u017ee je \u010das zaj\u00edt za psychologem?<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva psychologa m\u00e1 smysl, jakmile psychick\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1, \u010dasto se vrac\u00ed nebo zasahuje do b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota: naru\u0161en\u00fd sp\u00e1nek, p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed \u00fanava, ztr\u00e1ta z\u00e1jmu o v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 t\u011b d\u0159\u00edv bavily, podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bnost, pot\u00ed\u017ee v pr\u00e1ci nebo ve vztahu. Nemus\u00ed\u0161 \u010dekat, a\u017e bude\u0161 \u201ena dn\u011b\u201c: k psychologovi se d\u00e1 j\u00edt i kv\u016fli rozchodu, ztr\u00e1t\u011b bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho, narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte nebo velk\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zm\u011bn\u011b. Poradit ti m\u016f\u017ee i praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 a v mnoha zem\u00edch existuj\u00ed programy, kter\u00e9 terapii \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b hrad\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky nab\u00edzej\u00ed obecn\u00e1 vod\u00edtka: nestanovuj\u00ed diagn\u00f3zu a nenahrazuj\u00ed odborn\u00edka. Pokud m\u00e1\u0161 my\u0161lenky na sebevra\u017edu, obra\u0165 se okam\u017eit\u011b na linku krizov\u00e9 pomoci nebo na t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak l\u00e9pe p\u0159ij\u00edmat sv\u00e9 emoce?<\/h2>\n<p>L\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt se sv\u00fdmi emocemi neznamen\u00e1 je uml\u010det, ale rozpoznat je d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e p\u0159ete\u010dou. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u00e1r jednoduch\u00fdch krok\u016f: p\u0159esn\u011b pojmenovat, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161 (vztek, smutek, stud, strach), v\u0161\u00edmat si situac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed reakce, dop\u0159\u00e1t si p\u00e1r n\u00e1dech\u016f, ne\u017e odpov\u00ed\u0161, a ve\u010der si zapsat, co se ti hon\u00ed hlavou. Roli hraje i t\u011blo: sp\u00e1nek, pohyb a chv\u00edle klidu t\u011b ud\u011blaj\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b reaktivn\u00ed. Pokud t\u011b brzd\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed kritik, na\u0161e rady, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd hl\u00e1sek v hlav\u011b<\/a>, ti pomohou j\u00edt d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na psychologii<\/h2>\n<p>Vych\u00e1z\u00edme z jednoduch\u00e9 my\u0161lenky: tvoje hodnota nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na v\u00e1ze, v\u011bku ani rodinn\u00e9 situaci. \u010cl\u00e1nky v t\u00e9to rubrice \u010dasto d\u00e1vaj\u00ed slovo psycholog\u016fm a terapeut\u016fm, op\u00edraj\u00ed se o studie i osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a sna\u017e\u00ed se vysv\u011btlovat srozumiteln\u011b, ale bez p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho zjednodu\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1me se p\u0159\u00edkazu b\u00fdt neust\u00e1le \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 i n\u00e1lepk\u00e1m rozd\u00e1van\u00fdm bez rozmyslu: povahov\u00fd rys nen\u00ed nemoc a ka\u017ed\u00fd jde vlastn\u00edm tempem.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/rikat-ano-abyste-potesili-ostatni-psycholog-vysvetluje-proc-si-nemuzete-stanovit-hranice-429884\">Pro\u010d si neum\u00ed\u0161 stanovit hranice<\/a>: psycholog vysv\u011btluje reflex \u0159\u00edkat ano, jen abys ostatn\u00edm vyhov\u011bla.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/fraze-toxickych-rodicu-zanechavaji-stopy-439835\">V\u011bty toxick\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f<\/a>: sedm fr\u00e1z\u00ed, kter\u00e9 zanech\u00e1vaj\u00ed stopy dlouho po d\u011btstv\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\/komplexy-prenasene-neviditelnym-retezcem-matka-dcera-431586\">Komplexy p\u0159ed\u00e1van\u00e9 z matky na dceru<\/a>: jak se nejistoty d\u011bd\u00ed mezi generacemi.