{"id":444862,"date":"2026-07-22T13:00:24","date_gmt":"2026-07-22T11:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=444862"},"modified":"2026-07-22T13:00:24","modified_gmt":"2026-07-22T11:00:24","slug":"il-tient-promesse-amie-enfance-porteuse-trisomie-21","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/dodrzi-svuj-slib-kamarad-z-detstvi-nositel-trizomie-21-444862","title":{"rendered":"O n\u011bkolik let pozd\u011bji dodr\u017eel slib, kter\u00fd dal sv\u00e9mu p\u0159\u00edteli z d\u011btstv\u00ed, kter\u00fd m\u011bl Down\u016fv syndrom."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 sliby p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00ed i po letech, ani\u017e by kdy ztratily na hodnot\u011b. Kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem je slib, kter\u00fd Ben Moser dal sv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtelkyni Mary Lapkowiczov\u00e9: sedm let pot\u00e9, co ho dal, ho prom\u011bnil v nezapomenutelnou vzpom\u00ednku.<\/p>\n<h2> P\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 za\u010dalo ve \u0161koln\u00edch lavic\u00edch<\/h2>\n<p> Na z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole se ty nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy n\u011bkdy za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed v t\u011bch nejjednodu\u0161\u0161\u00edch okam\u017eic\u00edch. Tak se Ben Moser setkal s Mary Lapkowiczovou, spolu\u017ea\u010dkou s Downov\u00fdm syndromem. Mezi nimi se rychle vytvo\u0159ilo p\u0159irozen\u00e9 pouto, kter\u00e9 se op\u00edralo o hry, \u00fasm\u011bvy a spole\u010dn\u00e9 chv\u00edle ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b i na h\u0159i\u0161ti. Ben Mary p\u0159iv\u00edtal s laskavost\u00ed a spont\u00e1nnost\u00ed a ani zdaleka nevid\u011bl v odli\u0161nosti p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eku. B\u011bhem t\u0159\u00ed let, kter\u00e9 spolu str\u00e1vili na z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole, se o ni staral, povzbuzoval ji a dbal na to, aby se pln\u011b zapojovala do aktivit s ostatn\u00edmi studenty.<\/p>\n<h2> Pohled u\u010ditele, sv\u011bdka kr\u00e1sn\u00e9ho pouta.<\/h2>\n<p> Jejich u\u010ditelka, Tracey Spogli, m\u00e1 na tento jedine\u010dn\u00fd vztah velmi silnou vzpom\u00ednku. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.today.com\/news\/high-school-qb-fulfills-prom-promise-girl-down-syndrome-t20971\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Vypr\u00e1v\u00ed,<\/a> jak se j\u00ed \u010dasto dot\u00fdkala pozornost, kterou Ben v\u011bnoval sv\u00e9mu kamar\u00e1dovi. Chlapec instinktivn\u011b kontroloval Mary, za\u0159azoval ji do her a chodil k n\u00ed, kdy\u017e se zd\u00e1la b\u00fdt nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e1. Pro jeho u\u010ditelku tento p\u0159\u00edstup ji\u017e odhaloval velkou citlivost a skute\u010dnou schopnost pe\u010dovat o druh\u00e9 \u2013 vz\u00e1cnou vlastnost, kter\u00e1 brzy dala vzniknout nezapomenuteln\u00e9mu slibu.<\/p>\n<h2> D\u011btsk\u00fd slib, kter\u00fd obstoj\u00ed ve zkou\u0161ce \u010dasu<\/h2>\n<p> Ve \u010dtvrt\u00e9 t\u0159\u00edd\u011b Mary \u010dasto mluv\u00ed o velmi o\u010dek\u00e1van\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti ve Spojen\u00fdch st\u00e1tech: maturitn\u00edm plese na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole. U\u017e te\u010f sn\u00ed o tomto zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00edm ve\u010deru, symbolu oslav, sd\u00edlen\u00ed a nov\u00fdch vzpom\u00ednek. P\u0159ibli\u017en\u011b v t\u00e9to dob\u011b se Ben \u00fa\u010dastn\u00ed maturitn\u00edho plesu sv\u00e9ho star\u0161\u00edho bratrance a zji\u0161\u0165uje d\u016fle\u017eitost tohoto okam\u017eiku. Pak se rozhodne d\u00e1t Mary slib: a\u017e budou na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole, vezme ji na maturitn\u00ed ples s\u00e1m. D\u011btsk\u00fd slib, kter\u00fd s v\u011bkem mo\u017en\u00e1 vybledl... ale ne pro Bena. