{"id":444256,"date":"2026-06-15T11:43:39","date_gmt":"2026-06-15T09:43:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=444256"},"modified":"2026-06-15T11:43:39","modified_gmt":"2026-06-15T09:43:39","slug":"20-ans-tia-cordery-devient-proprietaire-grace-habitude-commencee-adolescence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/at-20-tia-cordery-became-a-homeowner-thanks-to-a-habit-she-started-in-her-teens-444256","title":{"rendered":"At 20, Tia Cordery became a homeowner thanks to a habit she started in her teens."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Becoming a homeowner at 20, without family help, starting from minimum wage: this is the feat achieved by Tia Cordery, a young Briton who now shares her journey on TikTok. A trajectory that goes against the grain of the idea that access to housing is &quot;completely out of reach&quot; for those under 30. And one that, according to her, is based on financial discipline that began well before adulthood.<\/p>\n<h2> An apprenticeship and a minimum wage at 16<\/h2>\n<p> Tia Cordery did not grow up in a wealthy family. Her family couldn&#39;t afford to lend her money to start her adult life, so she made the decision to take matters into her own hands early on. As a teenager, she entered the workforce as an apprentice in customer service. The salary was modest \u2013 around \u00a38 an hour, the legal minimum wage for her age in the UK.<\/p>\n<p>At that age, many teenagers spend their first earnings on going out, clothes, or simply &quot;having fun.&quot; Tia Cordery, however, makes a radically different choice. And it&#39;s this choice that will change everything, six years later.<\/p>\n<h2> 400 pounds a month put aside<\/h2>\n<p> Each month, the young woman deposits the same amount\u2014around 400 pounds\u2014into a bank account dedicated exclusively to her property purchase project. <em>\u201cI didn\u2019t have any bills,\u201d<\/em> she explains in the TikTok video that is currently circulating widely. <em>\u201cI wasn\u2019t earning much money. I was on minimum wage. But I persevered.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Her method? Radical self-discipline, which she breaks down into several simple principles: a separate bank account for savings (to avoid confusion with everyday expenses), no unnecessary spending, and above all, refusing outings that quickly strain the budgets of young adults. A strategy well-known to financial advisors, and one that relies entirely on consistency. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" style=\"max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tiacorderyx\/video\/7607774693675912470\" data-video-id=\"7607774693675912470\">\n<section> <a title=\"@tiacorderyx\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@tiacorderyx?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@tiacorderyx<\/a> How I brought my first place \ud83d\udc96 <a title=\"minimumwage\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/minimumwage?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#minimumwage<\/a> <a title=\"firsthome\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/firsthome?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#firsthome<\/a> <a title=\"insp\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/insp?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#insp<\/a> <a title=\"influence\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/influencer?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#influencer<\/a> <a title=\"\u266c original sound - nicole\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-7275451326566632197?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound - nicole<\/a><\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> The social price: lost friends and critics<\/h2>\n<p> This discipline, however, also comes at a cost\u2014a social cost. <em>\u201cThe people I hung out with back then called me stingy because I didn\u2019t want to spend all my money on constant going out,\u201d<\/em> says Tia Cordery. <em>\u201cI don\u2019t talk to them anymore, but it was difficult. They\u2019d say, \u2018Let\u2019s go, let\u2019s have fun,\u2019 and I\u2019d reply, \u2018I don\u2019t have much money, I don\u2019t want to do that.\u2019\u201d<\/em> This testimony serves as a reminder of how much social pressure can weigh on thrifty young people\u2014and how much determination it takes to keep it at bay.<\/p>\n<h2> A career in real estate and a message to young people<\/h2>\n<p> Today, Tia Cordery works in real estate herself \u2013 a career choice that logically extends her personal journey. And thanks to her years of saving, she was able to buy her first house at just 20 years old.<\/p>\n<p>Having become a leading figure on TikTok, the young woman uses her platform to raise awareness among other young people about the importance of starting to save early. According to her, many people her age are not sufficiently informed about the principles of saving, nor about the loan options available for becoming homeowners. This observation is shared by many financial education professionals.<\/p>\n<p>Tia Cordery&#39;s story is therefore not &quot;magical&quot;; it rests on a simple habit, started early and maintained with impressive discipline. It&#39;s a demonstration that reminds all generations that saving remains one of the most powerful tools\u2014provided you know how, and dare, to say &quot;no&quot; on a daily basis.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Becoming a homeowner at 20, without family help, starting from minimum wage: this is the feat achieved by...","protected":false},"author":8375,"featured_media":444273,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5678],"tags":[97759],"class_list":["post-444256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-societe","tag-news"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/RDNE-Stock-project-_-Pexels-6-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/RDNE-Stock-project-_-Pexels-6-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/RDNE-Stock-project-_-Pexels-6.jpg","author":{"name":"Fabienne Baure","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/fabienne_baure-96x96.jpg"},"categories":[{"term_id":5678,"name":"Society","slug":"societe","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5846,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. Protected grounds vary from country to country, but they often include sex, race or ethnic origin, disability, age, religion, sexual orientation and gender identity. Some places also protect physical appearance or weight.<\/p>\n<h3>What is intersectionality?<\/h3>\n<p>Intersectionality describes how several forms of discrimination can overlap in the same person and reinforce one another. The American legal scholar Kimberl\u00e9 Crenshaw coined the term to describe the experiences of Black women. A woman who is both fat and lesbian, for example, may face sexism, fatphobia and homophobia, which compound one another rather than simply adding up.<\/p>\n<h3>What is diet culture?<\/h3>\n<p>Diet culture is the set of beliefs that equates thinness with health, success and personal worth. It shows up in foods labeled \u201cgood\u201d or \u201cbad,\u201d compliments on weight loss and the shaming of fat bodies. Our magazine prefers a weight-inclusive approach to health, at every size.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/culture\">Culture<\/a> section explores how bodies and identities are portrayed in movies, TV shows and books, and our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\">Psychology<\/a> section supports you with self-image, confidence and emotions.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":1538,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5678,"category_count":1538,"category_description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. 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Our magazine prefers a weight-inclusive approach to health, at every size.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? 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