{"id":446750,"date":"2026-08-08T14:20:12","date_gmt":"2026-08-08T12:20:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=446750"},"modified":"2026-08-08T14:20:12","modified_gmt":"2026-08-08T12:20:12","slug":"floodlighting-simpose-comme-nouvelle-tendance-relations-amoureuses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/floodlighting-se-v-romantickych-vztazich-stava-novym-trendem-446750","title":{"rendered":"\u201eFloodlighting\u201c se st\u00e1v\u00e1 nov\u00fdm trendem v romantick\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Co kdy\u017e toho najednou prozrad\u00edte a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho\u2026 sotva jste si sedli se sv\u00fdm prot\u011bj\u0161kem? Zran\u011bn\u00ed z d\u011btstv\u00ed, b\u00fdval\u00ed partnerov\u00e9, terapie, velk\u00e9 strachy: konverzace se rozjede a intimita se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt ji\u017e nastolena. Tento fenom\u00e9n m\u00e1 jm\u00e9no: \u201efloodlighting\u201c neboli um\u011bn\u00ed upoutat na sebe pozornost hned od prvn\u00edho rande.<\/p>\n<h2> Kdy\u017e se zranitelnost stane\u2026 \u0161t\u00edtem<\/h2>\n<p> Term\u00edn \u201efloodlighting\u201c zpopularizovala <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/psychology\/floodlighting-dating\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">americk\u00e1 badatelka a autorka Bren\u00e9 Brownov\u00e1<\/a> , specialistka na problematiku zranitelnosti. Ve sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci popisuje toto chov\u00e1n\u00ed jako formu \u201ebrn\u011bn\u00ed\u201c: paradoxn\u011b odhalen\u00ed velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti sebe sama m\u016f\u017ee slou\u017eit k vyhnut\u00ed se skute\u010dn\u00e9 zranitelnosti.<\/p>\n<p>Obr\u00e1zek je docela v\u00fdsti\u017en\u00fd: p\u0159edstavte si obrovsk\u00fd reflektor sv\u00edt\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo na osobu, se kterou mluv\u00edte. Spousta sv\u011btla, spousta informac\u00ed\u2026 ale v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku ne nutn\u011b v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed viditelnost toho, co se skute\u010dn\u011b d\u011bje. Pozn\u00e1mka: \u201efloodlighting\u201c je term\u00edn z popul\u00e1rn\u00ed psychologie a v \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se nejedn\u00e1 o l\u00e9ka\u0159skou diagn\u00f3zu ani psychologickou poruchu.<\/p>\n<h2> D\u011bl\u00e1te p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho pro svou lep\u0161\u00ed ochranu?<\/h2>\n<p> To je paradox tohoto jevu. Na prvn\u00ed pohled se sd\u00edlen\u00ed nejnitern\u011bj\u0161\u00edch z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f jev\u00ed jako zn\u00e1mka d\u016fv\u011bry a autenticity. P\u0159esto se n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u0161e odhal\u00ed okam\u017eit\u011b, nev\u011bdomky sna\u017e\u00ed udr\u017eet si kontrolu.<\/p>\n<p>M\u016f\u017ee se objevit n\u011bkolik motivac\u00ed: okam\u017eit\u011b ov\u011b\u0159it, zda n\u00e1s druh\u00e1 osoba p\u0159ijme, um\u011ble vytvo\u0159it dojem bl\u00edzkosti nebo se vyhnout n\u011bkdy nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9mu postupu, kter\u00fd budov\u00e1n\u00ed vztahu doprov\u00e1z\u00ed. Zdrav\u00fd vztah se toti\u017e obvykle buduje kr\u016f\u010dek po kr\u016f\u010dku. Pozn\u00e1v\u00e1me druhou osobu, sd\u00edl\u00edme, pozorujeme jej\u00ed reakce\u2026 a pak se postupn\u011b rozhodujeme, s \u010d\u00edm se j\u00ed chceme sv\u011b\u0159it.