{"id":437959,"date":"2026-04-04T12:21:54","date_gmt":"2026-04-04T10:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=437959"},"modified":"2026-04-04T12:21:16","modified_gmt":"2026-04-04T10:21:16","slug":"people-pleaser-difficulte-dire-non-trait-personnalite-frequent-femmes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/snaha-zalibit-se-lidem-potize-s-rikanim-ne-osobnostni-rys-casto-vyskytujici-se-u-zen-437959","title":{"rendered":"\u201eL\u00e1ska k lidem\u201c: Souvis\u00ed obt\u00ed\u017enost \u0159\u00edkat ne s osobnostn\u00ed vlastnost\u00ed, kter\u00e1 je u \u017een b\u011b\u017en\u00e1?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0158\u00edkat ano, kdy\u017e mysl\u00edte ne, vyh\u00fdbat se nap\u011bt\u00ed, cht\u00edt, aby byli v\u0161ichni \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed\u2026 Pokud v\u00e1m to zn\u00ed pov\u011bdom\u011b, nejste sami. Toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed, \u010dasto naz\u00fdvan\u00e9 \u201eud\u011blat lidem radost\u201c, fascinuje psychology a vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 ot\u00e1zku: odkud pramen\u00ed tato obt\u00ed\u017enost s nastaven\u00edm hranic?<\/p>\n<h2> Co p\u0159esn\u011b znamen\u00e1 \u201epot\u011b\u0161it lidi\u201c?<\/h2>\n<p> \u201eSnaha pot\u011b\u0161it lidi\u201c nen\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 diagn\u00f3za, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e zp\u016fsob, jak popsat tendenci up\u0159ednost\u0148ovat pot\u0159eby druh\u00fdch p\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi vlastn\u00edmi. To se m\u016f\u017ee projevovat jako snaha o uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, strach ze zklam\u00e1n\u00ed ostatn\u00edch nebo reflex vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se konfliktu.<\/p>\n<p>V psychologii je toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkdy spojov\u00e1no s mechanismy zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se \u010dasem vyvinuly. Jin\u00fdmi slovy, mo\u017en\u00e1 jste se v\u011bdom\u011b \u010di nev\u011bdom\u011b nau\u010dili, \u017ee kdy\u017e se druh\u00fdm budete l\u00edbit, pom\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m to b\u00fdt p\u0159ijati, ocen\u011bni nebo si kolem sebe udr\u017eet klid.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u00fdzkumy tak\u00e9 spojuj\u00ed tento sklon s osobnostn\u00ed vlastnost\u00ed zvanou \u201ep\u0159\u00edjemnost\u201c, odvozenou z modelu \u201eVelk\u00e9 p\u011btky\u201c. Ta se t\u00fdk\u00e1 ochoty spolupracovat, projevovat empatii a up\u0159ednost\u0148ovat harmonick\u00e9 vztahy. To jsou cenn\u00e9 vlastnosti, ale n\u011bkdy v\u00e1s mohou v\u00e9st k zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama.<\/p>\n<h2> Pro\u010d je tato vlastnost \u010dasto spojov\u00e1na se \u017eenami?<\/h2>\n<p> N\u011bkolik studi\u00ed v oblasti spole\u010densk\u00fdch v\u011bd nazna\u010duje, \u017ee toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ovlivn\u011bno t\u00edm, jak jsme socializov\u00e1ni. Od mlad\u00e9ho v\u011bku mohou b\u00fdt n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 \u2013 a zejm\u00e9na \u017eeny \u2013 povzbuzov\u00e1ni k ohleduplnosti, sm\u00ed\u0159livosti, nekonfliktnosti a empatii. Tato o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed nejsou univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed, ale p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00ed v mnoha kulturn\u00edch kontextech.<\/p>\n<p>V d\u016fsledku toho m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt odm\u00edtnut\u00ed n\u011bkdy vn\u00edm\u00e1no jako \u201ehrub\u00e9\u201c, \u201esobeck\u00e9\u201c nebo \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 p\u0159\u00edmo\u010dar\u00e9\u201c, co\u017e m\u016f\u017ee zt\u00ed\u017eit prosazov\u00e1n\u00ed se. Postupem \u010dasu se tyto normy mohou zako\u0159enit a ovlivnit to, jak vyjad\u0159ujete sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee v\u0161echny \u017eeny jsou \u201el\u00e1ka\u010dky lid\u00ed\u201c, ani \u017ee se toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00fdk\u00e1 v\u00fdhradn\u011b jich. Soci\u00e1ln\u00ed tlak v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017ee hr\u00e1t v jeho rozvoji v\u00fdznamnou roli.