{"id":429747,"date":"2025-12-11T13:46:15","date_gmt":"2025-12-11T12:46:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=429747"},"modified":"2025-12-11T13:46:15","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T12:46:15","slug":"inde-mariage-fait-scandale-cause-couleur-peau-marie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/indian-marriage-causes-scandal-because-of-brides-skin-color-429747","title":{"rendered":"In India, their marriage caused a scandal because of the groom&#39;s skin color."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A love wedding in India has turned into a national controversy because of the groom&#39;s skin color, sparking a fierce debate about colorism and the prejudices still prevalent in society. Rishabh Rajput and Sonali Chouksey, a couple from Madhya Pradesh, saw their wedding video go viral, not for their happiness, but because of attacks targeting the groom&#39;s dark skin and the bride&#39;s supposed motives.<\/p>\n<h2> A fairytale wedding\u2026 ruined by trolls<\/h2>\n<p> Rishabh and Sonali met at university in 2014, stayed together for 11 years before getting married on November 23rd, surrounded by their families and traditional rituals. Their photos and videos, posted on social media to share their joy, quickly circulated, but the congratulatory messages were drowned out by mockery and memes targeting the groom&#39;s darker complexion. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DRjF4SpDIsa\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\"> View this post on Instagram <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"> <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DRjF4SpDIsa\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by @Queen&#39;sTouchByShefali_ (@shefali.bridal_beauty)<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> A mix of online racism and misogyny<\/h2>\n<p> Trolls described the couple as &quot;ill-matched,&quot; insinuating that &quot;Sonali couldn&#39;t be happy with a dark-skinned man.&quot; Many called her a &quot;gold digger,&quot; claiming she married him for his money or a government position, even going so far as to suggest his father was a minister, without a shred of evidence.<\/p>\n<h2> A dignified and forthright response<\/h2>\n<p> Faced with the harsh criticism, the couple decided to respond publicly rather than remain silent. In an Instagram post and several interviews, Rishabh reiterated that he is not a civil servant, but that he works hard to provide a decent life for his family, emphasizing that Sonali loved him when he &quot;had nothing&quot; and that she stood by him through thick and thin.<\/p>\n<h2> Confronting the contradictions of colorism<\/h2>\n<p> Rishabh told the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c62vnlg6v6wo\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">BBC<\/a> that he had faced discrimination based on his skin color his entire life, but had never heard, in their 11-year relationship, that they were a &quot;bad couple&quot; until the video was judged by strangers online. Sonali pointed out that in India, most people have darker skin, and that having lighter skin doesn&#39;t make someone better, denouncing the absurdity of judging a couple based on their complexion rather than the love and respect they share.<\/p>\n<h2> A love stronger than prejudice<\/h2>\n<p> The couple insists that a 30-second video doesn&#39;t capture the 11 years of work, compromise, and mutual support that have built their story. To those who call them a &quot;mismatch,&quot; Rishabh simply replies, <em>&quot;Look at their faces; they don&#39;t seem unhappy because they possess something many don&#39;t: I have her, and she has me.&quot;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The story of Rishabh and Sonali, beyond the sincere love it embodies, reveals the persistent stigma of colorism in India. Their union, meant to be celebrated, has brought to light the unfounded judgments still faced by those who do not conform to aesthetic standards inherited from centuries of social hierarchies. By choosing to respond with dignity and defend their story, the couple transforms hatred into awareness. Their message is clear: skin color does not define the value of a human being.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A love wedding in India has turned into a national controversy because of the groom&#39;s skin color, sparking...","protected":false},"author":8394,"featured_media":429748,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6136],"tags":[97333,97759,97372],"class_list":["post-429747","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-mariage","tag-couple","tag-news","tag-relation"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/En-Inde-leur-mariage-fait-scandale-a-cause-de-la-couleur-de-peau-du-marie-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/En-Inde-leur-mariage-fait-scandale-a-cause-de-la-couleur-de-peau-du-marie-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/En-Inde-leur-mariage-fait-scandale-a-cause-de-la-couleur-de-peau-du-marie.jpg","author":{"name":"L\u00e9a Michel","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1721220128171-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":6136,"name":"Marriage","slug":"mariage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":6308,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>The Marriage section of The Body Optimist is for anyone planning a wedding or celebrating an anniversary: wedding dresses for every body type, outfits, hairstyles, planning and stories of ceremonies. It comes with one conviction: you celebrate your big day in the body you have, with no mandatory diet and no single model to follow.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Marriage section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Wedding dresses in every size<\/strong>: plus-size bridal styles suited to every body type, alternatives to white and unexpected outfits such as bridal jumpsuits.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty and accessories<\/strong>: hair, makeup that lasts all day, comfortable shoes and choosing a ring, with ideas for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/beaute\/coiffure\/wedding-hairstyle-for-long-hair-440386\">wedding hairstyles for long hair<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Planning<\/strong>: budget, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/deco-maison\/diy-homemade-wedding-decorations-439561\">DIY wedding decorations<\/a>, making room for children, family tensions and day-of surprises.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wedding anniversaries<\/strong>: what each milestone traditionally stands for, from paper to diamond, and ideas to celebrate it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Stories and society<\/strong>: ceremonies that break the mold, inclusive weddings, and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/subtle-aesthetic-pressures-weigh-on-bridesmaids-442358\">beauty pressure placed on brides and bridesmaids<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you choose a wedding dress for your body type?