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DZd8_BjjHOX\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\"> Zobrazit tento p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek na Instagramu <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"> <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DZd8_BjjHOX\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">P\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek sd\u00edlen\u00fd u\u017eivatelem Nugget (@nugget)<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> R\u016fzn\u00e9 cesty, jeden v\u0161udyp\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd slib<\/h2>\n<p> Po z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kole se oba p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 vydali ka\u017ed\u00fd svou cestou a nav\u0161t\u011bvovali r\u016fzn\u00e9 \u0161koly v Pensylv\u00e1nii (USA). Jak se v d\u011btstv\u00ed \u010dasto st\u00e1v\u00e1, kontakty se staly m\u00e9n\u011b \u010dast\u00fdmi. Ben pokra\u010doval ve \u0161kole a stal se quarterbackem sv\u00e9ho fotbalov\u00e9ho t\u00fdmu. Mary naopak pokra\u010dovala ve sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole, obklopena rodinou a p\u0159\u00e1teli. N\u011bkde ve sv\u00e9 pam\u011bti se v\u0161ak Ben dr\u017eel slibu, kter\u00fd dal p\u0159ed n\u011bkolika lety.<\/p>\n<h2> Shled\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v\u0161echno zm\u011bn\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Chance kone\u010dn\u011b setk\u00e1 oba p\u0159\u00e1tele na z\u00e1pase mezi jejich dv\u011bma st\u0159edn\u00edmi \u0161kolami. Po n\u011bkolika letech, kdy se po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b nev\u00eddali, se znovu setkaj\u00ed a jejich bl\u00edzk\u00e9 pouto se p\u0159irozen\u011b obnovuje. S bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edc\u00edm se maturitn\u00edm plesem si Ben uv\u011bdomuje, \u017ee je \u010das dodr\u017eet sv\u016fj slib. Pro n\u011bj toto gesto nen\u00ed nic mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9ho: chce jen ud\u011blat radost kamar\u00e1dovi, kter\u00fd pro n\u011bj v\u017edycky byl d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>Aby pozval Mary, vymyslel mil\u00e9 p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed: bal\u00f3nky s n\u00e1pisem \u201ePROM\u201c. Jednoduch\u00e9 gesto, ale pln\u00e9 emoc\u00ed. Mary, kter\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1vala, \u017ee se ve\u010d\u00edrku z\u00fa\u010dastn\u00ed jen s n\u011bkolika p\u0159\u00e1teli, byla p\u0159ekvapen\u00e1 a pot\u011b\u0161en\u00e1, \u017ee toto zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed pozv\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ijala.<\/p>\n<h2> P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd rezonuje daleko za hranicemi jejich bezprost\u0159edn\u00edho okol\u00ed.<\/h2>\n<p> Benova matka, Lisa Moserov\u00e1, se po t\u00e9to ud\u00e1losti pod\u011blila o svou nesm\u00edrnou hrdost. Zd\u016fraznila synovu \u0161t\u011bdrost a schopnost d\u00e1t ostatn\u00edm pocit, \u017ee si jich v\u00e1\u017e\u00ed. Maryina rodina byla tak\u00e9 hluboce dojata. Jej\u00ed bratr vzpom\u00ednal, \u017ee Ben v\u017edy vn\u00edmal svou sestru jako jedine\u010dnou osobnost s vlastn\u00edmi vlastnostmi, osobnost\u00ed a chut\u00ed do \u017eivota.<\/p>\n<p>Nakonec je tento p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh je\u0161t\u011b dojemn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee Ben a Mary se nepova\u017euj\u00ed za hrdiny n\u011bjak\u00e9ho velk\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu. Pro n\u011b je jejich pouto jednodu\u0161e kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00edm vybudovan\u00fdm na up\u0159\u00edmnosti. Tento slib dodr\u017een\u00fd po v\u0161ech t\u011bch letech n\u00e1m p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 n\u011bco z\u00e1sadn\u00edho: nejcenn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vztahy nejsou v\u017edy ty, kter\u00e9 nad\u011blaj\u00ed nejv\u00edce hluku. \u010casto jsou to ty zalo\u017een\u00e9 na laskavosti, respektu a ochot\u011b b\u00fdt tu pro lidi, na kter\u00fdch z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011btsk\u00e9 sliby p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00ed i po letech, ani\u017e by kdy ztratily na hodnot\u011b. Kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem je slib, kter\u00fd...