<\/p>\n<h2> Kdy\u017e se touha pot\u011b\u0161it stane vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> B\u00fdt pe\u010dliv\u00fd, pozorn\u00fd a empatick\u00fd jsou skute\u010dn\u00e9 siln\u00e9 str\u00e1nky. Pokud se to v\u0161ak neust\u00e1le d\u011bje na \u00fakor vlastn\u00edch pot\u0159eb, rovnov\u00e1ha se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t k\u0159ehkou. <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/10.1111\/jopy.12521\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Odborn\u00edci na du\u0161evn\u00ed zdrav\u00ed zd\u016fraz\u0148uj\u00ed<\/a> , \u017ee obt\u00ed\u017ee s \u0159\u00edk\u00e1n\u00edm ne mohou v\u00e9st k emocion\u00e1ln\u00edmu vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed, stresu nebo pocit\u016fm frustrace. Neust\u00e1lou snahou splnit o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch m\u016f\u017eete ztratit ze z\u0159etele to, co je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Tato dynamika m\u016f\u017ee tak\u00e9 v\u00e9st k nevyv\u00e1\u017een\u00fdm vztah\u016fm, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b pokud va\u0161e hranice nejsou jasn\u011b definovan\u00e9. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee se mus\u00edte st\u00e1t lhostejn\u00fdmi k ostatn\u00edm. \u00dakolem je sp\u00ed\u0161e naj\u00edt rovnov\u00e1hu mezi \u0161t\u011bdrost\u00ed a sebe\u00factou.<\/p>\n<h2> Nau\u010dit se \u0159\u00edkat ne (bez pocitu viny)<\/h2>\n<p> Dobr\u00e1 zpr\u00e1va: stanovov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic je dovednost, kterou se lze nau\u010dit. <a href=\"https:\/\/health.clevelandclinic.org\/how-to-set-boundaries\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto hovo\u0159\u00ed<\/a> o asertivnosti, co\u017e je schopnost jasn\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby a z\u00e1rove\u0148 respektovat pot\u0159eby druh\u00fdch. To m\u016f\u017ee za\u010d\u00edt jednoduch\u00fdmi v\u011bcmi: chvilka p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed p\u0159ed odpov\u011bd\u00ed, p\u0159eformulov\u00e1n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dosti nebo klidn\u00e9 vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed odm\u00edtnut\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/affirmation-de-soi-conseils-oser-dire-non-293658\">\u0158\u00edct ne<\/a> z v\u00e1s ned\u011bl\u00e1 \u0161patn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. Naopak v\u00e1m to umo\u017e\u0148uje zachovat si energii, rovnov\u00e1hu a autenti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vztahy. C\u00edlem nen\u00ed vzd\u00e1t se empatie \u2013 kter\u00e1 je skute\u010dn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00ednosem \u2013 ale zahrnout ji do p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu, kde i vy m\u00e1te v\u00fdznam.<\/p>\n<p>Koncept \u201ep\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed si lid\u00ed\u201c tak zd\u016fraz\u0148uje nuance reality: touha pot\u011b\u0161it ostatn\u00ed je lidsk\u00e1, ale nem\u011bla by b\u00fdt na \u00fakor vlastn\u00edho blaha. Neexistuje jedin\u00fd spr\u00e1vn\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak \u0159\u00edct ne nebo stanovit hranice. D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je vybudovat si zp\u016fsob vztahu, kter\u00fd respektuje jak va\u0161i \u0161t\u011bdrost, tak v\u00e1\u0161 osobn\u00ed prostor. Proto\u017ee p\u00e9\u010de o druh\u00e9 je je\u0161t\u011b udr\u017eiteln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e do toho zahrnete i sebe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u0158\u00edkat ano, kdy\u017e mysl\u00edte ne, vyh\u00fdbat se nap\u011bt\u00ed, cht\u00edt, aby byli v\u0161ichni \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed\u2026 Pokud v\u00e1m to zn\u00ed pov\u011bdom\u011b,...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":437960,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6138],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-437959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-psycho"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Polina-Tankilevitch-_-Pexels-3-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Polina-Tankilevitch-_-Pexels-3-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Polina-Tankilevitch-_-Pexels-3.