{"id":432101,"date":"2026-01-10T08:00:07","date_gmt":"2026-01-10T07:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=432101"},"modified":"2026-01-10T06:24:09","modified_gmt":"2026-01-10T05:24:09","slug":"mange-pates-mariage-elle-brise-les-injonctions-autour-de-ce-jour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/she-eats-pasta-at-her-wedding-and-breaks-the-rules-surrounding-that-day-432101","title":{"rendered":"\u201cWe ate pasta at our wedding\u201d: she breaks with the conventions surrounding this day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Couples are redefining traditions and readily breaking established culinary rules. Some set up food trucks at their reception venue, others opt for themed buffets, and still others showcase pasta in every conceivable way. This dish, more often found in student kitchens than on white tablecloths, doesn&#39;t pretend to rival typical gourmet menus. But it does have the merit of breaking the mold.<\/p>\n<h2> Pasta as a main course, a bold choice<\/h2>\n<p> Imagine a perfectly set table, adorned with a gilded candelabra, wildflowers, and crystal tableware. Pasta, a cheap and easy-to-prepare dish for lazy days, seems out of place with this elegant setting. When you think of a wedding menu, you spontaneously picture a beautiful chicken on a bed of organic vegetables or a duck breast with dauphinoise potatoes.<\/p>\n<p>You expect to read prestigious culinary titles on your parchment, written in a romantic font. A little less so to eat a humble dish you know by heart. Content creator <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/chlosertoyou?hl=fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@chlosertoyou<\/a> surprised her guests&#39; taste buds by offering a twist on pasta. Like many couples, tired of outdated customs and culinary norms, she found originality in pure simplicity.<\/p>\n<p>And she didn&#39;t choose this menu to reenact Lady and the Tramp in front of the photographer&#39;s watchful eye. Pasta, that staple that comes in handy when inspiration is lacking and that relentlessly reappears on the lips of students, is a true institution in Italy. Here, we&#39;re not talking about simple macaroni and cheese or spaghetti smothered in ketchup, but rather more elaborate recipes. The influencer did justice to this unjustly underrated dish. While her friends initially grimaced at the menu&#39;s reveal, as if to say, &quot;That&#39;s just not done,&quot; they quickly changed their minds. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DPI_6rQjY7s\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\"> View this post on Instagram <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"> <a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DPI_6rQjY7s\/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Chlo\u00e9 Allain Morand (@chlosertoyou)<\/a> <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> A wedding with the good taste of Dolce Vita<\/h2>\n<p> While some more daring brides have replaced the traditional wedding cake with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\/fini-piece-montee-couple-mise-mozza-geante-cree-surprise-420738\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">giant mozzarella<\/a> or an XXL tiramisu, Chlo\u00e9 was a bit more sensible and sensible in her choices. As she explains in her video, &quot;the wedding food theme was Italian.&quot; Pasta, easier to elevate than the convivial pizza, was therefore the obvious choice.<\/p>\n<p>The content creator, who avoided clich\u00e9s and tastefully reimagined the wedding menu, didn&#39;t settle for just a few antipasti and some parmesan. For starters? Grilled octopus, beef carpaccio, truffle arancini, a burrata and tomato duo\u2026 The experience begins with the very first bite. These dishes, whose aromas alone evoke the cobblestone streets of Milan, were just a brief glimpse. The rest of the meal was equally promising.<\/p>\n<p>Who said pasta couldn&#39;t be chic and rival the finest dishes of French cuisine? Chlo\u00e9 opted for three pasta variations for her wedding: truffle pasta, clam pasta, and rag\u00f9 pasta. These Italian-inspired specialties prove that pasta can be paired with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/mariage\/pas-partenaire-mais-deja-robe-mariee-plus-utile-427475\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">immaculate dresses<\/a> and suits, not just with a grandmother&#39;s apron.<\/p>\n<h2> The desire for a truly personalized wedding<\/h2>\n<p> Today, couples aspire to more freedom and take their relatives&#39; commandments less to heart. They say &quot;I do&quot; in satin pajamas in front of the altar, improvise giant barbecues in castle grounds, and toast their union with picnic-style meals in the middle of fields.<\/p>\n<p>While weddings were once largely dictated by parents, they are now experienced as a personal affair. From the menu to the activities and the dancing, modern weddings have one guiding principle: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sexo\/mariage\/comment-planifier-mariage-vous-ressemble-422112\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">individuality<\/a> . Couples no longer seek to please the older members of the family; they want to realize their wildest dreams, even if it shocks some of the older guests. They take back control and loosen the reins, from the wardrobe to the food.