{"id":429995,"date":"2025-12-27T06:09:01","date_gmt":"2025-12-27T05:09:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=429995"},"modified":"2025-12-27T06:08:48","modified_gmt":"2025-12-27T05:08:48","slug":"enfants-parents-divorces-divorcent-ils-vraiment-plus-chiffres-parlent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/deti-rodice-rozvody-opravdu-se-rozvadeji-vice-cisel-mluvi-samo-za-sebe-429995","title":{"rendered":"Opravdu je pravd\u011bpodobnost rozvodu u d\u011bt\u00ed rozveden\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed? \u010c\u00edsla mluv\u00ed sama za sebe."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pokud jste se pr\u00e1v\u011b vzali, m\u016f\u017eete se ob\u00e1vat, \u017ee va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed skon\u010d\u00ed \u0161patn\u011b jako man\u017eelstv\u00ed va\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f. Boj\u00edte se napodobit jejich chyby a poru\u0161it tak smlouvu l\u00e1sky, kterou jste pr\u00e1v\u011b uzav\u0159eli. Tento sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159 nen\u00ed nemo\u017en\u00fd. Psychologov\u00e9 v\u0161ak nab\u00edzej\u00ed uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed: chaotick\u00fd milostn\u00fd \u017eivot va\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f nem\u00e1 na ten v\u00e1\u0161 tolik vliv.<\/p>\n<h2> Sp\u00ed\u0161e teorie ne\u017e realita<\/h2>\n<p> V ran\u00fdch letech t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 z\u00e1vid\u00edme d\u011btem rozveden\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f a pamatujeme si jen v\u00fdhody: k V\u00e1noc\u016fm dostanou dvakr\u00e1t tolik d\u00e1rk\u016f, dvakr\u00e1t slav\u00ed narozeniny, zkr\u00e1tka v\u0161echno za\u017eij\u00ed dvakr\u00e1t. Ti, kter\u00fdch se to nejv\u00edce dot\u00fdk\u00e1, to sam\u00e9 \u0159\u00edci nemohou. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/divorcer-jeune-tabou-plus-lieu-etre-408382\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rozvod<\/a> , i kdy\u017e je p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fd a vz\u00e1jemn\u011b dohodnut\u00fd, v\u017edy zanech\u00e1v\u00e1 stopy na t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou jeho sv\u011bdky. D\u011bti trp\u00ed a sn\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed situaci, ani\u017e by mohly vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor. P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se po dosa\u017een\u00ed dosp\u011blosti sna\u017e\u00ed neopakovat to, co za\u017eily, a \u017e\u00edt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd romantick\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/p>\n<p>Podstupuj\u00ed terapii, aby se dostali k j\u00e1dru v\u011bci ve sv\u00e9m milostn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu a zjistili, zda maj\u00ed predispozice k rozvodu. Pokud pat\u0159\u00edte k t\u011bm d\u011btem, kter\u00e9 ka\u017ed\u00fd druh\u00fd t\u00fdden st\u0159\u00eddaly domov a nev\u011bdomky hr\u00e1ly roli man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho medi\u00e1tora, jist\u011b se boj\u00edte, \u017ee va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed zkrachuje. Psychologov\u00e9 dlouho v\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee minul\u00e9 vztahy rodi\u010d\u016f mohou ovlivnit sou\u010dasn\u00e9 rom\u00e1nky jejich d\u011bt\u00ed. To je v\u0161ak sp\u00ed\u0161e popul\u00e1rn\u00ed teorie ne\u017e absolutn\u00ed pravda.<\/p>\n<p>Po cel\u00e1 desetilet\u00ed v\u0161ichni v\u011b\u0159ili r\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee <em>\u201ed\u011bti rozveden\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f, ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e1 man\u017eelstv\u00ed\u201c.<\/em> Uk\u00e1zalo se v\u0161ak, \u017ee je to do zna\u010dn\u00e9 m\u00edry nepravdiv\u00e9. Jist\u011b, tyto d\u011bti mo\u017en\u00e1 nem\u011bly ty nejlep\u0161\u00ed vzory ani nejzdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1klady, ale ne v\u0161echny jsou p\u0159edur\u010deny k emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed katastrof\u011b. <em>\u201eRozvod je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u017eivota; je to p\u0159eru\u0161en\u00ed vazby, je to t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, naru\u0161uje uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed ka\u017edodenn\u00ed re\u017eim d\u00edt\u011bte, ale pokud vztah rodi\u010d\u016f pokra\u010duje pozitivn\u00edm zp\u016fsobem, pak to pro d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed traumatick\u00e9,\u201c<\/em> vysv\u011btluje psychiatri\u010dka a psychoanalyti\u010dka Marie-France Hirigoyenov\u00e1 v r\u00e1diu <a href=\"https:\/\/www.radiofrance.fr\/franceinter\/podcasts\/grand-bien-vous-fasse\/grand-bien-vous-fasse-du-mercredi-11-septembre-2024-3746120\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">France Inter<\/a> .