<\/h2>\n<p>The right wedding dress is the one you feel like yourself in, and your size doesn\u2019t change that. Before booking fittings, ask bridal shops what size range their sample gowns come in, so you\u2019re not stuck trying on dresses that are too small and held together with clips. Try several silhouettes: an empire waist, fitted under the bust and then flowing, gives you plenty of freedom to move; an A-line balances hips and shoulders; a mermaid gown highlights curves; a soft sheath moves with you as you walk. Think about lingerie, and about comfort when sitting and dancing. Start shopping several months ahead, since alterations often take several appointments. And nothing says you have to wear white, or even a dress.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach<\/h2>\n<p>For us, getting married is one choice among many: a civil partnership, living together without marrying or staying single are just as valid. When it comes to wedding prep, we reject the \u201cshedding for the wedding\u201d countdown so often pushed on brides-to-be: the dress gets altered to fit the body, not the other way around. Our articles feature brides of all sizes, couples from all walks of life and ceremonies that look like the people getting married.<\/p>\n<h2>Where to start<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/why-perfect-marriages-dont-exist-good-news-446799\">Why the perfect marriage doesn\u2019t exist<\/a>: and why that\u2019s actually good news.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/forget-the-white-dress-this-color-is-now-the-dream-for-brides-429898\">Beyond the white dress<\/a>: the color more and more brides are dreaming of.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/making-your-own-wedding-dress-the-new-trend-that-inspires-women-445829\">Making your own wedding dress<\/a>: the DIY approach inspiring brides who want something truly theirs.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/she-eats-pasta-at-her-wedding-and-breaks-the-rules-surrounding-that-day-432101\">A wedding on your own terms<\/a>: the bride who served pasta and broke with convention.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What are the traditional wedding anniversary gifts?<\/h3>\n<p>Each anniversary has a traditional theme, usually a material that grows more precious over time: paper for the first year, cotton for the second, leather for the third, wood for the fifth, tin for the 10th, china for the 20th, silver for the 25th, pearl for the 30th, ruby for the 40th, gold for the 50th and diamond for the 60th. Lists vary by country, and modern versions exist.<\/p>\n<h3>Do you need to lose weight before your wedding?<\/h3>\n<p>No. Nothing requires you to change your body to get married, and crash diets before the big day can bring fatigue, stress and the yo-yo effect. It\u2019s better to choose a dress that fits your body as it is now and schedule a final fitting a few weeks before the ceremony. Sleep, regular meals and time to breathe will serve you far better.<\/p>\n<h3>Marriage, civil union or living together: what\u2019s the difference?<\/h3>\n<p>All three can frame a shared life, but legal protections differ by type of union and by country. In many places, marriage gives spouses stronger rights in areas such as inheritance, survivor benefits or shared property, while other partnerships may offer fewer protections but can be ended more simply. Before deciding, check the laws where you live or ask a family law attorney.<\/p>\n<p>Keep exploring: find all our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\">sex and relationship topics<\/a>, everyday couple life in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\">Love life<\/a>, and desire and pleasure, honeymoon included, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/sexualite\">Sexuality<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":100,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":6136,"category_count":100,"category_description":"<p>The Marriage section of The Body Optimist is for anyone planning a wedding or celebrating an anniversary: wedding dresses for every body type, outfits, hairstyles, planning and stories of ceremonies. It comes with one conviction: you celebrate your big day in the body you have, with no mandatory diet and no single model to follow.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Marriage section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Wedding dresses in every size<\/strong>: plus-size bridal styles suited to every body type, alternatives to white and unexpected outfits such as bridal jumpsuits.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty and accessories<\/strong>: hair, makeup that lasts all day, comfortable shoes and choosing a ring, with ideas for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/beaute\/coiffure\/wedding-hairstyle-for-long-hair-440386\">wedding hairstyles for long hair<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Planning<\/strong>: budget, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/deco-maison\/diy-homemade-wedding-decorations-439561\">DIY wedding decorations<\/a>, making room for children, family tensions and day-of surprises.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wedding anniversaries<\/strong>: what each milestone traditionally stands for, from paper to diamond, and ideas to celebrate it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Stories and society<\/strong>: ceremonies that break the mold, inclusive weddings, and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/subtle-aesthetic-pressures-weigh-on-bridesmaids-442358\">beauty pressure placed on brides and bridesmaids<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you choose a wedding dress for your body type?<\/h2>\n<p>The right wedding dress is the one you feel like yourself in, and your size doesn\u2019t change that. Before booking fittings, ask bridal shops what size range their sample gowns come in, so you\u2019re not stuck trying on dresses that are too small and held together with clips. Try several silhouettes: an empire waist, fitted under the bust and then flowing, gives you plenty of freedom to move; an A-line balances hips and shoulders; a mermaid gown highlights curves; a soft sheath moves with you as you walk. Think about lingerie, and about comfort when sitting and dancing. Start shopping several months ahead, since alterations often take several appointments. And nothing says you have to wear white, or even a dress.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach<\/h2>\n<p>For us, getting married is one choice among many: a civil partnership, living together without marrying or staying single are just as valid. When it comes to wedding prep, we reject the \u201cshedding for the wedding\u201d countdown so often pushed on brides-to-be: the dress gets altered to fit the body, not the other way around. 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