<\/p>\n<h2> Kdy\u017e se sebev\u011bdom\u00ed obr\u00e1t\u00ed proti v\u00e1m<\/h2>\n<p> Sd\u00edlen\u00ed n\u011b\u010deho osobn\u00edho m\u016f\u017ee lidi samoz\u0159ejm\u011b sbl\u00ed\u017eit, ale kdy\u017e se za\u010dnou hrnout hluboce intimn\u00ed sv\u011b\u0159en\u00ed, druh\u00e1 osoba se m\u016f\u017ee rychle ocitnout v obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 situaci. M\u011bla by nab\u00eddnout uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed? Sd\u00edlet sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed bolesti? Naj\u00edt spr\u00e1vnou reakci? Tento tlak m\u016f\u017ee prom\u011bnit bezstarostn\u00fd rozhovor ve skute\u010dnou emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed zkou\u0161ku. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 se pak nemus\u00ed c\u00edtit ani tak, jako by byli pozv\u00e1ni k sezn\u00e1men\u00ed s n\u011bk\u00fdm jin\u00fdm, jako by byli um\u00edst\u011bni do prvn\u00ed \u0159ady zpov\u011bdnice. A up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno, na prvn\u00edm rande se atmosf\u00e9ra m\u016f\u017ee rychle st\u00e1t trapnou.<\/p>\n<h2> D\u00e1vejte si pozor, abyste nevid\u011bli \u201esv\u011btlomet\u201c v\u0161ude<\/h2>\n<p> \u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd se rychle otev\u00edr\u00e1, nen\u00ed automaticky \u201esv\u011btlomet\u201c. Prvn\u00ed rande m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt stresuj\u00edc\u00ed, rozchod m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt ned\u00e1vn\u00fd a trapn\u00e9 ticho m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e9st k v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmu mno\u017estv\u00ed hovoru, ne\u017e bylo zam\u00fd\u0161leno. Skute\u010dn\u00fd rozd\u00edl spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 ve schopnosti naslouchat sign\u00e1l\u016fm druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. Pokud se v\u00e1\u0161 partner v konverzaci zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd, m\u011bn\u00ed t\u00e9ma nebo se sna\u017e\u00ed konverzaci zpomalit, znalost toho, jak se p\u0159izp\u016fsobit, hraje kl\u00ed\u010dovou roli. Jin\u00fdmi slovy, autenticita nevylu\u010duje respektov\u00e1n\u00ed tempa toho druh\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n<h2> Jak\u00e1 je spr\u00e1vn\u00e1 m\u00edra intimity?<\/h2>\n<p> Odborn\u00edci d\u016frazn\u011b doporu\u010duj\u00ed nechat d\u016fv\u011brnost rozv\u00edjet se postupn\u011b. Ne\u017e se sv\u011b\u0159\u00edte s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm velmi osobn\u00edm, m\u016f\u017eete se jednodu\u0161e zeptat sami sebe, zda je v\u00e1\u0161 vztah dostate\u010dn\u011b vybudovan\u00fd, abyste tuto informaci p\u0159ijali. A pokud jste na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b? M\u00e1te pln\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo b\u00fdt oporou, ani\u017e byste se stali d\u016fv\u011brn\u00edkem n\u011bkoho, koho sotva zn\u00e1te. Stanoven\u00ed hranic neznamen\u00e1 nedostatek empatie; jde tak\u00e9 o ochranu va\u0161eho vlastn\u00edho emocion\u00e1ln\u00edho prostoru.<\/p>\n<p>Popularita term\u00ednu \u201efloodlighting\u201c v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed dobu, kdy se autenticita a zranitelnost staly skute\u010dn\u00fdmi vztahov\u00fdmi hodnotami. B\u00fdt up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd v\u0161ak nutn\u011b neznamen\u00e1 odhalit cel\u00fd sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh b\u011bhem jedin\u00e9ho ve\u010dera. Skute\u010dn\u00e9 spojen\u00ed se nem\u011b\u0159\u00ed po\u010dtem sd\u00edlen\u00fdch tajemstv\u00ed. Je postaveno na d\u016fv\u011b\u0159e, reciprocit\u011b a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm\u2026 dobr\u00e9m na\u010dasov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Co kdy\u017e toho najednou prozrad\u00edte