{"id":446671,"date":"2026-08-10T22:15:22","date_gmt":"2026-08-10T20:15:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/?p=446671"},"modified":"2026-08-10T11:18:29","modified_gmt":"2026-08-10T09:18:29","slug":"en-presentant-sa-collection-chaussures-relance-malgre-elle-debat-normes-beaute","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/by-presenting-her-shoe-collection-she-inadvertently-reignited-the-debate-on-beauty-standards-446671","title":{"rendered":"By presenting her shoe collection, she inadvertently reignites a debate on beauty standards."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It started as a simple fashion video: the innocent presentation of a collection of sky-high heels. However, what was meant to be a simple, impromptu fashion show quickly turned into an aesthetic trial. Instead of praising the design of these princess-like shoes, the most malicious internet users focused on another, more physical, detail.<\/p>\n<h2> When body hair attracts more attention than shoes<\/h2>\n<p> Content creator <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/carolenavmusic\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@carolenavmusic<\/a> didn&#39;t expect such a backlash when she showed off her fairytale heels. In a video that has easily surpassed a million views, this professional singer, whose Instagram feed is a mix of audio demos and ankle-high shoe hauls, presents the highlights of her shoe collection. She then performs a display of footwork worthy of a professional runway model in the privacy of her living room. Throughout this grand fashion showcase, she always focuses on her feet. It&#39;s somewhat of an artistic direction for her, and rightly so.<\/p>\n<p>This woman, who clearly owns more shoes than clothes to wear them with, sports platform sandals reminiscent of Bratz dolls, Renaissance-inspired designs, and even candy-pink pairs that look like they were borrowed from Barbie. This video, filmed with unabashed pride, garnered praise from style aficionados and Pinterest enthusiasts. However, it also became the target of numerous, entirely irrelevant criticisms.<\/p>\n<p>Some internet users, clearly there to remind everyone of beauty standards, played devil&#39;s advocate. They expressed their disgust at the main character&#39;s hairy legs with nauseating emojis and disgusted adjectives. &quot;I thought she was a man.&quot; &quot;What&#39;s the point of those shoes if you have men&#39;s legs?&quot; &quot;What if we started a razor collection?&quot; Despite years of desensitization to smooth, hairless skin, many are still surprised to see body hair on women. This natural phenomenon, common to all human beings, seems to be the ultimate crime for women, or even a faux pas. <\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"tiktok-embed\" style=\"max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;\" cite=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@carolenavmusic\/video\/7640112661425900813\" data-video-id=\"7640112661425900813\">\n<section> <a title=\"@carolenavmusic\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@carolenavmusic?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@carolenavmusic<\/a> I used to own 30+ heels look at me now ms minimalist \ud83e\udef6\ud83c\udffb\ud83d\udc95 <a title=\"heelcollection\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/tag\/heelcollection?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#heelcollection<\/a> <a title=\"\u266c Naughty Girl - Beyonc\u00e9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/music\/Naughty-Girl-7128257885397583874?refer=embed\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u266c Naughty Girl - Beyonc\u00e9<\/a><\/section>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h2> These comments illustrate the aesthetic pressure placed on women.<\/h2>\n<p> These comments, perpetuating outdated marketing rhetoric, suggest that body hair is superfluous on women and cannot coexist with frilly heels or other embellishments. While true fashionistas and advocates of body positivity claim they are too busy admiring the featured shoes to focus on the background, these purveyors of hate are busy promoting the ideal of smooth skin. As if body hair only grew on male figures or solely through the magic of testosterone.<\/p>\n<p>It&#39;s this kind of unsolicited criticism that forces women to cover their unkempt legs under thick layers of clothing, to forgo swimming because their legs aren&#39;t presentable, and to waste <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/bodypositive\/januhairy-pilosite-feminine-260196\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">72 days of their lives shaving<\/a> . While body hair is synonymous with virility in men and is even a positive symbol, it evokes sloppiness when it peeks out from under a skirt.<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, the content creator seems completely impervious to the opinions of others. Far from being overcome by insecurities or shame, she refuses to shave her legs to please society. On the contrary, she wants people to get used to her appearance, so that she is no longer seen as &quot;crude&quot; but as ordinary.<\/p>\n<h2> Reminder: body hair and femininity are not contradictory terms.<\/h2>\n<p> If, in the comments section, some venomous internet users assume that body hair detracts from this woman&#39;s style and ruins the potential of her shoes, which are clearly meant for Disney fairytales, that&#39;s just an old wives&#39; tale. We&#39;ve been so conditioned to see women with velvety skin, without a single hair, that we&#39;ve come to believe it&#39;s the norm, the rule to follow. However, body hair is healthy on all bodies and remains a universal reality, not a matter of gender.<\/p>\n<p>But thanks to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/psycho\/bodypositive\/jegardemespoils-elles-disent-non-diktat-epilation-assument-sur-twitter-274574\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hashtags<\/a> like \u201cI keep my body hair\u201d or \u201cprincesses have body hair,\u201d female body hair is being discussed differently. Not as something forbidden, but as a right. The content creator fully embraces this liberation movement. She even wrote a song in its honor, titled \u201cREVOLUTIONHAIRY.\u201d She also enjoys styling and shaping it artistically, just as she would her own hair.<\/p>\n<p>In the 21st century, female body hair should no longer be a problem, nor should it cause visual shock. It shouldn&#39;t even attract attention. And women like Carolena provide another, more realistic and accessible example of femininity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"It started as a simple fashion video: the innocent presentation of a collection of sky-high heels. 