{"id":437979,"date":"2026-04-27T07:15:38","date_gmt":"2026-04-27T05:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=437979"},"modified":"2026-04-27T08:50:58","modified_gmt":"2026-04-27T06:50:58","slug":"pourquoi-certains-freres-cherchent-controler-vie-amoureuse-soeur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-bratri-snazi-ovladat-milostny-zivot-svych-sester-437979","title":{"rendered":"Pro\u010d se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed brat\u0159i sna\u017e\u00ed ovl\u00e1dat milostn\u00fd \u017eivot sv\u00fdch sester?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Star\u0161\u00ed brat\u0159i, kter\u00fdm rodi\u010de sv\u011b\u0159ili \u00fakol chr\u00e1nit sv\u00e9 sestry p\u0159ed \u00fajmou, n\u011bkdy berou svou roli osobn\u00edch str\u00e1\u017ec\u016f a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed z nich nezachr\u00e1n\u00ed svou mlad\u0161\u00ed sestru jen p\u0159ed o\u0161kliv\u00fdm p\u00e1dem nebo \u0161koln\u00ed \u0161ikanou. Vm\u011b\u0161uj\u00ed se do jej\u00edho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota, hraj\u00ed si na soudce v srdcov\u00fdch z\u00e1le\u017eitostech a za ka\u017ed\u00fdm potenci\u00e1ln\u00edm n\u00e1padn\u00edkem nach\u00e1zej\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 padouchy. Je to odraz pouh\u00e9 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed z\u00e1vislosti, nebo paternalistick\u00e9ho postoje?<\/p>\n

Nadm\u011brn\u00e1 ned\u016fv\u011bra k partner\u016fm<\/h2>\n

Od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku byli star\u0161\u00ed brat\u0159i zvykl\u00ed p\u0159eb\u00edrat po rodi\u010d\u00edch veden\u00ed a dohl\u00ed\u017eet na sv\u00e9 sestry, od h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b a\u017e po jejich \u201emimo\u0161koln\u00ed\u201c aktivity. Trochu jako tajn\u00ed \u0161pioni. Zpo\u010d\u00e1tku to pramenilo z dobr\u00fdch \u00famysl\u016f: ochr\u00e1nit svou sestru p\u0159ed \u00fajmou a zajistit j\u00ed \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed. Tito ostra\u017eit\u00ed brat\u0159i, vyvolen\u00ed jako ryt\u00ed\u0159i v leskl\u00e9 zbroji, se navzdory sob\u011b vrhali na m\u00edsto p\u0159i sebemen\u0161\u00edm zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00e9m hlase a vyhrnuli si ruk\u00e1vy, jakmile se nestydliv\u00fd spolu\u017e\u00e1k odv\u00e1\u017eil ukr\u00e1st jejich mal\u00e9 sv\u011b\u0159enkyni sva\u010dinu. Zahubili za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00edc\u00ed rom\u00e1nky v z\u00e1rodku, jako by pro jejich sestru \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd mu\u017e nebyl dost dobr\u00fd. Odstrkovali ka\u017ed\u00e9ho chlapce, kter\u00fd se odv\u00e1\u017eil naru\u0161it jej\u00ed osobn\u00ed prostor, odhodlan\u00ed udr\u017eet si sv\u00e9 prvn\u00ed m\u00edsto v jej\u00edm srdci.<\/p>\n

