{"id":427918,"date":"2025-11-30T17:31:58","date_gmt":"2025-11-30T16:31:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=427918"},"modified":"2025-11-30T17:31:58","modified_gmt":"2025-11-30T16:31:58","slug":"cours-improbables-cartonnent-chez-jeunes-adultes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/unlikely-courses-are-a-hit-with-young-adults-427918","title":{"rendered":"&quot;I didn&#39;t even know how to do laundry&quot;: these unlikely classes are a hit with young adults"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Just a few years ago, you might have laughed if someone had said they were taking a course to learn how to do laundry or understand their electricity bill. Today, it&#39;s no longer a joke: it&#39;s a phenomenon. And a popular one. Young adults, seeking independence, are flocking to these unexpected courses that promise to transform the chaos of daily life into something manageable.<\/p>\n<h2> An acknowledged lack of practical skills<\/h2>\n<p> Many young adults admit to lacking the practical skills to navigate the real world. Faced with a washing machine, some still hesitate before the &quot;cotton&quot; button, wondering whether to call a friend, their parents, or simply give up. Others don&#39;t know how to decipher a bill, freeze in front of a rental agreement, or find themselves helpless when confronted with the mysterious art of cooking anything other than pasta. In short, adulthood can arrive suddenly, and it doesn&#39;t always come with an instruction manual.<\/p>\n<p>This is precisely why several American and Canadian universities have decided to take action. Their observation is simple: while their students may be able to analyze literary texts or code an application, they are not necessarily equipped to manage their daily lives. So why not offer them &quot;real-life&quot; courses designed to help them build healthy, confident, and sustainable autonomy?<\/p>\n<h2> Generation Z facing the big leap<\/h2>\n<p> Generation Z, in particular, seems to need this support. Having grown up in often very protective environments, they sometimes leave the family home later in life and, when they finally take the plunge, face a wall of unfamiliar responsibilities. When everything is new\u2014administrative tasks, finances, home maintenance, roommate relationships\u2014it&#39;s easy to feel overwhelmed. One of this generation&#39;s strengths, however, lies in its ability to learn and adapt quickly, especially when the resources offered are supportive, accessible, and non-judgmental. And that&#39;s exactly what these programs provide.<\/p>\n<h2> Adulting schools: from Maine to California<\/h2>\n<p> Take the Adulting School in Portland, Maine (USA). While its name might make you smile, its success is very real. In these workshops, you learn how to approach a job interview without panicking, how to manage conflicts without losing your footing, how to understand your finances without feeling overwhelmed, and even how to maintain your home without burning out. These sessions, often interactive, are designed to give you confidence and remind you that you are perfectly capable of approaching life with assurance, even when you&#39;re just starting out.<\/p>\n<p>At the University of Waterloo in Ontario, Canada, the <a href=\"https:\/\/uwaterloo.ca\/students\/campus-life\/adulting-guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">digital guide &quot;Adulting 101&quot;<\/a> has become essential. It answers simple yet crucial questions: <em>How do you do laundry without disaster? How do you keep your home clean? How do you cook on a budget without sacrificing your health? How do you manage living with roommates or maintain your mental well-being?<\/em> The approach is pragmatic, positive, and focused on well-being. The goal isn&#39;t to be perfect, but to be independent, capable, and above all, comfortable in your own skin.<\/p>\n<p>In Berkeley, California (USA), a course called &quot;adulting&quot; goes even further. It incorporates budgeting, cooking, job searching, time management, and even interpersonal relationships. In short, a complete package for entering adulthood with confidence and ease. The instructors don&#39;t just impart knowledge; they demystify everyday tasks, show that they are achievable, and help students develop skills that will serve them throughout their lives.<\/p>\n<h2> A real need confirmed by experts<\/h2>\n<p> These initiatives address a genuine need, confirmed by the work of psychologist Jean Twenge. According to her, younger generations are often less independent than previous ones, not due to a lack of ability, but because they have been less involved in practical household tasks. Upon entering university or the workforce, they must then confront a range of unfamiliar responsibilities, which creates considerable stress. Adulting courses aim to dispel this uncertainty by providing concrete answers to questions that are far from obvious when first encountered.<\/p>\n<h2> What you actually learn in these courses<\/h2>\n<p> What exactly do these courses consist of? They are simple, essential, and incredibly useful.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> You learn how to read a lease without getting caught out, how to manage a realistic budget without feeling constrained, how to cook healthily even with a small budget, how to do laundry without anxiety, how to maintain a bathroom or kitchen without it becoming an insurmountable chore.<\/li>\n<li> It also discusses human relationships: how to live in shared accommodation, how to communicate without tension, how to take care of your mental health.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> These are all skills that deserve to be valued, because they shape a gentler and more balanced daily life.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, these programs demonstrate that &quot;becoming an adult&quot; is not a natural instinct that kicks in overnight. It&#39;s a learning process, sometimes chaotic, but always enriching. There&#39;s no shame in not knowing everything right away. On the contrary: recognizing that you need a helping hand is already an act of maturity. By reconciling theory and practice, these programs offer young adults a supportive space to explore, try, make mistakes, and succeed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Just a few years ago, you might have laughed if someone had said they were taking a course...","protected":false},"author":8394,"featured_media":428988,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5678],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-427918","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-societe"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/cours-improbables-cartonnent-jeunes-adultes-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/cours-improbables-cartonnent-jeunes-adultes-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/cours-improbables-cartonnent-jeunes-adultes.jpg","author":{"name":"L\u00e9a Michel","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1721220128171-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":5678,"name":"Society","slug":"societe","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5846,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. Protected grounds vary from country to country, but they often include sex, race or ethnic origin, disability, age, religion, sexual orientation and gender identity. Some places also protect physical appearance or weight.<\/p>\n<h3>What is intersectionality?<\/h3>\n<p>Intersectionality describes how several forms of discrimination can overlap in the same person and reinforce one another. The American legal scholar Kimberl\u00e9 Crenshaw coined the term to describe the experiences of Black women. A woman who is both fat and lesbian, for example, may face sexism, fatphobia and homophobia, which compound one another rather than simply adding up.<\/p>\n<h3>What is diet culture?<\/h3>\n<p>Diet culture is the set of beliefs that equates thinness with health, success and personal worth. It shows up in foods labeled \u201cgood\u201d or \u201cbad,\u201d compliments on weight loss and the shaming of fat bodies. Our magazine prefers a weight-inclusive approach to health, at every size.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/culture\">Culture<\/a> section explores how bodies and identities are portrayed in movies, TV shows and books, and our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\">Psychology<\/a> section supports you with self-image, confidence and emotions.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":1539,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5678,"category_count":1539,"category_description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. 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