{"id":445612,"date":"2026-07-02T22:09:57","date_gmt":"2026-07-02T20:09:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=445612"},"modified":"2026-07-02T22:10:17","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T20:10:17","slug":"couvre-feu-hommes-idee-divise-reseaux-sociaux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/curfew-for-men-idea-divides-social-networks-445612","title":{"rendered":"A curfew for men? This idea is increasingly divisive on social media."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What if men were banned from going out after a certain hour, like teenagers during their &quot;rebellious phase&quot;? This rule, which would be right at home in a &quot;Black Mirror&quot;-style series, is unanimously supported by women. On social media, many women would like to see this curfew become a reality. While for men it&#39;s pure discrimination, for them it&#39;s a beautiful utopia: the promise of safer public spaces and peaceful nighttime strolls.<\/p>\n<h2> Originally, it was prescribed by a British baroness<\/h2>\n<p> Everyone still remembers the repeated lockdowns and the imposed curfew. It even felt like a pre-pubescent punishment. At the time, the media were practically talking about an apocalyptic scenario. With this nighttime isolation, residents felt like prisoners in cages. A British baroness drew inspiration from this strict pandemic measure when she made recommendations to combat the scourge of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/societe\/portions-petites-femmes-denonce-sexisme-fast-foods-421135\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">gender-based<\/a> violence and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/rising-temperatures-women-say-they-experience-more-street-harassment-443884\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">street harassment<\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>During a speech in the House of Lords of the British Parliament the day after International Women&#39;s Day in 2021, Jenny Jones, a member of the Green Party, suggested imposing a curfew on men starting at 6 p.m. This is the time when women begin to quicken their pace in the streets and check their backs.<\/p>\n<p>Generally, it&#39;s women who lock themselves in after nightfall for fear of encountering a dangerous person, ending up locked in a car trunk and trapped by a predator. According to a large-scale <a href=\"https:\/\/www.itv.com\/news\/2024-07-17\/violence-against-women-a-national-emergency-as-81-feel-unsafe-walking-in-dark\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">study<\/a> , 80% of women aged 18-25 feel unsafe walking alone at night. This observation is international: at dusk, women succumb to self-censorship and avoid public spaces. Aware of this sad reality, the politician wanted to radically reverse this trend. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" style=\"max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yahoonews\/video\/6938800182083489030\" data-video-id=\"6938800182083489030\">\n<section> <a title=\"@yahoonews\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@yahoonews?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@yahoonews<\/a> Jenny Jones suggested a 6 pm curfew for men during a debate on domestic violence on March 10. <a title=\"news\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/news?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#news<\/a> <a title=\"politics\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/politics?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#politics<\/a> <a title=\"saraheverard\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/saraheverard?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#saraheverard<\/a> <a title=\"yahoonews\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/yahoonews?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#yahoonews<\/a> <a title=\"\u266c original sound - Yahoo News\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/original-sound-6938800107563289350?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c original sound - Yahoo News<\/a><\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> On social media, women approve of the idea<\/h2>\n<p> This curfew, non-negotiable for men, is reminiscent of the story in the series &quot;The Handmaid&#39;s Tale,&quot; but from a different perspective. To defend this idea, deemed extreme by the opposition, the British baroness declared <em>, &quot;I believe this would significantly improve women&#39;s safety and reduce discrimination of all kinds.&quot;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And she didn&#39;t need a megaphone to make her voice heard by the female public. On social media, women easily imagine themselves in a nocturnal society where they could stroll around in miniskirts, take public transport home without worrying about the time, and go for a jog under the streetlights.<\/p>\n<p>Female internet users didn&#39;t hide their enthusiasm for what was presented as a &quot;bill&quot; and not just a utopian theory. <em>&quot;Could I feel safe for the first time in my life?&quot;<\/em> exclaimed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@sophiemitchhh\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@sophiemitchhh<\/a> . This idea, which applies the saying &quot;women belong at home&quot; to men, appeals to a large majority of women. However, this &quot;shocking&quot; measure also raises questions about gender equality. <em>&quot;Isn&#39;t this a new form of discrimination?&quot;<\/em> internet users ask in unison.<\/p>\n<h2> The men, for their part, feel targeted.<\/h2>\n<p> Upon learning of this proposal, which was no hoax, men spontaneously jumped to their keyboards. They even cried foul. Some presented themselves as grieving victims or even as perpetual oppressed. Others, their egos bruised, were eager to prove their usefulness, believing themselves indispensable to public order. <em>&quot;If there are no men on the streets, who will enforce the law?&quot;<\/em> <em>&quot;95% of firefighters are men.&quot;<\/em> This is the kind of argument one can read in response to Jenny Jones&#39;s statement.<\/p>\n<p>More enlightened women and men believe that those who are outraged by this practice have completely missed the point. This idea of isolating men to neutralize them is primarily a cry for help, a way of drawing attention to the issue. The politician is compelled to propose this drastic measure to provoke collective awareness and denounce an endemic problem.<\/p>\n<p>Because if there were no insecurities, she wouldn&#39;t have needed to seek such firm solutions. <em>&quot;I responded to the local police&#39;s instructions that women should not go out alone at night by completely turning the idea on its head,&quot;<\/em> Jones later explained in a Facebook post.<\/p>\n<p>For many women, nighttime remains a time of surveillance, a time when routes are carefully planned, keys become discreet tools of self-defense, and the phone is always ready to dial in case of trouble. This measure, more symbolic than practical, is not a naive ideal. It reflects a purely feminine dream: that of a reassuring, egalitarian public space where women don&#39;t risk their lives on every street corner.