You probably cross your arms several times a day without even thinking about it. Yet, this everyday gesture is often interpreted as a sign of a closed-off or defensive person. However, the reality is much more subtle: according to psychologists, the meaning of this posture depends primarily on the context\u2026 and can even reveal an unexpected quality.<\/p>\n
In the collective imagination, crossing one's arms is seen as erecting a barrier between oneself and others. This posture is often associated with mistrust, disagreement, or a lack of openness. Some observations do indeed seem to support this. More reserved people tend to adopt this gesture more often, particularly when they feel uncomfortable or are faced with an awkward situation.<\/p>\n
However, reducing this posture to a simple sign of withdrawal would be a mistake. You might just as easily cross your arms because you're cold, because this position is comfortable, or because it provides a feeling of calm. Experts even refer to it as a form of self-comfort, comparable to a "self-hug."<\/p>\n
A 2008 study<\/a> by researchers Ron Friedman and Andrew Elliot of the University of Rochester revealed a surprising effect. In their experiment, participants were asked to solve a deliberately impossible puzzle. Those with their arms crossed continued searching much longer before giving up than those whose arms remained at rest.<\/p>\n The researchers then replicated the experiment with solvable puzzles. The result: participants with their arms crossed performed better, not because they were more intelligent, but because they persevered more. The most surprising finding? The volunteers were unaware that their posture was influencing their behavior. According to the study's authors, crossing one's arms could unconsciously activate associations linked to determination and tenacity, thus encouraging greater effort when faced with a challenge.<\/p>\n Should we then abandon the idea that crossed arms convey a closed-off attitude? Not entirely. In a conversation, this posture can indeed reflect a desire to distance oneself, a disagreement, or a wish to preserve one's personal space. When a person is focused on a task or thinking alone, the same gesture can simply promote concentration or engagement.<\/p>\n Experts also point out that body language is never limited to a single movement. Facial expressions, gaze, voice, and overall body posture provide far more reliable clues than crossed arms alone. Furthermore, cultural differences play a crucial role: a gesture can be perceived very differently depending on the country and social norms.<\/p>\n Ultimately, crossing your arms is neither an automatic sign of defensiveness nor infallible proof of self-confidence. This posture can convey coldness, comfort, a need for reassurance, strong concentration, or even greater perseverance in the face of a challenge. Before drawing conclusions about someone's attitude, it's best to observe their overall behavior. 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Practical advice, clear explainers and personal stories cover mental health without jargon or guilt, through a body-positive lens that rejects rules about weight and appearance.<\/p>\n It makes sense to see a therapist as soon as emotional distress lasts, keeps coming back or spills into daily life: disrupted sleep, constant fatigue, losing interest in things you used to enjoy, irritability, trouble at work or in your relationship. There\u2019s no need to wait until you hit rock bottom: therapy can also help you through a breakup, a loss, a new baby or a major life change. Your primary care doctor can refer you to a psychologist or counselor, and depending on where you live, insurance or public health services may cover part of the cost. Our articles offer general guidance: they don\u2019t diagnose anything and are no substitute for professional advice. If you\u2019re having suicidal thoughts, contact a suicide prevention hotline or your local emergency services right away.<\/p>\n Handling your emotions isn\u2019t about silencing them; it\u2019s about recognizing them before they boil over. A few simple habits help: name exactly what you feel (anger, sadness, shame, fear), notice the situations that trigger your strongest reactions, take a few breaths before you respond, and write down whatever keeps looping in your head at night. Your body plays a part too: sleep, movement and quiet moments make you less reactive. When the voice in your head turns harsh, here\u2019s how to quiet your inner critic<\/a>.<\/p>\n Our starting point is simple: your worth doesn\u2019t depend on your weight, your age or your family situation. Articles in this section often give the floor to psychologists and therapists and draw on research and personal stories, with the goal of making psychology accessible without oversimplifying it. We steer clear of the pressure to be happy all the time and of labels handed out lightly: a personality trait isn\u2019t a disorder, and everyone moves at their own pace.<\/p>\n Being a highly sensitive person (HSP), a concept popularized by psychologist Elaine Aron, isn\u2019t a medical diagnosis but a personality trait: people who have it perceive emotions, noise, atmospheres or criticism more intensely. It\u2019s neither a weakness nor an illness. Knowing your triggers, protecting your recovery time and talking about it with loved ones help turn it into a strength rather than a source of exhaustion.<\/p>\n A psychiatrist is a medical doctor who can diagnose mental health conditions and prescribe medication. 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What you\u2019ll find in the Psychology section<\/h2>\n
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How do you know when it\u2019s time to see a therapist?<\/h2>\n
How can you handle your emotions better day to day?<\/h2>\n
Our take on psychology<\/h2>\n
Where to start<\/h2>\n
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Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n
What is a highly sensitive person?<\/h3>\n
What\u2019s the difference between a psychologist, a psychiatrist and a therapist?<\/h3>\n
How can you help a loved one who\u2019s struggling?<\/h3>\n
What you\u2019ll find in the Psychology section<\/h2>\n
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How do you know when it\u2019s time to see a therapist?<\/h2>\n
How can you handle your emotions better day to day?<\/h2>\n
Our take on psychology<\/h2>\n
Where to start<\/h2>\n
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Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n
What is a highly sensitive person?<\/h3>\n
What\u2019s the difference between a psychologist, a psychiatrist and a therapist?<\/h3>\n
How can you help a loved one who\u2019s struggling?<\/h3>\n