{"id":443891,"date":"2026-06-14T14:00:14","date_gmt":"2026-06-14T12:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=443891"},"modified":"2026-06-12T21:31:42","modified_gmt":"2026-06-12T19:31:42","slug":"pas-lhumour-tendance-blague-corps-femmes-indigne-internautes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/not-the-trendy-humor-the-body-joke-women-unworthy-internet-users-443891","title":{"rendered":"&quot;This is not humor&quot;: a trend of jokes about women&#39;s bodies outrages internet users"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For several months now, a new trend has been sparking debate on social media. Men are posing with milk cartons in their mouths, playing on the size of women&#39;s breasts. While some dismiss it as a simple joke, many internet users see it as a new form of body shaming.<\/p>\n<h2> A viral trend that&#39;s not funny to anyone<\/h2>\n<p> The mechanism is as simple as it is problematic. <a href=\"https:\/\/x.com\/VanshikaInStyle\/status\/2047204577230106798?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E2047204577230106798%7Ctwgr%5E8ba60e1cca483659c17df8a3833ff76b3e54776b%7Ctwcon%5Es1_&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.m9.news%2Fsocial-media-viral%2Fviral-body-shaming-trend-online-anger%2F\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The videos<\/a> , shared by the thousands, play on the fact that some women have larger\u2014or conversely, less developed\u2014busts than others. All of this is presented humorously, as simple &quot;content&quot; designed to go viral. But that&#39;s precisely what&#39;s so shocking. On social media, many users have denounced the trend, pointing out that it reduces women, once again, to a specific part of their bodies. It&#39;s a mechanism as old as mockery itself, but one that contemporary tools\u2014short viral videos, content monetization, algorithms\u2014amplify on a massive scale. And make it all the more difficult to control.<\/p>\n<h2> Body shaming, a long-banalized form of violence<\/h2>\n<p> Beyond this specific trend, the debate it sparks highlights a broader reality: the persistence of a body image culture to which women remain widely exposed, particularly online. According to several social science studies conducted in recent years, up to 90% of young women surveyed reported having been targeted by unsolicited mockery or comments about their physical appearance. The consequences are numerous and well-documented: altered self-image, eating disorders, social anxiety, and depression. Far from being mere &quot;ironic,&quot; this type of mockery leaves lasting scars, especially on teenage girls\u2014the primary users and targets of these platforms.<\/p>\n<h2> The boomerang argument: &quot;But women do it too.&quot;<\/h2>\n<p> Under the videos criticizing the trend, one argument keeps recurring in the comments: women also make jokes about certain male attributes. Therefore, &quot;why can&#39;t we make fun of their breasts?&quot; This logic amounts to saying that two wrongs make a right.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, the experts&#39; response is consistent. Body shaming, whether directed at women or men, remains a form of violence and a mechanism of domination\u2014often stemming from a feeling of insecurity in the person engaging in it. Responding with reciprocal mockery defuses nothing; it only prolongs a cycle where humiliation gradually becomes the norm. This is, in essence, precisely what critics of the trend accuse its proponents of doing.<\/p>\n<h2> Towards collective responsibility on social networks<\/h2>\n<p> Social media thrives on popularity, and its very architecture encourages virality\u2014regardless of its content. But the virality of content is not, in itself, a moral argument. A user can very well choose not to share a trend that relies on the portrayal of others. This is a point already emphasized by several feminist groups, who call on users to examine their own role in the spread of humiliating content.<\/p>\n<p>It is also a responsibility that the platforms themselves struggle to assume. While some violent or explicit content is quickly moderated, sexist or fatphobic jokes still largely slip through the automatic filters.<\/p>\n<p>This new trend will certainly not go down in the history of social media. But it implicitly illustrates a demand that deserves to be hammered home again and again: women&#39;s bodies\u2014whatever they may be, whatever their shape\u2014are not a subject of public ridicule. And freedom of expression should never be used to justify collective mockery.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"For several months now, a new trend has been sparking debate on social media. 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Its explainers, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand inequality and act against it, with special attention to the pressures placed on women\u2019s bodies.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Feminism section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Everyday sexism<\/strong>: remarks, jokes and expressions that normalize inequality, like the familiar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/you-scare-men-a-remark-often-made-to-women-sparks-debate-439175\">\u201cyou scare men\u201d comment<\/a> so many women hear.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Violence and harassment<\/strong>: street and online harassment, consent, intimate partner violence and tools to help recognize abuse early.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Work and money<\/strong>: pay gaps, entrepreneurship, the division of household labor and the extra expenses that inequality places on women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Bodies and expectations<\/strong>: body hair, clothing, age and appearance, and the debates over women\u2019s freedom to decide about their own bodies and image.