{"id":433649,"date":"2026-01-30T16:12:35","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T15:12:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=433649"},"modified":"2026-01-30T16:12:35","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T15:12:35","slug":"se-sentir-belle-elle-decide-raser-cheveux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/to-feel-beautiful-she-decides-to-shave-her-head-433649","title":{"rendered":"To &quot;feel beautiful again,&quot; she decides to shave her head completely."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Creating beauty content is her job. However, in December 2025, Erika Titus, one of TikTok&#39;s rising stars, decided to do something for herself\u2014not for the algorithm. At 23, the Hawaiian content creator with 4 million followers chose to shave her head. She saw this decision as a personal liberation and an act of redefining beauty in the age of filters and &quot;skinny content.&quot;<\/p>\n<h2> A sudden... and symbolic desire<\/h2>\n<p> It all started with a persistent idea. <em>&quot;I don&#39;t know why I thought of it, maybe I was watching &#39;Stranger Things&#39; and I saw Eleven&#39;s shaved head,&quot;<\/em> she told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.teenvogue.com\/story\/why-did-erika-titus-shave-her-head-stranger-things-self-discovery-interview\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Teen Vogue<\/a> . For several days, the young woman couldn&#39;t shake the desire, until she finally took the plunge. Beneath her impulsive appearance, her action was actually the result of long deliberation.<\/p>\n<p>Behind the clippers: a questioning of her self-image, shaped by years of exposure on social media. For Erika Titus (@erikatitus), hairstyles had become a symbol of control, of conforming beauty, and shaving her head, a way to erase everything and start from scratch. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" style=\"max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@erikatitus\/video\/7592761964485496095\" data-video-id=\"7592761964485496095\">\n<section> <a title=\"@erikatitus\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@erikatitus?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@erikatitus<\/a> I forgot I filmed this back when I had hair hshdshhshs <a title=\"\u266c original sound - Lyrical Lemonade\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7585679059997199135?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound - Lyrical Lemonade<\/a><\/p>\n<\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> The fatigue of &quot;looking beautiful&quot; online<\/h2>\n<p> Since starting out at 18, Erika Titus (@erikatitus) has built her reputation on creative makeup tutorials and infectious energy. Over time, however, the pressure of online scrutiny became a burden. <em>&quot;I was getting comments about my personality, so I hid behind my beauty. As long as I looked good, I thought people would be more forgiving,&quot;<\/em> she says.<\/p>\n<p>From there, a downward spiral began: retouching, cosmetic procedures, constant image control\u2026 without ever finding the desired satisfaction. <em>\u201cIt was like putting a bandage on a deeper wound.\u201d<\/em> By shaving her head, Erika wanted to end this dependence on external validation and try to see herself differently.<\/p>\n<h2> A collective rebirth<\/h2>\n<p> Her &quot;Bald Series,&quot; published on TikTok, quickly garnered millions of views. Erika Titus (@erikatitus) read it all, from admiring comments to harsh judgments. What struck her most was the wave of people who imitated her: <em>&quot;Many posted videos of themselves shaving their heads too. It was beautiful to see that this gesture could become a movement.&quot;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Since then, Erika has been rediscovering her image. She&#39;s daring, experimenting, feeling her way\u2014sometimes even hating it. <em>&quot;I bleached my hair and hated the result, but I was glad I tried it,&quot;<\/em> she says humorously. This new, freer, and more relaxed relationship with her appearance encourages her to explore other aspects of herself: <em>&quot;I talk more, I say no, I assert myself. Shaving my head helped me set boundaries\u2014with others, but especially with myself.&quot;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, for Erika Titus (@erikatitus), shaving her head wasn&#39;t &quot;a crisis,&quot; but rather a form of feminist rebirth. In a world where appearance is omnipresent, she chose to lighten her load\u2014of her image, her masks, and the pressure to be beautiful at all costs. A powerful gesture: that of a young woman learning to love herself again, in a different way.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Creating beauty content is her job. 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Its explainers, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand inequality and act against it, with special attention to the pressures placed on women\u2019s bodies.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Feminism section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Everyday sexism<\/strong>: remarks, jokes and expressions that normalize inequality, like the familiar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/you-scare-men-a-remark-often-made-to-women-sparks-debate-439175\">\u201cyou scare men\u201d comment<\/a> so many women hear.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Violence and harassment<\/strong>: street and online harassment, consent, intimate partner violence and tools to help recognize abuse early.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Work and money<\/strong>: pay gaps, entrepreneurship, the division of household labor and the extra expenses that inequality places on women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Bodies and expectations<\/strong>: body hair, clothing, age and appearance, and the debates over women\u2019s freedom to decide about their own bodies and image.<\/li>\n<li><strong>History and symbols<\/strong>: pioneers, inventors and rallying symbols that tell the story of feminist movements.