{"id":438796,"date":"2026-04-13T08:03:13","date_gmt":"2026-04-13T06:03:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=438796"},"modified":"2026-04-13T08:03:13","modified_gmt":"2026-04-13T06:03:13","slug":"smart-is-the-new-trend-tendance-redefinit-codes-attirance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/chytrost-je-novy-trend-ktery-nove-definuje-kody-pritazlivosti-438796","title":{"rendered":"\u201eChytrost je nov\u00fd trend,\u201c trend, kter\u00fd nov\u011b definuje k\u00f3dy p\u0159ita\u017elivosti."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Co kdyby p\u0159ita\u017elivost u\u017e nebyla jen o vzhledu? Na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch trend s n\u00e1zvem \u201eChytrost je nov\u00fd trend\u201c zd\u016fraz\u0148uje jinou formu p\u0159ita\u017elivosti: intelektu\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159ita\u017elivost. Zv\u011bdavost, reflexe, hlubok\u00e9 rozhovory\u2026 co kdyby to, co v\u00e1s skute\u010dn\u011b uchv\u00e1tilo, bylo z\u00e1rove\u0148 to, co se odehr\u00e1valo v mysli druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka?<\/p>\n<h2> Kdy\u017e inteligence skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159itahuje<\/h2>\n<p> V posledn\u00edch n\u011bkolika letech se v diskus\u00edch o vztaz\u00edch pravideln\u011b objevuje ot\u00e1zka inteligence jako faktoru p\u0159ita\u017elivosti. V psychologii se \u010dasto zmi\u0148uje jeden term\u00edn: sapiosexualita, kter\u00fd ozna\u010duje zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed p\u0159ita\u017elivost k intelektu\u00e1ln\u00edm schopnostem.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 studie ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidi hraje inteligence v\u00fdznamnou roli p\u0159i hodnocen\u00ed potenci\u00e1ln\u00edho partnera. Co d\u011bl\u00e1 n\u011bkoho p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00fdm? Schopnost v\u00e9st podn\u011btnou konverzaci, kl\u00e1st ot\u00e1zky, kriticky myslet, u\u010dit se. Jin\u00fdmi slovy, p\u0159ita\u017elivost se neomezuje jen na to, co vid\u00edte, ale tak\u00e9 na to, co c\u00edt\u00edte b\u011bhem interakce. Poutav\u00fd rozhovor m\u016f\u017ee n\u011bkdy zanechat mnohem siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed dojem ne\u017e ten prvn\u00ed vizu\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Trend podpo\u0159en\u00fd soci\u00e1ln\u00edmi m\u00e9dii<\/h2>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@mirellagir\/video\/7580434355844025622\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Na TikToku<\/a> a Instagramu se slogan \u201eSmart je nov\u00fd trend\u201c stal skute\u010dn\u00fdm fenom\u00e9nem. Mnoho tv\u016frc\u016f nyn\u00ed propaguje obsah souvisej\u00edc\u00ed s kulturou, vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm nebo osobn\u00ed reflex\u00ed. Doporu\u010den\u00ed knih, popul\u00e1rn\u011b-v\u011bdeck\u00e1 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed, filozofick\u00e9 debaty a tipy na roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed znalost\u00ed: tyto <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/internet\/2021\/04\/07\/social-media-use-in-2021\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">form\u00e1ty se t\u011b\u0161\u00ed rostouc\u00edmu \u00fasp\u011bchu<\/a> , zejm\u00e9na mezi mlad\u00fdmi dosp\u011bl\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n<p>Tento trend je v\u00fdznamn\u00fd. Ukazuje, \u017ee vzd\u011bl\u00e1vac\u00ed a stimuluj\u00edc\u00ed obsah hraje st\u00e1le d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed roli v digit\u00e1ln\u00edch n\u00e1vyc\u00edch. A to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b ovliv\u0148uje i to, co d\u011bl\u00e1 obsah atraktivn\u00edm. Dnes se zv\u011bdavost, znalosti nebo v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148 pro dan\u00e9 t\u00e9ma mohou st\u00e1t skute\u010dnou v\u00fdhodou.<\/p>\n<h2> P\u0159ita\u017elivost: slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed rovnice, ne\u017e se zd\u00e1<\/h2>\n<p> A\u010dkoli fyzick\u00fd vzhled z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fdm prvkem p\u0159ita\u017elivosti, sociologov\u00e9 ji\u017e dlouho pozoruj\u00ed, \u017ee do hry vstupuj\u00ed i dal\u0161\u00ed faktory. Humor, komunika\u010dn\u00ed dovednosti, citlivost a intelektu\u00e1ln\u00ed zv\u011bdavost jsou \u010dasto uv\u00e1d\u011bny jako kl\u00ed\u010dov\u00e9 prvky pro budov\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0191886916308534\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">N\u011bkter\u00e9 v\u00fdzkumy dokonce nazna\u010duj\u00ed<\/a> , \u017ee inteligenci lze vn\u00edmat jako ukazatel kompatibility. Schopnost vym\u011b\u0148ovat si n\u00e1pady, diskutovat a u\u010dit se spole\u010dn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee pos\u00edlit pouto a vytvo\u0159it jin\u00fd druh intimity. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee existuje jeden vzorec. P\u0159ita\u017elivost z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 osobn\u00ed zku\u0161enost\u00ed, ovlivn\u011bnou va\u0161imi \u017eivotn\u00edmi zku\u0161enostmi, touhami a sv\u011bton\u00e1zorem.<\/p>\n<h2> Vliv, kter\u00fd tak\u00e9 poch\u00e1z\u00ed z kultury<\/h2>\n<p> My\u0161lenka, \u017ee inteligence je atraktivn\u00ed, nen\u00ed zcela nov\u00e1. Ve filmech, televizn\u00edch seri\u00e1lech a knih\u00e1ch jsou brilantn\u00ed, strategi\u010dt\u00ed nebo v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00ed postavy \u010dasto zobrazov\u00e1ny jako charismatick\u00e9. Dnes je tento obraz pos\u00edlen d\u016frazem kladen\u00fdm na akademick\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy, zv\u011bdavost a u\u010den\u00ed ve ve\u0159ejn\u00e9 a digit\u00e1ln\u00ed sf\u00e9\u0159e. Online vzd\u011bl\u00e1vac\u00ed obsah k tomuto trendu p\u0159isp\u00edv\u00e1: \u010din\u00ed znalosti nejen dostupn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi, ale tak\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1dan\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi. U\u010den\u00ed se st\u00e1v\u00e1 nejen u\u017eite\u010dn\u00fdm, ale i atraktivn\u00edm.<\/p>\n<h2> Trend, ale ne norma<\/h2>\n<p> I kdy\u017e je \u201echytrost nov\u00fd trend\u201c \u017ehav\u00fdm t\u00e9matem, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 se na v\u011bci d\u00edvat s nadhledem. P\u0159ita\u017elivost se ne\u0159\u00edd\u00ed univerz\u00e1ln\u00edm pravidlem. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 jsou p\u0159itahov\u00e1ni inteligenc\u00ed, jin\u00ed humorem, jemnost\u00ed, energi\u00ed nebo kreativitou. A \u010dasto je to pr\u00e1v\u011b kombinace v\u0161ech t\u011bchto prvk\u016f, kter\u00e1 vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed spojen\u00ed. Neexistuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 \u201espr\u00e1vn\u00e1\u201c nebo \u201e\u0161patn\u00e1\u201c krit\u00e9ria. Va\u0161e p\u0159ita\u017elivost, v\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edstup ke sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed a to, co rezonuje s v\u00e1mi u ostatn\u00edch, je zcela va\u0161e vlastn\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Sm\u011brem k \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed vizi p\u0159ita\u017elivosti<\/h2>\n<p> Tento trend odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm zaj\u00edmav\u00fd v\u00fdvoj: my\u0161lenku, \u017ee p\u0159ita\u017elivost m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ekro\u010dit tradi\u010dn\u00ed fyzick\u00e9 standardy. Oce\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed inteligence, zv\u011bdavosti a ohleduplnosti tak\u00e9 otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e bohat\u0161\u00edmu a inkluzivn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmu pohledu na chemii mezi lidmi. Vizi, kde va\u0161e osobnost, va\u0161e mysl a v\u00e1\u0161 pohled na sv\u011bt maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1voplatn\u00e9 m\u00edsto.<\/p>\n<p>Nakonec, \u201echytrost je nov\u00fd trend\u201c nenahrazuje star\u00e9 z\u00e1sady. Dopl\u0148uje je a p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 n\u00e1m, \u017ee to, co n\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 atraktivn\u00edmi, nen\u00ed v\u017edy viditeln\u00e9... ale \u010dasto se to velmi siln\u011b c\u00edt\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Co kdyby p\u0159ita\u017elivost u\u017e nebyla jen o vzhledu? Na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch trend s n\u00e1zvem \u201eChytrost je nov\u00fd trend\u201c...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":438797,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97333,97372],"class_list":["post-438796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-couple","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/cottonbro-studio-_-Pexels-12-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/cottonbro-studio-_-Pexels-12-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/cottonbro-studio-_-Pexels-12.