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":444864,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5678],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-444862","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-societe"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Gonzalo-8a-_-Pexels-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Gonzalo-8a-_-Pexels-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/Gonzalo-8a-_-Pexels.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":5678,"name":"Spole\u010dnost","slug":"societe","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5846,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Spole\u010dnost v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 debaty, kter\u00e9 h\u00fdbou \u017eivoty \u017een: rovnost, diskriminaci, normy kr\u00e1sy, mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy a m\u00edsto t\u011bla ve ve\u0159ejn\u00e9m prostoru. Anal\u00fdzy, osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a praktick\u00e9 rady jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em, kdo cht\u011bj\u00ed rozum\u011bt ka\u017edodenn\u00edm spole\u010densk\u00fdm tlak\u016fm a um\u011bt na n\u011b reagovat, s inkluzivn\u00edm, body pozitivn\u00edm a nehodnot\u00edc\u00edm pohledem.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Spole\u010dnost<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminismus<\/strong>: ka\u017edodenn\u00ed sexismus, n\u00e1sil\u00ed, pr\u00e1ce, dom\u00e1c\u00ed povinnosti a pr\u00e1va \u017een ve sv\u011bt\u011b v na\u0161\u00ed rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminismus<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatfobie<\/strong>: diskriminace tlust\u00fdch lid\u00ed v pr\u00e1ci, u l\u00e9ka\u0159e nebo v m\u00e9di\u00edch a zp\u016fsoby, jak se j\u00ed br\u00e1nit, v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatfobie<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace, genderov\u00e9 identity, coming out a boj proti LGBTfobii v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Normy kr\u00e1sy<\/strong>: odkud se berou ide\u00e1ly vzhledu, jak se li\u0161\u00ed podle zem\u00ed a epoch a co \u017eeny stoj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vztahy a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vazby<\/strong>: p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, samota, mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed vztahy a nov\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u017eivota.<\/li>\n<li><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed kli\u0161\u00e9<\/strong>: \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 se prosazuj\u00ed v mechanice, v\u011bd\u011b, sportu nebo na p\u00f3diu, tam, kde je nikdo ne\u010dekal, t\u0159eba <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/feminisme\/etiopske-skateboardistky-se-stavi-proti-patriarchatu-a-porusuji-tradice-431605\">etiopsk\u00e9 skateboardistky<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Pro\u010d jsou normy kr\u00e1sy spole\u010densk\u00fdm t\u00e9matem?