{"id":435618,"date":"2026-02-27T09:34:45","date_gmt":"2026-02-27T08:34:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=435618"},"modified":"2026-02-27T09:34:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-27T08:34:45","slug":"chine-nouvelle-tendance-amoureuse-transforme-ex-en-references","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/novy-cinsky-trend-lasky-promenuje-byvale-partnery-v-reference-435618","title":{"rendered":"V \u010c\u00edn\u011b nov\u00fd trend rand\u011bn\u00ed m\u011bn\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00e9 partnery na \u201ereferen\u010dn\u00ed partnery\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Co kdyby se v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner stal va\u0161\u00edm nejlep\u0161\u00edm doporu\u010den\u00edm? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scmp.com\/news\/people-culture\/trending-china\/article\/3342232\/new-china-dating-trend-emerges-where-people-refer-exes-new-prospects-akin-job-referrals\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">V \u010c\u00edn\u011b p\u0159ekvapiv\u00fd trend<\/a> m\u011bn\u00ed pravidla rand\u011bn\u00ed: nezadan\u00ed doporu\u010duj\u00ed sv\u00e9 b\u00fdval\u00e9 partnery, jako by to byl talent, kter\u00fd je t\u0159eba naverbovat. Nekonven\u010dn\u00ed n\u00e1pad, ale odhaluje nov\u00fd pohled na l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n<h2> B\u00fdval\u00ed man\u017eel\u00e9 prezentovan\u00ed jako kandid\u00e1ti\u2026 na \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Na \u010d\u00ednsk\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed mlad\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00ed s v\u00fdrazn\u011b kreativn\u00edm n\u00e1dechem znovu pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed rozchody. Po p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e9m rozchodu zve\u0159ejn\u00ed \u201eprofil\u201c sv\u00e9ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera, aby jim pomohl znovu naj\u00edt l\u00e1sku. V\u011bk, v\u00fd\u0161ka, povol\u00e1n\u00ed, v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b, osobnostn\u00ed rysy, roztomil\u00e9 vlastnosti i okouzluj\u00edc\u00ed mal\u00e9 \u201enedostatky\u201c: to v\u0161e je zahrnuto. D\u016fvody rozchodu jsou tak\u00e9 podrobn\u011b pops\u00e1ny, \u010dasto s up\u0159\u00edmnost\u00ed a laskavost\u00ed. Vztah na d\u00e1lku, odli\u0161n\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed pl\u00e1ny, nedokonal\u00e9 na\u010dasov\u00e1n\u00ed\u2026 nic dramatick\u00e9ho, prost\u011b nekompatibilita.<\/p>\n<p>Iniciativa \u00fadajn\u011b nabrala na obr\u00e1tk\u00e1ch pot\u00e9, co jeden u\u017eivatel internetu v \u017eertu po\u017e\u00e1dal o \u201eintern\u00ed doporu\u010den\u00ed\u201c k nalezen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtele, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e pou\u017eil profesion\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eargon. Velmi rychle se k n\u00ed p\u0159idali dal\u0161\u00ed u\u017eivatel\u00e9. V\u00fdsledkem bylo, \u017ee b\u00fdval\u00ed man\u017eel\u00e9 se prezentovali jako v\u00e1\u017en\u00ed kandid\u00e1ti t\u00f3nem, kter\u00fd se pohyboval mezi sebepodce\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm a up\u0159\u00edmnou touhou pomoci.<\/p>\n<h2> Sentiment\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eivotopis v \u010d\u00ednsk\u00e9m stylu<\/h2>\n<p> N\u011bkter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvky p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00e9 milostn\u00e9 \u017eivotopisy. Strukturovan\u00e9 sekce, m\u00edsto bydli\u0161t\u011b, rok narozen\u00ed, povol\u00e1n\u00ed, osobnost, z\u00e1jmy\u2026 to v\u0161e pe\u010dliv\u011b napsan\u00e9. Je\u0161t\u011b origin\u00e1ln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed: \u201ezpr\u00e1vy o zku\u0161enostech\u201c zalo\u017een\u00e9 na n\u011bkolika letech vztahu. Nen\u00e1padn\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak \u0159\u00edct: <em>\u201eZn\u00e1m ho\/ji dob\u0159e, mohu ru\u010dit za jeho\/jej\u00ed spolehlivost.\u201c<\/em> B\u00fdval\u00fd partner se tak st\u00e1v\u00e1 jak\u00fdmsi mor\u00e1ln\u00edm garantem, schopn\u00fdm dosv\u011bd\u010dit laskavost, loajalitu nebo stabilitu toho druh\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n<p>Ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kde jsou obrazy \u010dasto filtrov\u00e1ny, p\u0159ikr\u00e1\u0161lov\u00e1v\u00e1ny a inscenov\u00e1ny, je tato transparentnost p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e1. U\u017e ne\u010del\u00edte jednoduch\u00e9mu lichotiv\u00e9mu popisu, ale vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmu, nuancovan\u00e9mu a lidsk\u00e9mu pohledu.<\/p>\n<h2> Reakce na \u00fanavu ze seznamovac\u00edch aplikac\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Za hravou fas\u00e1dou se skr\u00fdv\u00e1 hlub\u0161\u00ed realita: ur\u010dit\u00e1 \u00fanava ze seznamovac\u00edch aplikac\u00ed. Mnoho nezadan\u00fdch vyjad\u0159uje ned\u016fv\u011bru k \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dokonal\u00fdm\u201c profil\u016fm, p\u0159ikr\u00e1\u0161len\u00fdm informac\u00edm nebo zklam\u00e1n\u00edm ze zku\u0161enost\u00ed. V t\u00e9to souvislosti se b\u00fdval\u00fd partner st\u00e1v\u00e1 zdrojem informac\u00ed vn\u00edman\u00fdch jako autenti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Koneckonc\u016f, kdo l\u00e9pe ne\u017e n\u011bkdo, kdo s n\u011bk\u00fdm sd\u00edlel \u017eivot, m\u016f\u017ee mluvit o jeho schopnostech naslouchat, schopnosti \u0159e\u0161it konflikty nebo schopnosti z\u00e1vazku?