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":6138,"name":"Psychologie","slug":"psycho","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":6310,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Psychologie v magaz\u00ednu <strong>The Body Optimist<\/strong> se zab\u00fdv\u00e1 vnit\u0159n\u00edm \u017eivotem: emocemi, sebe\u00factou, vztahem k t\u011blu, vztahy s druh\u00fdmi a rodi\u010dovstv\u00edm. Praktick\u00e9 rady, rozbory a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu otev\u00edraj\u00ed t\u00e9ma du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed bez odborn\u00e9ho \u017eargonu a bez pocitu viny, v duchu body positivity, kter\u00e1 odm\u00edt\u00e1 dikt\u00e1t v\u00e1hy a vzhledu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Psychologie<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/strong>: cvi\u010den\u00ed na pos\u00edlen\u00ed sebe\u00facty, jak vyzr\u00e1t na syndrom podvodn\u00edka a nau\u010dit se ozvat, to v\u0161e v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Body positivity<\/strong>: p\u0159ijet\u00ed v\u0161ech t\u011bl, od stri\u00ed po jizvy, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed normy kr\u00e1sy, v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">body positivity a p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/strong>: v\u00fdchova, \u0161kola, poporodn\u00ed obdob\u00ed matek i otc\u016f a rodiny v\u0161ech podob v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, \u00fazkost, ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e nebo my\u0161lenky, kter\u00e9 se to\u010d\u00ed v kruhu, a jak s nimi l\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vztahy<\/strong>: \u0159\u00edct ne bez v\u00fd\u010ditek, rozpoznat toxickou rodinnou dynamiku, pochopit chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mate v pr\u00e1ci i mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak poznat, \u017ee je \u010das zaj\u00edt za psychologem?<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva psychologa m\u00e1 smysl, jakmile psychick\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1, \u010dasto se vrac\u00ed nebo zasahuje do b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota: naru\u0161en\u00fd sp\u00e1nek, p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed \u00fanava, ztr\u00e1ta z\u00e1jmu o v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 t\u011b d\u0159\u00edv bavily, podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bnost, pot\u00ed\u017ee v pr\u00e1ci nebo ve vztahu. Nemus\u00ed\u0161 \u010dekat, a\u017e bude\u0161 \u201ena dn\u011b\u201c: k psychologovi se d\u00e1 j\u00edt i kv\u016fli rozchodu, ztr\u00e1t\u011b bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho, narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte nebo velk\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zm\u011bn\u011b. Poradit ti m\u016f\u017ee i praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 a v mnoha zem\u00edch existuj\u00ed programy, kter\u00e9 terapii \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b hrad\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky nab\u00edzej\u00ed obecn\u00e1 vod\u00edtka: nestanovuj\u00ed diagn\u00f3zu a nenahrazuj\u00ed odborn\u00edka. Pokud m\u00e1\u0161 my\u0161lenky na sebevra\u017edu, obra\u0165 se okam\u017eit\u011b na linku krizov\u00e9 pomoci nebo na t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak l\u00e9pe p\u0159ij\u00edmat sv\u00e9 emoce?<\/h2>\n<p>L\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt se sv\u00fdmi emocemi neznamen\u00e1 je uml\u010det, ale rozpoznat je d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e p\u0159ete\u010dou. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u00e1r jednoduch\u00fdch krok\u016f: p\u0159esn\u011b pojmenovat, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161 (vztek, smutek, stud, strach), v\u0161\u00edmat si situac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed reakce, dop\u0159\u00e1t si p\u00e1r n\u00e1dech\u016f, ne\u017e odpov\u00ed\u0161, a ve\u010der si zapsat, co se ti hon\u00ed hlavou. Roli hraje i t\u011blo: sp\u00e1nek, pohyb a chv\u00edle klidu t\u011b ud\u011blaj\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b reaktivn\u00ed. Pokud t\u011b brzd\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed kritik, na\u0161e rady, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd hl\u00e1sek v hlav\u011b<\/a>, ti pomohou j\u00edt d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na psychologii<\/h2>\n<p>Vych\u00e1z\u00edme z jednoduch\u00e9 my\u0161lenky: tvoje hodnota nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na v\u00e1ze, v\u011bku ani rodinn\u00e9 situaci. \u010cl\u00e1nky v t\u00e9to rubrice \u010dasto d\u00e1vaj\u00ed slovo psycholog\u016fm a terapeut\u016fm, op\u00edraj\u00ed se o studie i osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a sna\u017e\u00ed se vysv\u011btlovat srozumiteln\u011b, ale bez p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho zjednodu\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1me se p\u0159\u00edkazu b\u00fdt neust\u00e1le \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 i n\u00e1lepk\u00e1m rozd\u00e1van\u00fdm bez rozmyslu: povahov\u00fd rys nen\u00ed nemoc a ka\u017ed\u00fd jde vlastn\u00edm tempem.