<\/p>\n<p>Serving pasta at your wedding, blowing bubbles as you leave the church, offering packets of seeds to plant instead of the usual sugared almonds\u2026 It\u2019s not provocation, simply a sign of pleasant emancipation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Couples are redefining traditions and readily breaking established culinary rules. 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It comes with one conviction: you celebrate your big day in the body you have, with no mandatory diet and no single model to follow.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Marriage section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Wedding dresses in every size<\/strong>: plus-size bridal styles suited to every body type, alternatives to white and unexpected outfits such as bridal jumpsuits.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty and accessories<\/strong>: hair, makeup that lasts all day, comfortable shoes and choosing a ring, with ideas for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/beaute\/coiffure\/wedding-hairstyle-for-long-hair-440386\">wedding hairstyles for long hair<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Planning<\/strong>: budget, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/deco-maison\/diy-homemade-wedding-decorations-439561\">DIY wedding decorations<\/a>, making room for children, family tensions and day-of surprises.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wedding anniversaries<\/strong>: what each milestone traditionally stands for, from paper to diamond, and ideas to celebrate it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Stories and society<\/strong>: ceremonies that break the mold, inclusive weddings, and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/subtle-aesthetic-pressures-weigh-on-bridesmaids-442358\">beauty pressure placed on brides and bridesmaids<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you choose a wedding dress for your body type?<\/h2>\n<p>The right wedding dress is the one you feel like yourself in, and your size doesn\u2019t change that. Before booking fittings, ask bridal shops what size range their sample gowns come in, so you\u2019re not stuck trying on dresses that are too small and held together with clips. Try several silhouettes: an empire waist, fitted under the bust and then flowing, gives you plenty of freedom to move; an A-line balances hips and shoulders; a mermaid gown highlights curves; a soft sheath moves with you as you walk. Think about lingerie, and about comfort when sitting and dancing. Start shopping several months ahead, since alterations often take several appointments. And nothing says you have to wear white, or even a dress.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach<\/h2>\n<p>For us, getting married is one choice among many: a civil partnership, living together without marrying or staying single are just as valid. When it comes to wedding prep, we reject the \u201cshedding for the wedding\u201d countdown so often pushed on brides-to-be: the dress gets altered to fit the body, not the other way around. Our articles feature brides of all sizes, couples from all walks of life and ceremonies that look like the people getting married.<\/p>\n<h2>Where to start<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/why-perfect-marriages-dont-exist-good-news-446799\">Why the perfect marriage doesn\u2019t exist<\/a>: and why that\u2019s actually good news.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/forget-the-white-dress-this-color-is-now-the-dream-for-brides-429898\">Beyond the white dress<\/a>: the color more and more brides are dreaming of.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/making-your-own-wedding-dress-the-new-trend-that-inspires-women-445829\">Making your own wedding dress<\/a>: the DIY approach inspiring brides who want something truly theirs.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/she-eats-pasta-at-her-wedding-and-breaks-the-rules-surrounding-that-day-432101\">A wedding on your own terms<\/a>: the bride who served pasta and broke with convention.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What are the traditional wedding anniversary gifts?<\/h3>\n<p>Each anniversary has a traditional theme, usually a material that grows more precious over time: paper for the first year, cotton for the second, leather for the third, wood for the fifth, tin for the 10th, china for the 20th, silver for the 25th, pearl for the 30th, ruby for the 40th, gold for the 50th and diamond for the 60th. Lists vary by country, and modern versions exist.<\/p>\n<h3>Do you need to lose weight before your wedding?<\/h3>\n<p>No. Nothing requires you to change your body to get married, and crash diets before the big day can bring fatigue, stress and the yo-yo effect. It\u2019s better to choose a dress that fits your body as it is now and schedule a final fitting a few weeks before the ceremony. Sleep, regular meals and time to breathe will serve you far better.<\/p>\n<h3>Marriage, civil union or living together: what\u2019s the difference?