{"id":441779,"date":"2026-05-17T17:35:32","date_gmt":"2026-05-17T15:35:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=441779"},"modified":"2026-05-17T17:35:32","modified_gmt":"2026-05-17T15:35:32","slug":"force-mentale-meconnue-commune-personnes-reussissent-mieux-professionnellement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/an-often-overlooked-mental-strength-that-helps-people-achieve-greater-professional-success-441779","title":{"rendered":"This little-known mental strength is said to be common to the most professionally &quot;successful&quot; people."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We often talk about talent, networking, or luck to explain a successful career. But another, more subtle key could carry far more weight. And the good news is, it can be developed, regardless of your starting point. According to the Harvard Business Review, there&#39;s a crucial mental skill that many still underestimate.<\/p>\n<h2> A simple\u2026 but powerful skill<\/h2>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2021\/02\/the-one-skill-that-helped-me-grow-in-my-career\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">In a Harvard Business Review article<\/a> , Tapan Singhel, CEO of Bajaj Allianz General Insurance, shares what he considers the main driver of his career progression: a &quot;growth mindset.&quot; For him, it&#39;s not just a &quot;plus&quot; on a resume. It&#39;s an essential foundation for thriving in a constantly evolving world of work.<\/p>\n<h2> The &quot;growth mindset&quot;: the idea that changes everything<\/h2>\n<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.srgtalent.com\/blog\/growth-mindset-the-key-to-a-successful-career\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">This concept<\/a> was developed by psychologist Carol Dweck at Stanford University. It is based on a simple idea: your skills are not fixed. They can develop with effort, experience, and learning.<\/p>\n<p>Conversely, a &quot;fixed mindset&quot; involves believing that one is &quot;either gifted or not,&quot; &quot;suited or not for something.&quot; This perspective often limits boldness and progress. A growth mindset, on the other hand, transforms the perception of challenges: a difficulty becomes an opportunity to learn, not proof of a lack of ability.<\/p>\n<h2> Three concrete attitudes to adopt<\/h2>\n<p> Tapan Singhel describes 3 reflexes to develop this mindset:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> First, avoid hiding behind circumstances. A mistake is not an end, but useful information for progress.<\/li>\n<li> Next, accept the unknown. New situations can be uncomfortable, but they are also the richest in learning opportunities.<\/li>\n<li> Finally, dare to ask for help. No one is an expert in everything, and progress also comes through communication and constructive humility.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p> In a professional environment characterized by rapidly evolving jobs, automation, and artificial intelligence, this ability to learn continuously is becoming invaluable. Analyses highlight that companies are increasingly seeking candidates who can adapt and evolve, rather than those with skills that are static.<\/p>\n<h2> A brain that learns throughout life<\/h2>\n<p> People with a fixed mindset tend to avoid new situations for fear of failure. Those with a growth mindset approach things differently: they see every mistake as a learning opportunity. Some approaches even encourage mentally replacing <em>&quot;I failed&quot;<\/em> with <em>&quot;I haven&#39;t succeeded yet.&quot;<\/em> This simple phrase opens up a more constructive and motivating perspective. In this mindset, progress becomes a natural process, rather than a constant pressure.<\/p>\n<p>The &quot;growth mindset&quot; also relies on neuroplasticity: the brain continues to transform with experience. Learning, repeating, and adjusting one&#39;s practices truly strengthens neural connections. In other words, progress is not a matter of &quot;natural talent,&quot; but of dynamism.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#39;s conclude by remembering that <strong>there isn&#39;t just one way to &quot;succeed professionally.&quot;<\/strong> Everyone has their own desires, their own pace, and their own path. Success isn&#39;t about rankings. For some, it lies in career advancement. For others, it&#39;s about balance, creativity, or simply the pleasure of doing work aligned with their values. The essential thing is to feel good about what you&#39;re building. And if what you&#39;re building evolves over time, that&#39;s also a form of success.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"We often talk about talent, networking, or luck to explain a successful career. 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Practical advice, clear explainers and personal stories cover mental health without jargon or guilt, through a body-positive lens that rejects rules about weight and appearance.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Psychology section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Self-confidence<\/strong>: exercises to build self-esteem, outsmart imposter syndrome and learn to speak up, all gathered in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Self-confidence<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Body positivity<\/strong>: respect for every body, from stretch marks to scars, and the stories that challenge beauty standards, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\">Body positive<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Parenting<\/strong>: raising kids, school, postpartum for moms and dads alike, and families of every shape, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">Parenting<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotions<\/strong>: high sensitivity, intense feelings, anxiety, mental load and racing thoughts, with practical ways to live with them more calmly.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships<\/strong>: saying no without guilt, spotting a toxic family dynamic, making sense of puzzling behavior at work or among friends.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you know when it\u2019s time to see a therapist?