{"id":431891,"date":"2026-01-09T20:53:19","date_gmt":"2026-01-09T19:53:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=431891"},"modified":"2026-01-09T11:10:48","modified_gmt":"2026-01-09T10:10:48","slug":"oubliez-physique-traits-personnalite-font-fondre-tout-le-monde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/zapomente-na-fyzicke-rysy-osobnost-dokaze-kazdeho-uchvatit-431891","title":{"rendered":"Zapome\u0148te na vzhled: tyto osobnostn\u00ed rysy rozpl\u00fdvaj\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9ho."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>V dob\u011b, kdy je vzhled absolutn\u00ed prioritou, \u010dasto p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme vlastnosti du\u0161e, ty, kter\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 chirurgie nem\u016f\u017ee nahradit. Fyzick\u00fd vzhled se v pr\u016fb\u011bhu let m\u011bn\u00ed, zat\u00edmco osobnost z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 nedot\u010dena navzdory plynut\u00ed \u010dasu. Prav\u00e1 kr\u00e1sa nen\u00ed vid\u011bt; je vyj\u00e1d\u0159ena a pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1na. V t\u00e9to dob\u011b botoxu, v\u00fdpln\u00ed rt\u016f a p\u0159ed\u010dasn\u00fdch kosmetick\u00fdch z\u00e1krok\u016f je kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9 v\u00e1\u017eit si vnit\u0159n\u00edho bohatstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Osobnost p\u0159ed fyzick\u00fdm vzhledem<\/h2>\n<p> Dnes si desetilet\u00e9 d\u00edvky u\u017e d\u011blaj\u00ed starosti s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/bodypositive\/34-ans-peau-ridee-mannequin-sara-geurts-celebre-corps-412311\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vr\u00e1skami,<\/a> kter\u00e9 ani nemaj\u00ed, dvacetilet\u00e9 \u017eeny utr\u00e1cej\u00ed svou prvn\u00ed v\u00fdplatu za injekce a mu\u017ei se hrnou do Turecka, aby si napravili sv\u00e9 vlasov\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/chirurgie-tendance-hommes-rend-moins-attirants-401670\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">nedostatky<\/a> . Fyzick\u00fd vzhled u\u017e nen\u00ed jen detail; je to z\u00e1kladn\u00ed krit\u00e9rium, estetick\u00fd dopln\u011bk, ba dokonce i prvek, kter\u00fd zvy\u0161uje p\u016fvab.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159esto je to jen fas\u00e1da, pouh\u00e1 v\u00fdloha. Pokud je v knihkupectv\u00ed prvn\u00edm vizu\u00e1ln\u00edm prvkem, kter\u00fd upout\u00e1 na\u0161i pozornost, obsah je mnohem d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e forma. U lid\u00ed je to v podstat\u011b stejn\u00e9. Fyzick\u00fd vzhled je jist\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd, ale osobnost v\u00edt\u011bz\u00ed a m\u016f\u017ee si z\u00edskat na\u0161e srdce.<\/p>\n<p>Na rozd\u00edl od fyzick\u00e9ho vzhledu je osobnost jen z\u0159\u00eddka prom\u011bnliv\u00e1. Je nemo\u017en\u00e9 zamaskovat svou pravou podstatu: v\u017edy se znovu vyno\u0159\u00ed s pomstou, navzdory v\u0161em pokus\u016fm o jej\u00ed skr\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed. Autenti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, syrov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a m\u00e9n\u011b tv\u00e1rn\u00e1 osobnost je na\u0161\u00edm nejcenn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm aktivem. Ve studii publikovan\u00e9 v \u010dasopise Archives of Sexual Behavior brazil\u0161t\u00ed v\u011bdci objevili dva atributy, kter\u00e9 jsou v\u00fdrazn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e pln\u00e9 rty a postava p\u0159es\u00fdpac\u00edch hodin.<\/p>\n<h2> Tyto charakterov\u00e9 vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 d\u011blaj\u00ed ten rozd\u00edl<\/h2>\n<p> V t\u00e9to rozs\u00e1hl\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10508-023-02767-4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studii<\/a> , proveden\u00e9 na 778 cisgenderov\u00fdch Brazilc\u00edch ve v\u011bku 18 a\u017e 64 let, v\u011bdci p\u0159edlo\u017eili \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk\u016fm jednoduch\u00e9 cvi\u010den\u00ed. C\u00edlem? Vytvo\u0159it kompozitn\u00ed n\u00e1\u010drt jejich ide\u00e1ln\u00edho partnera. Ne\u0161lo o to, aby se \u010d\u00e1sti model\u016f z \u010dasopis\u016f spojily do jednoho t\u011bla. C\u00edlem bylo vytvo\u0159it psychologick\u00fd profil jejich ide\u00e1ln\u00edho partnera. Dostali body, kter\u00e9 mohli dle libosti rozd\u011blit do p\u011bti charakteristik: inteligence, laskavost, fyzick\u00e1 p\u0159ita\u017elivost, zdrav\u00ed a socioekonomick\u00fd status.