<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 zpr\u00e1vy dokonce nazna\u010duj\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edky t\u011bmto doporu\u010den\u00edm vztahy rozkvetly. U\u017eivatel\u00e9 internetu uv\u00e1d\u011bj\u00ed, \u017ee kontaktovali b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera, kter\u00e9ho si \u201eov\u011b\u0159ili\u201c online, a objevili skute\u010dnou kompatibilitu. D\u016fkaz, \u017ee l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bkdy za\u010d\u00edt i pouh\u00fdm \u00fastn\u00edm pod\u00e1n\u00edm... verze 2.0.<\/p>\n<h2> Mezi humorem, sebepodce\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm a benevolentn\u00edm pohledem<\/h2>\n<p> Tento fenom\u00e9n je p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fd i sv\u00fdm t\u00f3nem. Mnoz\u00ed popisuj\u00ed sv\u00e9 b\u00fdval\u00e9 s humorem, n\u011bkdy jako \u201ez druh\u00e9 ruky\u201c, s nar\u00e1\u017ekou na m\u00edrn\u00e9 \u201eemo\u010dn\u00ed opot\u0159eben\u00ed\u201c a s v\u011bdouc\u00edm mrknut\u00edm oka. Krom\u011b vtip\u016f se objevuje i poselstv\u00ed pozitivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed na t\u011blo: ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk je prezentov\u00e1n ve sv\u00e9 jedine\u010dnosti, se sv\u00fdmi siln\u00fdmi a slab\u00fdmi str\u00e1nkami. Laskavost, citlivost, vytrvalost a \u0161t\u011bdrost jsou cen\u011bny. Nedostatky nejsou d\u00e9monizov\u00e1ny; st\u00e1vaj\u00ed se lidsk\u00fdmi vlastnostmi, kontextov\u00fdmi, n\u011bkdy prost\u011b neslu\u010diteln\u00fdmi s konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm vztahem.<\/p>\n<p>Tento p\u0159\u00edstup n\u00e1m p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1, \u017ee konec vztahu neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bkdo \u201enestoj\u00ed za nic\u201c. Naopak: m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt skv\u011bl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk a v ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku se pro n\u011bkoho nehodit. To nijak nesni\u017euje va\u0161i hodnotu.<\/p>\n<h2> Nov\u00fd pohled na rozchod<\/h2>\n<p> Aby bylo mo\u017en\u00e9 doporu\u010dit b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera\/partnerku, je nezbytn\u00fd pokojn\u00fd rozchod. Tento trend zd\u016fraz\u0148uje zaj\u00edmav\u00fd posun: rozchody ji\u017e nejsou nutn\u011b vn\u00edm\u00e1ny jako dramatick\u00e9 selh\u00e1n\u00ed, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e jako uzn\u00e1n\u00ed nekompatibility. Je mo\u017en\u00e9 si n\u011bkoho hluboce v\u00e1\u017eit, rozpoznat jeho kvality a akceptovat, \u017ee se cesty rozch\u00e1zej\u00ed. Tato zralej\u0161\u00ed a m\u00e9n\u011b viny vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed perspektiva otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e k jin\u00e9 interpretaci milostn\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f: u\u010d\u00edte se, vyv\u00edj\u00edte se, rostete.<\/p>\n<p>Zda se tato praxe stane trval\u00fdm fenom\u00e9nem, nebo z\u016fstane vir\u00e1ln\u00edm trendem, se teprve uvid\u00ed. Jedna v\u011bc je jist\u00e1: prom\u011bnou b\u00fdval\u00fdch partner\u016f v \u201evzory\u201c tito mlad\u00ed \u010c\u00ed\u0148an\u00e9 nov\u011b definuj\u00ed pravidla seznamovac\u00ed hry. Mezi pragmatismem a ironi\u00ed nastoluj\u00ed z\u00e1sadn\u00ed ot\u00e1zku: ve sv\u011bt\u011b nasycen\u00e9m idealizovan\u00fdmi obrazy, nen\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bra nov\u00fdm luxusem v z\u00e1le\u017eitostech srdce?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Co kdyby se v\u00e1\u0161 b\u00fdval\u00fd partner stal va\u0161\u00edm nejlep\u0161\u00edm doporu\u010den\u00edm? V \u010c\u00edn\u011b p\u0159ekvapiv\u00fd trend m\u011bn\u00ed pravidla rand\u011bn\u00ed: nezadan\u00ed...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":435658,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97333,97372],"class_list":["post-435618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-couple","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/chine-tendance-amoureuse-transforme-ex-en-references-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/chine-tendance-amoureuse-transforme-ex-en-references-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/chine-tendance-amoureuse-transforme-ex-en-references.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/435618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8375"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=435618"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/435618\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":435659,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/435618\/revisions\/435659"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/435658"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=435618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=435618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=435618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}