<\/li>\n<li><strong>History and symbols<\/strong>: pioneers, inventors and rallying symbols that tell the story of feminist movements.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women\u2019s rights around the world<\/strong>: access to education, sports and public space, and the fights being waged from Afghanistan to Ethiopia, like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/afghan-private-schools-defy-the-ban-on-teaching-431358\">Afghan girls defying the ban on schooling<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you respond to everyday sexism?<\/h2>\n<p>Responding to everyday sexism starts with naming what was just said, without justifying yourself or apologizing. A few strategies that work:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask a neutral question (\u201cCan you explain what you mean?\u201d): having to spell out a remark is often enough to defuse it.<\/li>\n<li>Describe the facts instead of judging the person (\u201cThat joke reduces women to their looks\u201d).<\/li>\n<li>Assess your safety: you are never obligated to respond on the spot.<\/li>\n<li>At work, write down dates, words and witnesses: in many countries, sexual harassment and sex discrimination in the workplace are against the law.<\/li>\n<li>As a bystander, support the person being targeted rather than letting silence validate the remark.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For situations at the office, our guide on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">setting boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a> offers more concrete responses.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach: an inclusive, practical feminism<\/h2>\n<p>Our feminism includes all women: fat or thin, women of color, lesbian, trans, disabled, younger or older. We connect the big questions of equality to lived situations, from a comment at the office to the division of chores, and we prefer explanations and practical steps to controversy, without ranking struggles or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/invisible-costs-women-bear-daily-436496\">invisible costs women bear every day<\/a>, and what they reveal about inequality.<\/li>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/the-cool-girl-myth-when-being-desirable-mostly-means-never-causing-a-disturbance-447055\">\u201ccool girl\u201d myth<\/a>, or how being seen as desirable often comes down to never making waves.<\/li>\n<li>Why <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/why-is-a-womans-body-a-subject-of-debate-after-45-years-444443\">women\u2019s bodies after 45<\/a> are still such a hot topic, and what ageism has to do with it.<\/li>\n<li>How <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/outfits-deemed-inappropriate-dress-code-reveals-inequalities-between-men-and-women-434311\">dress codes<\/a> expose double standards between men and women.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What is feminism?<\/h3>\n<p>Feminism refers to the ideas and movements that seek equal rights, opportunities and living conditions for women and men. It spans many schools of thought that share one observation: inequality between the sexes is socially constructed, which means it can be challenged, in the law as well as in attitudes.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the difference between sexism and misogyny?<\/h3>\n<p>Sexism covers prejudice, stereotypes and discrimination based on sex, often so normalized that they go unnoticed. Misogyny refers more specifically to contempt or hostility toward women. A joke about \u201cwomen drivers\u201d is everyday sexism; a speech claiming that women are incompetent by nature is misogyny.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the mental load?<\/h3>\n<p>The mental load is the invisible work of anticipating and organizing household and family life: remembering appointments, groceries, birthdays and whatever is running low. Even when chores are shared, this project-manager role still often falls to women, with effects on their fatigue and their free time.<\/p>\n<h3>What should you do if you experience intimate partner violence?<\/h3>\n<p>If you are in immediate danger, call the emergency number in your country. Many countries have a free, confidential helpline for people experiencing domestic violence, and a doctor, a social worker or a specialized organization can help you plan your next steps. Tools such as the \u201cviolentometer,\u201d a scale that runs from green to red, can also help you recognize behaviors that call for caution or signal danger.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Explore all our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\">Society<\/a> topics, along with our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> sections.<\/p>","parent":5678,"count":217,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":72943,"category_count":217,"category_description":"<p>The Feminism section of The Body Optimist covers gender equality in everyday life: everyday sexism, violence against women, work, the domestic load, rights and representation. Its explainers, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand inequality and act against it, with special attention to the pressures placed on women\u2019s bodies.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Feminism section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Everyday sexism<\/strong>: remarks, jokes and expressions that normalize inequality, like the familiar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/you-scare-men-a-remark-often-made-to-women-sparks-debate-439175\">\u201cyou scare men\u201d comment<\/a> so many women hear.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Violence and harassment<\/strong>: street and online harassment, consent, intimate partner violence and tools to help recognize abuse early.