To, co rodi\u010de naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed aktem state\u010dnosti nebo oddanosti, se m\u016f\u017ee rychle st\u00e1t odrazuj\u00edc\u00edm, ni\u010d\u00edc\u00edm v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148, p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017ekou romantiky. Ka\u017ed\u00fd nov\u00fd partner se st\u00e1v\u00e1 podez\u0159el\u00fdm a ka\u017ed\u00e9 rande je zkoum\u00e1no, posuzov\u00e1no a odm\u00edt\u00e1no jako \u201e\u0161patn\u00fd n\u00e1pad\u201c. Star\u0161\u00ed brat\u0159i, zdaleka nez\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed pasivn\u00edmi pozorovateli tohoto flirtov\u00e1n\u00ed, sabotuj\u00ed tyto af\u00e9ry<\/a> je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159edt\u00edm, ne\u017e v\u016fbec za\u010dnou. Sestry se pak c\u00edt\u00ed jako Britney Spears b\u011bhem nejtemn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch dn\u016f sv\u00e9ho opatrovnictv\u00ed. Tato nadm\u011brn\u00e1 ned\u016fv\u011bra nepramen\u00ed v\u017edy z touhy ubl\u00ed\u017eit, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e z myln\u00e9ho ochrann\u00e9ho instinktu.<\/p>\n

V jejich mysl\u00edch jde o to, aby se vyhnuli zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, zran\u011bn\u00fdm cit\u016fm nebo \u0161patn\u00fdm setk\u00e1n\u00edm. Neust\u00e1l\u00fdm o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm toho nejhor\u0161\u00edho v\u0161ak nakonec prom\u00edtaj\u00ed sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed obavy do reality. V d\u016fsledku toho se sestra m\u016f\u017ee c\u00edtit infantiln\u011b, jako by nebyla schopna d\u011blat vlastn\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed. Toto t\u00e9ma proniklo i do popkultury a seri\u00e1l P\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 je toho dokonal\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem. Pamatujeme si Rossovu bou\u0159livou a impulzivn\u00ed reakci, kdy\u017e zjistil pom\u011br mezi svou sestrou Monikou a sv\u00fdm celo\u017eivotn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edtelem Chandlerem.<\/p>\n

Iracion\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159ipoutanost, kterou je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 odstranit<\/h2>\n

Za touto pot\u0159ebou kontroly se n\u011bkdy skr\u00fdv\u00e1 velmi siln\u00e1, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u00fdlu\u010dn\u00e1 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed vazba. Bratr m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt probl\u00e9m s akceptac\u00ed toho, \u017ee si jeho sestra buduje vztah, kter\u00fd ho nezahrnuje, nebo kter\u00fd nov\u011b definuje jeho m\u00edsto v jej\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b. To v\u016fbec nen\u00ed freudovsk\u00e9; je to sp\u00ed\u0161e zn\u00e1mka siln\u00e9 sourozeneck\u00e9 l\u00e1sky. Nen\u00ed to n\u011bjak\u00fd nezdrav\u00fd Oidip\u016fv komplex, ale jen pon\u011bkud neohraban\u00fd projev rodinn\u00fdch cit\u016f.<\/p>\n

Toto pouto, \u010dasto \u017eiven\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00edm a spole\u010dn\u00fdmi vzpom\u00ednkami, m\u016f\u017ee v dosp\u011blosti nabrat iracion\u00e1ln\u00ed sm\u011br. P\u0159edstava \u201esd\u00edlen\u00ed\u201c pozornosti nebo sledov\u00e1n\u00ed sestry, jak se citov\u011b vzdaluje, m\u016f\u017ee vytvo\u0159it formu nev\u011bdom\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1rlivosti. Nejde samoz\u0159ejm\u011b o romantickou \u017e\u00e1rlivost, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e o obt\u00ed\u017ee s p\u0159ijet\u00edm zm\u011bn a p\u0159irozen\u00e9ho v\u00fdvoje vztah\u016f.<\/p>\n

V\u00e1ha spole\u010densk\u00fdch a rodinn\u00fdch norem<\/h2>\n

V psychologii je bratr druhotnou citovou postavou, ale v kolektivn\u00ed p\u0159edstavivosti je to str\u00e1\u017ece, ochr\u00e1nce, dokonce i n\u00e1hradn\u00ed otec. Zat\u00edmco se od sester \u010dasto o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee budou pe\u010dovat o sv\u00e9 sourozence, spravovat dom\u00e1cnost a starat se o tuto \u017eivou partu, brat\u0159i jsou zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed za ochranu sv\u00e9 sestry. I to je zp\u016fsobeno m\u00fdtem o proz\u0159eteln\u00e9m mu\u017ei.<\/p>\n

