{"id":446961,"date":"2026-08-16T21:51:52","date_gmt":"2026-08-16T19:51:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=446961"},"modified":"2026-09-22T16:45:21","modified_gmt":"2026-09-22T14:45:21","slug":"petits-defis-croire-davantage-capacites","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961","title":{"rendered":"Tyto mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy pom\u00e1haj\u00ed pos\u00edlit v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Co kdyby p\u0159edstava \u201est\u00e1t se nov\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem\u201c, abyste z\u00edskali v\u00edce sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, byla po\u017eadavkem, bez kter\u00e9ho byste se obe\u0161li? Toto neust\u00e1l\u00e9 \u00fasil\u00ed o transformaci, tak roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9 v osobn\u00edm rozvoji, m\u016f\u017ee nakonec v\u00e9st k pocitu, \u017ee nikdy nejste \u201edost dob\u0159\u00ed\u201c takov\u00ed, jac\u00ed jste. Nicm\u00e9n\u011b, n\u011bkolik jednoduch\u00fdch v\u00fdzev m\u016f\u017ee sta\u010dit k tomu, abyste zm\u011bnili sv\u016fj pohled na v\u011bc. My\u0161lenka: zn\u00e1sobit mal\u00e9, pozitivn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti, abyste si konkr\u00e9tn\u011b p\u0159ipomn\u011bli, \u017ee jste schopni j\u00edt vp\u0159ed, b\u00fdt odv\u00e1\u017en\u00ed a postupovat.<\/p>\n<h2> Za\u010dn\u011bte v mal\u00e9m, ale za\u010dn\u011bte opravdu<\/h2>\n<p> Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed nen\u00ed superschopnost vyhrazen\u00e1 jen pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed se v\u017edy zdaj\u00ed b\u00fdt sebejist\u00ed. Buduje se tak\u00e9 ka\u017edodenn\u00edmi zku\u0161enostmi. P\u0159ijet\u00edm dosa\u017eiteln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy vys\u00edl\u00e1te do sv\u00e9ho mozku cennou zpr\u00e1vu: <em>\u201eDok\u00e1zal jsem to. Tak\u017ee to m\u016f\u017eu dok\u00e1zat znovu.\u201c<\/em> Toto je princip sebe\u00fa\u010dinnosti, koncept, kter\u00fd vyvinul <a href=\"https:\/\/positivepsychology.com\/fr\/3-ways-build-self-efficacy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">psycholog Albert Bandura<\/a> : \u00fasp\u011bch i v mal\u00fdch \u00fakolech postupn\u011b posiluje v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti. Nen\u00ed tedy t\u0159eba v pond\u011bl\u00ed r\u00e1no usilovat o M\u011bs\u00edc. Za\u010dn\u011bte mal\u00fdm krokem.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 1: Ud\u011blejte n\u011bco, co jste odkl\u00e1dali<\/h2>\n<p> M\u00e1te telefon\u00e1t, mus\u00edte za\u010d\u00edt s vy\u0159izov\u00e1n\u00edm souboru nebo \u00fakol, kter\u00fd u\u017e n\u011bkolik dn\u00ed odkl\u00e1d\u00e1te? Toto je va\u0161e prvn\u00ed hrac\u00ed pole. Dejte si na za\u010d\u00e1tek jen 10 nebo 15 minut. C\u00edlem nen\u00ed v\u0161echno dokon\u010dit, ale p\u0159ej\u00edt od <em>\u201eMus\u00edm to ud\u011blat\u201c<\/em> k <em>\u201eUd\u011bl\u00e1m to\u201c.<\/em> Tento rozd\u00edl se m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t mal\u00fd, ale prom\u011b\u0148uje prokrastinaci v akci. A dokon\u010den\u00e1 akce se st\u00e1v\u00e1 dal\u0161\u00edm d\u016fkazem va\u0161ich schopnost\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 2: Zaznamenejte t\u0159i mal\u00e1 v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p> Ka\u017ed\u00fd ve\u010der po dobu jednoho t\u00fddne si v\u011bnujte p\u00e1r minut tomu, abyste si zapsali t\u0159i v\u011bci, na kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt hrd\u00ed. M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt n\u011bco velmi jednoduch\u00e9ho: odv\u00e1\u017eili se vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor, dokon\u010dili \u00fakol, ud\u011blali si \u010das pro sebe, stanovili si hranice nebo prost\u011b vytrvali, kdy\u017e byl den t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00edlem nen\u00ed vytvo\u0159it si \u201e\u00fa\u017easn\u00fd seznam \u00fasp\u011bch\u016f\u201c. Jde sp\u00ed\u0161e o to, abyste se nau\u010dili rozpozn\u00e1vat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy, v\u010detn\u011b t\u011bch, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1te tendenci pova\u017eovat za \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00ed\u201c. Uzn\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edho pokroku a siln\u00fdch str\u00e1nek je jednou z praktik, kter\u00e9 mohou podpo\u0159it sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a sebed\u016fv\u011bru.