{"id":433958,"date":"2026-02-09T07:15:59","date_gmt":"2026-02-09T06:15:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=433958"},"modified":"2026-02-09T16:57:51","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T15:57:51","slug":"fierte-a-la-honte-pourquoi-etre-en-couple-devenu-embarrassant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pycha-versus-stud-proc-se-vztah-stal-trapnym-433958","title":{"rendered":"Od hrdosti k studu: Pro\u010d se vztah stal trapn\u00fdm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Zm\u011bna statusu vztahu na Facebooku z \u201esvobodn\u00fd\u201c na \u201eve vztahu\u201c b\u00fdvala t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 znakem \u00fasp\u011bchu, dokonce i zp\u016fsobem, jak zv\u00fd\u0161it popularitu. Tehdy bylo zve\u0159ej\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159eslazen\u00fdch fotografi\u00ed, na kter\u00fdch se dr\u017e\u00edte za ruce nebo ruku v ruce, vrcholem \u00fasp\u011bchu. Ale te\u010f jsou tyto fotografie, p\u0159ekypuj\u00edc\u00ed l\u00e1skou a dokumentuj\u00edc\u00ed cel\u00fd \u017eivot p\u00e1ru, v na\u0161ich feedech m\u00e9n\u011b viditeln\u00e9, jako by m\u00edt p\u0159\u00edtele bylo minulost\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Skr\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtele m\u00edsto jeho p\u0159edv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> \u201eAbyste \u017eili \u0161\u0165astn\u011b, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/reseaux-sociaux-poison-couple-310564\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u017eijte skryt\u011b<\/a> .\u201c Toto r\u010den\u00ed nikdy nebylo pravdiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. V dob\u00e1ch jahodov\u00fdch Vans a MP3 p\u0159ehr\u00e1va\u010d\u016f se d\u00edvky chlubily sv\u00fdmi partnery jako trofejemi. Sotva ofici\u00e1ln\u011b potvrdily sv\u016fj rom\u00e1nek, u\u017e zve\u0159ej\u0148ovaly na sv\u00fdch facebookov\u00fdch zd\u00edch p\u0159eslazen\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e1sky. Ozna\u010dovaly sv\u00e9 partnery v explicitn\u00edch p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvc\u00edch a sd\u00edlely ka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00fdlet, dopln\u011bn\u00fd sentiment\u00e1ln\u00edmi momentkami. Sledovali jsme tohle <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/je-ne-suis-pas-romantique-pourquoi-plus-avantageux-vous-croyez-422305\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mazlen\u00ed<\/a> zbl\u00edzka a prakticky jsme s\u00e1hli po popcornu. Cel\u00e1 jejich p\u0159\u00edtomnost na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch se to\u010dila kolem jejich p\u0159\u00edtel\u016f a p\u0159ipom\u00ednala \u0161\u0165avnatou telenovelu.<\/p>\n<p>Ale \u010dasy se zm\u011bnily. Dnes \u017eeny tou\u017e\u00ed po v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed diskr\u00e9tnosti. Zat\u00edmco kdysi zdobily internet tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed sv\u00e9ho mil\u00e9ho, nyn\u00ed nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnost nazna\u010dovat. U\u017e hlasit\u011b nehl\u00e1saj\u00ed \u201eJsem ve vztahu\u201c, dokonce si tuto romantickou realitu nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed pro sebe. Vz\u00e1cn\u00e9 z\u00e1blesky jejich milostn\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu se omezuj\u00ed na kone\u010dky prst\u016f, siluety nebo um\u011bleck\u00e9 rozmaz\u00e1n\u00ed. Nezast\u00edn\u00ed sv\u00e9 partnery jen proto, aby chr\u00e1nily sv\u00e9 soukrom\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 proto, aby si zachovaly image. Zd\u00e1 se toti\u017e, \u017ee v roce 2026 u\u017e b\u00fdt ve vztahu nen\u00ed cool n\u00e1lepka, ale zn\u00e1mka toho, \u017ee je n\u011bco zastaral\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n<p>\u017deny, v\u011bdom\u00e9 si sv\u00e9 nez\u00e1vislosti, se ji\u017e necht\u011bj\u00ed definovat skrze sv\u00e9 partnery, ale tak\u00e9 si necht\u011bj\u00ed z\u00edskat reputaci Bridget Jonesov\u00e9. Jin\u00fdmi slovy, u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed si spole\u010densk\u00fdch v\u00fdhod plynouc\u00edch z partnersk\u00e9ho vztahu, ani\u017e by upadly do pasti p\u0159ehnan\u00e9 lp\u011bn\u00ed na sv\u00e9 polovi\u010dce. Odkl\u00e1n\u011bj\u00ed se od stereotypn\u00edho obrazu \u017eeny posedl\u00e9 svou polovi\u010dkou. Novin\u00e1\u0159ka Chante Joseph, kter\u00e1 p\u00ed\u0161e pro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.co.uk\/article\/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Vogue UK<\/a> , zkoumala, co se rovn\u00e1 verzi 2.0 romantick\u00e9ho bojkotu.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00edc ne\u017e trend, stav mysli<\/h2>\n<p> B\u011bhem pouh\u00fdch n\u011bkolika let se \u017eeny zm\u011bnily z v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e9 Julie na rebelskou Elizabeth Bennet. Daleko od toho, aby svou emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1vislost u\u010dinily hmatatelnou a zanech\u00e1valy jej\u00ed stopy na sv\u00fdch online profilech, z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed opatrn\u00e9 ve sv\u00fdch romantick\u00fdch informac\u00edch. Novin\u00e1\u0159ka, kter\u00e1 na tento posun v mentalit\u011b a autocenzuru mezi p\u00e1ry v digit\u00e1ln\u00edm v\u011bku upozornila, se na to zeptala sv\u00fdch 65 000 sleduj\u00edc\u00edch.