a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho\u2026 sotva jste si sedli se sv\u00fdm prot\u011bj\u0161kem? Zran\u011bn\u00ed z d\u011btstv\u00ed,...","protected":false},"author":8394,"featured_media":446751,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":true,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5717],"tags":[97833,97333,97372],"class_list":["post-446750","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-vie-amoureuse","tag-actu","tag-couple","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Le-_floodlighting_-simpose-comme-la-nouvelle-tendance-des-relations-amoureuses-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Le-_floodlighting_-simpose-comme-la-nouvelle-tendance-des-relations-amoureuses-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Le-_floodlighting_-simpose-comme-la-nouvelle-tendance-des-relations-amoureuses.jpg","author":{"name":"L\u00e9a Michel","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1721220128171-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":5717,"name":"Miluj \u017eivot","slug":"vie-amoureuse","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5885,"taxonomy":"category","description":"&quot; <em>Et toi alors, les amours ? Oh l\u00e0, c&#39;est compliqu\u00e9...<\/em> &quot;. Qui n&#39;a jamais entretenu ce type de conversation avec un proche ? Oui, notre vie amoureuse peut vraiment \u00eatre compliqu\u00e9e ! Mais elle est aussi source de beaucoup de bonheur. <strong>Elle nous pousse \u00e0 nous remettre en question, \u00e0 faire les choses bien et \u00e0 tout donner pour rendre l&#39;autre personne heureuse<\/strong> . Entre le boulot et les activit\u00e9s perso, avoir une vie amoureuse \u00e0 100 % \u00e9panouie n&#39;est pas toujours simple ! <strong>Ici, on d\u00e9culpabilise les couples, on vous fait rire et surtout, on vous fait relativiser<\/strong> . Ce n&#39;est pas facile pour personne, mais au final, tous ces petits tracas et ces grandes joies forment un ensemble magnifique. Pr\u00eates \u00e0 vous laisser tenter les filles ?<h2> P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s rozesm\u011bj\u00ed a n\u011bkdy... rozpl\u00e1\u010dou<\/h2> Jak v\u00edte, v \u010dasopise The Body Optimist velmi \u010dasto d\u00e1v\u00e1me na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm hlas. <strong>Jste pro n\u00e1s ka\u017edodenn\u00edm zdrojem inspirace<\/strong> a je nezbytn\u00e9, abyste si na\u0161li \u010dasopis, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s v\u00edt\u00e1 a sd\u00edl\u00ed va\u0161e p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy.\n\nTak nap\u0159\u00edklad objevujeme Lysin portr\u00e9t skrze jej\u00ed v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f: \u201eJ\u00e1, Lysa, tlust\u00e1 a lesba. Dvojit\u00e1 rande?\u201c Nebo na\u0161i \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ku, kter\u00e1 skrze svou v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f vyl\u00ed\u010dila v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b komplikovan\u00e9 rande: \u201eTlust\u00e9 \u017eeny jsou jako pantofle, jsou pohodln\u00e9, ale ven se v nich nechod\u00ed.\u201c\n\nTak\u00e9 nev\u00e1h\u00e1me <strong>zve\u0159ej\u0148ovat v\u00fdzvy k pod\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bdectv\u00ed na na\u0161ich soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad jste se s n\u00e1mi pod\u011blili o nejhor\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 va\u0161i (b\u00fdval\u00ed) partne\u0159i \u0159ekli o va\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1ze, nebo o nejhor\u0161\u00ed hl\u00e1\u0161ky o rozchodu, jak\u00e9 jste kdy sly\u0161eli.