{"id":440878,"date":"2026-05-10T21:30:35","date_gmt":"2026-05-10T19:30:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=440878"},"modified":"2026-05-10T21:31:48","modified_gmt":"2026-05-10T19:31:48","slug":"trouble-meconnu-amplifier-lagacement-travail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/unrecognized-problem-amplify-annoyance-at-work-440878","title":{"rendered":"This little-known disorder can amplify frustration at work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Does the mere presence of your colleagues irritate you? The way they drink their tea, tap on their keyboards, swing their legs under their desks, touch their hair to emphasize their thoughts\u2014it&#39;s a veritable physical ballet, and it&#39;s far from to your liking. If your colleagues&#39; actions and gestures make you bristle internally, you might be suffering from <strong>misokinesis<\/strong> .<\/p>\n<h2> What is misokinesis?<\/h2>\n<p> While misokinesis might sound like a fictional superpower from &quot;Stranger Things,&quot; in reality, it&#39;s a very debilitating disorder in everyday life, especially in the workplace when colleagues fidget with their fingers on a desk, frantically press the end of a pen, or rub their chin over a complicated file. In open-plan offices, which can quickly lead to sensory overload, misokinesis can develop rapidly.<\/p>\n<p>This explains why your tolerance level drops drastically when you see a colleague improvising jump rope moves with their pen or constantly tapping their foot. People with misokinesis struggle to look away and focus on these repetitive gestures, produced assembly-line style by others. They aren&#39;t simply distracted; they experience an internal agitation that is very difficult to control.<\/p>\n<p>Misokinesis falls into the same category as misophonia, the aversion to loud mouth sounds, mouse clicks, keyboard clicks, or even slightly audible breathing. <em>&quot;It affects people&#39;s ability to enjoy social interactions, work, or learn,&quot;<\/em> explains Dr. Handy. This disorder, still relatively unknown to the general public and poorly documented, is estimated to affect 33% of the population, according to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41598-021-96430-4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">study<\/a> conducted by the University of British Columbia.<\/p>\n<h2> How does misokinesis develop?<\/h2>\n<p> If you can no longer stand that colleague who constantly fidgets in their chair and takes a perverse pleasure in swiveling it from side to side, you might not be &quot;on edge,&quot; but simply suffering from misokinesis. As the study reports, this negatively charged disorder can range from mild annoyance to debilitating anxiety. Feelings of frustration, unexplained irritability, or uncontrollable spikes in stress\u2014misokinesis manifests itself differently from person to person. This colleague, who monopolizes your thoughts with their contagious OCD, bothers you where others see nothing more than a focused worker.<\/p>\n<p>Misokinesis, sometimes confused with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/sante\/bien-etre\/vous-pensez-autres-ne-vous-aiment-pas-lien-tdah-surprendre-422946\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">attention deficit disorder<\/a> , is not a sign of a distracted mind but of excessive empathy. According to Dr. Handy, a psychology professor who conducted this insightful study, misokinesis may be triggered by our mirror neurons, brain cells that govern empathy and allow us to <em>&quot;understand the intentions behind the actions of others,&quot;<\/em> he explains. In short, your brain is taking shortcuts.<\/p>\n<p>A twitching leg, frantic fingers, a hand gnawing at the bone between two important tasks\u2026 These movements are the physical manifestation of stress, and they quickly rub off on your mind. <em>&quot;Our mirror neurons help us understand the emotions of others, but can also make it difficult to ignore repetitive movements perceived as bothersome,&quot;<\/em> adds Sumeet Jaswal, co-author of the study.<\/p>\n<h2> What can be done to combat misokinesis?<\/h2>\n<p> No, you&#39;re not doomed to seethe inwardly every time your colleague transforms their pen into a conductor&#39;s baton. While misokinesis can be particularly distressing, there are ways to minimize its impact on daily life.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> The first step is simply to put a name to what you&#39;re feeling. Understanding that it&#39;s neither gratuitous intolerance nor excessive irritability helps to alleviate guilt. Your brain is reacting to a specific stimulus, often automatically. It&#39;s not a passing whim or an office tantrum.<\/li>\n<li> Next, the environment plays a key role. If you work in an open-plan office, try slightly altering your field of vision. Changing your seat, adjusting your screen&#39;s angle, or installing a discreet partition can significantly reduce your exposure to these distracting movements. Sometimes, a few centimeters of shift can save an entire day.<\/li>\n<li> Some people also find comfort in &quot;counter-stimuli.&quot; Listening to soft music through headphones, playing white noise, or wearing earbuds, even without sound, can create a kind of protective bubble. This helps the brain divert its attention from the repetitive actions that monopolize its vigilance.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> If the mere sight of a twitching leg is enough to raise your blood pressure, it doesn&#39;t mean your colleagues have suddenly become unbearable. It might simply be that your brain is picking up on the movements of the world around it a little too intensely. A subtle form of hypersensitivity, sometimes annoying, but very real.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Does the mere presence of your colleagues irritate you? 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Written for women of every size and body type, it starts from a simple idea: taking care of your body works best through enjoyment and consistency, not pressure or guilt.<\/p>\n<h2>What you'll find in the Well-being section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Exercise and movement<\/strong>: getting back into exercise, finding an activity you love and easing in with routines such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/ideal-yoga-poses-to-start-the-day-gently-447131\">gentle yoga poses to start your day<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sleep<\/strong>: trouble falling asleep, waking up at night, snoring or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/after-lunch-an-ideal-nap-lasts-less-time-i-think-427993\">how long the ideal nap should last<\/a>, for more restful nights and days.