N\u011bkdy si pletou vt\u00edravost s ochranou. Vm\u011b\u0161uj\u00ed se do v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se jich net\u00fdkaj\u00ed, a v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo soudit n\u00e1padn\u00edky sv\u00fdch sester. Cht\u011bj\u00ed jim u\u0161et\u0159it zlomen\u00e9 srdce, stejn\u011b jako je chr\u00e1nili p\u0159ed p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017ekami v d\u011btstv\u00ed. To je dal\u0161\u00ed \u0161kodliv\u00fd d\u016fsledek genderov\u00fdch norem, kter\u00e9 posuzuj\u00ed sestry jako zraniteln\u00e9 a bratry jako nad\u0159azen\u00e9. I bez v\u011bdom\u00e9ho \u00famyslu mohou tyto stereotypy ovliv\u0148ovat chov\u00e1n\u00ed a vytv\u00e1\u0159et nap\u011bt\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Zmatek mezi ochranou a kontrolou<\/h2>\n

Bratr m\u00edsto toho, aby sestru jen varoval a jemn\u011b j\u00ed radil ohledn\u011b usp\u011bchan\u00fdch rom\u00e1nk\u016f, online seznamek nebo jednor\u00e1zov\u00fdch vztah\u016f, \u0159\u00edd\u00ed cel\u00fd jej\u00ed milostn\u00fd \u017eivot. Je to dohazova\u010d z jednoho mu\u017ee. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 j\u00ed, s k\u00fdm m\u00e1 chodit, zakazuje j\u00ed v\u00eddat se s tou nechvaln\u011b zn\u00e1mou \u201ekamar\u00e1dkou ze st\u0159edn\u00ed, kter\u00e1 sp\u00ed s mnoha lidmi\u201c, a dokonce zav\u00e1d\u00ed z\u00e1kaz vych\u00e1zen\u00ed. K\u00e9\u017e by se mohl p\u0159ipojit k ve\u010de\u0159i p\u0159i sv\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1ch<\/a> a vyslechnout tu, kter\u00e1 se za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 st\u00e1vat v\u00edc ne\u017e jen milostn\u00fdm flirtem.<\/p>\n

A i zde je seri\u00e1l P\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 uk\u00e1zkov\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem. Ross zu\u0159\u00ed proti sv\u00e9 sest\u0159e, kter\u00e1 padla do n\u00e1ru\u010de jeho nejlep\u0161\u00edho p\u0159\u00edtele, zat\u00edmco on s\u00e1m toto \u201enev\u011bdom\u00e9 pravidlo\u201c bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho kruhu poru\u0161il t\u00edm, \u017ee spal s Rachel, Moni\u010dinou \u0161vagrovou. To ilustruje posun od zdrav\u00e9 empatie k emo\u010dn\u00ed tyranii.<\/p>\n

Sestra, kter\u00e1 se c\u00edt\u00ed zbavena sv\u00e9ho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota, se nakonec od sebe distancuje. K tomuto posunu \u010dasto doch\u00e1z\u00ed, ani\u017e by si ho pln\u011b uv\u011bdomovala. Z dlouhodob\u00e9ho hlediska to v\u0161ak m\u016f\u017ee oslabit sourozeneck\u00fd vztah. Proto\u017ee milovat n\u011bkoho znamen\u00e1 tak\u00e9 mu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat, p\u0159ij\u00edmat jeho volby a d\u00e1vat mu prostor, kter\u00fd pot\u0159ebuje k r\u016fstu.<\/p>\n