<\/p>\n<p>A proti v\u0161em o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm respondenti p\u0159ikl\u00e1dali v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed d\u016fraz na inteligenci a laskavost. Podle t\u00e9to pou\u010dn\u00e9 a hluboce uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed studie jsou to z\u00e1kladn\u00ed krit\u00e9ria, kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9 d\u00edlky psychologick\u00e9 skl\u00e1da\u010dky. I kdy\u017e v jazyce l\u00e1sky je n\u011bkdy zdvo\u0159il\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, jak odm\u00edtnout n\u011b\u010d\u00ed n\u00e1vrhy, zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee vypov\u00edd\u00e1 o mnoh\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Jin\u00fdmi slovy, inteligence v kombinaci s laskavost\u00ed v\u00edt\u011bz\u00ed nad fyzick\u00fdm vzhledem a finan\u010dn\u00edm postaven\u00edm. Ponau\u010den\u00ed z p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu: je lep\u0161\u00ed zdokonalit a uk\u00e1zat to, co u\u017e m\u00e1te, ne\u017e cht\u00edt to, co nem\u00e1te. \u201eV ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, pokud chcete p\u0159il\u00e1kat v\u00edce potenci\u00e1ln\u00edch partner\u016f, pr\u00e1ce na va\u0161em mozku a osobnosti se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt va\u0161\u00edm nejlep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00ednosem,\u201c \u0159ekl Jo\u00e3o Francisco Goes Braga Takayanagi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psypost.org\/intelligence-and-kindness-are-the-most-valued-traits-in-romantic-partners-study-finds\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">serveru PsyPost<\/a> .<\/p>\n<h2> Kr\u00e1sa spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 jinde ne\u017e na t\u011ble.<\/h2>\n<p> V dob\u011b, kdy je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 norm\u00e1ln\u00ed nat\u00edrat se kr\u00e9mem proti st\u00e1rnut\u00ed v 18 letech a kde je kr\u00e1sa redukov\u00e1na na vulg\u00e1rn\u00ed sout\u011b\u017e podobnosti, se vnit\u0159n\u00ed kr\u00e1sa jev\u00ed jako vzd\u00e1len\u00fd pojem. V dob\u011b, kter\u00e1 netoleruje st\u00e1rnut\u00ed a je naklon\u011bna chirurgick\u00fdm z\u00e1krok\u016fm, p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zapom\u00edn\u00e1me oslavovat ty vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 unikaj\u00ed oku, ale promlouvaj\u00ed k srdci.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0159esto za zahnut\u00fdm nosem, k\u0159iv\u00fdm \u00fasm\u011bvem, buclat\u00fdmi tv\u00e1\u0159i\u010dkami nebo tlust\u00fdmi br\u00fdlemi se skr\u00fdv\u00e1 neoceniteln\u00fd poklad: altruismus, empatie, \u0161t\u011bdrost, humor a inteligence. T\u011blo je jen \u0161perkovnice pln\u00e1 diamant\u016f.<\/p>\n<p>Nebojte se tedy b\u00fdt ve spole\u010densk\u00fdch situac\u00edch sami sebou a projevovat svou osobnost. Tyto vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 jsou \u010dasto <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/bodypositive\/compliments-pas-physique-normaliser-351309\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">chv\u00e1leny<\/a> , ale ne v\u017edy doce\u0148ov\u00e1ny pro svou skute\u010dnou hodnotu, jsou va\u0161imi siln\u00fdmi str\u00e1nkami.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"V dob\u011b, kdy je vzhled absolutn\u00ed prioritou, \u010dasto p\u0159ehl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme vlastnosti du\u0161e, ty, kter\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 chirurgie nem\u016f\u017ee nahradit. Fyzick\u00fd...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":431894,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1784],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-431891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-confiance-en-soi"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/atouts-personnalite-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/atouts-personnalite-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/atouts-personnalite.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":1784,"name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","slug":"confiance-en-soi","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1890,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6138,"count":380,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1784,"category_count":380,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","category_nicename":"confiance-en-soi","category_parent":6138}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/431891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8340"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=431891"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/431891\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":431896,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/431891\/revisions\/431896"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/431894"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=431891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=431891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=431891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}