<\/p>\n<h2> Co \u010d\u00edsla skute\u010dn\u011b \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Potk\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u011bti rozveden\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f stejn\u00fd osud jako jejich rodi\u010de a mus\u00ed zkr\u00e1tit sv\u016fj slib v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9ho \u017eivota? Statistiky nazna\u010duj\u00ed opak. Podle <a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.2307\/2648064\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anal\u00fdzy<\/a> zalo\u017een\u00e9 na datech americk\u00e9ho institutu pro pr\u016fzkum ve\u0159ejn\u00e9ho m\u00edn\u011bn\u00ed General Social Survey se mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159enos rozvodu mezi lety 1972 a 1996 sn\u00ed\u017eil o polovinu. To je vzhledem k n\u00e1r\u016fstu rozvod\u016f od 70. let 20. stolet\u00ed p\u0159ekvapiv\u00e9 zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Tato \u010d\u00edsla je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b t\u0159eba up\u0159esnit, proto\u017ee <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/mariage\/cette-erreur-le-jour-du-mariage-predit-presque-votre-divorce-selon-la-science-417840\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> ji\u017e nen\u00ed automatick\u00e9 a nen\u00ed prim\u00e1rn\u00edm hlediskem v pl\u00e1nech p\u00e1r\u016f. Zat\u00edmco pro star\u0161\u00ed generace bylo man\u017eelstv\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 inicia\u010dn\u00edm ritu\u00e1lem, mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 preferuj\u00ed sou\u017eit\u00ed nebo alternativu registrovan\u00e9ho partnerstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>D\u011bti rozveden\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f nejsou vystaveny v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmu riziku, ale mohou sv\u016fj vztah sabotovat, ani\u017e by si to uv\u011bdomovaly. <em>\u201eRozv\u00edjej\u00ed hypervigilanci v\u016f\u010di probl\u00e9m\u016fm, kter\u00e9 by mohly v\u00e9st k t\u00e9to situaci. Boj\u00ed se, \u017ee to nevydr\u017e\u00ed. To m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v ka\u017edodenn\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b vysiluj\u00edc\u00ed,\u201c<\/em> vysv\u011btluje klinick\u00fd psycholog G\u00e9rard Poussin, kter\u00e9ho zpov\u00eddal po\u0159ad <a href=\"https:\/\/www.20minutes.fr\/societe\/663428-20110202-societe-les-enfants-parents-divorces-tendance-plus-separer-divorcer-autres-explique-psychologue\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">20 Minutes<\/a> .<\/p>\n<h2> Rozvod je st\u00e1le v\u00edce akceptov\u00e1n.<\/h2>\n<p> Rozvod u\u017e nen\u00ed vn\u00edm\u00e1n jako nevyhnuteln\u00fd, je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 b\u011b\u017en\u00fd. Zat\u00edmco pro na\u0161e p\u0159edky rozvod ani nep\u0159ipadal v \u00favahu, pro mlad\u00e9 lidi je to dnes jen dal\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdmluva k oslav\u011b. S n\u00e1stupem \u201e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/feter-divorce-pourquoi-cartonne-378642\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rozvodov\u00fdch ve\u010d\u00edrk\u016f<\/a> \u201c, t\u011bchto oslav po rozchodu s pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm a \u0161\u00e1tky ve tvaru <em>\u201ed\u00edky, dal\u0161\u00ed\u201c<\/em> a <em>\u201epr\u00e1v\u011b rozveden\u00ed\u201c<\/em> , se rozvod stal pouhou formalitou.<\/p>\n<p>Stru\u010dn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno, d\u011bti rozveden\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f se u\u017e nestaraj\u00ed o svou romantickou budoucnost a rozvod vn\u00edmaj\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e jako \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed ne\u017e jako por\u00e1\u017eku. Co\u017e je vlastn\u011b docela pozitivn\u00ed. \u010c\u00edm m\u00e9n\u011b o tom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edte, t\u00edm men\u0161\u00ed je pravd\u011bpodobnost, \u017ee k tomu dojde (ti s \u010dist\u011b racion\u00e1ln\u00edm my\u0161len\u00edm by si m\u011bli d\u00e1t pozor).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pokud jste se pr\u00e1v\u011b vzali, m\u016f\u017eete se ob\u00e1vat, \u017ee va\u0161e man\u017eelstv\u00ed skon\u010d\u00ed \u0161patn\u011b jako man\u017eelstv\u00ed va\u0161ich rodi\u010d\u016f. Boj\u00edte...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":430002,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97333],"class_list":["post-429995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-couple"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/enfants-de-parents-divorces-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/enfants-de-parents-divorces-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/enfants-de-parents-divorces.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429995","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8340"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=429995"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429995\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":431333,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/429995\/revisions\/431333"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/430002"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=429995"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=429995"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=429995"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}