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 3: Nahra\u010fte sebekritiku povzbudivou v\u011btou<\/h2>\n<p> Naslouchejte sv\u00e9mu vnit\u0159n\u00edmu hlasu. Co v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, kdy\u017e ud\u011bl\u00e1te chybu? Pokud v\u00e1m okam\u017eit\u011b \u0159ekne: <em>\u201eJsem takov\u00fd selh\u00e1n\u00ed,\u201c<\/em> zkuste to formulovat jinak: <em>\u201eTentokr\u00e1t se mi to nepovedlo, ale ch\u00e1pu, co se pokazilo.\u201c<\/em> Nejde o to, abyste si vypr\u00e1v\u011bli p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy. Jde o to, nau\u010dit se mluvit sami se sebou s v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed laskavost\u00ed a realismem. Chyba nedefinuje va\u0161i hodnotu ani v\u00e1\u0161 potenci\u00e1l pro r\u016fst. M\u016f\u017eete se dokonce sami sebe zeptat: <em>\u201eCo bych \u0159ekl\/a milovan\u00e9 osob\u011b ve stejn\u00e9 situaci?\u201c<\/em> A pak si na to odpov\u011bd\u011bt stejn\u011b.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 4: Vykro\u010dit z komfortn\u00ed z\u00f3ny\u2026 jen trochu<\/h2>\n<p> Nemus\u00edte si rezervovat seskok pad\u00e1kem, abyste se sami sebe vyzvali. Va\u0161e posl\u00e1n\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt mnohem prakti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed: promluvit na sch\u016fzce, po\u017e\u00e1dat o n\u011bco, co pot\u0159ebujete, zah\u00e1jit konverzaci nebo vyzkou\u0161et novou aktivitu. Vyberte si trochu nep\u0159\u00edjemnou, ale rozumn\u011b dosa\u017eitelnou situaci. C\u00edlem je postupovat po mal\u00fdch kr\u016f\u010dc\u00edch, sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e d\u011blat obrovsk\u00fd skok. Pozitivn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti a realistick\u00e9 c\u00edle v\u00e1m mohou pomoci postupn\u011b budovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 5: Vzpome\u0148te si na minul\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch<\/h2>\n<p> Va\u0161e pam\u011b\u0165 m\u00e1 n\u011bkdy zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm funguje: dok\u00e1\u017ee pe\u010dliv\u011b uchov\u00e1vat va\u0161e chyby, zat\u00edmco na va\u0161e \u00fasp\u011bchy se prach usazuje. Obra\u0165te tento trend. Vzpome\u0148te si na situaci, na kterou jste hrd\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Pak jd\u011bte nad r\u00e1mec pouh\u00e9ho vzpom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed: zeptejte se sami sebe, jak\u00e9 vlastnosti jste pou\u017eili. Vytrvalost? Kreativita? Odvaha? Organizovanost? Trp\u011blivost? Nevzpom\u00edn\u00e1te si jen na \u00fasp\u011bch: identifikujete zdroje, kter\u00e9 ji\u017e m\u00e1te a m\u016f\u017eete je znovu pou\u017e\u00edt.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 6: P\u0159ijm\u011bte kompliment, ani\u017e byste ho zleh\u010dovali<\/h2>\n<p> Je va\u0161\u00edm prvn\u00edm instinktem odpov\u011bd\u011bt <em>\u201eAle to nic nebylo\u201c,<\/em> kdy\u017e v\u00e1m n\u011bkdo slo\u017e\u00ed kompliment? Tentokr\u00e1t zkuste jednodu\u0161e: <em>\u201eD\u011bkuji, to je od v\u00e1s velmi laskav\u00e9.\u201c<\/em> To je v\u0161e. P\u0159ijet\u00ed komplimentu, ani\u017e byste ho odm\u00edtli, v\u00e1m umo\u017en\u00ed sn\u00e1ze rozpoznat sv\u00e9 siln\u00e9 str\u00e1nky a \u00fasil\u00ed. Nemus\u00edte se ospravedl\u0148ovat, abyste m\u011bli pr\u00e1vo ocenit \u00fasp\u011bch.