\n\nTak\u00e9 se zab\u00fdv\u00e1me sexualitou a sv\u011bdectv\u00edm t\u00e9to \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky, kter\u00e1 vysv\u011btlila, jak moc se kv\u016fli sv\u00fdm k\u0159ivk\u00e1m b\u00e1la sv\u00e9ho prvn\u00edho sexu. Tak\u00e9 si v\u011bnujeme \u010das naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161im mu\u017esk\u00fdm \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, jako je tento mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se n\u00e1s zeptal, jak m\u00e1 \u0159\u00edct sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, \u017ee p\u0159ibrala a \u017ee si o ni d\u011bl\u00e1 starosti.\n\n<strong>V t\u00e9to sekci neexistuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 tabu; ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj hlas<\/strong> ! Ned\u00e1vno jsme odpov\u011bd\u011bli mlad\u00e9 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ce, kter\u00e1 se sv\u011b\u0159ila, \u017ee se zamilovala do ob\u00e9zn\u00edho chlapce, ale nedok\u00e1zala to p\u0159ijmout ze strachu z toho, co si pomysl\u00ed ostatn\u00ed. Naopak jsme dali slovo Fanny, kter\u00e1 vypr\u00e1v\u011bla o nep\u0159\u00edjemnostech, kter\u00e9 za\u017eila s mu\u017ei, kter\u00e9 potkala online.\n\nJak jste si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b v\u0161imli, <strong>nev\u00e1hejte n\u00e1m napsat soukromou zpr\u00e1vu nebo se zapojit do diskuse na na\u0161ich f\u00f3rech<\/strong> . M\u00e1me vyhrazenou sekci, kde m\u016f\u017eete diskutovat o jak\u00e9mkoli t\u00e9matu, kter\u00e9 je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ohledn\u011b va\u0161eho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Pod\u011blte se s n\u00e1mi o sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky!<h2> Je kvalita milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota pro \u010dlov\u011bka prvo\u0159ad\u00e1?<\/h2> Pokud pravideln\u011b sledujete The Body Optimist, uvid\u00edte, \u017ee zde nen\u00ed nouze o novinky o p\u00e1rech a milostn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b! <strong>A\u0165 u\u017e jsou pozitivn\u00ed nebo negativn\u00ed, tyto zpr\u00e1vy byste nem\u011bli br\u00e1t p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b<\/strong> . C\u00edlem je u\u010dit se z\u00e1bavnou formou, ne srovn\u00e1vat sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed vztah. Vezm\u011bte si prost\u011b pozitivn\u00ed aspekty informac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 najdete!\n\nNap\u0159\u00edklad se zasm\u011bjte na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u011bj\u00ed o sv\u00fdch nejhor\u0161\u00edch sch\u016fzk\u00e1ch... tak hrozn\u00fdch, \u017ee to bylo vtipn\u00e9! Nav\u00edc te\u010f ofici\u00e1ln\u011b v\u00edme, \u017ee podle studie je l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed nev\u011bra pro 7 z 10 Francouzek !\n\nTak\u00e9 se bav\u00edme o probl\u00e9mech, kter\u00e9 mohou ovlivnit va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Jak uml\u010d\u00edte drby, kdy\u017e jste vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u00e1\u0161 partner? Nebo o sv\u00e9m soukrom\u00ed. <strong>V\u00edme nap\u0159\u00edklad, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina Francouz\u016f si p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed zakr\u00fdv\u00e1 ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti t\u011bla<\/strong> .\n\nTak\u00e9 se s v\u00e1mi nev\u00e1h\u00e1me pod\u011blit o v\u0161echny zpr\u00e1vy, kter\u00e9 pova\u017eujeme za opravdu vtipn\u00e9, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad o stolet\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m prozradila, \u017ee jej\u00edm tajemstv\u00edm dlouhov\u011bkosti je vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se mu\u017e\u016fm ! D\u00edky aktu\u00e1ln\u00edmu d\u011bn\u00ed tak\u00e9 v\u00edme, \u017ee zamilovan\u00e9 p\u00e1ry maj\u00ed tendenci z\u00e1rove\u0148 p\u0159ib\u00edrat na v\u00e1ze.