{"id":444440,"date":"2026-07-23T11:57:21","date_gmt":"2026-07-23T09:57:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=444440"},"modified":"2026-07-23T11:57:21","modified_gmt":"2026-07-23T09:57:21","slug":"jugee-trop-moche-elle-revient-remarques-longtemps-pese-elle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/kdyz-je-povazovana-za-prilis-osklivou-vraci-se-s-poznamkami-ktere-ji-tezce-dolehaji-444440","title":{"rendered":"Pova\u017eovala ji za \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 o\u0161klivou\u201c, a tak se zam\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed nad pozn\u00e1mkami, kter\u00e9 ji dlouho t\u00ed\u017eily."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00e9ta sl\u00fdch\u00e1vala slova, kter\u00e1 ji mohla p\u0159im\u011bt pochybovat o sob\u011b sam\u00e9. Na TikToku se @ex0machina1 rozhodla vypr\u00e1v\u011bt sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh s up\u0159\u00edmnost\u00ed, proch\u00e1zet mezi minul\u00fdmi bolestmi a sebepotvrzen\u00edm. Jej\u00ed sv\u011bdectv\u00ed n\u00e1m p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 n\u011bco z\u00e1sadn\u00edho: hodnota \u010dlov\u011bka nikdy nen\u00ed definov\u00e1na jeho vzhledem nebo statusem ve vztahu.<\/p>\n<h2> Slova, kter\u00e1 zanech\u00e1vaj\u00ed stopu v d\u011btstv\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@ergo0proxy1\/video\/7512536441017191710\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ve videu<\/a> , kter\u00e9 se stalo vir\u00e1ln\u00edm, @ex0machina1 vzpom\u00edn\u00e1 na dobu, kdy byl jej\u00ed vzhled pravideln\u011b kritizov\u00e1n. Vysv\u011btluje, \u017ee vyr\u016fstala s n\u00e1lepkou \u201eo\u0161kliv\u00e1\u201c, kterou j\u00ed \u00fadajn\u011b n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 p\u0159isuzovali, spolu s obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b ostr\u00fdmi koment\u00e1\u0159i o jej\u00ed romantick\u00e9 budoucnosti.<\/p>\n<p>Podle jej\u00edho vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed byla dokonce vedena k p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee nikdy neza\u017eije l\u00e1sku a skon\u010d\u00ed sama. To jsou t\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 slova, kter\u00e1 se sly\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e se \u010dlov\u011bk st\u00e1le vyv\u00edj\u00ed, a mohou m\u00edt trval\u00fd dopad na to, jak vn\u00edm\u00e1 s\u00e1m sebe. Postupem \u010dasu se v\u0161ak @ex0machina1 rozhodla, \u017ee tyto soudy nebudou ovliv\u0148ovat jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. M\u00edsto neust\u00e1l\u00e9 snahy naplnit o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ostatn\u00edch se rozhodla zam\u011b\u0159it na to, na \u010dem j\u00ed skute\u010dn\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed: na sv\u00fdch projektech, sv\u00fdch v\u00e1\u0161n\u00edch a sv\u00e9m vlastn\u00edm osobn\u00edm r\u016fstu.<\/p>\n<h2> Vybudovat si \u017eivot, kter\u00fd ji odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Dnes, kdy\u017e se bl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed jej\u00ed 26. narozeniny, se jej\u00ed \u017eivot zcela li\u0161\u00ed od toho, co si pro ni n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159edstavovali. Svobodn\u00e1 @ex0machina \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee je \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1 a naprosto spokojen\u00e1 se \u017eivotem, kter\u00fd si vybudovala. Jej\u00ed cesta ukazuje, \u017ee napl\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed \u017eivot nez\u00e1vis\u00ed na jedin\u00e9 modelce.<\/p>\n<p>Na rozd\u00edl od v\u0161eobecn\u00e9ho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, nalezen\u00ed rovnov\u00e1hy nemus\u00ed nutn\u011b vy\u017eadovat romantick\u00fd vztah nebo uzn\u00e1n\u00ed od ostatn\u00edch. T\u00edm, \u017ee se @ex0machina1 rozhodla neud\u011blat z p\u00e1ru st\u0159edem sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota, prosazuje d\u016fle\u017eitou svobodu: svobodu r\u016fst, zkoumat sv\u00e9 touhy a milovat sama sebe, ani\u017e by \u010dekala na to, a\u017e j\u00ed n\u011bkdo jin\u00fd poskytne n\u011bjakou formu uzn\u00e1n\u00ed. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DOt-5GrDl82\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\"> Zobrazit tento p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek na Instagramu <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"> <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DOt-5GrDl82\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">P\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek sd\u00edlen\u00fd u\u017eivatelem \u22c6\u207a\u208a\u22c6 \u263e \ud83d\udc08\u200d\u2b1b \ud81a\udd13 \u22c6\u207a\u208a\u22c6 (@virtualanamoly)<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> V\u00e1ha protich\u016fdn\u00fdch soudn\u00edch p\u0159\u00edkaz\u016f<\/h2>\n<p> Jeden z nejpozoruhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch aspekt\u016f jej\u00edho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v paradoxu, kter\u00fd zd\u016fraz\u0148uje. Dlouhou dobu j\u00ed \u00fadajn\u011b n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 \u0159\u00edkali, \u017ee bude sama, proto\u017ee neodpov\u00edd\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1van\u00fdm standard\u016fm kr\u00e1sy. Dnes se zd\u00e1, \u017ee ti sam\u00ed kritici j\u00ed vy\u010d\u00edtaj\u00ed, \u017ee\u2026 je skute\u010dn\u011b sama.