<\/h2>\n<p>Normy kr\u00e1sy jsou spole\u010densk\u00fdm t\u00e9matem, proto\u017ee nejsou p\u0159irozen\u00e9 ani univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed: m\u011bn\u00ed se ze zem\u011b do zem\u011b i z epochy do epochy, jak ukazuje n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/jak-se-meni-standardy-krasy-v-ruznych-zemich-429750\">jak se standardy kr\u00e1sy li\u0161\u00ed v jednotliv\u00fdch zem\u00edch<\/a>. Ide\u00e1ly \u0161t\u00edhlosti, ml\u00e1d\u00ed nebo hladk\u00e9 pleti maj\u00ed p\u0159itom velmi re\u00e1ln\u00e9 dopady: pozn\u00e1mky u\u017e v d\u011btstv\u00ed, tlak hl\u00eddat si v\u00e1hu, nerovnosti v pr\u00e1ci nebo ve zdravotn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di, kyber\u0161ikana. Kdy\u017e pochop\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee norma je konstrukt, z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161 odstup, rozpozn\u00e1\u0161 sd\u011blen\u00ed, kter\u00e1 vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed pocit viny, a vybere\u0161 si, co si z nich nech\u00e1\u0161. To je hlavn\u00ed nit cel\u00e9 rubriky: propojovat osobn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti s kolektivn\u00edmi mechanismy, kter\u00e9 je vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2>Co d\u011blat p\u0159i diskriminaci nebo kyber\u0161ikan\u011b?<\/h2>\n<p>P\u0159i diskriminaci nebo kyber\u0161ikan\u011b je prvn\u00edm krokem uchovat d\u016fkazy a pak zvolit spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 m\u00edsto, kam se obr\u00e1tit:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>schov\u00e1vej si sn\u00edmky obrazovky, zpr\u00e1vy, data a jm\u00e9na sv\u011bdk\u016f;<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159i diskriminaci v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159i hled\u00e1n\u00ed bydlen\u00ed nebo v p\u0159\u00edstupu ke slu\u017eb\u00e1m se obra\u0165 na \u00fa\u0159ad ombudsmana nebo organizaci na ochranu lidsk\u00fdch pr\u00e1v ve sv\u00e9 zemi;<\/li>\n<li>nez\u00e1konn\u00fd obsah na internetu nahlas platform\u011b, na kter\u00e9 se objevil, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b ofici\u00e1ln\u00edmu kontaktn\u00edmu m\u00edstu pro hl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed neleg\u00e1ln\u00edho obsahu;<\/li>\n<li>pokud jde o trestn\u00fd \u010din, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 podat trestn\u00ed ozn\u00e1men\u00ed na policii.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>V pr\u00e1ci se vyplat\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt i to, jak <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/jak-si-nastavit-hranice-tvari-v-tvar-nevyzadanym-navrhum-v-praci-447161\">si nastavit hranice p\u0159i nevy\u017e\u00e1dan\u00fdch n\u00e1vrz\u00edch<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>N\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edstup: propojovat osobn\u00ed s kolektivn\u00edm<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e1\u0161 magaz\u00edn vznikl z webu o plus size m\u00f3d\u011b, a tak se na spole\u010densk\u00e1 t\u00e9mata d\u00edv\u00e1me optikou t\u011bla a reprezentace. D\u00e1v\u00e1me slovo lidem, kter\u00fdch se t\u00e9mata t\u00fdkaj\u00ed, nejd\u0159\u00edv vysv\u011btlujeme pojmy (sexismus, fatfobie, transgender identita, souhlas) a teprve potom debatujeme, a p\u0159ed pouh\u00fdm rozho\u0159\u010den\u00edm d\u00e1v\u00e1me p\u0159ednost mo\u017enostem, jak jednat. \u010cl\u00e1nky vych\u00e1zej\u00ed z ka\u017edodenn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed a osv\u011btluj\u00ed \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed mechanismy, bez moralizov\u00e1n\u00ed a bez stav\u011bn\u00ed \u017een proti sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatfobni-poznamky-jiste-pronesene-bez-vedomi-430954\">Fatfobn\u00ed v\u011bty, kter\u00e9 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me, ani\u017e bychom si to uv\u011bdomovali<\/a>, a co ve skute\u010dnosti nazna\u010duj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/syndrom-dobre-studentky-neviditelna-past-do-ktere-padaji-brilantni-zeny-431104\">Syndrom dobr\u00e9 studentky<\/a>: neviditeln\u00e1 past, do kter\u00e9 pad\u00e1 mnoho schopn\u00fdch \u017een.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/zenska-prace-nanaseni-make-upu-pro-profesionalni-vzhled-446904\">Mus\u00ed se \u017eeny v pr\u00e1ci l\u00ed\u010dit?<\/a> O tom, co se pova\u017euje za \u201eprofesion\u00e1ln\u00ed vzhled\u201c.