{"id":446728,"date":"2026-08-08T22:20:00","date_gmt":"2026-08-08T20:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=446728"},"modified":"2026-08-08T22:25:22","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T20:25:22","slug":"femme-montre-ce-que-coute-fait-vouloir-rentrer-dans-cases","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/zena-ukazuje-kolik-to-stoji-nuti-vas-to-vmestnat-se-do-skatulky-446728","title":{"rendered":"Tato \u017eena ukazuje cenu snahy vm\u011bstnat se do \u0161katulek."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Spole\u010dnost se n\u00e1s sna\u017e\u00ed vt\u011bsnat do \u00fazk\u00fdch \u0161katulek, kde na\u0161e osobnosti nemaj\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd prostor k existenci. Mus\u00edme se scvrknout do p\u0159edem definovan\u00e9 formy, abychom se vyhnuli ozna\u010den\u00ed za \u201edivn\u00e9\u201c nebo zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b, kdy\u017e se p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 sna\u017e\u00edme zapadnout, nakonec ni\u010d\u00edme to, co n\u00e1s definuje a co n\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 jedine\u010dn\u00fdmi. Smutn\u00e1 realita, kterou tv\u016frkyni obsahu Liv Nevill (@livnevill) se poda\u0159ilo ilustrovat vizu\u00e1ln\u00ed metaforou, kter\u00e1 byla stejn\u011b siln\u00e1 jako brut\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> Drsn\u00fd obraz v\u00fdrazu \u201evej\u00edt se do krabic\u201c<\/h2>\n<p> B\u011bhem cel\u00e9ho \u017eivota jsme se v\u017edy u\u010dili \u201en\u00e1sledovat dav\u201c. Za\u010dalo to na \u0161koln\u00edm h\u0159i\u0161ti, co\u017e byl vrcholn\u00fd test toho, jak n\u00e1s ostatn\u00ed vn\u00edmaj\u00ed. M\u00edsto abychom si oble\u010den\u00ed vyb\u00edrali svobodn\u011b, vyb\u00edrali jsme si ho na z\u00e1klad\u011b jeho popularity a abychom se p\u0159izp\u016fsobili skupinov\u00e9 dynamice. Nosili jsme ofinu s\u010desanou na stranu, kdy\u017e byla v m\u00f3d\u011b, i kdy\u017e jsme v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee to nen\u00ed zrovna nejlichotiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u010des. Podlehli jsme trendu emo-goth, i kdy\u017e na\u0161e prav\u00e1 povaha byla sp\u00ed\u0161e romantick\u00e1 \u2013 kawaii. Proto\u017ee kdybychom se odch\u00fdlili od t\u00e9to kolektivn\u00ed uniformity, riskovali bychom, \u017ee se staneme ob\u011btn\u00edm ber\u00e1nkem, snadn\u00fdm ter\u010dem.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkdy sta\u010dil jedin\u00fd, absurdn\u00ed detail k tomu, aby potkal stejn\u00fd osud jako o\u0161kliv\u00e9 k\u00e1\u010d\u00e1tko: hnisaj\u00edc\u00ed pup\u00ednek na \u0161patn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b, rovn\u00e1tka, d\u017e\u00edny bez loga nebo ta\u0161ka, kterou nemilosrdn\u00e1 horda teenager\u016f v p\u0159edpubert\u00e1ln\u00edm v\u011bku pova\u017eovala za p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u201ed\u011btskou\u201c. Zvykli jsme si tedy potla\u010dovat sv\u016fj vkus, touhy, n\u00e1zory, a\u017e cel\u00e1 na\u0161e identita zmizela pod pl\u00e1\u0161t\u00edkem zd\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Konformita byla t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 prost\u0159edkem k p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. P\u0159esto\u017ee jsme se c\u00edtili \u201echr\u00e1n\u011bni\u201c dodr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm t\u011bchto nevysloven\u00fdch, ale nepsan\u00fdch pravidel, nakonec n\u00e1s zni\u010dila. Tv\u016frkyn\u011b obsahu Liv Nevill (@livnevill) zachytila tuto <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/decouvrez-si-vous-etes-votre-pire-ennemi-les-indices-de-lauto-sabotage-408774\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sebesabot\u00e1\u017e<\/a> v kr\u00e1tk\u00e9m, velmi explicitn\u00edm videu. Sna\u017e\u00ed se vm\u011bstnat kulat\u00fd tal\u00ed\u0159 do vysok\u00e9 sklenice. Nemus\u00edte b\u00fdt expertem na geometrii, abyste v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee je to nemo\u017en\u00e9. Aby toho dos\u00e1hla, hod\u00ed tal\u00ed\u0159 na podlahu a rozbije ho na drobn\u00e9 kousky. Takto se tal\u00ed\u0159 vejde do sklenice a jde o mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e jen o pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1dob\u00ed. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DYwtnlPs2S4\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\"> Zobrazit tento p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek na Instagramu <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"> <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DYwtnlPs2S4\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">P\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek sd\u00edlen\u00fd u\u017eivatelem Liv Nevill (livlivinlife) (@livnevill)<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> \u201eP\u0159esta\u0148te se l\u00e1mat\u201c: z\u00e1kladn\u00ed preventivn\u00ed poselstv\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Toto video nen\u00ed matematick\u00e1 h\u00e1danka, ani \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd hlavolam s obsahem kuchy\u0148sk\u00e9 sk\u0159\u00ed\u0148ky. Je zt\u011blesn\u011bn\u00edm zlozvyku, kter\u00fd jsme si v\u0161ichni v ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku \u017eivota osvojili. Kdo se n\u011bkdy nevzdal no\u0161en\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9ho oble\u010den\u00ed jen ze strachu z n\u00e1sledk\u016f? Kdo se n\u011bkdy nevzdal o sv\u00e9m hudebn\u00edm vkusu nebo sv\u00e9 obl\u00edben\u00e9 p\u00edsni a m\u00edsto toho si nevybral \u201ep\u0159ijateln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed\u201c a v\u0161eobecn\u011b obl\u00edbenou skladbu?