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Work and money<\/strong>: pay gaps, entrepreneurship, the division of household labor and the extra expenses that inequality places on women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Bodies and expectations<\/strong>: body hair, clothing, age and appearance, and the debates over women\u2019s freedom to decide about their own bodies and image.<\/li>\n<li><strong>History and symbols<\/strong>: pioneers, inventors and rallying symbols that tell the story of feminist movements.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women\u2019s rights around the world<\/strong>: access to education, sports and public space, and the fights being waged from Afghanistan to Ethiopia, like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/afghan-private-schools-defy-the-ban-on-teaching-431358\">Afghan girls defying the ban on schooling<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How do you respond to everyday sexism?<\/h2>\n<p>Responding to everyday sexism starts with naming what was just said, without justifying yourself or apologizing. A few strategies that work:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask a neutral question (\u201cCan you explain what you mean?\u201d): having to spell out a remark is often enough to defuse it.<\/li>\n<li>Describe the facts instead of judging the person (\u201cThat joke reduces women to their looks\u201d).<\/li>\n<li>Assess your safety: you are never obligated to respond on the spot.<\/li>\n<li>At work, write down dates, words and witnesses: in many countries, sexual harassment and sex discrimination in the workplace are against the law.<\/li>\n<li>As a bystander, support the person being targeted rather than letting silence validate the remark.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For situations at the office, our guide on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">setting boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a> offers more concrete responses.<\/p>\n<h2>Our approach: an inclusive, practical feminism<\/h2>\n<p>Our feminism includes all women: fat or thin, women of color, lesbian, trans, disabled, younger or older. We connect the big questions of equality to lived situations, from a comment at the office to the division of chores, and we prefer explanations and practical steps to controversy, without ranking struggles or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/invisible-costs-women-bear-daily-436496\">invisible costs women bear every day<\/a>, and what they reveal about inequality.<\/li>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/the-cool-girl-myth-when-being-desirable-mostly-means-never-causing-a-disturbance-447055\">\u201ccool girl\u201d myth<\/a>, or how being seen as desirable often comes down to never making waves.<\/li>\n<li>Why <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/why-is-a-womans-body-a-subject-of-debate-after-45-years-444443\">women\u2019s bodies after 45<\/a> are still such a hot topic, and what ageism has to do with it.<\/li>\n<li>How <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\/outfits-deemed-inappropriate-dress-code-reveals-inequalities-between-men-and-women-434311\">dress codes<\/a> expose double standards between men and women.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What is feminism?<\/h3>\n<p>Feminism refers to the ideas and movements that seek equal rights, opportunities and living conditions for women and men. It spans many schools of thought that share one observation: inequality between the sexes is socially constructed, which means it can be challenged, in the law as well as in attitudes.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the difference between sexism and misogyny?<\/h3>\n<p>Sexism covers prejudice, stereotypes and discrimination based on sex, often so normalized that they go unnoticed. Misogyny refers more specifically to contempt or hostility toward women. A joke about \u201cwomen drivers\u201d is everyday sexism; a speech claiming that women are incompetent by nature is misogyny.<\/p>\n<h3>What is the mental load?<\/h3>\n<p>The mental load is the invisible work of anticipating and organizing household and family life: remembering appointments, groceries, birthdays and whatever is running low. Even when chores are shared, this project-manager role still often falls to women, with effects on their fatigue and their free time.<\/p>\n<h3>What should you do if you experience intimate partner violence?<\/h3>\n<p>If you are in immediate danger, call the emergency number in your country. Many countries have a free, confidential helpline for people experiencing domestic violence, and a doctor, a social worker or a specialized organization can help you plan your next steps. Tools such as the \u201cviolentometer,\u201d a scale that runs from green to red, can also help you recognize behaviors that call for caution or signal danger.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Explore all our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\">Society<\/a> topics, along with our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> sections.<\/p>","cat_name":"Feminism","category_nicename":"feminisme","category_parent":5678}]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/443891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8385"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=443891"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/443891\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":444229,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/443891\/revisions\/444229"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/443892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=443891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=443891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=443891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}