\n\n<strong>V\u011bd\u011bli jste tak\u00e9, \u017ee p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 spolu nejsp\u00ed\u0161 vydr\u017e\u00ed, jsou ty, kter\u00e9 si vym\u011b\u0148uj\u00ed bezstarostn\u00e9 \u017eertov\u00e1n\u00ed a jemn\u00e9 \u0161k\u00e1dlen\u00ed<\/strong> ? Ano, skute\u010dn\u011b! A bu\u010fte opatrn\u00ed, pokud jste nev\u011brn\u00ed: m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt odhaleni u\u017e za 5 minut!<h2> Tipy redak\u010dn\u00edho t\u00fdmu pro \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ve vztahu<\/h2> Stejn\u011b jako ve v\u0161ech situac\u00edch, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed, i my n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebujeme p\u00e1r tip\u016f a trik\u016f, abychom se na chv\u00edli zamysleli a zkusili situaci trochu analyzovat...\n\nZa\u010dneme z\u00e1klady t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1m d\u00e1me p\u00e1r n\u00e1pad\u016f na prvn\u00ed rande, kter\u00e9 se trochu li\u0161\u00ed od obvykl\u00e9 rutiny v kin\u011b\/restauraci. <strong>Tak\u00e9 v\u00e1s nev\u00e1h\u00e1me varovat<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad, dok\u00e1zali byste poznat, zda jste ve vztahu s narcistick\u00fdm n\u00e1siln\u00edkem ?\n\nStejn\u011b tak n\u00e1s zaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 jako \u017eena. M\u00e1\u0161 k\u0159ivky a boj\u00ed\u0161 se, \u017ee kv\u016fli tomu nejsi atraktivn\u00ed? Dovolte n\u00e1m t\u011b hned zastavit: <strong>mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed rand\u00ed s k\u0159ivkami, jsou \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/strong> !\n\nKrom\u011b toho byste se m\u011bli nau\u010dit p\u0159ekon\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 nejistoty s Julesem ve va\u0161ich intimn\u00edch chv\u00edl\u00edch. D\u00e1me v\u00e1m k tomu n\u011bkolik tip\u016f. Jakmile ud\u011bl\u00e1te tento z\u00e1sadn\u00ed krok, mohlo by b\u00fdt velmi p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 oko\u0159enit si sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed \u017eivot milov\u00e1n\u00edm nap\u0159\u00edklad na zcela ne\u010dekan\u00fdch m\u00edstech !\n\nZkr\u00e1tka, <strong>nechte to b\u00fdt a p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se nebojte vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u00e9 pocity<\/strong> , emoce, obavy, ale tak\u00e9 jednodu\u0161e \u0159\u00edct \u201eMiluji t\u011b\u201c...","parent":6135,"count":709,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5717,"category_count":709,"category_description":"&quot; <em>Et toi alors, les amours ? Oh l\u00e0, c&#39;est compliqu\u00e9...<\/em> &quot;. Qui n&#39;a jamais entretenu ce type de conversation avec un proche ? Oui, notre vie amoureuse peut vraiment \u00eatre compliqu\u00e9e ! Mais elle est aussi source de beaucoup de bonheur. <strong>Elle nous pousse \u00e0 nous remettre en question, \u00e0 faire les choses bien et \u00e0 tout donner pour rendre l&#39;autre personne heureuse<\/strong> . Entre le boulot et les activit\u00e9s perso, avoir une vie amoureuse \u00e0 100 % \u00e9panouie n&#39;est pas toujours simple ! <strong>Ici, on d\u00e9culpabilise les couples, on vous fait rire et surtout, on vous fait relativiser<\/strong> . Ce n&#39;est pas facile pour personne, mais au final, tous ces petits tracas et ces grandes joies forment un ensemble magnifique. Pr\u00eates \u00e0 vous laisser tenter les filles ?