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotional balance<\/strong>: stress, mental load, loneliness, friendships and the small pleasures that lift your mood, including <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/you-feel-guilty-when-you-do-nothing-its-time-to-slow-down-447258\">learning to slow down without feeling guilty<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Everyday aches and pains<\/strong>: digestion, heavy legs, fatigue and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/back-pain-at-work-makes-a-difference-posture-makes-a-difference-447052\">back pain at work<\/a>, with pointers on when to see a doctor.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women's health<\/strong>: periods, endometriosis, perimenopause and menopause, explained without taboos, from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/simple-steps-to-help-better-cope-with-menstrual-cramps-447128\">easing menstrual cramps<\/a> onward.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you get back into exercise after a long break?<\/h2>\n<p>When you return to physical activity, consistency matters more than intensity. A few ways to ease back in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pick an activity you actually want to do (walking, swimming, water aerobics, dancing, cycling, yoga): enjoyment is what keeps you going over time.<\/li>\n<li>Start with short sessions, then gradually increase how long you go before you increase how hard you go.<\/li>\n<li>Get gear that fits your body: a supportive sports bra and anti-chafing shorts make a real difference.<\/li>\n<li>Stop and seek medical help if you have chest pain, unusual shortness of breath or feel faint.<\/li>\n<li>Check in with your doctor if you live with a chronic condition or are coming back after a long break.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Everyday movement counts too: walking or biking to get around, taking the stairs and gardening all add up as physical activity.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach<\/h2>\n<p>Here, your body isn't a project to fix. We talk about exercise for pleasure, mood and health, never as a way to \u201cmake up for\u201d a meal or to lose weight, and every tip should work for you whatever your body type. The articles in this section provide general information and do not replace advice from a healthcare professional.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to get you started<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/a-10-minute-stretching-routine-could-help-wake-you-up-446378\">quick morning stretching routine<\/a> to help you wake up gently.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/yoga-postures-help-release-tension-after-a-day-at-work-446756\">Yoga poses to release tension<\/a> after a long day at work.<\/li>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/signs-that-youre-not-drinking-enough-water-446345\">signs you may not be drinking enough water<\/a>, and why they're easy to miss.<\/li>\n<li>A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/how-long-should-a-digital-detox-without-screens-take-to-feel-better-429376\">digital detox<\/a>: how long you need away from screens to start feeling better.<\/li>\n<li>Why <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\/to-feel-good-at-a-good-pace-women-need-to-see-friends-428157\">seeing your friends regularly<\/a> does so much for your well-being.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>How much exercise do you need each week?<\/h3>\n<p>The World Health Organization recommends that adults get at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity per week, such as brisk walking. It also stresses that some activity is better than none: every session counts, even a short one, and what matters most is finding a pace you can keep up over the long run.<\/p>\n<h3>How can you sleep better?<\/h3>\n<p>Consistency is the first lever: go to bed and get up at similar times, weekends included. A quiet, dark, cool bedroom, less screen time in the evening and a dinner that isn't too late all make it easier to fall asleep. Loud snoring or waking up gasping for air is worth mentioning to your doctor.<\/p>\n<h3>Why am I tired all the time?<\/h3>\n<p>Ongoing fatigue can have many causes: lack of sleep, stress or mental overload, but also iron deficiency, a thyroid disorder or depression. If it lasts several weeks despite rest, or comes with other symptoms, see your doctor to find out what's behind it.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Explore all our topics in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\">the Health section<\/a>, follow moms-to-be in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/grossesse\">the Pregnancy section<\/a> and enjoy a varied way of eating, without restriction, with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/cuisine\/nutrition\">the Nutrition section<\/a>.<\/p>","parent":360,"count":1718,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5639,"category_count":1718,"category_description":"<p>The Well-being section of The Body Optimist shares practical advice on staying active, sleeping better, managing stress and understanding everyday aches and pains. 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A few ways to ease back in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pick an activity you actually want to do (walking, swimming, water aerobics, dancing, cycling, yoga): enjoyment is what keeps you going over time.<\/li>\n<li>Start with short sessions, then gradually increase how long you go before you increase how hard you go.<\/li>\n<li>Get gear that fits your body: a supportive sports bra and anti-chafing shorts make a real difference.<\/li>\n<li>Stop and seek medical help if you have chest pain, unusual shortness of breath or feel faint.<\/li>\n<li>Check in with your doctor if you live with a chronic condition or are coming back after a long break.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Everyday movement counts too: walking or biking to get around, taking the stairs and gardening all add up as physical activity.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach<\/h2>\n<p>Here, your body isn't a project to fix. We talk about exercise for pleasure, mood and health, never as a way to \u201cmake up for\u201d a meal or to lose weight, and every tip should work for you whatever your body type. 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It also stresses that some activity is better than none: every session counts, even a short one, and what matters most is finding a pace you can keep up over the long run.<\/p>\n<h3>How can you sleep better?<\/h3>\n<p>Consistency is the first lever: go to bed and get up at similar times, weekends included. A quiet, dark, cool bedroom, less screen time in the evening and a dinner that isn't too late all make it easier to fall asleep. Loud snoring or waking up gasping for air is worth mentioning to your doctor.<\/p>\n<h3>Why am I tired all the time?<\/h3>\n<p>Ongoing fatigue can have many causes: lack of sleep, stress or mental overload, but also iron deficiency, a thyroid disorder or depression. If it lasts several weeks despite rest, or comes with other symptoms, see your doctor to find out what's behind it.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? 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