<\/p>\n<h2> V\u00fdzva \u010d. 7: Zhodno\u0165te sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed pokrok<\/h2>\n<p> Na konci t\u00fddne si v\u011bnujte p\u011bt minut a polo\u017ete si t\u0159i ot\u00e1zky:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <em>Co jsem si tento t\u00fdden dovolil\/a ud\u011blat?<\/em><\/li>\n<li> <em>Co jsem se o sob\u011b nau\u010dil\/a?<\/em><\/li>\n<li> <em>Jakou malou v\u011bc chci zkusit p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> Mo\u017en\u00e1 zjist\u00edte, \u017ee va\u0161e sebev\u011bdom\u00ed dramaticky nevysko\u010dilo. A to je naprosto norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. \u010casto se vyv\u00edj\u00ed postupn\u011b: jeden \u010din, pak dal\u0161\u00ed a pak dal\u0161\u00ed d\u016fkaz, \u017ee se dok\u00e1\u017eete posunout d\u00e1l.<\/p>\n<p>Aby bylo jasno: v\u00edce v\u011b\u0159it v sebe sama neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee u\u017e nikdy nebudete pochybovat. Jde sp\u00ed\u0161e o to nau\u010dit se j\u00edt vp\u0159ed, i kdy\u017e se pochybnosti objev\u00ed. Vyberte si tedy dnes jen jednu v\u00fdzvu. Tu nejjednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed. Tu, kter\u00e1 se zd\u00e1 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 snadn\u00e1. Usp\u011bjte, vychutnejte si to a z\u00edtra to ud\u011blejte znovu. Proto\u017ee hluboko uvnit\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00e9 mal\u00e9 v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed vypr\u00e1v\u00ed stejn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh: jste schopni mnohem v\u00edc, ne\u017e se v\u00e1m n\u011bkdy sna\u017e\u00ed namluvit v\u00e1\u0161 vnit\u0159n\u00ed kritik.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Co kdyby p\u0159edstava \u201est\u00e1t se nov\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem\u201c, abyste z\u00edskali v\u00edce sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, byla po\u017eadavkem, bez kter\u00e9ho byste se obe\u0161li?...","protected":false},"author":8332,"featured_media":446965,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1784],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-446961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-confiance-en-soi"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/petits-defis-croire-davantage-capacites-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/petits-defis-croire-davantage-capacites-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/petits-defis-croire-davantage-capacites.jpg","author":{"name":"Elodie Pimbert","avatar":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ebb150e677ac079d2950ab20b2912eb61a03232e64b7780e8ce332174fbc25ac?s=96&d=blank&r=g"},"categories":[{"term_id":1784,"name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","slug":"confiance-en-soi","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":1890,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6138,"count":380,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":1784,"category_count":380,"category_description":"<p>Rubrika Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed v magaz\u00ednu The Body Optimist pom\u00e1h\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd den posilovat sebe\u00factu bez ohledu na tvoje t\u011blo, v\u011bk nebo \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, rozbory mechanism\u016f, jako je syndrom podvodn\u00edka, a p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed se nau\u010dili ozvat: to v\u0161e proto, abys nemusela \u010dekat, a\u017e si \u201ezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161\u201c c\u00edtit se dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n<h2>Co najde\u0161 v rubrice Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cvi\u010den\u00ed<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/navyky-posiluji-sebevedomi-446667\">n\u00e1vyky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/a> a pom\u00e1haj\u00ed ho udr\u017eet dlouhodob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Mechanismy, kter\u00e9 t\u011b brzd\u00ed<\/strong>: syndrom podvodn\u00edka, pocit m\u00e9n\u011bcennosti, neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed se, neschopnost \u0159\u00edct ne.