<\/h2>\n<p>It makes sense to see a therapist as soon as emotional distress lasts, keeps coming back or spills into daily life: disrupted sleep, constant fatigue, losing interest in things you used to enjoy, irritability, trouble at work or in your relationship. There\u2019s no need to wait until you hit rock bottom: therapy can also help you through a breakup, a loss, a new baby or a major life change. Your primary care doctor can refer you to a psychologist or counselor, and depending on where you live, insurance or public health services may cover part of the cost. Our articles offer general guidance: they don\u2019t diagnose anything and are no substitute for professional advice. If you\u2019re having suicidal thoughts, contact a suicide prevention hotline or your local emergency services right away.<\/p>\n<h2>How can you handle your emotions better day to day?<\/h2>\n<p>Handling your emotions isn\u2019t about silencing them; it\u2019s about recognizing them before they boil over. A few simple habits help: name exactly what you feel (anger, sadness, shame, fear), notice the situations that trigger your strongest reactions, take a few breaths before you respond, and write down whatever keeps looping in your head at night. Your body plays a part too: sleep, movement and quiet moments make you less reactive. When the voice in your head turns harsh, here\u2019s how to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/believing-oneself-to-be-talentless-how-to-appease-that-critical-little-voice-436991\">quiet your inner critic<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Our take on psychology<\/h2>\n<p>Our starting point is simple: your worth doesn\u2019t depend on your weight, your age or your family situation. Articles in this section often give the floor to psychologists and therapists and draw on research and personal stories, with the goal of making psychology accessible without oversimplifying it. We steer clear of the pressure to be happy all the time and of labels handed out lightly: a personality trait isn\u2019t a disorder, and everyone moves at their own pace.<\/p>\n<h2>Where to start<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/saying-yes-to-please-others-a-psychologist-explains-why-you-cant-set-boundaries-429884\">Why setting boundaries feels so hard<\/a>: a psychologist unpacks the reflex of saying yes just to please others.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/imposter-syndrome-an-invisible-mechanism-undermining-confidence-434010\">Imposter syndrome explained<\/a>: the hidden mechanism that makes you doubt your own achievements.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/toxic-parents-phrases-leave-their-mark-439835\">Phrases from toxic parents that leave a mark<\/a>: seven sentences that can echo long after childhood.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\/top-phrases-help-children-express-emotions-444372\">What to say instead of \u201cstop crying\u201d<\/a>: five phrases that help children put their feelings into words.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/hip-dips-heres-why-hollow-hips-are-an-asset-not-a-flaw-428176\">Hip dips<\/a>: why those curves at the side of your hips are a matter of anatomy, not a flaw to fix.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What is a highly sensitive person?<\/h3>\n<p>Being a highly sensitive person (HSP), a concept popularized by psychologist Elaine Aron, isn\u2019t a medical diagnosis but a personality trait: people who have it perceive emotions, noise, atmospheres or criticism more intensely. It\u2019s neither a weakness nor an illness. Knowing your triggers, protecting your recovery time and talking about it with loved ones help turn it into a strength rather than a source of exhaustion.<\/p>\n<h3>What\u2019s the difference between a psychologist, a psychiatrist and a therapist?<\/h3>\n<p>A psychiatrist is a medical doctor who can diagnose mental health conditions and prescribe medication. A psychologist holds an advanced degree in psychology and offers assessments and talk therapy, but usually doesn\u2019t prescribe. \u201cTherapist\u201d is a broader term that can cover licensed counselors, social workers and marriage and family therapists; who may use the title varies by country, so check a professional\u2019s credentials. Your doctor can help you choose.<\/p>\n<h3>How can you help a loved one who\u2019s struggling?<\/h3>\n<p>Listen without judging or trying to fix everything, ask directly how they\u2019re feeling and skip the \u201cjust snap out of it.\u201d Offer concrete help: check in regularly, go with them to an appointment. If you sense they may be at risk of suicide, talk about it openly and contact a crisis line, or your local emergency number if their life is in danger.<\/p>\n<p>Keep exploring: our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\">Sex<\/a> section covers intimacy and relationships, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> unpacks weight discrimination, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\">Well-being<\/a> takes the conversation to the body.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":92,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":6138,"category_count":92,"category_description":"<p>The Psychology section of <strong>The Body Optimist<\/strong> explores your inner life: emotions, self-esteem, body image, relationships and parenting. Practical advice, clear explainers and personal stories cover mental health without jargon or guilt, through a body-positive lens that rejects rules about weight and appearance.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Psychology section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Self-confidence<\/strong>: exercises to build self-esteem, outsmart imposter syndrome and learn to speak up, all gathered in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Self-confidence<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Body positivity<\/strong>: respect for every body, from stretch marks to scars, and the stories that challenge beauty standards, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\">Body positive<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Parenting<\/strong>: raising kids, school, postpartum for moms and dads alike, and families of every shape, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\">Parenting<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotions<\/strong>: high sensitivity, intense feelings, anxiety, mental load and racing thoughts, with practical ways to live with them more calmly.