Milovat svou sestru neznamen\u00e1 sledovat ka\u017ed\u00fd jej\u00ed krok, ale b\u00fdt tu pro ni, kdy\u017e se dopust\u00ed chyby. A n\u011bkdy je nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm projevem ochrany prost\u011b j\u00ed d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat<\/a> .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Star\u0161\u00ed brat\u0159i, kter\u00fdm rodi\u010de sv\u011b\u0159ili \u00fakol chr\u00e1nit sv\u00e9 sestry p\u0159ed \u00fajmou, n\u011bkdy berou svou roli osobn\u00edch str\u00e1\u017ec\u016f a\u017e...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":437981,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97372],"class_list":["post-437979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/freres-controler-vie-amoureuse-soeur-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/freres-controler-vie-amoureuse-soeur-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/freres-controler-vie-amoureuse-soeur.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"Miluj \u017eivot","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"" Et toi alors, les amours ? Oh l\u00e0, c'est compliqu\u00e9...<\/em> ". Qui n'a jamais entretenu ce type de conversation avec un proche ? Oui, notre vie amoureuse peut vraiment \u00eatre compliqu\u00e9e ! Mais elle est aussi source de beaucoup de bonheur. Elle nous pousse \u00e0 nous remettre en question, \u00e0 faire les choses bien et \u00e0 tout donner pour rendre l'autre personne heureuse<\/strong> . Entre le boulot et les activit\u00e9s perso, avoir une vie amoureuse \u00e0 100 % \u00e9panouie n'est pas toujours simple ! Ici, on d\u00e9culpabilise les couples, on vous fait rire et surtout, on vous fait relativiser<\/strong> . Ce n'est pas facile pour personne, mais au final, tous ces petits tracas et ces grandes joies forment un ensemble magnifique. Pr\u00eates \u00e0 vous laisser tenter les filles ?

P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s rozesm\u011bj\u00ed a n\u011bkdy... rozpl\u00e1\u010dou<\/h2> Jak v\u00edte, v \u010dasopise The Body Optimist velmi \u010dasto d\u00e1v\u00e1me na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm hlas. Jste pro n\u00e1s ka\u017edodenn\u00edm zdrojem inspirace<\/strong> a je nezbytn\u00e9, abyste si na\u0161li \u010dasopis, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s v\u00edt\u00e1 a sd\u00edl\u00ed va\u0161e p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy.\n\nTak nap\u0159\u00edklad objevujeme Lysin portr\u00e9t skrze jej\u00ed v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f: \u201eJ\u00e1, Lysa, tlust\u00e1 a lesba. Dvojit\u00e1 rande?\u201c Nebo na\u0161i \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ku, kter\u00e1 skrze svou v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f vyl\u00ed\u010dila v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b komplikovan\u00e9 rande: \u201eTlust\u00e9 \u017eeny jsou jako pantofle, jsou pohodln\u00e9, ale ven se v nich nechod\u00ed.\u201c\n\nTak\u00e9 nev\u00e1h\u00e1me zve\u0159ej\u0148ovat v\u00fdzvy k pod\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bdectv\u00ed na na\u0161ich soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad jste se s n\u00e1mi pod\u011blili o nejhor\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 va\u0161i (b\u00fdval\u00ed) partne\u0159i \u0159ekli o va\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1ze, nebo o nejhor\u0161\u00ed hl\u00e1\u0161ky o rozchodu, jak\u00e9 jste kdy sly\u0161eli.\n\nTak\u00e9 se zab\u00fdv\u00e1me sexualitou a sv\u011bdectv\u00edm t\u00e9to \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky, kter\u00e1 vysv\u011btlila, jak moc se kv\u016fli sv\u00fdm k\u0159ivk\u00e1m b\u00e1la sv\u00e9ho prvn\u00edho sexu. Tak\u00e9 si v\u011bnujeme \u010das naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161im mu\u017esk\u00fdm \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, jako je tento mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se n\u00e1s zeptal, jak m\u00e1 \u0159\u00edct sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, \u017ee p\u0159ibrala a \u017ee si o ni d\u011bl\u00e1 starosti.\n\nV t\u00e9to sekci neexistuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 tabu; ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj hlas<\/strong> ! Ned\u00e1vno jsme odpov\u011bd\u011bli mlad\u00e9 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ce, kter\u00e1 se sv\u011b\u0159ila, \u017ee se zamilovala do ob\u00e9zn\u00edho chlapce, ale nedok\u00e1zala to p\u0159ijmout ze strachu z toho, co si pomysl\u00ed ostatn\u00ed. Naopak jsme dali slovo Fanny, kter\u00e1 vypr\u00e1v\u011bla o nep\u0159\u00edjemnostech, kter\u00e9 za\u017eila s mu\u017ei, kter\u00e9 potkala online.\n\nJak jste si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b v\u0161imli, nev\u00e1hejte n\u00e1m napsat soukromou zpr\u00e1vu nebo se zapojit do diskuse na na\u0161ich f\u00f3rech<\/strong> . M\u00e1me vyhrazenou sekci, kde m\u016f\u017eete diskutovat o jak\u00e9mkoli t\u00e9matu, kter\u00e9 je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ohledn\u011b va\u0161eho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Pod\u011blte se s n\u00e1mi o sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky!