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/rikat-ano-abyste-potesili-ostatni-psycholog-vysvetluje-proc-si-nemuzete-stanovit-hranice-429884\">Pro\u010d si neum\u00ed\u0161 stanovit hranice<\/a>: psycholog vysv\u011btluje reflex \u0159\u00edkat ano, jen abys ostatn\u00edm vyhov\u011bla.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/fraze-toxickych-rodicu-zanechavaji-stopy-439835\">V\u011bty toxick\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f<\/a>: sedm fr\u00e1z\u00ed, kter\u00e9 zanech\u00e1vaj\u00ed stopy dlouho po d\u011btstv\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\/komplexy-prenasene-neviditelnym-retezcem-matka-dcera-431586\">Komplexy p\u0159ed\u00e1van\u00e9 z matky na dceru<\/a>: jak se nejistoty d\u011bd\u00ed mezi generacemi.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy pro v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed v\u00edru v sebe<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\/prohloubene-boky-zde-je-duvod-proc-jsou-prohnute-boky-vyhodou-ne-vadou-428176\">Prohlubn\u011b na boc\u00edch<\/a>: anatomick\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161tnost, ne vada, kterou je t\u0159eba opravovat.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Co je vysok\u00e1 citlivost?<\/h3>\n<p>Vysok\u00e1 citlivost (anglicky <em>highly sensitive person<\/em>) nen\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 diagn\u00f3za, ale povahov\u00fd rys: vysoce citliv\u00ed lid\u00e9 intenzivn\u011bji vn\u00edmaj\u00ed emoce, zvuky, atmosf\u00e9ru i kritiku. Nen\u00ed to slabost ani nemoc. Zn\u00e1t sv\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011b\u010de, chr\u00e1nit si \u010das na regeneraci a mluvit o tom s bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi pom\u00e1h\u00e1, aby se citlivost stala sp\u00ed\u0161 zdrojem s\u00edly ne\u017e vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi psychologem, psychiatrem a psychoterapeutem?<\/h3>\n<p>Psychiatr je l\u00e9ka\u0159: stanovuje diagn\u00f3zy a m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159edepisovat l\u00e9ky. Psycholog vystudoval psychologii; nab\u00edz\u00ed rozhovory, psychologick\u00e1 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed a \u010dasto i psychoterapii, l\u00e9ky ale nep\u0159edepisuje. Psychoterapeut m\u00e1 specializovan\u00fd v\u00fdcvik v psychoterapii a podm\u00ednky pro pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed tohoto ozna\u010den\u00ed se v jednotliv\u00fdch zem\u00edch li\u0161\u00ed. S v\u00fdb\u011brem ti m\u016f\u017ee pomoct praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct bl\u00edzk\u00e9mu, kter\u00e9mu nen\u00ed dob\u0159e?<\/h3>\n<p>Naslouchej bez souzen\u00ed a bez snahy hned v\u0161echno vy\u0159e\u0161it, zeptej se p\u0159\u00edmo, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed, a vynech rady typu \u201evzchop se\u201c. Nab\u00eddni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed pomoc: pravideln\u011b se oz\u00fdvej, doprovo\u010f ho k l\u00e9ka\u0159i. Pokud vn\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 riziko sebevra\u017edy, otev\u0159en\u011b se na to zeptej a kontaktuj krizovou linku, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b bezprost\u0159edn\u00edho ohro\u017een\u00ed t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? Intimit\u011b a partnersk\u00e9mu \u017eivotu se v\u011bnuje rubrika <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">Sex<\/a>, diskriminaci kv\u016fli v\u00e1ze rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\">rubrika Fatfobie<\/a> a t\u011blesnou str\u00e1nku pohody rozv\u00edj\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sante\/bien-etre\">rubrika Pohoda<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":92,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":6138,"category_count":92,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Psychologie v magaz\u00ednu <strong>The Body Optimist<\/strong> se zab\u00fdv\u00e1 vnit\u0159n\u00edm \u017eivotem: emocemi, sebe\u00factou, vztahem k t\u011blu, vztahy s druh\u00fdmi a rodi\u010dovstv\u00edm. Praktick\u00e9 rady, rozbory a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu otev\u00edraj\u00ed t\u00e9ma du\u0161evn\u00edho