<\/h3>\n<p>All three can frame a shared life, but legal protections differ by type of union and by country. In many places, marriage gives spouses stronger rights in areas such as inheritance, survivor benefits or shared property, while other partnerships may offer fewer protections but can be ended more simply. Before deciding, check the laws where you live or ask a family law attorney.<\/p>\n<p>Keep exploring: find all our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\">sex and relationship topics<\/a>, everyday couple life in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/vie-amoureuse\">Love life<\/a>, and desire and pleasure, honeymoon included, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/sexualite\">Sexuality<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":6135,"count":101,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":6136,"category_count":101,"category_description":"<p>The Marriage section of The Body Optimist is for anyone planning a wedding or celebrating an anniversary: wedding dresses for every body type, outfits, hairstyles, planning and stories of ceremonies. It comes with one conviction: you celebrate your big day in the body you have, with no mandatory diet and no single model to follow.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Marriage section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Wedding dresses in every size<\/strong>: plus-size bridal styles suited to every body type, alternatives to white and unexpected outfits such as bridal jumpsuits.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty and accessories<\/strong>: hair, makeup that lasts all day, comfortable shoes and choosing a ring, with ideas for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/beaute\/coiffure\/wedding-hairstyle-for-long-hair-440386\">wedding hairstyles for long hair<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Planning<\/strong>: budget, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/deco-maison\/diy-homemade-wedding-decorations-439561\">DIY wedding decorations<\/a>, making room for children, family tensions and day-of surprises.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wedding anniversaries<\/strong>: what each milestone traditionally stands for, from paper to diamond, and ideas to celebrate it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Stories and society<\/strong>: ceremonies that break the mold, inclusive weddings, and the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/subtle-aesthetic-pressures-weigh-on-bridesmaids-442358\">beauty pressure placed on brides and bridesmaids<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you choose a wedding dress for your body type?<\/h2>\n<p>The right wedding dress is the one you feel like yourself in, and your size doesn\u2019t change that. Before booking fittings, ask bridal shops what size range their sample gowns come in, so you\u2019re not stuck trying on dresses that are too small and held together with clips. Try several silhouettes: an empire waist, fitted under the bust and then flowing, gives you plenty of freedom to move; an A-line balances hips and shoulders; a mermaid gown highlights curves; a soft sheath moves with you as you walk. Think about lingerie, and about comfort when sitting and dancing. Start shopping several months ahead, since alterations often take several appointments. And nothing says you have to wear white, or even a dress.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach<\/h2>\n<p>For us, getting married is one choice among many: a civil partnership, living together without marrying or staying single are just as valid. When it comes to wedding prep, we reject the \u201cshedding for the wedding\u201d countdown so often pushed on brides-to-be: the dress gets altered to fit the body, not the other way around. Our articles feature brides of all sizes, couples from all walks of life and ceremonies that look like the people getting married.<\/p>\n<h2>Where to start<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/why-perfect-marriages-dont-exist-good-news-446799\">Why the perfect marriage doesn\u2019t exist<\/a>: and why that\u2019s actually good news.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/forget-the-white-dress-this-color-is-now-the-dream-for-brides-429898\">Beyond the white dress<\/a>: the color more and more brides are dreaming of.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/making-your-own-wedding-dress-the-new-trend-that-inspires-women-445829\">Making your own wedding dress<\/a>: the DIY approach inspiring brides who want something truly theirs.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\/mariage\/she-eats-pasta-at-her-wedding-and-breaks-the-rules-surrounding-that-day-432101\">A wedding on your own terms<\/a>: the bride who served pasta and broke with convention.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What are the traditional wedding anniversary gifts?<\/h3>\n<p>Each anniversary has a traditional theme, usually a material that grows more precious over time: paper for the first year, cotton for the second, leather for the third, wood for the fifth, tin for the 10th, china for the 20th, silver for the 25th, pearl for the 30th, ruby for the 40th, gold for the 50th and diamond for the 60th. 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