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika L\u00e1ska a vztahy v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 vztahy ve v\u0161ech podob\u00e1ch: seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed, sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot, \u017e\u00e1rlivost, rozchody i \u017eivot bez partnera. Rady terapeut\u016f, psychologick\u00e9 souvislosti a osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy tu pom\u00e1haj\u00ed budovat zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vztahy, bez tlaku na \u017eivot v p\u00e1ru a bez jedin\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho modelu.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice L\u00e1ska a vztahy<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed a sv\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong>: seznamovac\u00ed aplikace, prvn\u00ed rande, seznamov\u00e1n\u00ed v re\u00e1ln\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a jistota tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 pohledu druh\u00e9ho.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Komunikace v p\u00e1ru<\/strong>: p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky, slova, kter\u00e1 uklid\u0148uj\u00ed, i ta, kter\u00e1 vztah opot\u0159ebov\u00e1vaj\u00ed, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-hadky-pres-textove-zpravy-casto-komplikuji-veci-444706\">pro\u010d h\u00e1dky p\u0159es zpr\u00e1vy v\u011bci jen komplikuj\u00ed<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toxick\u00e9 vztahy<\/strong>: \u017e\u00e1rlivost, majetnickost, love bombing, manipulace a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/vsechny-moje-silene-byvale-milovnice-cervenych-vlajek-prilis-casto-minimalizuji-444547\">varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto zleh\u010dujeme<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rozchody<\/strong>: truchlen\u00ed nad koncem vztahu, p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159estat se vracet k minulosti s ex i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/proc-se-nekteri-byvali-po-rozchodu-rychle-zapletou-do-novych-vztahu-vysvetleni-teorie-taxi-433348\">pro\u010d n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed b\u00fdval\u00ed hned sko\u010d\u00ed do nov\u00e9ho vztahu<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rovnov\u00e1ha ve dvou<\/strong>: zachovat si p\u0159\u00e1tele, pl\u00e1ny i osobn\u00ed prostor, i kdy\u017e jsi ve vztahu.<\/li>\n<li><strong>V\u0161echny milostn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: LGBTQIA+ p\u00e1ry, v\u011bkov\u00fd rozd\u00edl, vztahy na d\u00e1lku, dobrovoln\u00fd \u017eivot bez partnera.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se vzpamatovat z rozchodu?<\/h2>\n<p>Zotaven\u00ed z rozchodu chce \u010das a bolest se podob\u00e1 truchlen\u00ed: st\u0159\u00eddat se m\u016f\u017ee smutek, vztek, nostalgie i \u00faleva. T\u00edmto obdob\u00edm ti pom\u016f\u017ee proj\u00edt p\u00e1r krok\u016f: omezit kontakt s ex i n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy jeho nebo jej\u00edch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, uklidit v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 o\u017eivuj\u00ed vzpom\u00ednky, op\u0159\u00edt se o bl\u00edzk\u00e9 m\u00edsto izolace, vr\u00e1tit se k pravideln\u00e9mu re\u017eimu (sp\u00e1nek, j\u00eddlo, pohyb) a znovu se v\u011bnovat \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 pat\u0159\u00ed jen tob\u011b. Psan\u00ed o tom, co c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Pokud smutek trv\u00e1 n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f a br\u00e1n\u00ed ti v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m fungov\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog.<\/p>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na l\u00e1sku<\/h2>\n<p>Partnersk\u00fd vztah pro n\u00e1s nen\u00ed c\u00edl, kter\u00e9ho je nutn\u00e9 dos\u00e1hnout: \u017eivot bez partnera, exkluzivn\u00ed vztah, voln\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed i dlouholet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt vypr\u00e1v\u011bny bez souzen\u00ed. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky odm\u00edtaj\u00ed p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee bys musela zm\u011bnit t\u011blo, abys byla milovan\u00e1, a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost ani kontrola nejsou nikdy d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em p\u00e1r\u016fm, heterosexu\u00e1ln\u00edm i LGBTQIA+, a nab\u00edzej\u00ed vod\u00edtka, kter\u00e1 nenahrazuj\u00ed p\u00e1rovou terapii ani psychologickou p\u00e9\u010di.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/mala-gesta-mohou-ve-vztahu-neco-zmenit-445979\">Mal\u00e1 gesta, velk\u00fd rozd\u00edl<\/a>: drobnosti, kter\u00e9 mohou vztah pos\u00edlit.