<h2> P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s rozesm\u011bj\u00ed a n\u011bkdy... rozpl\u00e1\u010dou<\/h2> Jak v\u00edte, v \u010dasopise The Body Optimist velmi \u010dasto d\u00e1v\u00e1me na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm hlas. <strong>Jste pro n\u00e1s ka\u017edodenn\u00edm zdrojem inspirace<\/strong> a je nezbytn\u00e9, abyste si na\u0161li \u010dasopis, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s v\u00edt\u00e1 a sd\u00edl\u00ed va\u0161e p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy.\n\nTak nap\u0159\u00edklad objevujeme Lysin portr\u00e9t skrze jej\u00ed v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f: \u201eJ\u00e1, Lysa, tlust\u00e1 a lesba. Dvojit\u00e1 rande?\u201c Nebo na\u0161i \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ku, kter\u00e1 skrze svou v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f vyl\u00ed\u010dila v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b komplikovan\u00e9 rande: \u201eTlust\u00e9 \u017eeny jsou jako pantofle, jsou pohodln\u00e9, ale ven se v nich nechod\u00ed.\u201c\n\nTak\u00e9 nev\u00e1h\u00e1me <strong>zve\u0159ej\u0148ovat v\u00fdzvy k pod\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u011bdectv\u00ed na na\u0161ich soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad jste se s n\u00e1mi pod\u011blili o nejhor\u0161\u00ed v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 va\u0161i (b\u00fdval\u00ed) partne\u0159i \u0159ekli o va\u0161\u00ed v\u00e1ze, nebo o nejhor\u0161\u00ed hl\u00e1\u0161ky o rozchodu, jak\u00e9 jste kdy sly\u0161eli.\n\nTak\u00e9 se zab\u00fdv\u00e1me sexualitou a sv\u011bdectv\u00edm t\u00e9to \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky, kter\u00e1 vysv\u011btlila, jak moc se kv\u016fli sv\u00fdm k\u0159ivk\u00e1m b\u00e1la sv\u00e9ho prvn\u00edho sexu. Tak\u00e9 si v\u011bnujeme \u010das naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161im mu\u017esk\u00fdm \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, jako je tento mu\u017e, kter\u00fd se n\u00e1s zeptal, jak m\u00e1 \u0159\u00edct sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, \u017ee p\u0159ibrala a \u017ee si o ni d\u011bl\u00e1 starosti.\n\n<strong>V t\u00e9to sekci neexistuj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 tabu; ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj hlas<\/strong> ! Ned\u00e1vno jsme odpov\u011bd\u011bli mlad\u00e9 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ce, kter\u00e1 se sv\u011b\u0159ila, \u017ee se zamilovala do ob\u00e9zn\u00edho chlapce, ale nedok\u00e1zala to p\u0159ijmout ze strachu z toho, co si pomysl\u00ed ostatn\u00ed. Naopak jsme dali slovo Fanny, kter\u00e1 vypr\u00e1v\u011bla o nep\u0159\u00edjemnostech, kter\u00e9 za\u017eila s mu\u017ei, kter\u00e9 potkala online.\n\nJak jste si pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b v\u0161imli, <strong>nev\u00e1hejte n\u00e1m napsat soukromou zpr\u00e1vu nebo se zapojit do diskuse na na\u0161ich f\u00f3rech<\/strong> . M\u00e1me vyhrazenou sekci, kde m\u016f\u017eete diskutovat o jak\u00e9mkoli t\u00e9matu, kter\u00e9 je pro v\u00e1s d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ohledn\u011b va\u0161eho milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Pod\u011blte se s n\u00e1mi o sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky!<h2> Je kvalita milostn\u00e9ho \u017eivota pro \u010dlov\u011bka prvo\u0159ad\u00e1?