{"id":433629,"date":"2026-02-01T07:15:10","date_gmt":"2026-02-01T06:15:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=433629"},"modified":"2026-01-30T12:34:48","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T11:34:48","slug":"pilule-influence-t-elle-choix-amoureux-experts-demelent-vrai-du-faux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/ovlivnuje-antikoncepce-romanticke-volby-odbornici-oddeluji-fakta-od-fikce-433629","title":{"rendered":"Ovliv\u0148uje antikoncepce na\u0161e romantick\u00e9 volby? Odborn\u00edci odd\u011bluj\u00ed fakta od fikce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Antikoncep\u010dn\u00ed pilulka, a\u0165 je jakkoli mal\u00e1, m\u00e1 na t\u011blo zna\u010dn\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky. P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst si v\u0161echny jej\u00ed vedlej\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u010dinky by trvalo t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 p\u016fl dne. Ale mezi v\u0161\u00edm t\u00edm drobn\u00fdm p\u00edsmem se ani \u0159\u00e1dek nezmi\u0148uje o jej\u00edm dopadu na milostn\u00fd \u017eivot. Nikde se nep\u00ed\u0161e: \u201ePozor, pilulka m\u016f\u017ee naru\u0161it va\u0161e romantick\u00e9 volby.\u201c P\u0159esto podle n\u011bkter\u00fdch vir\u00e1ln\u00edch teori\u00ed pilulka naru\u0161uje nejen na\u0161e t\u011blo, ale i na\u0161e romantick\u00e9 vztahy.<\/p>\n<h2> Koktejl hormon\u016f, kter\u00fd nenech\u00e1 nikoho lhostejn\u00fdm, pokud jde o mozek<\/h2>\n<p> Zat\u00edmco v\u011bdeck\u00fd sv\u011bt zdokonaluje mu\u017eskou antikoncep\u010dn\u00ed pilulku bez hormon\u016f, \u017eeny se st\u00e1le mus\u00ed spokojit s chemick\u00fdmi recepturami, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed \u0159adu \u0161kodliv\u00fdch vedlej\u0161\u00edch \u00fa\u010dink\u016f, jako by ob\u011b\u0165 m\u011bla v genech. I kdy\u017e pilulka minimalizuje menstrua\u010dn\u00ed bolesti a reguluje n\u00e1\u0161 cyklus, abychom se vyhnuli nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdm p\u0159ekvapen\u00edm na dovolen\u00e9, m\u00e1 i sv\u00e9 nev\u00fdhody. Sta\u010d\u00ed rozlo\u017eit p\u0159ilo\u017een\u00fd n\u00e1vod k pou\u017eit\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dte se sami. Pap\u00edr je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 po kolena a obsahuje \u010detn\u00e1 varov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Krom\u011b \u0161pin\u011bn\u00ed, nevolnosti, v\u00fdkyv\u016f n\u00e1lad a dal\u0161\u00edch varovn\u00fdch sign\u00e1l\u016f \u00fadajn\u011b pilulka tak\u00e9 ni\u010d\u00ed na\u0161e romantick\u00e9 vztahy. Nen\u00ed t\u0159eba tahat lupu; nepat\u0159\u00ed to mezi \u201eofici\u00e1ln\u00ed vedlej\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u010dinky\u201c. P\u0159esto podle n\u011bkter\u00fdch online f\u00e1m by n\u00e1s pilulka mohla zm\u00e1st p\u0159i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/micro-flirting-seduire-timide-378952\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">flirtov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/a> a zkomplikovat n\u00e1m hled\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e1sky. Pilulka zdaleka nefunguje jako lektvar l\u00e1sky, ale \u00fadajn\u011b m\u00e1 tendenci m\u011bnit na\u0161i p\u0159ita\u017elivost (a ne nutn\u011b k lep\u0161\u00edmu). Online alfa samci v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee pilulka n\u00e1m br\u00e1n\u00ed vst\u0159eb\u00e1vat testosteron a odsuzuje n\u00e1s k setrv\u00e1n\u00ed s t\u00edm, \u010demu \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed \u201epodlid\u00e9\u201c. Jejich argument samoz\u0159ejm\u011b neobstoj\u00ed a odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed hlavn\u011b pocit frustrace. Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed m\u00e1 v\u011bdeck\u00e1 komunita v\u011brohodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vysv\u011btlen\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud antikoncepce m\u016f\u017ee ovlivnit libido a do\u010dasn\u011b utlumit na\u0161i touhu, pro\u010d by nemohla zm\u011bnit i na\u0161e romantick\u00e9 preference? Studie z roku 2019 publikovan\u00e1 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/intimately-connected\/201901\/do-contraceptive-pills-affect-attraction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u010dasopise Psychology Today<\/a> vzn\u00e1\u0161\u00ed fascinuj\u00edc\u00ed hypot\u00e9zu: \u017eeny u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed antikoncepci si mohou vyvinout jin\u00e9 preference ohledn\u011b partner\u016f. N\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u00fdzkumy nap\u0159\u00edklad nazna\u010duj\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eeny u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed antikoncepci mohou b\u00fdt m\u00e9n\u011b citliv\u00e9 na biologick\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, jako je v\u016fn\u011b. A jak v\u00edme, p\u0159irozen\u00fd t\u011blesn\u00fd pach je atraktivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e jak\u00fdkoli um\u011bl\u00fd parf\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<h2> Zm\u011bny preferenc\u00ed byly zdokumentov\u00e1ny, ale nejsou univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/h2>\n<p> Mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed \u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00ed tuto v\u00edru a mysl\u00ed si, \u017ee znaj\u00ed v\u0161echny odpov\u011bdi o \u017eensk\u00fdch t\u011blech, zat\u00edmco si st\u00e1le pletou d\u011blohu a vag\u00ednu, se spol\u00e9haj\u00ed na men\u0161\u00ed studie. Tyto studie, sp\u00ed\u0161e psychologick\u00e9 ne\u017e biologick\u00e9, p\u0159edpokl\u00e1daj\u00ed, \u017ee antikoncepce blokov\u00e1n\u00edm ovulace ovliv\u0148uje prvotn\u00ed a instinktivn\u00ed p\u0159ita\u017elivost \u017een.