{"id":433348,"date":"2026-01-29T08:00:44","date_gmt":"2026-01-29T07:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=433348"},"modified":"2026-01-28T22:06:41","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T21:06:41","slug":"pourquoi-certains-ex-sengagent-rapidement-apres-rupture-theorie-du-taxi-expliquee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed po rozchodu rychle navazuj\u00ed nov\u00e9 vztahy: vysv\u011btlen\u00ed teorie taxi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pr\u00e1v\u011b jste se roze\u0161li a bolestn\u011b se zotavujete, ale v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner neztr\u00e1cel \u010das a na\u0161el si n\u011bco lep\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e kel\u00edmek zmrzliny, aby se ut\u011b\u0161il. Zat\u00edmco se vy sna\u017e\u00edte zvyknout si na single \u017eivot, on\/ona \u017eij\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u011b a\u017e do smrti se sv\u00fdm nov\u00fdm partnerem\/partnerkou. A\u0165 u\u017e jde o obnoven\u00fd vztah nebo up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 city, provokaci nebo ne\u010dekan\u00fd bou\u0159liv\u00fd rom\u00e1nek, mnoz\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed uklidnit teori\u00ed \u201etaxik\u00e1\u0159e\u201c.<\/p>\n

Teorie taxi: kdy\u017e v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 sv\u016fj rom\u00e1nek ve zrychlen\u00e9m tempu.<\/h2>\n

Opustila jsi svou partnerku a u\u017e nepozn\u00e1v\u00e1\u0161 mu\u017ee, kter\u00e9ho jsi znala roky. Tento mu\u017e, nerozhodn\u00fd, trp\u00edc\u00ed strachem ze z\u00e1vazk\u016f<\/a> , nezral\u00fd a bez sm\u011bru, je najednou proaktivn\u00ed, anga\u017eovan\u00fd a demonstrativn\u00ed k \u017een\u011b, kter\u00e1 t\u011b nahradila. Kdy\u017e byl s tebou, trvalo mu m\u011bs\u00edce, ne\u017e se v\u011bci posunuly na dal\u0161\u00ed \u00farove\u0148, te\u010f si sv\u016fj rom\u00e1nek pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 na pln\u00e9 obr\u00e1tky. Tento mu\u017e, kter\u00fd by za va\u0161ich \u010das\u016f ani neuva\u017eoval o svatb\u011b, se chyst\u00e1 \u0159\u00edct to \u201eano\u201c, kter\u00e9 bys si p\u0159\u00e1la sly\u0161et na radnici. A co h\u016f\u0159, koupil si se svou milovanou d\u016fm, p\u0159esto\u017ee ti neust\u00e1le \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \u201eNa investice nen\u00ed vhodn\u00e1 doba.\u201c<\/p>\n

Zat\u00edmco se s bu\u0161\u00edc\u00edm srdcem neust\u00e1le d\u00edv\u00e1te do zp\u011btn\u00e9ho zrc\u00e1tka, v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner v\u00e1s v tomto hled\u00e1n\u00ed stability u\u017e nechal v prachu. Je to perfektn\u00ed ilustrace teorie taxi. Tato teorie nepoch\u00e1z\u00ed od n\u011bjak\u00e9ho zku\u0161en\u00e9ho terapeuta, ale od Mirandy Hobbesov\u00e9, na\u0161\u00ed kulturn\u00ed ikony prvn\u00edho desetilet\u00ed prvn\u00edho desetilet\u00ed 21. stolet\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\u201eMu\u017ei jsou jako tax\u00edky. Jednoho dne se probud\u00ed a rozhodnou se, \u017ee jsou p\u0159ipraveni se usadit, m\u00edt d\u011bti... Rozsv\u00edt\u00ed st\u0159e\u0161n\u00ed sv\u011btlo sv\u00e9ho auta. \u017dena, kter\u00e1 se v tu chv\u00edli objev\u00ed, bum, je to ta, kterou si vezmou,\u201c prohl\u00e1sila v Sexu ve m\u011bst\u011b. Chytr\u00e1 automobilov\u00e1 metafora, kter\u00e1 nazna\u010duje \u201e\u0161patn\u00e9 na\u010dasov\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c. Ale v\u00e1\u0161 mozek se \u010dasto rozhodne jinak a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed v\u00e1s, \u017ee probl\u00e9m jste vy.<\/p>\n

V\u0161eobecn\u011b roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e1 v\u00edra pramen\u00edc\u00ed z popkultury, kterou je t\u0159eba up\u0159esnit<\/h2>\n

Existuje spousta teori\u00ed o vztaz\u00edch<\/a> a zat\u00edmco n\u011bkter\u00e9 jsou v\u011brohodn\u00e9, jin\u00e9 jsou zcela neopodstatn\u011bn\u00e9<\/a> . \u201eTeorii tax\u00edku\u201c, a\u0165 u\u017e se zd\u00e1 jakkoli uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed, je t\u0159eba br\u00e1t s rezervou. Jak psycholo\u017eka Marie-Victoire Chopin zd\u016fraz\u0148uje v online \u010dasopise Auf\u00e9minin<\/a> , je to p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed \u201evzpruha\u201c, kdy\u017e m\u00e1te zlomen\u00e9 srdce a city jsou v chaosu. \u201eV\u017edycky jsem tuto \u201ateorii tax\u00edku\u2018 vn\u00edmala jako druh odpov\u011bdi, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 ut\u011b\u0161it p\u0159\u00e1tele po rozchodu,\u201c vysv\u011btluje. Je to typick\u00fd mechanismus sebeobrany, zp\u016fsob, jak odvr\u00e1tit bolest.<\/p>\n

