{"id":437820,"date":"2026-04-01T06:36:21","date_gmt":"2026-04-01T04:36:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=437820"},"modified":"2026-04-01T06:36:28","modified_gmt":"2026-04-01T04:36:28","slug":"rencontrer-amour-boite-de-nuit-mythe-romantique-vraie-possibilite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/setkani-s-laskou-v-nocnim-klubu-romanticky-mytus-skutecna-moznost-437820","title":{"rendered":"Nalezen\u00ed l\u00e1sky v no\u010dn\u00edm klubu: romantick\u00fd m\u00fdtus, nebo skute\u010dn\u00e1 mo\u017enost?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Zat\u00edmco n\u011bkter\u00e9 p\u00e1ry se setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed nad b\u00edl\u00fdm ubrusem nebo za m\u011bkk\u00e9ho sv\u011btla sv\u00ed\u010dek, jen m\u00e1lo z nich se zrod\u00ed na tane\u010dn\u00edm parketu, mezi barevn\u00fdmi drinky a frenetick\u00fdmi remixy. No\u010dn\u00ed kluby, m\u00edsta t\u011bsn\u00e9ho kontaktu, kde mus\u00edte k\u0159i\u010det, abyste byli sly\u0161et, a prod\u00edrat se davem lokty, jsou t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 protikladem romantiky. Kluby v\u0161ak mohou b\u00fdt tak\u00e9 m\u00edstem pro kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 setk\u00e1n\u00ed a zpe\u010det\u011bn\u00ed svazk\u016f.<\/p>\n<h2> Jsou no\u010dn\u00ed kluby zabij\u00e1kem v\u00e1\u0161n\u011b?<\/h2>\n<p> Setkat se se sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bnou du\u0161\u00ed v tlumen\u011b osv\u011btlen\u00fdch davech no\u010dn\u00edch klub\u016f se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 trivi\u00e1ln\u00ed. Je to trochu jako naj\u00edt jehlu v kupce sena nebo Walda v hust\u00fdch str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch komiks\u016f: prakticky nemo\u017en\u00e9. Disneyho poh\u00e1dky a romantick\u00e9 komedie, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za to, n\u00e1s zvykly na n\u011bco v\u00edc ne\u017e na zpocen\u00e1 objet\u00ed a opileck\u00e9 pokecy t\u00eate-\u00e0-t\u00eate.<\/p>\n<p>V p\u0159epln\u011bn\u00fdch klubech n\u00e1m na tane\u010dn\u00edm parketu p\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9m kroku u\u0161lap\u00e1vaj\u00ed nohy a p\u0159i sebemen\u0161\u00edm pohybu m\u00e1lem rozlijeme drinky. Mus\u00edme se br\u00e1nit <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/avenir-rencontres-ce-plus-vous-qui-draguez-mais-ia-424410\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">front\u00e1m<\/a> opil\u00fdch mu\u017e\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b skon\u010d\u00ed ve\u010der v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed toalety. A pokud se jednomu z nich poda\u0159\u00ed z\u00edskat na\u0161e srdce, druh\u00fd den se probud\u00edme jen s mlhavou vzpom\u00ednkou na jeho existenci. V \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed gramofon\u016f si dop\u0159ejeme p\u00e1r pomal\u00fdch tanc\u016f s twistem, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e drinky n\u011bkdy p\u016fsob\u00ed jako lektvar l\u00e1sky. Obvykle je to v\u0161ak jen kr\u00e1tk\u00e1 mezihra, ne za\u010d\u00e1tek kapitoly kon\u010d\u00edc\u00ed slovy <em>\u201e\u017eili \u0161\u0165astn\u011b a\u017e do smrti\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>No\u010dn\u00ed kluby, pr\u00e9miov\u00e1 verze ve\u010d\u00edrk\u016f z minulosti, jsou eldor\u00e1dy no\u010dn\u00edch sov, m\u00edsty, kde se m\u016f\u017eete uvolnit. Nejsou to prvn\u00ed m\u00edsta, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1s napadne, kdy\u017e hled\u00e1me budouc\u00edho otce na\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed nebo man\u017eela, kter\u00fd s n\u00e1mi bude ve st\u00e1\u0159\u00ed chodit s chod\u00edtkem. P\u0159esto podle <a href=\"https:\/\/www.clubcrawlers.com\/toronto\/event\/can-you-find-your-soul-mate-at-a-club\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studie<\/a> 550 lid\u00ed ve v\u011bku 18 a\u017e 64 let se 10 % respondent\u016f poda\u0159ilo zpe\u010detiti dohodu v parn\u00e9 atmosf\u00e9\u0159e no\u010dn\u00edch klub\u016f nebo tane\u010dn\u00edch bar\u016f.