<\/p>\n<p>Jin\u00fdmi slovy, kdy\u017e berete pilulku, d\u00e1v\u00e1te p\u0159ednost tv\u00e1\u0159\u00edm podobn\u00fdm Harrymu Stylesovi p\u0159ed hranat\u00fdmi \u010delistmi jako Brad Pitt. Podle nich to nen\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 nedostatek sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, co v\u00e1s vede k volb\u011b mu\u017ee s m\u011bkk\u00fdm t\u011blem p\u0159ed kulturistou s atletickou postavou, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e slo\u017eky pilulky. Jin\u00fdmi slovy nazna\u010duj\u00ed, \u017ee si mu\u017ee vyb\u00edr\u00e1me jako zral\u00e9 ovoce na st\u00e1nku na trhu: o\u010dima a \u010dichem, ne mysl\u00ed. Ale u\u017e ne\u017eijeme v dob\u011b kamenn\u00e9, v dob\u011b, kdy se lid\u00e9 p\u0159ed p\u00e1\u0159en\u00edm \u010dichali jako zv\u00ed\u0159ata.<\/p>\n<p>Nav\u00edc \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 rozs\u00e1hl\u00e1 studie nic z toho nepotvrzuje. Podle Dr. Sarah Tangov\u00e9, s n\u00ed\u017e vedl rozhovor pro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.self.com\/story\/does-birth-control-change-attraction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">SELF<\/a> , neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd d\u016fkaz o tom, \u017ee by antikoncep\u010dn\u00ed pilulky sni\u017eovaly z\u00e1jem o mu\u017en\u00e9 mu\u017ee, ani o tom, \u017ee se n\u00e1\u0161 vkus s menstrua\u010dn\u00edm cyklem skute\u010dn\u011b m\u011bn\u00ed. Nen\u00ed tedy pochyb o tom, \u017ee byste za v\u0161echny sv\u00e9 romantick\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed vinili antikoncepci. Nav\u00edc maskulinita dnes pro \u017eeny zdaleka nen\u00ed prioritou. Z jejich pohledu neodr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed \u201edobr\u00e9 geny\u201c, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e symptom patriarch\u00e1tu.<\/p>\n<h2> Zamilovat se nen\u00ed jen ot\u00e1zka hranat\u00fdch \u010delist\u00ed.<\/h2>\n<p> Jak spr\u00e1vn\u011b zd\u016fraz\u0148uje Dr. Tang, jsme v\u00edc ne\u017e jen hormony a geny. P\u0159ita\u017elivost, touha, kompatibilita \u2013 to v\u0161e jde daleko za genetick\u00e1 krit\u00e9ria nebo fyzick\u00fd vzhled. Jen proto, \u017ee n\u011bkdo m\u00e1 \u201emu\u017en\u00fd\u201c vzhled, neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee je zdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed nebo s v\u00e1mi \u201e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/theorie-olive-decouvrez-si-compatible-methode-surprenante-393165\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">kompatibiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/a> \u201c. A na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch vztahu nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na obli\u010deji ani postav\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Nav\u00edc ne v\u0161echny \u017eeny p\u0159itahuj\u00ed mu\u017ei a ne v\u0161echny se sna\u017e\u00ed ot\u011bhotn\u011bt. Je proto riskantn\u00ed sna\u017eit se redukovat l\u00e1sku a touhu na rigidn\u00ed biologick\u00fd r\u00e1mec. A jak to Dr. Tang tak v\u00fdsti\u017en\u011b \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \u201eM\u016f\u017eete si naj\u00edt n\u011bkoho p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9ho, pak ho sly\u0161et mluvit a najednou k v\u00e1m nic nec\u00edt\u00edte.\u201c To, co n\u00e1s nut\u00ed se zamilovat, jsou tak\u00e9 sd\u00edlen\u00e9 hodnoty, laskavost, humor, naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 zkr\u00e1tka v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 ani pilulka, ani studie nemohou p\u0159edpov\u011bd\u011bt.<\/p>\n<p>I kdy\u017e antikoncepce m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bkdy zp\u016fsobovat probl\u00e9my a z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 kontroverzn\u00ed, nen\u00ed zodpov\u011bdn\u00e1 za va\u0161i sm\u016flu v l\u00e1sce. Pokud v\u00e1s v\u00e1\u0161 partner v ur\u010dit\u00fdch obdob\u00edch dr\u00e1\u017ed\u00ed, je to pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b odraz PMS nebo zn\u00e1mka nepravideln\u00e9 hormon\u00e1ln\u00ed hladiny.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Antikoncep\u010dn\u00ed pilulka, a\u0165 je jakkoli mal\u00e1, m\u00e1 na t\u011blo zna\u010dn\u00e9 n\u00e1sledky. P\u0159e\u010d\u00edst si v\u0161echny jej\u00ed vedlej\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u010dinky by...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":433633,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97333,97372],"class_list":["post-433629","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-couple","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/pilule-impact-attirance-vrai-ou-faux-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/pilule-impact-attirance-vrai-ou-faux-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/pilule-impact-attirance-vrai-ou-faux.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433629","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8340"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=433629"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433629\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":433634,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433629\/revisions\/433634"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/433633"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=433629"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=433629"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=433629"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}