Zat\u00edmco se nach\u00e1z\u00edte na k\u0159i\u017eovatce l\u00e1sky, rozpolceni mezi l\u00edtost\u00ed minulosti a touhou j\u00edt d\u00e1l, v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner si raz\u00ed vlastn\u00ed cestu a tuto novou l\u00e1sku p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 s v\u00e1\u0161n\u00ed i rozumem. A teorie taxi v\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1 \u201euv\u00e9st tuto obt\u00ed\u017enou situaci do perspektivy\u201c. Ve skute\u010dnosti v\u00e1s v\u0161ak sp\u00ed\u0161e brzd\u00ed, ne\u017e v\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1 j\u00edt vp\u0159ed. Krom\u011b toho, \u017ee l\u00e1sku redukuje na hru s auty a mu\u017ee srovn\u00e1v\u00e1 se slu\u017ebami pro spoluj\u00edzdu, je teorie taxi pom\u011brn\u011b zjednodu\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed a zasti\u0148uje v\u0161echna ostatn\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Terapeut si je dob\u0159e v\u011bdom toho, \u017ee z\u00e1vazek nen\u00ed v\u017edy okam\u017eit\u00fd. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 se boj\u00ed, \u017ee budou \u201ep\u0159ipout\u00e1ni\u201c k druh\u00e9 osob\u011b, nebo si nesou traumata z d\u011btstv\u00ed. Pokud si v\u0161ak v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner po v\u00e1s okam\u017eit\u011b znovu vybudoval \u017eivot, nebylo to proto, aby dohnal \u201eztracen\u00fd \u010das\u201c, ale jednodu\u0161e to odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed \u201ezlomov\u00fd bod\u201c. Rozchod, jakkoli bolestiv\u00fd, n\u011bkdy spou\u0161t\u00ed uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed, a to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt docela radik\u00e1ln\u00ed. Specialista to ozna\u010duje jako \u201epsychologick\u00e9 zr\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c.<\/p>\n

Tipy, jak po rozchodu nepochybovat o sv\u00e9 hodnot\u011b<\/h2>\n

Teorie taxi je tedy sp\u00ed\u0161e \u201eplacebo\u201c v\u00fdmluvou ne\u017e skute\u010dn\u00fdm jevem. Kdy\u017e ale uvid\u00edte mu\u017ee, se kter\u00fdm jste m\u011bli cel\u00fd \u017eivot, a spln\u00edte si v\u0161echny sv\u00e9 sny s n\u011bk\u00fdm jin\u00fdm, je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 se neobvi\u0148ovat. \u201eCo jsem ud\u011blal \u0161patn\u011b?\u201c \u201eSe mnou mus\u00ed b\u00fdt n\u011bco v nepo\u0159\u00e1dku.\u201c \u201ePro\u010d ona a ne j\u00e1?\u201c Tyto ot\u00e1zky v\u00e1m hon\u00ed hlavou a po\u0161kozuj\u00ed va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Tak\u017ee ne, nebyli jste jen rezervn\u00ed pneumatika ani d\u00fdn\u011b p\u0159ed ko\u010d\u00e1rem. Expert dokonce obrac\u00ed \u201eot\u00e1zku\u201c, aby odstranil ve\u0161ker\u00fd zmatek, kter\u00fd vid\u00edte. \u201ePro\u010d jsem p\u0159ijal vztah, kde byl z\u00e1vazek tak dlouho nejist\u00fd?\u201c<\/em> Jakmile najdete odpov\u011b\u010f, mo\u017en\u00e1 se budete moci vr\u00e1tit na d\u00e1lnici ke \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed a razit si vlastn\u00ed cestu, sami nebo s n\u011bk\u00fdm v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00fdm.<\/p>\n

Drah\u00e1 Miranda Hobbesov\u00e1 nem\u00e1 v\u0161echny odpov\u011bdi. L\u00e1ska nen\u00ed fikce, ale cesta pln\u00e1 p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eek. Pou\u017eiji-li analogii s autem: najd\u011bte si n\u011bkoho, kdo v\u00e1m dobije baterii jen t\u00edm, \u017ee tam je, a kdo ji nenech\u00e1 \u00fapln\u011b vybitou.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pr\u00e1v\u011b jste se roze\u0161li a bolestn\u011b se zotavujete, ale v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner neztr\u00e1cel \u010das a na\u0161el si n\u011bco...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":433351,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97372],"class_list":["post-433348","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/theorie-du-taxi-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/theorie-du-taxi-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/theorie-du-taxi.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"

Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n

Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n