<\/p>\n<p>To se sna\u017e\u00ed sd\u011blit tv\u016frkyn\u011b obsahu Liv Nevill (@livnevill), vyzbrojen\u00e1 sv\u00fdm soucitem. Touto \u017eivouc\u00ed metaforou se sna\u017e\u00ed vzbudit pov\u011bdom\u00ed. <em>\u201eCo se stane, kdy\u017e se pokus\u00edte zmen\u0161it, abyste se ve\u0161li?\u201c<\/em> p\u00ed\u0161e pod fotkou a zd\u016fraz\u0148uje d\u016fsledky takov\u00e9ho \u201e\u0161katulkov\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c.<\/p>\n<p>Jak tak\u00e9 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, kdy\u017e se p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 sna\u017e\u00edme p\u0159izp\u016fsobit spole\u010densk\u00e9mu ide\u00e1lu <em>, \u201ese od sebe odd\u011blujeme a n\u011bkter\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti sebe sama zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1me.\u201c<\/em> Kousky j\u00eddla jsou zosobn\u011bn\u00edm na\u0161\u00ed identity, zredukovan\u00e9 na nic, rozt\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9, po\u0161kozen\u00e9. Tyto krabice jsou ve skute\u010dnosti klece, kter\u00e9 v\u011bzn\u00ed v\u0161e, co z n\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 to, k\u00fdm jsme. Jen\u017ee my nechceme b\u00fdt jako panenka Barbie zav\u0159en\u00e1 v plastov\u00e9m pouzd\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva k sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed se sebou sam\u00fdm<\/h2>\n<p> Tato metafora je tak v\u00fdrazn\u00e1, proto\u017ee zd\u016fraz\u0148uje tich\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed, kter\u00e9 \u010dasto trivializujeme: pot\u0159ebu neust\u00e1le se m\u011bnit, abychom si zaslou\u017eili sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto. Nemluv\u00edme o prost\u00e9 zm\u011bn\u011b stylu nebo touze po v\u00fdvoji, ale o t\u011bch mal\u00fdch, opakovan\u00fdch kompromisech, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s nakonec vzdaluj\u00ed od toho, k\u00fdm skute\u010dn\u011b jsme.<\/p>\n<p>V na\u0161\u00ed touze po uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, p\u0159ijet\u00ed nebo prost\u011b jen po tom, abychom byli ponech\u00e1ni na pokoji, se n\u011bkdy nau\u010d\u00edme potla\u010dovat ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti sebe sama. V\u00e1\u0161e\u0148 pova\u017eovanou za zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed, osobnost pova\u017eovanou za p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 bujarou, citlivost pova\u017eovanou za p\u0159ehnanou, zp\u016fsob obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00fd se odchyluje od normy\u2026 V\u0161echno, co vy\u010dn\u00edv\u00e1, se st\u00e1v\u00e1 podez\u0159el\u00fdm. Tak\u017ee m\u00edsto toho, abychom riskovali kritiku, se n\u011bkdy rozhodneme zmizet.<\/p>\n<p>Dlouho jsme byli vedeni k tomu, \u017ee b\u00fdt odli\u0161n\u00fd je p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017ekou. P\u0159esto jsou to pr\u00e1v\u011b tyto nedokonalosti, kter\u00e9 vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed na\u0161e kouzlo, na\u0161e vzpom\u00ednky, na\u0161e setk\u00e1n\u00ed a n\u00e1\u0161 jedine\u010dn\u00fd zp\u016fsob vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bta. To, co se n\u011bkdy sna\u017e\u00edme skr\u00fdt, je \u010dasto to, co z n\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 ty nejpam\u00e1tn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Kousky rozbit\u00e9ho tal\u00ed\u0159e ve videu Liv Nevill (@livnevill) pak lze vn\u00edmat jako jin\u00fd obraz: obraz fragment\u016f sebe sama, kter\u00e9 lze jednoho dne znovu naj\u00edt. Nic n\u00e1s nenut\u00ed z\u016fstat uv\u011bzn\u011bni v kalupu, do kter\u00e9ho jsme se sna\u017eili zapadnout. M\u016f\u017eeme tyto kousky znovu slo\u017eit dohromady, znovuobjevit zapomenut\u00e9 touhy, znovu se spojit s chut\u011bmi, kter\u00e9 jsme opustili, a nau\u010dit se d\u00edvat na sebe s v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed laskavost\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Spole\u010dnost se n\u00e1s sna\u017e\u00ed vt\u011bsnat do \u00fazk\u00fdch \u0161katulek, kde na\u0161e osobnosti nemaj\u00ed t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd prostor k existenci. Mus\u00edme...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":446730,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1784],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-446728","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-confiance-en-soi"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rentrer-dans-des-cases-metaphore-visuelle-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rentrer-dans-des-cases-metaphore-visuelle-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Rentrer-dans-des-cases-metaphore-visuelle.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":1784,"name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","slug":"confiance-en-soi","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1890,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6138,"count":380,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1784,"category_count":380,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? 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