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emoce<\/strong>: vysok\u00e1 citlivost, p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost, negativn\u00ed my\u0161lenky a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pohled ostatn\u00edch<\/strong>: jak \u010delit pozn\u00e1mk\u00e1m o v\u00e1ze, odv\u00e1\u017eit se do baz\u00e9nu, p\u0159estat se srovn\u00e1vat a pochopit, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/proc-zeny-vzdy-odmitaji-skupinove-fotografie-431702\">pro\u010d se tolik \u017een vyh\u00fdb\u00e1 skupinov\u00fdm fotk\u00e1m<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Osobn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy<\/strong>: \u017eeny i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed znovu na\u0161li sebed\u016fv\u011bru po \u0161ikan\u011b, nemoci nebo s posti\u017een\u00edm.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak posilovat sebev\u011bdom\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den?<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed se buduje hlavn\u011b \u010diny: ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch je konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm d\u016fkazem tv\u00fdch schopnost\u00ed a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010d\u00ed t\u011b mnohem v\u00edc ne\u017e pozitivn\u00ed v\u011bta opakovan\u00e1 p\u0159ed zrcadlem. P\u00e1r krok\u016f, kter\u00e9 psychologov\u00e9 \u010dasto doporu\u010duj\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>d\u00e1vej si mal\u00e9, ale pravideln\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy a zapisuj si, co se ti povedlo;<\/li>\n<li>v\u0161\u00edmej si sv\u00e9ho kritick\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho hlasu a zeptej se, jestli bys takhle mluvila s kamar\u00e1dkou;<\/li>\n<li>nahra\u010f automatick\u00e9 omluvy pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00edm (\u201ed\u00edky za trp\u011blivost\u201c m\u00edsto \u201epromi\u0148, \u017ee jdu pozd\u011b\u201c);<\/li>\n<li>p\u0159ijmi kompliment prost\u00fdm \u201ed\u011bkuju\u201c, bez zleh\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed;<\/li>\n<li>omez srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, hlavn\u011b na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Jak se d\u00edv\u00e1me na sebev\u011bdom\u00ed<\/h2>\n<p>Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed tu nen\u00ed v\u00fdsadou \u0161t\u00edhl\u00fdch, mlad\u00fdch nebo \u201edokonal\u00fdch\u201c lid\u00ed: ne\u010dek\u00e1 na zhubnut\u00ed ani na odstran\u011bn\u00ed domn\u011bl\u00e9 vady. Na\u0161e \u010dl\u00e1nky d\u00e1vaj\u00ed p\u0159ednost konkr\u00e9tn\u00edm n\u00e1stroj\u016fm p\u0159ed sliby z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bny a p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00edzk\u00e1 sebe\u00facta nen\u00ed osobn\u00ed selh\u00e1n\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se tr\u00e1pen\u00ed usad\u00ed natrvalo (\u00fazkost, \u010dern\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, izolace), m\u016f\u017ee ti pomoct psycholog: n\u00e1\u0161 obsah informuje, odbornou p\u00e9\u010di nenahrazuje.<\/p>\n<h2>\u010cl\u00e1nky pro za\u010d\u00e1tek<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/syndrom-podvodnika-neviditelny-mechanismus-podkopavajici-duveru-434010\">Syndrom podvodn\u00edka<\/a>: jak funguje mechanismus, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu pochybuje\u0161 o vlastn\u00edch \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/vymyslis-si-prilis-mnoho-vymluv-tady-je-to-co-by-to-mohlo-odhalit-431077\">Kdy\u017e se omlouv\u00e1\u0161 a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161<\/a>: co m\u016f\u017ee neust\u00e1l\u00e9 omlouv\u00e1n\u00ed prozrazovat.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/verit-v-svou-netalentovanost-jak-utisit-ten-kriticky-hlasek-uvnitr-436991\">Jak uml\u010det kritick\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas<\/a>: kdy\u017e m\u00e1\u0161 pocit, \u017ee na nic nem\u00e1\u0161 talent.