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships<\/strong>: saying no without guilt, spotting a toxic family dynamic, making sense of puzzling behavior at work or among friends.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you know when it\u2019s time to see a therapist?<\/h2>\n<p>It makes sense to see a therapist as soon as emotional distress lasts, keeps coming back or spills into daily life: disrupted sleep, constant fatigue, losing interest in things you used to enjoy, irritability, trouble at work or in your relationship. There\u2019s no need to wait until you hit rock bottom: therapy can also help you through a breakup, a loss, a new baby or a major life change. Your primary care doctor can refer you to a psychologist or counselor, and depending on where you live, insurance or public health services may cover part of the cost. Our articles offer general guidance: they don\u2019t diagnose anything and are no substitute for professional advice. If you\u2019re having suicidal thoughts, contact a suicide prevention hotline or your local emergency services right away.<\/p>\n<h2>How can you handle your emotions better day to day?<\/h2>\n<p>Handling your emotions isn\u2019t about silencing them; it\u2019s about recognizing them before they boil over. A few simple habits help: name exactly what you feel (anger, sadness, shame, fear), notice the situations that trigger your strongest reactions, take a few breaths before you respond, and write down whatever keeps looping in your head at night. Your body plays a part too: sleep, movement and quiet moments make you less reactive. When the voice in your head turns harsh, here\u2019s how to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/believing-oneself-to-be-talentless-how-to-appease-that-critical-little-voice-436991\">quiet your inner critic<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Our take on psychology<\/h2>\n<p>Our starting point is simple: your worth doesn\u2019t depend on your weight, your age or your family situation. Articles in this section often give the floor to psychologists and therapists and draw on research and personal stories, with the goal of making psychology accessible without oversimplifying it. We steer clear of the pressure to be happy all the time and of labels handed out lightly: a personality trait isn\u2019t a disorder, and everyone moves at their own pace.<\/p>\n<h2>Where to start<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/saying-yes-to-please-others-a-psychologist-explains-why-you-cant-set-boundaries-429884\">Why setting boundaries feels so hard<\/a>: a psychologist unpacks the reflex of saying yes just to please others.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/imposter-syndrome-an-invisible-mechanism-undermining-confidence-434010\">Imposter syndrome explained<\/a>: the hidden mechanism that makes you doubt your own achievements.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\/toxic-parents-phrases-leave-their-mark-439835\">Phrases from toxic parents that leave a mark<\/a>: seven sentences that can echo long after childhood.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/vie-de-maman\/top-phrases-help-children-express-emotions-444372\">What to say instead of \u201cstop crying\u201d<\/a>: five phrases that help children put their feelings into words.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/hip-dips-heres-why-hollow-hips-are-an-asset-not-a-flaw-428176\">Hip dips<\/a>: why those curves at the side of your hips are a matter of anatomy, not a flaw to fix.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What is a highly sensitive person?<\/h3>\n<p>Being a highly sensitive person (HSP), a concept popularized by psychologist Elaine Aron, isn\u2019t a medical diagnosis but a personality trait: people who have it perceive emotions, noise, atmospheres or criticism more intensely. It\u2019s neither a weakness nor an illness. Knowing your triggers, protecting your recovery time and talking about it with loved ones help turn it into a strength rather than a source of exhaustion.<\/p>\n<h3>What\u2019s the difference between a psychologist, a psychiatrist and a therapist?<\/h3>\n<p>A psychiatrist is a medical doctor who can diagnose mental health conditions and prescribe medication. A psychologist holds an advanced degree in psychology and offers assessments and talk therapy, but usually doesn\u2019t prescribe. \u201cTherapist\u201d is a broader term that can cover licensed counselors, social workers and marriage and family therapists; who may use the title varies by country, so check a professional\u2019s credentials. Your doctor can help you choose.<\/p>\n<h3>How can you help a loved one who\u2019s struggling?<\/h3>\n<p>Listen without judging or trying to fix everything, ask directly how they\u2019re feeling and skip the \u201cjust snap out of it.\u201d Offer concrete help: check in regularly, go with them to an appointment. If you sense they may be at risk of suicide, talk about it openly and contact a crisis line, or your local emergency number if their life is in danger.<\/p>\n<p>Keep exploring: our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sexo\">Sex<\/a> section covers intimacy and relationships, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> unpacks weight discrimination, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/sante\/bien-etre\">Well-being<\/a> takes the conversation to the body.<\/p>","cat_name":"Psychology","category_nicename":"psycho","category_parent":0}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/441779","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8375"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=441779"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/441779\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":441968,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/441779\/revisions\/441968"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/441780"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=441779"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=441779"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=441779"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}