<\/p>\n<p>@ex0machina1 tak zd\u016fraz\u0148uje b\u011b\u017en\u00fd rozpor: a\u0165 d\u011blaj\u00ed cokoli, n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny se n\u011bkdy c\u00edt\u00ed neust\u00e1le souzeny. \u201eP\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho toho\u201c, \u201em\u00e1lo dost tamtoho\u201c \u2013 a\u0165 u\u017e ve vztahu, nebo samy, mohou se ocitnout v situaci, kdy \u010del\u00ed nemo\u017en\u00fdm o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm. Jej\u00ed poselstv\u00ed vrh\u00e1 sv\u011btlo na tento neust\u00e1l\u00fd tlak kolem vzhledu a romantick\u00fdch vztah\u016f. M\u00edsto aby se @ex0machina1 sna\u017eila p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit ty, kdo ji soud\u00ed, rozhodla se \u017e\u00edt podle vlastn\u00edch krit\u00e9ri\u00ed pro \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed, kter\u00e9 rezonuje<\/h2>\n<p> Pokud si jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh z\u00edskal tolik pozornosti, je to nepochybn\u011b proto, \u017ee rezonuje se zku\u0161enostmi mnoha lid\u00ed. Mnoz\u00ed se ji\u017e setkali s koment\u00e1\u0159i ohledn\u011b sv\u00e9ho vzhledu, \u017eivotn\u00edho stylu nebo osobn\u00edch rozhodnut\u00ed. Prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm sv\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu n\u00e1m @ex0machina1 p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1, \u017ee slova mohou zanechat stopu, ale nem\u011bla by se st\u00e1t jedin\u00fdm defini\u010dn\u00edm prvkem toho, k\u00fdm jsme.<\/p>\n<p>Jej\u00ed cesta ukazuje, \u017ee je mo\u017en\u00e9 znovu z\u00edskat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, znovu se spojit se sv\u00fdmi siln\u00fdmi str\u00e1nkami a vybudovat si pozitivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vztah k vlastn\u00edmu image. Jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku nese poselstv\u00ed pozitivn\u00ed pro t\u011blo a osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed poselstv\u00ed: ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk si zaslou\u017e\u00ed c\u00edtit se legitimn\u00ed, cen\u011bn\u00fd a respektovan\u00fd, bez ohledu na spole\u010densk\u00e9 standardy.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00edm, \u017ee @ex0machina1 prom\u011b\u0148uje zra\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed pozn\u00e1mky v \u00favahy o sebep\u0159ijet\u00ed, nab\u00edz\u00ed novou interpretaci sv\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu. Nesna\u017e\u00ed se dok\u00e1zat, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt milov\u00e1na; jednodu\u0161e potvrzuje, \u017ee si u\u017e zaslou\u017e\u00ed milovat sama sebe. \u0160t\u011bst\u00ed se nenach\u00e1z\u00ed v p\u0159izp\u016fsobov\u00e1n\u00ed se o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm druh\u00fdch, ale ve schopnosti j\u00edt vp\u0159ed v souladu s vlastn\u00ed pravdou.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"L\u00e9ta sl\u00fdch\u00e1vala slova, kter\u00e1 ji mohla p\u0159im\u011bt pochybovat o sob\u011b sam\u00e9. Na TikToku se @ex0machina1 rozhodla vypr\u00e1v\u011bt sv\u016fj...","protected":false},"author":8264,"featured_media":444417,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1784],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-444440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-confiance-en-soi"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Jugee-_trop-moche_-elle-revient-sur-les-remarques-qui-ont-longtemps-pese-sur-elle-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Jugee-_trop-moche_-elle-revient-sur-les-remarques-qui-ont-longtemps-pese-sur-elle-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Jugee-_trop-moche_-elle-revient-sur-les-remarques-qui-ont-longtemps-pese-sur-elle.jpg","author":{"name":"Ana\u00eblle Gayon","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Agayon-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":1784,"name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","slug":"confiance-en-soi","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1890,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6138,"count":380,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1784,"category_count":380,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","category_nicename":"confiance-en-soi","category_parent":6138}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444440","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8264"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=444440"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444440\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":446366,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/444440\/revisions\/446366"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/444417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=444440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=444440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=444440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}