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/co-delat-kdyz-si-kolega-v-praci-privlastni-napad-447182\">Kdy\u017e si kolega p\u0159ivlastn\u00ed tv\u016fj n\u00e1pad<\/a>: jak reagovat a obh\u00e1jit svou pr\u00e1ci.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Co je diskriminace?<\/h3>\n<p>Diskriminace je odli\u0161n\u00e9 zach\u00e1zen\u00ed zalo\u017een\u00e9 na krit\u00e9riu, kter\u00e9 z\u00e1kon zakazuje, v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed oblasti, nap\u0159\u00edklad v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, bydlen\u00ed nebo p\u0159\u00edstupu ke zbo\u017e\u00ed a slu\u017eb\u00e1m. Chr\u00e1n\u011bn\u00e9 d\u016fvody se li\u0161\u00ed podle zem\u011b, obvykle k nim ale pat\u0159\u00ed pohlav\u00ed, rasa nebo etnick\u00fd p\u016fvod, v\u011bk, zdravotn\u00ed posti\u017een\u00ed, n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed, sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace a \u010dasto i genderov\u00e1 identita. N\u011bkter\u00e9 pr\u00e1vn\u00ed \u0159\u00e1dy chr\u00e1n\u00ed i fyzick\u00fd vzhled nebo zdravotn\u00ed stav.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je intersekcionalita?<\/h3>\n<p>Intersekcionalita popisuje situaci, kdy se u jednoho \u010dlov\u011bka setk\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u011bkolik forem diskriminace a navz\u00e1jem se posiluj\u00ed. Pojem zavedla americk\u00e1 pr\u00e1vni\u010dka Kimberl\u00e9 Crenshaw, aby popsala zku\u0161enost \u010dern\u00fdch \u017een. \u017dena, kter\u00e1 je z\u00e1rove\u0148 tlust\u00e1 a lesba, tak m\u016f\u017ee \u010delit sexismu, fatfobii i homofobii, kter\u00e9 se sp\u00ed\u0161 prol\u00ednaj\u00ed, ne\u017e aby se jen s\u010d\u00edtaly.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je diet culture?<\/h3>\n<p>Diet culture neboli kultura diet je soubor p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, kter\u00e1 spojuj\u00ed \u0161t\u00edhlost se zdrav\u00edm, \u00fasp\u011bchem a osobn\u00ed hodnotou. Projevuje se d\u011blen\u00edm j\u00eddla na \u201edobr\u00e9\u201c a \u201e\u0161patn\u00e9\u201c, komplimenty za zhubnut\u00ed a zahanbov\u00e1n\u00edm tlust\u00fdch t\u011bl. N\u00e1\u0161 magaz\u00edn j\u00ed stav\u00ed do protikladu p\u0159\u00edstup \u201ezdrav\u00ed v ka\u017ed\u00e9 velikosti\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/culture\">Rubrika Kultura<\/a> rozeb\u00edr\u00e1, jak filmy, seri\u00e1ly a knihy zobrazuj\u00ed t\u011bla a identity, a na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> se v\u011bnuj\u00ed vztahu k sob\u011b, sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a emoc\u00edm.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":1539,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5678,"category_count":1539,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Spole\u010dnost v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist rozeb\u00edr\u00e1 debaty, kter\u00e9 h\u00fdbou \u017eivoty \u017een: rovnost, diskriminaci, normy kr\u00e1sy, mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy a m\u00edsto t\u011bla ve ve\u0159ejn\u00e9m prostoru. Anal\u00fdzy, osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a praktick\u00e9 rady jsou ur\u010den\u00e9 v\u0161em, kdo cht\u011bj\u00ed rozum\u011bt ka\u017edodenn\u00edm spole\u010densk\u00fdm tlak\u016fm a um\u011bt na n\u011b reagovat, s inkluzivn\u00edm, body pozitivn\u00edm a nehodnot\u00edc\u00edm pohledem.