Je kvalita milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota pro \u010dlov\u011bka prvo\u0159ad\u00e1?<\/h2> Pokud pravideln\u011b sledujete The Body Optimist, uvid\u00edte, \u017ee zde nen\u00ed nouze o novinky o p\u00e1rech a milostn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b! A\u0165 u\u017e jsou pozitivn\u00ed nebo negativn\u00ed, tyto zpr\u00e1vy byste nem\u011bli br\u00e1t p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b<\/strong> . C\u00edlem je u\u010dit se z\u00e1bavnou formou, ne srovn\u00e1vat sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed vztah. Vezm\u011bte si prost\u011b pozitivn\u00ed aspekty informac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 najdete!\n\nNap\u0159\u00edklad se zasm\u011bjte na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u011bj\u00ed o sv\u00fdch nejhor\u0161\u00edch sch\u016fzk\u00e1ch... tak hrozn\u00fdch, \u017ee to bylo vtipn\u00e9! Nav\u00edc te\u010f ofici\u00e1ln\u011b v\u00edme, \u017ee podle studie je l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed nev\u011bra pro 7 z 10 Francouzek !\n\nTak\u00e9 se bav\u00edme o probl\u00e9mech, kter\u00e9 mohou ovlivnit va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Jak uml\u010d\u00edte drby, kdy\u017e jste vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u00e1\u0161 partner? Nebo o sv\u00e9m soukrom\u00ed. V\u00edme nap\u0159\u00edklad, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina Francouz\u016f si p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed zakr\u00fdv\u00e1 ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti t\u011bla<\/strong> .\n\nTak\u00e9 se s v\u00e1mi nev\u00e1h\u00e1me pod\u011blit o v\u0161echny zpr\u00e1vy, kter\u00e9 pova\u017eujeme za opravdu vtipn\u00e9, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad o stolet\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m prozradila, \u017ee jej\u00edm tajemstv\u00edm dlouhov\u011bkosti je vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se mu\u017e\u016fm ! D\u00edky aktu\u00e1ln\u00edmu d\u011bn\u00ed tak\u00e9 v\u00edme, \u017ee zamilovan\u00e9 p\u00e1ry maj\u00ed tendenci z\u00e1rove\u0148 p\u0159ib\u00edrat na v\u00e1ze.\n\nV\u011bd\u011bli jste tak\u00e9, \u017ee p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 spolu nejsp\u00ed\u0161 vydr\u017e\u00ed, jsou ty, kter\u00e9 si vym\u011b\u0148uj\u00ed bezstarostn\u00e9 \u017eertov\u00e1n\u00ed a jemn\u00e9 \u0161k\u00e1dlen\u00ed<\/strong> ? Ano, skute\u010dn\u011b! A bu\u010fte opatrn\u00ed, pokud jste nev\u011brn\u00ed: m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt odhaleni u\u017e za 5 minut!