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy pro v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed v\u00edru v sebe<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\/prohloubene-boky-zde-je-duvod-proc-jsou-prohnute-boky-vyhodou-ne-vadou-428176\">Prohlubn\u011b na boc\u00edch<\/a>: anatomick\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161tnost, ne vada, kterou je t\u0159eba opravovat.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Co je vysok\u00e1 citlivost?<\/h3>\n<p>Vysok\u00e1 citlivost (anglicky <em>highly sensitive person<\/em>) nen\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 diagn\u00f3za, ale povahov\u00fd rys: vysoce citliv\u00ed lid\u00e9 intenzivn\u011bji vn\u00edmaj\u00ed emoce, zvuky, atmosf\u00e9ru i kritiku. Nen\u00ed to slabost ani nemoc. Zn\u00e1t sv\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011b\u010de, chr\u00e1nit si \u010das na regeneraci a mluvit o tom s bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi pom\u00e1h\u00e1, aby se citlivost stala sp\u00ed\u0161 zdrojem s\u00edly ne\u017e vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi psychologem, psychiatrem a psychoterapeutem?<\/h3>\n<p>Psychiatr je l\u00e9ka\u0159: stanovuje diagn\u00f3zy a m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159edepisovat l\u00e9ky. Psycholog vystudoval psychologii; nab\u00edz\u00ed rozhovory, psychologick\u00e1 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed a \u010dasto i psychoterapii, l\u00e9ky ale nep\u0159edepisuje. Psychoterapeut m\u00e1 specializovan\u00fd v\u00fdcvik v psychoterapii a podm\u00ednky pro pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed tohoto ozna\u010den\u00ed se v jednotliv\u00fdch zem\u00edch li\u0161\u00ed. S v\u00fdb\u011brem ti m\u016f\u017ee pomoct praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct bl\u00edzk\u00e9mu, kter\u00e9mu nen\u00ed dob\u0159e?<\/h3>\n<p>Naslouchej bez souzen\u00ed a bez snahy hned v\u0161echno vy\u0159e\u0161it, zeptej se p\u0159\u00edmo, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed, a vynech rady typu \u201evzchop se\u201c. Nab\u00eddni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed pomoc: pravideln\u011b se oz\u00fdvej, doprovo\u010f ho k l\u00e9ka\u0159i. Pokud vn\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 riziko sebevra\u017edy, otev\u0159en\u011b se na to zeptej a kontaktuj krizovou linku, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b bezprost\u0159edn\u00edho ohro\u017een\u00ed t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? Intimit\u011b a partnersk\u00e9mu \u017eivotu se v\u011bnuje rubrika <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">Sex<\/a>, diskriminaci kv\u016fli v\u00e1ze rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\">rubrika Fatfobie<\/a> a t\u011blesnou str\u00e1nku pohody rozv\u00edj\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sante\/bien-etre\">rubrika Pohoda<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":92,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":6138,"category_count":92,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Psychologie v magaz\u00ednu <strong>The Body Optimist<\/strong> se zab\u00fdv\u00e1 vnit\u0159n\u00edm \u017eivotem: emocemi, sebe\u00factou, vztahem k t\u011blu, vztahy s druh\u00fdmi a rodi\u010dovstv\u00edm. Praktick\u00e9 rady, rozbory a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu otev\u00edraj\u00ed t\u00e9ma du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed bez odborn\u00e9ho \u017eargonu a bez pocitu viny, v duchu body positivity, kter\u00e1 odm\u00edt\u00e1 dikt\u00e1t v\u00e1hy a vzhledu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Psychologie<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/strong>: cvi\u010den\u00ed na pos\u00edlen\u00ed sebe\u00facty, jak vyzr\u00e1t na syndrom podvodn\u00edka a nau\u010dit se ozvat, to v\u0161e v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Body positivity<\/strong>: p\u0159ijet\u00ed v\u0161ech t\u011bl, od stri\u00ed po jizvy, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed normy kr\u00e1sy, v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">body positivity a p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/strong>: v\u00fdchova, \u0161kola, poporodn\u00ed obdob\u00ed matek i otc\u016f a rodiny v\u0161ech podob v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, \u00fazkost, ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e nebo my\u0161lenky, kter\u00e9 se to\u010d\u00ed v kruhu, a jak s nimi l\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vztahy<\/strong>: \u0159\u00edct ne bez v\u00fd\u010ditek, rozpoznat toxickou rodinnou dynamiku, pochopit chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mate v pr\u00e1ci i mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak poznat, \u017ee je \u010das zaj\u00edt za psychologem?