zdrav\u00ed bez odborn\u00e9ho \u017eargonu a bez pocitu viny, v duchu body positivity, kter\u00e1 odm\u00edt\u00e1 dikt\u00e1t v\u00e1hy a vzhledu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Psychologie<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/strong>: cvi\u010den\u00ed na pos\u00edlen\u00ed sebe\u00facty, jak vyzr\u00e1t na syndrom podvodn\u00edka a nau\u010dit se ozvat, to v\u0161e v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Body positivity<\/strong>: p\u0159ijet\u00ed v\u0161ech t\u011bl, od stri\u00ed po jizvy, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed normy kr\u00e1sy, v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">body positivity a p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/strong>: v\u00fdchova, \u0161kola, poporodn\u00ed obdob\u00ed matek i otc\u016f a rodiny v\u0161ech podob v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, \u00fazkost, ment\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1t\u011b\u017e nebo my\u0161lenky, kter\u00e9 se to\u010d\u00ed v kruhu, a jak s nimi l\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vztahy<\/strong>: \u0159\u00edct ne bez v\u00fd\u010ditek, rozpoznat toxickou rodinnou dynamiku, pochopit chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mate v pr\u00e1ci i mezi p\u0159\u00e1teli.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak poznat, \u017ee je \u010das zaj\u00edt za psychologem?<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva psychologa m\u00e1 smysl, jakmile psychick\u00e9 tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1, \u010dasto se vrac\u00ed nebo zasahuje do b\u011b\u017en\u00e9ho \u017eivota: naru\u0161en\u00fd sp\u00e1nek, p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed \u00fanava, ztr\u00e1ta z\u00e1jmu o v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 t\u011b d\u0159\u00edv bavily, podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bnost, pot\u00ed\u017ee v pr\u00e1ci nebo ve vztahu. Nemus\u00ed\u0161 \u010dekat, a\u017e bude\u0161 \u201ena dn\u011b\u201c: k psychologovi se d\u00e1 j\u00edt i kv\u016fli rozchodu, ztr\u00e1t\u011b bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho, narozen\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte nebo velk\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zm\u011bn\u011b. Poradit ti m\u016f\u017ee i praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159 a v mnoha zem\u00edch existuj\u00ed programy, kter\u00e9 terapii \u010d\u00e1ste\u010dn\u011b hrad\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky nab\u00edzej\u00ed obecn\u00e1 vod\u00edtka: nestanovuj\u00ed diagn\u00f3zu a nenahrazuj\u00ed odborn\u00edka. Pokud m\u00e1\u0161 my\u0161lenky na sebevra\u017edu, obra\u0165 se okam\u017eit\u011b na linku krizov\u00e9 pomoci nebo na t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak l\u00e9pe p\u0159ij\u00edmat sv\u00e9 emoce?<\/h2>\n<p>L\u00e9pe \u017e\u00edt se sv\u00fdmi emocemi neznamen\u00e1 je uml\u010det, ale rozpoznat je d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e p\u0159ete\u010dou. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u00e1r jednoduch\u00fdch krok\u016f: p\u0159esn\u011b pojmenovat, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161 (vztek, smutek, stud, strach), v\u0161\u00edmat si situac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed reakce, dop\u0159\u00e1t si p\u00e1r n\u00e1dech\u016f, ne\u017e odpov\u00ed\u0161, a ve\u010der si zapsat, co se ti hon\u00ed hlavou. Roli hraje i t\u011blo: sp\u00e1nek, pohyb a chv\u00edle klidu t\u011b ud\u011blaj\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b reaktivn\u00ed. Pokud t\u011b brzd\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed kritik, na\u0161e rady, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd hl\u00e1sek v hlav\u011b<\/a>, ti pomohou j\u00edt d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na psychologii<\/h2>\n<p>Vych\u00e1z\u00edme z jednoduch\u00e9 my\u0161lenky: tvoje hodnota nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na v\u00e1ze, v\u011bku ani rodinn\u00e9 situaci. \u010cl\u00e1nky v t\u00e9to rubrice \u010dasto d\u00e1vaj\u00ed slovo psycholog\u016fm a terapeut\u016fm, op\u00edraj\u00ed se o studie i osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a sna\u017e\u00ed se vysv\u011btlovat srozumiteln\u011b, ale bez p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho zjednodu\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Vyh\u00fdb\u00e1me se p\u0159\u00edkazu b\u00fdt neust\u00e1le \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 i n\u00e1lepk\u00e1m rozd\u00e1van\u00fdm bez rozmyslu: povahov\u00fd rys nen\u00ed nemoc a ka\u017ed\u00fd jde vlastn\u00edm tempem.