<\/p>\n<h2> Slavnostn\u00ed m\u00edsta, kde se ned\u00e1 podv\u00e1d\u011bt<\/h2>\n<p> V dob\u011b t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 symptomatick\u00e9 \u201e\u00fanavy z rand\u011bn\u00ed\u201c se st\u00e1le v\u00edce nezadan\u00fdch odpojuje od seznamovac\u00edch aplikac\u00ed, aby se znovu spojili s realitou. Unaveni pe\u010dliv\u011b vytvo\u0159en\u00fdmi profily a povrchn\u00edmi v\u00fdm\u011bnami <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/que-vaut-chatgpt-draguer-internet-374376\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">poh\u00e1n\u011bn\u00fdmi chatem GPT<\/a> tou\u017e\u00ed po v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed autenticit\u011b a men\u0161\u00ed p\u0159etv\u00e1\u0159ce. V no\u010dn\u00edch klubech, uprost\u0159ed t\u0159pytiv\u00fdch \u0161at\u016f a paprsk\u016f disko koul\u00ed, lid\u00e9 odhaluj\u00ed sv\u00e9 prav\u00e9 j\u00e1 a sn\u00e1ze bo\u0159\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pourquoi-relations-longues-distances-plus-solides-quon-ne-le-pense-408667\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bari\u00e9ry<\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>Kradm\u00fd pohled, nap\u016fl skryt\u00fd \u00fasm\u011bv, kokt\u00e1n\u00ed komplimentu n\u011bkde mezi \u201eShakira\u201c a \u201eBeyonc\u00e9\u201c, drink nab\u00edzen\u00fd v p\u0159epln\u011bn\u00e9m baru\u2026 v\u0161echny tyto p\u0159\u00edstupy, ty sam\u00e9, kter\u00e9 by n\u00e1s norm\u00e1ln\u011b dojaly, se st\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u201esnesiteln\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi\u201c. No\u010dn\u00ed kluby, potomci starom\u00f3dn\u00edch tanc\u016f, ale m\u00e9n\u011b sofistikovan\u00ed, uvol\u0148uj\u00ed z\u00e1brany a podporuj\u00ed ur\u010ditou spont\u00e1nnost. Mu\u017e, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m vylil sangrii na halenku a proti kter\u00e9mu jsme se st\u011b\u017eovali, se pak m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t stejn\u00fdm mu\u017eem, kter\u00fd v beletrii nar\u00e1\u017e\u00ed hromadu knih do hromady sv\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edtele. K\u00fd\u010dovit\u00e1 p\u00edsni\u010dka, jej\u00ed\u017e text nikdo nezn\u00e1, se m\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1hle st\u00e1t spojen\u00edm. Nic nen\u00ed p\u0159edem dan\u00e9 a pr\u00e1v\u011b tuto hru osudu nezadan\u00ed hledaj\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e1rov\u00e1 terapeutka Michelle Herzogov\u00e1 v\u0161ak dod\u00e1v\u00e1 z\u00e1sadn\u00ed podm\u00ednku, aby se z t\u00e9to energick\u00e9 tane\u010dn\u00ed noci nestalo posedl\u00e9 hled\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e1sky. Podle n\u00ed mus\u00edte nechat n\u00e1hodu plynout a nenutit ji. <em>\u201ePokud vyraz\u00edte ven s jedin\u00fdm c\u00edlem naj\u00edt n\u011bkoho, budete vyza\u0159ovat zoufalou energii a p\u0159iprav\u00edte se na zklam\u00e1n\u00ed,\u201c<\/em> varuje v rozhovoru pro <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/relationships\/a69001938\/sit-at-the-bar-alone-dating-tips\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cosmopolitan<\/a> .