<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva psychologa m\u00e1 smysl, jakmile psychick\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1, \u010dasto se vrac\u00ed nebo zasahuje do b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota: naru\u0161en\u00fd sp\u00e1nek, p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed \u00fanava, ztr\u00e1ta z\u00e1jmu o v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 t\u011b d\u0159\u00edv bavily, podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bnost, pot\u00ed\u017ee v pr\u00e1ci nebo ve vztahu. Nemus\u00ed\u0161 \u010dekat, a\u017e bude\u0161 \u201ena dn\u011b\u201c: k psychologovi se d\u00e1 j\u00edt i kv\u016fli rozchodu, ztr\u00e1t\u011b bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho, narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte nebo velk\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zm\u011bn\u011b. Poradit ti m\u016f\u017ee i praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 a v mnoha zem\u00edch existuj\u00ed programy, kter\u00e9 terapii \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b hrad\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky nab\u00edzej\u00ed obecn\u00e1 vod\u00edtka: nestanovuj\u00ed diagn\u00f3zu a nenahrazuj\u00ed odborn\u00edka. Pokud m\u00e1\u0161 my\u0161lenky na sebevra\u017edu, obra\u0165 se okam\u017eit\u011b na linku krizov\u00e9 pomoci nebo na t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak l\u00e9pe p\u0159ij\u00edmat sv\u00e9 emoce?<\/h2>\n<p>L\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt se sv\u00fdmi emocemi neznamen\u00e1 je uml\u010det, ale rozpoznat je d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e p\u0159ete\u010dou. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u00e1r jednoduch\u00fdch krok\u016f: p\u0159esn\u011b pojmenovat, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161 (vztek, smutek, stud, strach), v\u0161\u00edmat si situac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed reakce, dop\u0159\u00e1t si p\u00e1r n\u00e1dech\u016f, ne\u017e odpov\u00ed\u0161, a ve\u010der si zapsat, co se ti hon\u00ed hlavou. Roli hraje i t\u011blo: sp\u00e1nek, pohyb a chv\u00edle klidu t\u011b ud\u011blaj\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b reaktivn\u00ed. Pokud t\u011b brzd\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed kritik, na\u0161e rady, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd hl\u00e1sek v hlav\u011b<\/a>, ti pomohou j\u00edt d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na psychologii<\/h2>\n<p>Vych\u00e1z\u00edme z jednoduch\u00e9 my\u0161lenky: tvoje hodnota nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na v\u00e1ze, v\u011bku ani rodinn\u00e9 situaci. \u010cl\u00e1nky v t\u00e9to rubrice \u010dasto d\u00e1vaj\u00ed slovo psycholog\u016fm a terapeut\u016fm, op\u00edraj\u00ed se o studie i osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a sna\u017e\u00ed se vysv\u011btlovat srozumiteln\u011b, ale bez p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho zjednodu\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1me se p\u0159\u00edkazu b\u00fdt neust\u00e1le \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 i n\u00e1lepk\u00e1m rozd\u00e1van\u00fdm bez rozmyslu: povahov\u00fd rys nen\u00ed nemoc a ka\u017ed\u00fd jde vlastn\u00edm tempem.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/rikat-ano-abyste-potesili-ostatni-psycholog-vysvetluje-proc-si-nemuzete-stanovit-hranice-429884\">Pro\u010d si neum\u00ed\u0161 stanovit hranice<\/a>: psycholog vysv\u011btluje reflex \u0159\u00edkat ano, jen abys ostatn\u00edm vyhov\u011bla.