<\/h2> Pokud pravideln\u011b sledujete The Body Optimist, uvid\u00edte, \u017ee zde nen\u00ed nouze o novinky o p\u00e1rech a milostn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b! <strong>A\u0165 u\u017e jsou pozitivn\u00ed nebo negativn\u00ed, tyto zpr\u00e1vy byste nem\u011bli br\u00e1t p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b<\/strong> . C\u00edlem je u\u010dit se z\u00e1bavnou formou, ne srovn\u00e1vat sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed vztah. Vezm\u011bte si prost\u011b pozitivn\u00ed aspekty informac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 najdete!\n\nNap\u0159\u00edklad se zasm\u011bjte na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u011bj\u00ed o sv\u00fdch nejhor\u0161\u00edch sch\u016fzk\u00e1ch... tak hrozn\u00fdch, \u017ee to bylo vtipn\u00e9! Nav\u00edc te\u010f ofici\u00e1ln\u011b v\u00edme, \u017ee podle studie je l\u00edb\u00e1n\u00ed nev\u011bra pro 7 z 10 Francouzek !\n\nTak\u00e9 se bav\u00edme o probl\u00e9mech, kter\u00e9 mohou ovlivnit va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Jak uml\u010d\u00edte drby, kdy\u017e jste vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e v\u00e1\u0161 partner? Nebo o sv\u00e9m soukrom\u00ed. <strong>V\u00edme nap\u0159\u00edklad, \u017ee v\u011bt\u0161ina Francouz\u016f si p\u0159i milov\u00e1n\u00ed zakr\u00fdv\u00e1 ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti t\u011bla<\/strong> .\n\nTak\u00e9 se s v\u00e1mi nev\u00e1h\u00e1me pod\u011blit o v\u0161echny zpr\u00e1vy, kter\u00e9 pova\u017eujeme za opravdu vtipn\u00e9, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad o stolet\u00e9 \u017een\u011b, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m prozradila, \u017ee jej\u00edm tajemstv\u00edm dlouhov\u011bkosti je vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se mu\u017e\u016fm ! D\u00edky aktu\u00e1ln\u00edmu d\u011bn\u00ed tak\u00e9 v\u00edme, \u017ee zamilovan\u00e9 p\u00e1ry maj\u00ed tendenci z\u00e1rove\u0148 p\u0159ib\u00edrat na v\u00e1ze.\n\n<strong>V\u011bd\u011bli jste tak\u00e9, \u017ee p\u00e1ry, kter\u00e9 spolu nejsp\u00ed\u0161 vydr\u017e\u00ed, jsou ty, kter\u00e9 si vym\u011b\u0148uj\u00ed bezstarostn\u00e9 \u017eertov\u00e1n\u00ed a jemn\u00e9 \u0161k\u00e1dlen\u00ed<\/strong> ? Ano, skute\u010dn\u011b! A bu\u010fte opatrn\u00ed, pokud jste nev\u011brn\u00ed: m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt odhaleni u\u017e za 5 minut!<h2> Tipy redak\u010dn\u00edho t\u00fdmu pro \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed ve vztahu<\/h2> Stejn\u011b jako ve v\u0161ech situac\u00edch, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s ovliv\u0148uj\u00ed, i my n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebujeme p\u00e1r tip\u016f a trik\u016f, abychom se na chv\u00edli zamysleli a zkusili situaci trochu analyzovat...\n\nZa\u010dneme z\u00e1klady t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1m d\u00e1me p\u00e1r n\u00e1pad\u016f na prvn\u00ed rande, kter\u00e9 se trochu li\u0161\u00ed od obvykl\u00e9 rutiny v kin\u011b\/restauraci. <strong>Tak\u00e9 v\u00e1s nev\u00e1h\u00e1me varovat<\/strong> . Nap\u0159\u00edklad, dok\u00e1zali byste poznat, zda jste ve vztahu s narcistick\u00fdm n\u00e1siln\u00edkem ?\n\nStejn\u011b tak n\u00e1s zaj\u00edm\u00e1\u0161 jako \u017eena. M\u00e1\u0161 k\u0159ivky a boj\u00ed\u0161 se, \u017ee kv\u016fli tomu nejsi atraktivn\u00ed? Dovolte n\u00e1m t\u011b hned zastavit: <strong>mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed rand\u00ed s k\u0159ivkami, jsou \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed<\/strong> !\n\nKrom\u011b toho byste se m\u011bli nau\u010dit p\u0159ekon\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 nejistoty s Julesem ve va\u0161ich intimn\u00edch chv\u00edl\u00edch. D\u00e1me v\u00e1m k tomu n\u011bkolik tip\u016f. 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