Tipy redak\u010dn\u00edho t\u00fdmu pro \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ve vztahu<\/h2> Stejn\u011b jako ve v\u0161ech situac\u00edch, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed, i my n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebujeme p\u00e1r tip\u016f a trik\u016f, abychom se na chv\u00edli zamysleli a zkusili situaci trochu analyzovat...\n\nZa\u010dneme z\u00e1klady t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1m d\u00e1me p\u00e1r n\u00e1pad\u016f na prvn\u00ed rande, kter\u00e9 se trochu li\u0161\u00ed od obvykl\u00e9 rutiny v kin\u011b\/restauraci. Tak\u00e9 v\u00e1s nev\u00e1h\u00e1me varovat<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad, dok\u00e1zali byste poznat, zda jste ve vztahu s narcistick\u00fdm n\u00e1siln\u00edkem ?\n\nStejn\u011b tak n\u00e1s zaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 jako \u017eena. M\u00e1\u0161 k\u0159ivky a boj\u00ed\u0161 se, \u017ee kv\u016fli tomu nejsi atraktivn\u00ed? Dovolte n\u00e1m t\u011b hned zastavit: mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed rand\u00ed s k\u0159ivkami, jsou \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/strong> !\n\nKrom\u011b toho byste se m\u011bli nau\u010dit p\u0159ekon\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 nejistoty s Julesem ve va\u0161ich intimn\u00edch chv\u00edl\u00edch. D\u00e1me v\u00e1m k tomu n\u011bkolik tip\u016f. Jakmile ud\u011bl\u00e1te tento z\u00e1sadn\u00ed krok, mohlo by b\u00fdt velmi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 oko\u0159enit si sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eivot milov\u00e1n\u00edm nap\u0159\u00edklad na zcela ne\u010dekan\u00fdch m\u00edstech !\n\nZkr\u00e1tka, nechte to b\u00fdt a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se nebojte vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u00e9 pocity<\/strong> , emoce, obavy, ale tak\u00e9 jednodu\u0161e \u0159\u00edct \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c...","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"" Et toi alors, les amours ? Oh l\u00e0, c'est compliqu\u00e9...<\/em> ". Qui n'a jamais entretenu ce type de conversation avec un proche ? Oui, notre vie amoureuse peut vraiment \u00eatre compliqu\u00e9e ! Mais elle est aussi source de beaucoup de bonheur. Elle nous pousse \u00e0 nous remettre en question, \u00e0 faire les choses bien et \u00e0 tout donner pour rendre l'autre personne heureuse<\/strong> . Entre le boulot et les activit\u00e9s perso, avoir une vie amoureuse \u00e0 100 % \u00e9panouie n'est pas toujours simple ! Ici, on d\u00e9culpabilise les couples, on vous fait rire et surtout, on vous fait relativiser<\/strong> . Ce n'est pas facile pour personne, mais au final, tous ces petits tracas et ces grandes joies forment un ensemble magnifique. Pr\u00eates \u00e0 vous laisser tenter les filles ?