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/techto-7-vecernich-ritualu-ktere-sdileji-stastne-pary-431716\">Sedm ve\u010dern\u00edch ritu\u00e1l\u016f \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch p\u00e1r\u016f<\/a>: zvyky, kter\u00e9 stoj\u00ed za vyzkou\u0161en\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/profesorova-analyza-idealni-doby-pro-straveni-dvou-kultivujicich-harmonicky-par-434980\">Kolik \u010dasu spolu tr\u00e1vit<\/a>: co zjistil profesor o ide\u00e1ln\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu v p\u00e1ru.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/pravidlo-777-vyhybejte-se-rutine-ve-vztahu-436391\">Pravidlo 777<\/a>: jednoduch\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak se ve vztahu vyhnout stereotypu.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak poznat toxick\u00fd vztah?<\/h3>\n<p>Vztah se st\u00e1v\u00e1 toxick\u00fdm, kdy\u017e jeden z partner\u016f druh\u00e9ho kontroluje, shazuje nebo izoluje: sleduje mu telefon, opakovan\u011b ho kritizuje, citov\u011b ho vyd\u00edr\u00e1, st\u0159\u00edd\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed s chladem. Ozna\u010den\u00ed \u201enarcista\u201c se v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 \u0159e\u010di pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 voln\u011b a nen\u00ed tot\u00e9\u017e co diagn\u00f3za narcistick\u00e9 poruchy osobnosti: d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u0161\u00edmat si konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak ukazuje i n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/muzeme-narcistu-opravdu-zmenit-psychologove-odpovidaji-bez-vahani-428646\">zda se narcista dok\u00e1\u017ee zm\u011bnit<\/a>. Pokud za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, obra\u0165 se na linku pomoci pro ob\u011bti dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zemi.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky?<\/h3>\n<p>Podle americk\u00e9ho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho poradce Garyho Chapmana existuje p\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: slova uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, d\u00e1rky, drobn\u00e9 slu\u017eby a fyzick\u00fd dotek. Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s \u00fadajn\u011b vyjad\u0159uje a p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1 n\u00e1klonnost hlavn\u011b jedn\u00edm z nich. Je to popul\u00e1rn\u00ed vod\u00edtko, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet nedorozum\u011bn\u00edm, nikoli v\u011bdecky ov\u011b\u0159en\u00e1 teorie.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak se sezn\u00e1mit bez aplikac\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Zn\u00e1mosti \u010dasto vznikaj\u00ed p\u0159i \u010dinnostech, kter\u00e9 se pravideln\u011b opakuj\u00ed: ve sportovn\u00edm klubu, v p\u011bveck\u00e9m sboru, ve spolku, p\u0159i dobrovolnictv\u00ed nebo ve ve\u010dern\u00edch kurzech. P\u0159ij\u00edmej pozv\u00e1n\u00ed, nech p\u0159\u00e1tele, a\u0165 t\u011b sezn\u00e1m\u00ed se sv\u00fdmi zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi, a odva\u017e se za\u010d\u00edt rozhovor nad spole\u010dn\u00fdm z\u00e1jmem. Nejde o to \u201ezal\u00edbit se za ka\u017edou cenu\u201c, ale o to m\u00edt v\u00edc p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k setk\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna t\u00e9mata l\u00e1sky a intimity najde\u0161 v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\">rubrice Sex<\/a>, slast a sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zdrav\u00ed v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/sexualite\">rubrice Sexualita<\/a>, p\u0159\u00edpravy a v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/mariage\">svatb\u011b a man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a> a tipy, jak se um\u011bt ozvat, v <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"L\u00e1ska a vztahy","category_nicename":"vie-amoureuse","category_parent":6135}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/438796","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8375"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=438796"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/438796\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":438857,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/438796\/revisions\/438857"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/438797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=438796"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=438796"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=438796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}