<\/p>\n<h2> Ale tak\u00e9 m\u00edsta, kter\u00e1 se stala nep\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00fdmi v\u016f\u010di \u017een\u00e1m<\/h2>\n<p> V 80. letech byly no\u010dn\u00ed kluby bezpe\u010dn\u00fdmi \u00fato\u010di\u0161ti, kde jste si mohli nechat drink bez dozoru a tan\u010dit v d\u017e\u00edn\u00e1ch s n\u00edzk\u00fdm pasem, ani\u017e byste se c\u00edtili jako figur\u00edna ve v\u00fdloze obchodu. \u010casy se ale zm\u011bnily. Dnes se \u017eeny klub\u016fm vyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed a ze z\u0159ejm\u00fdch bezpe\u010dnostn\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f rad\u011bji pa\u0159\u00ed doma. Je t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee no\u010dn\u00ed kluby se staly pastmi v \u017eivotn\u00ed velikosti, vysoce rizikov\u00fdmi z\u00f3nami. \u017deny si zdaleka neu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd okam\u017eik, ale jsou nuceny nosit drinky p\u0159ehozen\u00e9 p\u0159es ramena a odrazovat se od bloud\u00edc\u00edch rukou, kter\u00e9 se odv\u00e1\u017e\u00ed p\u0159ekro\u010dit hranice jejich osobn\u00edho prostoru.<\/p>\n<p>Divok\u00e9 u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed drog, GHB vklouz\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed do drink\u016f, opakovan\u00e9 beztrestn\u00e9 t\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed\u2026 no\u010dn\u00ed kluby u\u017e nejsou ar\u00e9nami grooveu, kde je p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 se uvolnit. A \u010d\u00edsla jsou nepopirateln\u00e1. Podle rozs\u00e1hl\u00e9 studie je \u017eena v klubech dot\u00fdk\u00e1na pr\u016fm\u011brn\u011b 40kr\u00e1t za hodinu bez jej\u00edho souhlasu.<\/p>\n<p>Mezi lety 2015 a 2020 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.em-consulte.com\/article\/1561175\/soumission-chimique-en-milieu-festif-decryptage-du\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studie<\/a> zaznamenala 2 770 hl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed pova\u017eovan\u00fdch za podez\u0159el\u00e9 ohledn\u011b l\u00e1tek podan\u00fdch bez v\u011bdom\u00ed ob\u011bt\u00ed, z nich\u017e 39 % se odehr\u00e1lo ve sv\u00e1te\u010dn\u00edm kontextu. Z t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f bylo 261 po anal\u00fdze pova\u017eov\u00e1no za v\u011brohodn\u00e9, v\u010detn\u011b 77 spojen\u00fdch se sv\u00e1te\u010dn\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00edm, zejm\u00e9na 23 v no\u010dn\u00edch klubech a 18 v barech. V kolektivn\u00ed p\u0159edstavivosti jsou proto no\u010dn\u00ed kluby \u010dast\u011bji vn\u00edm\u00e1ny jako doup\u011bte ne\u0159esti ne\u017e jako r\u00e1je romantiky.<\/p>\n<p>Mainstreamov\u00e9 no\u010dn\u00ed kluby je\u0161t\u011b nejsou p\u0159ipraveny konkurovat renesan\u010dn\u00edm ples\u016fm a jejich povinn\u00e9 galantnosti. Pokud ale l\u00e1sku sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota nenajdete na tane\u010dn\u00edm parketu, m\u016f\u017eete si v\u017edycky zaflirtovat mezi playbackov\u00fdmi vystoupen\u00edmi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Zat\u00edmco n\u011bkter\u00e9 p\u00e1ry se setk\u00e1vaj\u00ed nad b\u00edl\u00fdm ubrusem nebo za m\u011bkk\u00e9ho sv\u011btla sv\u00ed\u010dek, jen m\u00e1lo z nich se...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":437822,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97372],"class_list":["post-437820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Rencontrer-amour-boite-de-nuit-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Rencontrer-amour-boite-de-nuit-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Rencontrer-amour-boite-de-nuit.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8340"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=437820"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437820\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":437974,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437820\/revisions\/437974"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/437822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=437820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=437820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=437820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}