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/obtezuji-ji-komentare-o-jeji-vaze-ale-vysvetluje-jak-znovu-ziskala-sebevedomi-445030\">Pozn\u00e1mky o v\u00e1ze<\/a>: jak jedna \u017eena znovu na\u0161la sebev\u011bdom\u00ed navzdory koment\u00e1\u0159\u016fm okol\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/male-vyzvy-vice-verte-ve-sve-schopnosti-446961\">Mal\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy<\/a>: drobn\u00e9 kroky, kter\u00e9 posiluj\u00ed v\u00edru ve vlastn\u00ed schopnosti.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>\u010cast\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky<\/h2>\n<h3>Jak\u00fd je rozd\u00edl mezi sebev\u011bdom\u00edm a sebe\u00factou?<\/h3>\n<p>Sebe\u00facta vyjad\u0159uje, jakou hodnotu si p\u0159isuzuje\u0161 jako \u010dlov\u011bk; sebev\u011bdom\u00ed neboli sebed\u016fv\u011bra je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dne\u0161 jednat a usp\u011bt v konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situaci. V pr\u00e1ci se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 c\u00edtit kompetentn\u00ed, a p\u0159itom se tvrd\u011b soudit. Oboj\u00ed se d\u00e1 posilovat, \u010dasto sou\u010dasn\u011b, \u010diny a laskavost\u00ed k sob\u011b.<\/p>\n<h3>Co je syndrom podvodn\u00edka?<\/h3>\n<p>Syndrom podvodn\u00edka je p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed pocit, \u017ee si sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy nezaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161, a strach, \u017ee t\u011b n\u011bkdo \u201eprokoukne\u201c. Popsaly ho psycholo\u017eky Pauline Clance a Suzanne Imes; nejde o nemoc, ale o \u010dast\u00fd my\u0161lenkov\u00fd vzorec, a to i u velmi schopn\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Pom\u00e1h\u00e1 objektivn\u011b si sepsat sv\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy a mluvit o nich.<\/p>\n<h3>Jak pomoct kamar\u00e1dce, kter\u00e9 chyb\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed?<\/h3>\n<p>Poslouchej ji a nezleh\u010duj, co c\u00edt\u00ed, vyzdvihni konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed vlastnosti m\u00edsto obecn\u00fdch kompliment\u016f, povzbuzuj ji, a\u0165 v\u011bci zkus\u00ed sama, m\u00edsto abys je d\u011blala za ni, a vyhni se srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud jej\u00ed tr\u00e1pen\u00ed trv\u00e1 nebo se zhor\u0161uje, jemn\u011b ji povzbu\u010f, a\u0165 vyhled\u00e1 odborn\u00edka.<\/p>\n<p>Chce\u0161 j\u00edt d\u00e1l? V\u0161echna na\u0161e <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\">psychologick\u00e1 t\u00e9mata<\/a> najde\u0161 na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na sv\u00e9 t\u011blo se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 pod\u00edvat jinak v rubrice o <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/bodypositive\">p\u0159ijet\u00ed vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla<\/a> a rodinn\u00fdm t\u00e9mat\u016fm se v\u011bnuje <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">rubrika Rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed<\/a>.<\/p>","cat_name":"Sebev\u011bdom\u00ed","category_nicename":"confiance-en-soi","category_parent":6138}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/446961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8332"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=446961"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/446961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":446966,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/446961\/revisions\/446966"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/446965"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=446961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=446961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/cs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=446961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}