P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s rozesm\u011bj\u00ed a n\u011bkdy... rozpl\u00e1\u010dou<\/h2> Jak v\u00edte, v \u010dasopise The Body Optimist velmi \u010dasto d\u00e1v\u00e1me na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm hlas. Jste pro n\u00e1s ka\u017edodenn\u00edm zdrojem inspirace<\/strong> a je nezbytn\u00e9, abyste si na\u0161li \u010dasopis, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s v\u00edt\u00e1 a sd\u00edl\u00ed va\u0161e p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy.\n\nTak nap\u0159\u00edklad objevujeme Lysin portr\u00e9t skrze jej\u00ed v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f: \u201eJ\u00e1, Lysa, tlust\u00e1 a lesba. Dvojit\u00e1 rande?\u201c Nebo na\u0161i \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ku, kter\u00e1 skrze svou v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f vyl\u00ed\u010dila v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b komplikovan\u00e9 rande: \u201eTlust\u00e9 \u017eeny jsou jako pantofle, jsou pohodln\u00e9, ale ven se v nich nechod\u00ed.\u201c\n\nTak\u00e9 nev\u00e1h\u00e1me zve\u0159ej\u0148ovat v\u00fdzvy k pod\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bdectv\u00ed na na\u0161ich soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad jste se s n\u00e1mi pod\u011blili o nejhor\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 va\u0161i (b\u00fdval\u00ed) partne\u0159i \u0159ekli o va\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1ze, nebo o nejhor\u0161\u00ed hl\u00e1\u0161ky o rozchodu, jak\u00e9 jste kdy sly\u0161eli.\n\nTak\u00e9 se zab\u00fdv\u00e1me sexualitou a sv\u011bdectv\u00edm t\u00e9to \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky, kter\u00e1 vysv\u011btlila, jak moc se kv\u016fli sv\u00fdm k\u0159ivk\u00e1m b\u00e1la sv\u00e9ho prvn\u00edho sexu. Tak\u00e9 si v\u011bnujeme \u010das naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161im mu\u017esk\u00fdm \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, jako je tento mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se n\u00e1s zeptal, jak m\u00e1 \u0159\u00edct sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, \u017ee p\u0159ibrala a \u017ee si o ni d\u011bl\u00e1 starosti.\n\nV t\u00e9to sekci neexistuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 tabu; ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj hlas<\/strong> ! Ned\u00e1vno jsme odpov\u011bd\u011bli mlad\u00e9 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ce, kter\u00e1 se sv\u011b\u0159ila, \u017ee se zamilovala do ob\u00e9zn\u00edho chlapce, ale nedok\u00e1zala to p\u0159ijmout ze strachu z toho, co si pomysl\u00ed ostatn\u00ed. Naopak jsme dali slovo Fanny, kter\u00e1 vypr\u00e1v\u011bla o nep\u0159\u00edjemnostech, kter\u00e9 za\u017eila s mu\u017ei, kter\u00e9 potkala online.\n\nJak jste si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b v\u0161imli, nev\u00e1hejte n\u00e1m napsat soukromou zpr\u00e1vu nebo se zapojit do diskuse na na\u0161ich f\u00f3rech<\/strong> . M\u00e1me vyhrazenou sekci, kde m\u016f\u017eete diskutovat o jak\u00e9mkoli t\u00e9matu, kter\u00e9 je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ohledn\u011b va\u0161eho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Pod\u011blte se s n\u00e1mi o sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky!