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"What if men were banned from going out after a certain hour, like teenagers during their &quot;rebellious phase&quot;?...","protected":false},"author":8340,"featured_media":445614,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_msn":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5678],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-445612","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-societe"],"image":{"medium":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Couvre-feu-hommes-200x113.jpg",200,113,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Couvre-feu-hommes-500x281.jpg",500,281,true]},"custom":{"td_video":"","featured_image":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Couvre-feu-hommes.jpg","author":{"name":"\u00c9milie Laurent","avatar":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/cropped-2f5d8c00d5d5c27f8ce4d9b3f9015467-96x96.png"},"categories":[{"term_id":5678,"name":"Society","slug":"societe","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":5846,"taxonomy":"category","description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. Its analysis, first-person stories and practical advice are for anyone who wants to understand the pressures of everyday life and push back, with an inclusive, body-positive and judgment-free perspective.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Society section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Feminism<\/strong>: everyday sexism, gender-based violence, work, the domestic load and women\u2019s rights around the world, all gathered in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/feminisme\">Feminism<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fatphobia<\/strong>: discrimination against fat people at work, at the doctor\u2019s office and in the media, and ways to stand up to it, in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>LGBTQIA+<\/strong>: sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out and the fight against homophobia and transphobia, explained in our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/lgbtqia\">LGBTQIA+<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: where physical ideals come from, how they vary across countries and eras, and what they cost women.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Relationships and social ties<\/strong>: friendship, loneliness, bonds between generations and new ways of living together.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Women who break stereotypes<\/strong>: women making their mark in mechanics, science, sports or on stage, like the physicist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/sabrina-gonzalez-pasterski-a-young-physicist-could-revolutionize-science-432830\">Sabrina Gonzalez Pasterski<\/a>, in fields where few expected them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Why are beauty standards a social issue?<\/h2>\n<p>Beauty standards are a social issue because they are neither natural nor universal: they shift from one country to another and from one era to the next, as our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/heres-how-beauty-standards-change-in-different-countries-429750\">how beauty standards differ around the world<\/a> shows. Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. Protected grounds vary from country to country, but they often include sex, race or ethnic origin, disability, age, religion, sexual orientation and gender identity. Some places also protect physical appearance or weight.<\/p>\n<h3>What is intersectionality?<\/h3>\n<p>Intersectionality describes how several forms of discrimination can overlap in the same person and reinforce one another. The American legal scholar Kimberl\u00e9 Crenshaw coined the term to describe the experiences of Black women. A woman who is both fat and lesbian, for example, may face sexism, fatphobia and homophobia, which compound one another rather than simply adding up.<\/p>\n<h3>What is diet culture?<\/h3>\n<p>Diet culture is the set of beliefs that equates thinness with health, success and personal worth. It shows up in foods labeled \u201cgood\u201d or \u201cbad,\u201d compliments on weight loss and the shaming of fat bodies. Our magazine prefers a weight-inclusive approach to health, at every size.<\/p>\n<p>Want to go further? Our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/culture\">Culture<\/a> section explores how bodies and identities are portrayed in movies, TV shows and books, and our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\">Psychology<\/a> section supports you with self-image, confidence and emotions.<\/p>","parent":0,"count":1542,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":5678,"category_count":1542,"category_description":"<p>The Society section of The Body Optimist unpacks the debates that shape women\u2019s lives: equality, discrimination, beauty standards, social ties and the place of bodies in public space. 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Yet these ideals of thinness, youth and flawless skin have very real effects: comments starting in childhood, pressure to watch your weight, unequal treatment at work and in health care, online harassment. Recognizing that a norm is constructed helps you take a step back, spot the messages designed to make you feel guilty and choose what you want to keep. That is the common thread of this section: connecting individual experiences to the collective mechanisms that produce them.<\/p>\n<h2>What can you do about discrimination or online harassment?<\/h2>\n<p>If you experience discrimination or online harassment, the first step is to keep evidence, then to turn to the right people, who will depend on the country you live in:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Save screenshots, messages, dates and the names of any witnesses.<\/li>\n<li>For discrimination in hiring, housing or access to a service, contact the equality or human rights agency in your country, a union or a lawyer.<\/li>\n<li>For illegal content online, report it to the platform and to the authorities in your country.<\/li>\n<li>If you have been threatened or targeted by a crime, you can file a report with the police.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Our approach: connecting the personal and the collective<\/h2>\n<p>Born from a plus-size fashion site, our magazine looks at social issues through the lens of the body and representation. We give a voice to the people most affected, we explain the words before debating them (sexism, fatphobia, trans identity, consent) and we favor practical ways forward over outrage alone. Our articles start from everyday experiences to shed light on broader patterns, without moralizing or pitting women against each other.<\/p>\n<h2>Articles to start with<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\/fatphobic-remarks-surely-said-without-knowing-430954\">fatphobic phrases many people say without realizing it<\/a>, and what they really imply.<\/li>\n<li>A look at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/would-you-be-considered-the-norm-elsewhere-here-are-average-sizes-and-weights-in-the-world-429930\">average heights and weights around the world<\/a>, a useful reminder that \u201cnormal\u201d depends on where you live.<\/li>\n<li>What to do when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/what-to-do-when-a-colleague-appropriates-an-idea-at-work-447182\">a coworker takes credit for your idea<\/a> at work.<\/li>\n<li>How to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/how-to-set-boundaries-in-the-face-of-unsolicited-advances-at-work-447161\">set boundaries with unwanted advances at work<\/a>, calmly and clearly.<\/li>\n<li>Whether women still <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/womens-work-applying-makeup-to-look-professional-446904\">have to wear makeup to look \u201cprofessional\u201d<\/a>, and what that expectation says about workplace norms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>What counts as discrimination?<\/h3>\n<p>Discrimination is unequal treatment based on a characteristic protected by law, in a specific area such as employment, housing or access to goods and services. 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