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Spole\u010dnost<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminismus<\/strong>: ka\u017edodenn\u00ed sexismus, n\u00e1sil\u00ed, pr\u00e1ce, dom\u00e1c\u00ed povinnosti a pr\u00e1va \u017een ve sv\u011bt\u011b v na\u0161\u00ed rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminismus<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatfobie<\/strong>: diskriminace tlust\u00fdch lid\u00ed v pr\u00e1ci, u l\u00e9ka\u0159e nebo v m\u00e9di\u00edch a zp\u016fsoby, jak se j\u00ed br\u00e1nit, v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatfobie<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace, genderov\u00e9 identity, coming out a boj proti LGBTfobii v rubrice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Normy kr\u00e1sy<\/strong>: odkud se berou ide\u00e1ly vzhledu, jak se li\u0161\u00ed podle zem\u00ed a epoch a co \u017eeny stoj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Vztahy a soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vazby<\/strong>: p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, samota, mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed vztahy a nov\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby spole\u010dn\u00e9ho \u017eivota.<\/li>\n<li><strong>P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 bo\u0159\u00ed kli\u0161\u00e9<\/strong>: \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 se prosazuj\u00ed v mechanice, v\u011bd\u011b, sportu nebo na p\u00f3diu, tam, kde je nikdo ne\u010dekal, t\u0159eba <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/feminisme\/etiopske-skateboardistky-se-stavi-proti-patriarchatu-a-porusuji-tradice-431605\">etiopsk\u00e9 skateboardistky<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Pro\u010d jsou normy kr\u00e1sy spole\u010densk\u00fdm t\u00e9matem?<\/h2>\n<p>Normy kr\u00e1sy jsou spole\u010densk\u00fdm t\u00e9matem, proto\u017ee nejsou p\u0159irozen\u00e9 ani univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed: m\u011bn\u00ed se ze zem\u011b do zem\u011b i z epochy do epochy, jak ukazuje n\u00e1\u0161 \u010dl\u00e1nek o tom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/jak-se-meni-standardy-krasy-v-ruznych-zemich-429750\">jak se standardy kr\u00e1sy li\u0161\u00ed v jednotliv\u00fdch zem\u00edch<\/a>. Ide\u00e1ly \u0161t\u00edhlosti, ml\u00e1d\u00ed nebo hladk\u00e9 pleti maj\u00ed p\u0159itom velmi re\u00e1ln\u00e9 dopady: pozn\u00e1mky u\u017e v d\u011btstv\u00ed, tlak hl\u00eddat si v\u00e1hu, nerovnosti v pr\u00e1ci nebo ve zdravotn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di, kyber\u0161ikana. Kdy\u017e pochop\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee norma je konstrukt, z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161 odstup, rozpozn\u00e1\u0161 sd\u011blen\u00ed, kter\u00e1 vyvol\u00e1vaj\u00ed pocit viny, a vybere\u0161 si, co si z nich nech\u00e1\u0161. To je hlavn\u00ed nit cel\u00e9 rubriky: propojovat osobn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti s kolektivn\u00edmi mechanismy, kter\u00e9 je vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2>Co d\u011blat p\u0159i diskriminaci nebo kyber\u0161ikan\u011b?<\/h2>\n<p>P\u0159i diskriminaci nebo kyber\u0161ikan\u011b je prvn\u00edm krokem uchovat d\u016fkazy a pak zvolit spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 m\u00edsto, kam se obr\u00e1tit:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>schov\u00e1vej si sn\u00edmky obrazovky, zpr\u00e1vy, data a jm\u00e9na sv\u011bdk\u016f;<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159i diskriminaci v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159i hled\u00e1n\u00ed bydlen\u00ed nebo v p\u0159\u00edstupu ke slu\u017eb\u00e1m se obra\u0165 na \u00fa\u0159ad ombudsmana nebo organizaci na ochranu lidsk\u00fdch pr\u00e1v ve sv\u00e9 zemi;<\/li>\n<li>nez\u00e1konn\u00fd obsah na internetu nahlas platform\u011b, na kter\u00e9 se objevil, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b ofici\u00e1ln\u00edmu kontaktn\u00edmu m\u00edstu pro hl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed neleg\u00e1ln\u00edho obsahu;<\/li>\n<li>pokud jde o trestn\u00fd \u010din, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 podat trestn\u00ed ozn\u00e1men\u00ed na policii.