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/fraze-toxickych-rodicu-zanechavaji-stopy-439835\">V\u011bty toxick\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f<\/a>: sedm fr\u00e1z\u00ed, kter\u00e9 zanech\u00e1vaj\u00ed stopy dlouho po d\u011btstv\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\/komplexy-prenasene-neviditelnym-retezcem-matka-dcera-431586\">Komplexy p\u0159ed\u00e1van\u00e9 z matky na dceru<\/a>: jak se nejistoty d\u011bd\u00ed mezi generacemi.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy pro v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed v\u00edru v sebe<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\/prohloubene-boky-zde-je-duvod-proc-jsou-prohnute-boky-vyhodou-ne-vadou-428176\">Prohlubn\u011b na boc\u00edch<\/a>: anatomick\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161tnost, ne vada, kterou je t\u0159eba opravovat.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Co je vysok\u00e1 citlivost?<\/h3>\n<p>Vysok\u00e1 citlivost (anglicky <em>highly sensitive person<\/em>) nen\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 diagn\u00f3za, ale povahov\u00fd rys: vysoce citliv\u00ed lid\u00e9 intenzivn\u011bji vn\u00edmaj\u00ed emoce, zvuky, atmosf\u00e9ru i kritiku. Nen\u00ed to slabost ani nemoc. Zn\u00e1t sv\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011b\u010de, chr\u00e1nit si \u010das na regeneraci a mluvit o tom s bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi pom\u00e1h\u00e1, aby se citlivost stala sp\u00ed\u0161 zdrojem s\u00edly ne\u017e vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi psychologem, psychiatrem a psychoterapeutem?<\/h3>\n<p>Psychiatr je l\u00e9ka\u0159: stanovuje diagn\u00f3zy a m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159edepisovat l\u00e9ky. Psycholog vystudoval psychologii; nab\u00edz\u00ed rozhovory, psychologick\u00e1 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed a \u010dasto i psychoterapii, l\u00e9ky ale nep\u0159edepisuje. Psychoterapeut m\u00e1 specializovan\u00fd v\u00fdcvik v psychoterapii a podm\u00ednky pro pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed tohoto ozna\u010den\u00ed se v jednotliv\u00fdch zem\u00edch li\u0161\u00ed. S v\u00fdb\u011brem ti m\u016f\u017ee pomoct praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct bl\u00edzk\u00e9mu, kter\u00e9mu nen\u00ed dob\u0159e?<\/h3>\n<p>Naslouchej bez souzen\u00ed a bez snahy hned v\u0161echno vy\u0159e\u0161it, zeptej se p\u0159\u00edmo, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed, a vynech rady typu \u201evzchop se\u201c. Nab\u00eddni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed pomoc: pravideln\u011b se oz\u00fdvej, doprovo\u010f ho k l\u00e9ka\u0159i. Pokud vn\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 riziko sebevra\u017edy, otev\u0159en\u011b se na to zeptej a kontaktuj krizovou linku, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b bezprost\u0159edn\u00edho ohro\u017een\u00ed t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? Intimit\u011b a partnersk\u00e9mu \u017eivotu se v\u011bnuje rubrika <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">Sex<\/a>, diskriminaci kv\u016fli v\u00e1ze rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\">rubrika Fatfobie<\/a> a t\u011blesnou str\u00e1nku pohody rozv\u00edj\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sante\/bien-etre\">rubrika Pohoda<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Psychologie","category_nicename":"psycho","category_parent":0}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429968","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8375"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=429968"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429968\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":431244,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429968\/revisions\/431244"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/429973"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=429968"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=429968"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=429968"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}