<\/p>\n<p>A pokud jsou \u017eeny omezov\u00e1ny <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/emojis-langage-secret-drague-407876\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emotikony<\/a> se srd\u00ed\u010dky a roztomil\u00fdmi fotografiemi, nen\u00ed to jen proto, aby vypadaly nez\u00e1visle nebo modern\u011b. Je to tak\u00e9 proto, \u017ee se boj\u00ed, \u017ee je osud za tento projev n\u00e1klonnosti potrest\u00e1. \u201eN\u011bkter\u00e9 se b\u00e1ly \u201azl\u00e9ho oka\u2018, p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e9, \u017ee projevov\u00e1n\u00ed jejich \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed vyvol\u00e1 tak intenzivn\u00ed \u017e\u00e1rlivost, \u017ee to nakonec zni\u010d\u00ed jejich vztah,\u201c vysv\u011btluje novin\u00e1\u0159ka. Jin\u00e9 tak\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1valy rozchod a bolestiv\u00fd \u00fakol online \u00faklidu.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0161echny tyto v\u00fdmluvy skr\u00fdvaj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00fd, ale nevysloven\u00fd argument: b\u00fdt s mu\u017eem u\u017e nen\u00ed dar, ale b\u0159emeno. M\u00edt p\u0159\u00edtele je ostudn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e chodit ven s topem obr\u00e1cen\u00fdm dozadu nebo se zubn\u00ed pastou v \u00fastech. A to nen\u00ed radik\u00e1ln\u00ed feminismus, jen odraz hlub\u0161\u00ed \u00fanavy.<\/p>\n<h2> B\u00fdt single je popul\u00e1rn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e b\u00fdt ve p\u00e1ru.<\/h2>\n<p> B\u011bhem st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161koly bylo m\u00edt p\u0159\u00edtele t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00edm, spole\u010densk\u00fdm \u00fasp\u011bchem. Oby\u010dejn\u00e1 holka ve \u0161kole se najednou stala st\u0159edem pozornosti na chodb\u00e1ch, tou cool postavou, kterou v\u0161ichni zbo\u017e\u0148ovali zpoza sk\u0159\u00ed\u0148ky. Jako by tento p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitostn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel byl zdrojem \u00fasp\u011bchu, jako by d\u00edvka pot\u0159ebovala mu\u017ee, aby se c\u00edtila kompletn\u00ed, dokonce i \u017eiv\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee \u201eefekt p\u0159\u00edtele\u201c ji\u017e nefunguje. Nav\u00edc se normy obracej\u00ed ve prosp\u011bch svobodn\u00fdch \u017een. Tyto \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 kdysi st\u00e1rly samy obklopen\u00e9 hordami ko\u010dek, jsou nyn\u00ed v\u00edce z\u00e1vistiv\u00e9 ne\u017e ty, kter\u00e9 uv\u00edzly se sv\u00fdmi partnery. Mo\u017en\u00e1 proto, \u017ee zt\u011bles\u0148uj\u00ed svobodu, nez\u00e1vislost a sebe\u00factu \u2013 vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 se n\u011bkdy ztr\u00e1cej\u00ed v \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed p\u00e1rov\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Ve Spojen\u00fdch st\u00e1tech ji\u017e \u017eivot ve p\u00e1ru nen\u00ed normou pro rostouc\u00ed po\u010det 25 a\u017e 34let\u00fdch, kte\u0159\u00ed se rozhodli z\u016fstat svobodn\u00ed: jejich po\u010det se za p\u016fl stolet\u00ed zdvojn\u00e1sobil.<\/p>\n<p>Sladk\u00e9, p\u0159eslazen\u00e9 fotky p\u00e1r\u016f u\u017e online nerozechv\u011bj\u00ed srdce, ale vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed nevolnost. Tato sentiment\u00e1ln\u00ed zdr\u017eenlivost je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 symptomatick\u00e1. Jako by p\u0159\u00edtel byl (ne tak moc) roztomil\u00fd h\u0159\u00edch. Samotn\u00fd p\u00e1r je zabij\u00e1kem v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Zm\u011bna statusu vztahu na Facebooku z \u201esvobodn\u00fd\u201c na \u201eve vztahu\u201c b\u00fdvala t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 znakem \u00fasp\u011bchu, dokonce i zp\u016fsobem, jak...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":433961,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-433958","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Etre-en-couple-has-been-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Etre-en-couple-has-been-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Etre-en-couple-has-been.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433958","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8340"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=433958"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433958\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":434380,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/433958\/revisions\/434380"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/433961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=433958"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=433958"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=433958"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}