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/rikat-ano-abyste-potesili-ostatni-psycholog-vysvetluje-proc-si-nemuzete-stanovit-hranice-429884\">Pro\u010d si neum\u00ed\u0161 stanovit hranice<\/a>: psycholog vysv\u011btluje reflex \u0159\u00edkat ano, jen abys ostatn\u00edm vyhov\u011bla.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/fraze-toxickych-rodicu-zanechavaji-stopy-439835\">V\u011bty toxick\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f<\/a>: sedm fr\u00e1z\u00ed, kter\u00e9 zanech\u00e1vaj\u00ed stopy dlouho po d\u011btstv\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\/komplexy-prenasene-neviditelnym-retezcem-matka-dcera-431586\">Komplexy p\u0159ed\u00e1van\u00e9 z matky na dceru<\/a>: jak se nejistoty d\u011bd\u00ed mezi generacemi.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy pro v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed v\u00edru v sebe<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\/prohloubene-boky-zde-je-duvod-proc-jsou-prohnute-boky-vyhodou-ne-vadou-428176\">Prohlubn\u011b na boc\u00edch<\/a>: anatomick\u00e1 zvl\u00e1\u0161tnost, ne vada, kterou je t\u0159eba opravovat.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Co je vysok\u00e1 citlivost?<\/h3>\n<p>Vysok\u00e1 citlivost (anglicky <em>highly sensitive person<\/em>) nen\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e1 diagn\u00f3za, ale povahov\u00fd rys: vysoce citliv\u00ed lid\u00e9 intenzivn\u011bji vn\u00edmaj\u00ed emoce, zvuky, atmosf\u00e9ru i kritiku. Nen\u00ed to slabost ani nemoc. Zn\u00e1t sv\u00e9 spou\u0161t\u011b\u010de, chr\u00e1nit si \u010das na regeneraci a mluvit o tom s bl\u00edzk\u00fdmi pom\u00e1h\u00e1, aby se citlivost stala sp\u00ed\u0161 zdrojem s\u00edly ne\u017e vy\u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi psychologem, psychiatrem a psychoterapeutem?<\/h3>\n<p>Psychiatr je l\u00e9ka\u0159: stanovuje diagn\u00f3zy a m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159edepisovat l\u00e9ky. Psycholog vystudoval psychologii; nab\u00edz\u00ed rozhovory, psychologick\u00e1 vy\u0161et\u0159en\u00ed a \u010dasto i psychoterapii, l\u00e9ky ale nep\u0159edepisuje. Psychoterapeut m\u00e1 specializovan\u00fd v\u00fdcvik v psychoterapii a podm\u00ednky pro pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed tohoto ozna\u010den\u00ed se v jednotliv\u00fdch zem\u00edch li\u0161\u00ed. S v\u00fdb\u011brem ti m\u016f\u017ee pomoct praktick\u00fd l\u00e9ka\u0159.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct bl\u00edzk\u00e9mu, kter\u00e9mu nen\u00ed dob\u0159e?<\/h3>\n<p>Naslouchej bez souzen\u00ed a bez snahy hned v\u0161echno vy\u0159e\u0161it, zeptej se p\u0159\u00edmo, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed, a vynech rady typu \u201evzchop se\u201c. Nab\u00eddni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed pomoc: pravideln\u011b se oz\u00fdvej, doprovo\u010f ho k l\u00e9ka\u0159i. Pokud vn\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 riziko sebevra\u017edy, otev\u0159en\u011b se na to zeptej a kontaktuj krizovou linku, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b bezprost\u0159edn\u00edho ohro\u017een\u00ed t\u00eds\u0148ovou linku ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? Intimit\u011b a partnersk\u00e9mu \u017eivotu se v\u011bnuje rubrika <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">Sex<\/a>, diskriminaci kv\u016fli v\u00e1ze rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\">rubrika Fatfobie<\/a> a t\u011blesnou str\u00e1nku pohody rozv\u00edj\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sante\/bien-etre\">rubrika Pohoda<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Psychologie","category_nicename":"psycho","category_parent":0}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8375"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=437959"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437959\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":438253,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437959\/revisions\/438253"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/437960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=437959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=437959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=437959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}