{"id":434567,"date":"2026-02-11T15:45:31","date_gmt":"2026-02-11T14:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=434567"},"modified":"2026-02-11T16:07:36","modified_gmt":"2026-02-11T15:07:36","slug":"margot-robbie-evoque-pire-cadeau-recu-acteur-lie-corps","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/margot-robbie-evokes-the-worst-gift-received-by-an-actor-bound-body-434567","title":{"rendered":"Margot Robbie talks about the &quot;worst&quot; gift she&#39;s ever received from an actor, and it&#39;s related to her body."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Currently starring in the film adaptation of &quot;Wuthering Heights,&quot; Margot Robbie is doing a string of interviews to promote this highly anticipated film. But the revelation she shared with Complex magazine wasn&#39;t about her new role, nor her chemistry with the charismatic Jacob Elordi, her co-star. She revealed the appalling gift she received early in her career from an actor. And while roses may prick her hands, this red-flag-like present severely damaged her self-esteem.<\/p>\n<h2> A book that implies &quot;you have to lose weight to be beautiful&quot;<\/h2>\n<p> Margot Robbie, who has traded her candy-pink outfits for the period costumes typical of Bront\u00eb&#39;s novels, is making headlines. After lending her likeness to Barbie, the 35-year-old actress brings to life Catherine Earnshaw, the impulsive and tempestuous heroine of Wuthering Heights. This new performance adds to the already dazzling filmography of the blue-eyed blonde.<\/p>\n<p>Hollywood&#39;s rising star, who is proving once again the full extent of her talent, took advantage of an interview to discuss an unfortunate career mishap. Spoiled by their fans, stars receive personalized gifts and hand-knitted sweaters. But Margot Robbie received a gift of a completely different nature. And it speaks volumes about the pressure to be thin in the film industry.<\/p>\n<p>In a joint <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?si=Km4Voc_JT88kAP91&v=rbHzy-ovMKc&feature=youtu.be\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">interview<\/a> with singer Charli XCX, also in the cast of Wuthering Heights, she shared the worst gift she&#39;d ever received from a colleague. &quot;At the very beginning of my career, an actor I was working with gave me a book titled Why French Women Don&#39;t Gain Weight,&quot; the actress recalled to Complex. For her, the book was unambiguous, a veiled criticism, an invitation to &quot;eat less.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s a bit like giving a gym membership for Christmas or shapewear for Valentine&#39;s Day; it&#39;s deeply hurtful to the recipient. It&#39;s a rather unsubtle way of sending a message about appearance, the number one selection criterion in the film industry.<\/p>\n<h2> Margot Robbie, a constant target of body shaming<\/h2>\n<p> Stunned by this gift, which had a devastating effect on her confidence, Margot Robbie still vividly remembers it. &quot;Basically, he gave me a book to make me understand that I needed to lose weight. I was like, &#39;Wow!&#39;&quot; she exclaimed to the camera. She didn&#39;t elaborate on the giver of this inappropriate present, claiming it was &quot;a very long time ago.&quot; This behind-the-scenes anecdote, which has rekindled old teenage traumas for many women, points to a deeper problem. This book alone embodies the pressure actresses face every day on set.<\/p>\n<p>In this profession where physical appearance seems to matter more than acting, women&#39;s bodies are constantly scrutinized, analyzed, commented on, and blamed for everything. Margot Robbie was no exception to this microscopic examination, this onslaught of online hate. During her pregnancy, a time when the body performs a miracle of nature, malicious internet users redoubled their attacks. &quot;Her body is ruined,&quot; &quot;Too fat,&quot; &quot;We&#39;ve lost a legend,&quot; were some of the comments. This was a virtual extension of the suggestively titled book she received at the dawn of her success.<\/p>\n<p>Lectures about women&#39;s appearance are a deeply ingrained ritual of humiliation. The talent of film actresses seems to be reduced to their waist size, and their worth to their measurements.<\/p>\n<h2> An alarming illustration of the cult of thinness in Hollywood<\/h2>\n<p> Margot Robbie isn&#39;t the first to suffer from Hollywood&#39;s uncompromising and stereotypical gaze. In this industry, the tyranny of thinness reigns supreme. Worse, the myth of the objectified woman, with her customizable figure, persists. This book, which Margot Robbie finds deeply objectionable (and rightly so), is yet another piece of evidence of this aesthetic oppression.<\/p>\n<p>Many actresses are breaking the silence surrounding this sad reality, still considered a mere &quot;requirement&quot; or even a constraint of the profession. Lili Reinhart was thus ordered to suck in her stomach before filming a scene, while Jennifer Lawrence had to lose 7 kilos in two weeks on the orders of a producer, clearly intolerant of curves.<\/p>\n<p>This book isn&#39;t just an awkward gift. It&#39;s a subtle attack, a manual for controlling the body. In any case, Margot Robbie has more than had her revenge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Currently starring in the film adaptation of &quot;Wuthering Heights,&quot; Margot Robbie is doing a string of interviews to...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":434572,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5678],"tags":[97833,97759],"class_list":["post-434567","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-societe","tag-actu","tag-news"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Margot-Robbie-cadeau-deplace-1-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Margot-Robbie-cadeau-deplace-1-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Margot-Robbie-cadeau-deplace-1.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5678,"name":"Society","slug":"societe","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5846,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. Protected grounds vary from country to country, but they often include sex, race or ethnic origin, disability, age, religion, sexual orientation and gender identity. Some places also protect physical appearance or weight.<\/p>\n<h3>What is intersectionality?<\/h3>\n<p>Intersectionality describes how several forms of discrimination can overlap in the same person and reinforce one another. The American legal scholar Kimberl\u00e9 Crenshaw coined the term to describe the experiences of Black women. A woman who is both fat and lesbian, for example, may face sexism, fatphobia and homophobia, which compound one another rather than simply adding up.<\/p>\n<h3>What is diet culture?<\/h3>\n<p>Diet culture is the set of beliefs that equates thinness with health, success and personal worth. It shows up in foods labeled \u201cgood\u201d or \u201cbad,\u201d compliments on weight loss and the shaming of fat bodies. Our magazine prefers a weight-inclusive approach to health, at every size.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/culture\">Culture<\/a> section explores how bodies and identities are portrayed in movies, TV shows and books, and our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\">Psychology<\/a> section supports you with self-image, confidence and emotions.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":1541,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5678,"category_count":1541,"category_description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. 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