Je kvalita milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota pro \u010dlov\u011bka prvo\u0159ad\u00e1?<\/h2> Pokud pravideln\u011b sledujete The Body Optimist, uvid\u00edte, \u017ee zde nen\u00ed nouze o novinky o p\u00e1rech a milostn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b! A\u0165 u\u017e jsou pozitivn\u00ed nebo negativn\u00ed, tyto zpr\u00e1vy byste nem\u011bli br\u00e1t p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b<\/strong> . C\u00edlem je u\u010dit se z\u00e1bavnou formou, ne srovn\u00e1vat sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed vztah. Vezm\u011bte si prost\u011b pozitivn\u00ed aspekty informac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 najdete!\n\nNap\u0159\u00edklad se zasm\u011bjte na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u011bj\u00ed o sv\u00fdch nejhor\u0161\u00edch sch\u016fzk\u00e1ch... tak hrozn\u00fdch, \u017ee to bylo vtipn\u00e9! Nav\u00edc te\u010f ofici\u00e1ln\u011b v\u00edme, \u017ee podle studie je l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed nev\u011bra pro 7 z 10 Francouzek !\n\nTak\u00e9 se bav\u00edme o probl\u00e9mech, kter\u00e9 mohou ovlivnit va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Jak uml\u010d\u00edte drby, kdy\u017e jste vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u00e1\u0161 partner? Nebo o sv\u00e9m soukrom\u00ed. V\u00edme nap\u0159\u00edklad, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina Francouz\u016f si p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed zakr\u00fdv\u00e1 ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti t\u011bla<\/strong> .\n\nTak\u00e9 se s v\u00e1mi nev\u00e1h\u00e1me pod\u011blit o v\u0161echny zpr\u00e1vy, kter\u00e9 pova\u017eujeme za opravdu vtipn\u00e9, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad o stolet\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m prozradila, \u017ee jej\u00edm tajemstv\u00edm dlouhov\u011bkosti je vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se mu\u017e\u016fm ! D\u00edky aktu\u00e1ln\u00edmu d\u011bn\u00ed tak\u00e9 v\u00edme, \u017ee zamilovan\u00e9 p\u00e1ry maj\u00ed tendenci z\u00e1rove\u0148 p\u0159ib\u00edrat na v\u00e1ze.\n\nV\u011bd\u011bli jste tak\u00e9, \u017ee p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 spolu nejsp\u00ed\u0161 vydr\u017e\u00ed, jsou ty, kter\u00e9 si vym\u011b\u0148uj\u00ed bezstarostn\u00e9 \u017eertov\u00e1n\u00ed a jemn\u00e9 \u0161k\u00e1dlen\u00ed<\/strong> ? Ano, skute\u010dn\u011b! A bu\u010fte opatrn\u00ed, pokud jste nev\u011brn\u00ed: m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt odhaleni u\u017e za 5 minut!

Tipy redak\u010dn\u00edho t\u00fdmu pro \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ve vztahu<\/h2> Stejn\u011b jako ve v\u0161ech situac\u00edch, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed, i my n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebujeme p\u00e1r tip\u016f a trik\u016f, abychom se na chv\u00edli zamysleli a zkusili situaci trochu analyzovat...\n\nZa\u010dneme z\u00e1klady t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1m d\u00e1me p\u00e1r n\u00e1pad\u016f na prvn\u00ed rande, kter\u00e9 se trochu li\u0161\u00ed od obvykl\u00e9 rutiny v kin\u011b\/restauraci. Tak\u00e9 v\u00e1s nev\u00e1h\u00e1me varovat<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad, dok\u00e1zali byste poznat, zda jste ve vztahu s narcistick\u00fdm n\u00e1siln\u00edkem ?\n\nStejn\u011b tak n\u00e1s zaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 jako \u017eena. M\u00e1\u0161 k\u0159ivky a boj\u00ed\u0161 se, \u017ee kv\u016fli tomu nejsi atraktivn\u00ed? Dovolte n\u00e1m t\u011b hned zastavit: mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed rand\u00ed s k\u0159ivkami, jsou \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/strong> !\n\nKrom\u011b toho byste se m\u011bli nau\u010dit p\u0159ekon\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 nejistoty s Julesem ve va\u0161ich intimn\u00edch chv\u00edl\u00edch. D\u00e1me v\u00e1m k tomu n\u011bkolik tip\u016f. Jakmile ud\u011bl\u00e1te tento z\u00e1sadn\u00ed krok, mohlo by b\u00fdt velmi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 oko\u0159enit si sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eivot milov\u00e1n\u00edm nap\u0159\u00edklad na zcela ne\u010dekan\u00fdch m\u00edstech !\n\nZkr\u00e1tka, nechte to b\u00fdt a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se nebojte vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u00e9 pocity<\/strong> , emoce, obavy, ale tak\u00e9 jednodu\u0161e \u0159\u00edct \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c...","cat_name":"Miluj \u017eivot","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8340"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=437979"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437979\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":440216,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/437979\/revisions\/440216"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/437981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=437979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=437979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=437979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}