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>V pr\u00e1ci se vyplat\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt i to, jak <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/jak-si-nastavit-hranice-tvari-v-tvar-nevyzadanym-navrhum-v-praci-447161\">si nastavit hranice p\u0159i nevy\u017e\u00e1dan\u00fdch n\u00e1vrz\u00edch<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>N\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edstup: propojovat osobn\u00ed s kolektivn\u00edm<\/h2>\n<p>N\u00e1\u0161 magaz\u00edn vznikl z webu o plus size m\u00f3d\u011b, a tak se na spole\u010densk\u00e1 t\u00e9mata d\u00edv\u00e1me optikou t\u011bla a reprezentace. D\u00e1v\u00e1me slovo lidem, kter\u00fdch se t\u00e9mata t\u00fdkaj\u00ed, nejd\u0159\u00edv vysv\u011btlujeme pojmy (sexismus, fatfobie, transgender identita, souhlas) a teprve potom debatujeme, a p\u0159ed pouh\u00fdm rozho\u0159\u010den\u00edm d\u00e1v\u00e1me p\u0159ednost mo\u017enostem, jak jednat. \u010cl\u00e1nky vych\u00e1zej\u00ed z ka\u017edodenn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed a osv\u011btluj\u00ed \u0161ir\u0161\u00ed mechanismy, bez moralizov\u00e1n\u00ed a bez stav\u011bn\u00ed \u017een proti sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatfobni-poznamky-jiste-pronesene-bez-vedomi-430954\">Fatfobn\u00ed v\u011bty, kter\u00e9 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1me, ani\u017e bychom si to uv\u011bdomovali<\/a>, a co ve skute\u010dnosti nazna\u010duj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/syndrom-dobre-studentky-neviditelna-past-do-ktere-padaji-brilantni-zeny-431104\">Syndrom dobr\u00e9 studentky<\/a>: neviditeln\u00e1 past, do kter\u00e9 pad\u00e1 mnoho schopn\u00fdch \u017een.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/zenska-prace-nanaseni-make-upu-pro-profesionalni-vzhled-446904\">Mus\u00ed se \u017eeny v pr\u00e1ci l\u00ed\u010dit?<\/a> O tom, co se pova\u017euje za \u201eprofesion\u00e1ln\u00ed vzhled\u201c.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/societe\/co-delat-kdyz-si-kolega-v-praci-privlastni-napad-447182\">Kdy\u017e si kolega p\u0159ivlastn\u00ed tv\u016fj n\u00e1pad<\/a>: jak reagovat a obh\u00e1jit svou pr\u00e1ci.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Co je diskriminace?<\/h3>\n<p>Diskriminace je odli\u0161n\u00e9 zach\u00e1zen\u00ed zalo\u017een\u00e9 na krit\u00e9riu, kter\u00e9 z\u00e1kon zakazuje, v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed oblasti, nap\u0159\u00edklad v zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, bydlen\u00ed nebo p\u0159\u00edstupu ke zbo\u017e\u00ed a slu\u017eb\u00e1m. Chr\u00e1n\u011bn\u00e9 d\u016fvody se li\u0161\u00ed podle zem\u011b, obvykle k nim ale pat\u0159\u00ed pohlav\u00ed, rasa nebo etnick\u00fd p\u016fvod, v\u011bk, zdravotn\u00ed posti\u017een\u00ed, n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed, sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed orientace a \u010dasto i genderov\u00e1 identita. N\u011bkter\u00e9 pr\u00e1vn\u00ed \u0159\u00e1dy chr\u00e1n\u00ed i fyzick\u00fd vzhled nebo zdravotn\u00ed stav.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je intersekcionalita?<\/h3>\n<p>Intersekcionalita popisuje situaci, kdy se u jednoho \u010dlov\u011bka setk\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u011bkolik forem diskriminace a navz\u00e1jem se posiluj\u00ed. Pojem zavedla americk\u00e1 pr\u00e1vni\u010dka Kimberl\u00e9 Crenshaw, aby popsala zku\u0161enost \u010dern\u00fdch \u017een. \u017dena, kter\u00e1 je z\u00e1rove\u0148 tlust\u00e1 a lesba, tak m\u016f\u017ee \u010delit sexismu, fatfobii i homofobii, kter\u00e9 se sp\u00ed\u0161 prol\u00ednaj\u00ed, ne\u017e aby se jen s\u010d\u00edtaly.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je diet culture?<\/h3>\n<p>Diet culture neboli kultura diet je soubor p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, kter\u00e1 spojuj\u00ed \u0161t\u00edhlost se zdrav\u00edm, \u00fasp\u011bchem a osobn\u00ed hodnotou. Projevuje se d\u011blen\u00edm j\u00eddla na \u201edobr\u00e9\u201c a \u201e\u0161patn\u00e9\u201c, komplimenty za zhubnut\u00ed a zahanbov\u00e1n\u00edm tlust\u00fdch t\u011bl. 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