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women\u2019s rights around the world<\/strong>: access to education, sports and public space, and the fights being waged from Afghanistan to Ethiopia, like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/afghan-private-schools-defy-the-ban-on-teaching-431358\">Afghan girls defying the ban on schooling<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you respond to everyday sexism?<\/h2>\n<p>Responding to everyday sexism starts with naming what was just said, without justifying yourself or apologizing. A few strategies that work:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask a neutral question (\u201cCan you explain what you mean?\u201d): having to spell out a remark is often enough to defuse it.<\/li>\n<li>Describe the facts instead of judging the person (\u201cThat joke reduces women to their looks\u201d).<\/li>\n<li>Assess your safety: you are never obligated to respond on the spot.<\/li>\n<li>At work, write down dates, words and witnesses: in many countries, sexual harassment and sex discrimination in the workplace are against the law.<\/li>\n<li>As a bystander, support the person being targeted rather than letting silence validate the remark.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For situations at the office, our guide on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">setting boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a> offers more concrete responses.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach: an inclusive, practical feminism<\/h2>\n<p>Our feminism includes all women: fat or thin, women of color, lesbian, trans, disabled, younger or older. We connect the big questions of equality to lived situations, from a comment at the office to the division of chores, and we prefer explanations and practical steps to controversy, without ranking struggles or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/invisible-costs-women-bear-daily-436496\">invisible costs women bear every day<\/a>, and what they reveal about inequality.<\/li>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/the-cool-girl-myth-when-being-desirable-mostly-means-never-causing-a-disturbance-447055\">\u201ccool girl\u201d myth<\/a>, or how being seen as desirable often comes down to never making waves.<\/li>\n<li>Why <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/why-is-a-womans-body-a-subject-of-debate-after-45-years-444443\">women\u2019s bodies after 45<\/a> are still such a hot topic, and what ageism has to do with it.<\/li>\n<li>How <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/outfits-deemed-inappropriate-dress-code-reveals-inequalities-between-men-and-women-434311\">dress codes<\/a> expose double standards between men and women.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What is feminism?<\/h3>\n<p>Feminism refers to the ideas and movements that seek equal rights, opportunities and living conditions for women and men. It spans many schools of thought that share one observation: inequality between the sexes is socially constructed, which means it can be challenged, in the law as well as in attitudes.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the difference between sexism and misogyny?<\/h3>\n<p>Sexism covers prejudice, stereotypes and discrimination based on sex, often so normalized that they go unnoticed. Misogyny refers more specifically to contempt or hostility toward women. A joke about \u201cwomen drivers\u201d is everyday sexism; a speech claiming that women are incompetent by nature is misogyny.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the mental load?<\/h3>\n<p>The mental load is the invisible work of anticipating and organizing household and family life: remembering appointments, groceries, birthdays and whatever is running low. Even when chores are shared, this project-manager role still often falls to women, with effects on their fatigue and their free time.<\/p>\n<h3>What should you do if you experience intimate partner violence?<\/h3>\n<p>If you are in immediate danger, call the emergency number in your country. Many countries have a free, confidential helpline for people experiencing domestic violence, and a doctor, a social worker or a specialized organization can help you plan your next steps. Tools such as the \u201cviolentometer,\u201d a scale that runs from green to red, can also help you recognize behaviors that call for caution or signal danger.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Explore all our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\">Society<\/a> topics, along with our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> sections.<\/p>","parent":5678,"count":217,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":72943,"category_count":217,"category_description":"<p>The Feminism section of The Body Optimist covers gender equality in everyday life: everyday sexism, violence against women, work, the domestic load, rights and representation. 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A few strategies that work:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask a neutral question (\u201cCan you explain what you mean?\u201d): having to spell out a remark is often enough to defuse it.<\/li>\n<li>Describe the facts instead of judging the person (\u201cThat joke reduces women to their looks\u201d).<\/li>\n<li>Assess your safety: you are never obligated to respond on the spot.<\/li>\n<li>At work, write down dates, words and witnesses: in many countries, sexual harassment and sex discrimination in the workplace are against the law.<\/li>\n<li>As a bystander, support the person being targeted rather than letting silence validate the remark.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For situations at the office, our guide on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">setting boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a> offers more concrete responses.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach: an inclusive, practical feminism<\/h2>\n<p>Our feminism includes all women: fat or thin, women of color, lesbian, trans, disabled, younger or older. 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