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Portraits, personal stories and explainers question beauty standards to help you feel more at peace with your appearance, with no pressure to lose weight or to love yourself no matter what.<\/p>\n<h2>What you\u2019ll find in the Body positive section<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Beauty standards<\/strong>: stretch marks, cellulite, hip dips, body hair and wrinkles, demystified, as in our story on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/hip-dips-heres-why-hollow-hips-are-an-asset-not-a-flaw-428176\">hip dips, a natural feature rather than a flaw<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Portraits<\/strong>: plus-size models, athletes, women over sixty and disabled people who are changing who gets seen.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Bodies and society<\/strong>: fashion that doesn\u2019t cater to every size, the constant scrutiny of women\u2019s bellies, echoing our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/societe\/grossophobie\">Fatphobia<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Self-acceptance<\/strong>: quotes, exercises and stories to make peace with your reflection, alongside our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/confiance-en-soi\">Self-confidence<\/a> section.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>What is body positivity and where does it come from?<\/h2>\n<p>Body positivity is a movement built on the idea that every body deserves respect and representation, regardless of size, skin color, age, gender or disability. Its roots lie in the fat acceptance movement, which emerged in the United States in the late 1960s to fight weight discrimination. The term later took off on social media, at the risk of being co-opted by brands and refocused on bodies close to the norm. Going back to its activist origins is a reminder that it\u2019s not only about \u201cloving yourself\u201d but also about fighting fatphobia.<\/p>\n<h2>Body positivity vs. body neutrality: what\u2019s the difference?<\/h2>\n<p>Body neutrality takes appearance out of the spotlight: instead of striving to love your body, you respect it for what it lets you do, such as walking, dancing or resting. It suits people for whom the pressure to \u201clove yourself\u201d adds stress, or whose relationship with their body has been shaped by illness or an eating disorder. The two approaches aren\u2019t opposites. On tough days, a few habits help: unfollow accounts that make you feel guilty, wear clothes that fit the body you have today, and thank your body for something it did rather than judging how it looks. Here\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/why-body-neutrality-is-increasingly-appealing-to-women-446685\">why body neutrality appeals to more and more women<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Our commitment<\/h2>\n<p>Accepting all bodies has been at the heart of our editorial line since our beginnings in plus-size fashion. We show bodies that are rarely seen without reducing them to a \u201cbefore and after\u201d or a heroic feat, and we reject any message that equates health with thinness. Our portraits let people speak for themselves, and never describe anyone as a \u201cflaw to fix.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2>Where to start<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/she-is-told-to-correct-her-asymmetrical-chest-to-choose-to-love-her-as-she-is-428203\">Embracing asymmetrical breasts<\/a>: the story of a woman who was told to \u201ccorrect\u201d her chest and chose not to.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/nose-stomach-arms-how-complexes-shape-life-choices-432126\">How body insecurities shape our choices<\/a>: nose, belly, arms, and the decisions we make around them.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/this-plus-size-model-denounces-the-silent-demise-of-inclusive-fashion-431725\">The quiet retreat of inclusive fashion<\/a>: a plus-size model calls out the industry for leaving bigger bodies behind.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/taboos-surrounding-stretch-marks-model-kelly-brook-decides-to-speak-out-428667\">Breaking the stretch mark taboo<\/a>: why one model decided to speak openly about hers.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/im-not-a-fit-girl-she-challenges-preconceived-ideas-about-the-athletic-body-447083\">Athletic bodies come in every shape<\/a>: a woman who challenges assumptions about what a sporty body looks like.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n<h3>Does accepting your body mean neglecting your health?<\/h3>\n<p>No. The movement challenges the idea that thinness proves good health and that fat people deserve less respect or care. It calls for health care free of weight stigma and aligns with the Health at Every Size (HAES) approach, which focuses on habits rather than the number on the scale.<\/p>\n<h3>Do you have to love your body every day?<\/h3>\n<p>No. Self-acceptance doesn\u2019t demand constant love: it means every body, including yours, deserves respect, even on days when you don\u2019t like it much. Body neutrality offers a gentler path for those days, focused on what your body does rather than how it looks.<\/p>\n<h3>What does \u201cbopo\u201d mean?<\/h3>\n<p>\u201cBopo\u201d is short for body positive or body positivity. It\u2019s widely used on social media, especially as a hashtag, to share unretouched photos and messages of self-acceptance. 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Its roots lie in the fat acceptance movement, which emerged in the United States in the late 1960s to fight weight discrimination. The term later took off on social media, at the risk of being co-opted by brands and refocused on bodies close to the norm. Going back to its activist origins is a reminder that it\u2019s not only about \u201cloving yourself\u201d but also about fighting fatphobia.<\/p>\n<h2>Body positivity vs. body neutrality: what\u2019s the difference?<\/h2>\n<p>Body neutrality takes appearance out of the spotlight: instead of striving to love your body, you respect it for what it lets you do, such as walking, dancing or resting. It suits people for whom the pressure to \u201clove yourself\u201d adds stress, or whose relationship with their body has been shaped by illness or an eating disorder. The two approaches aren\u2019t opposites. On tough days, a few habits help: unfollow accounts that make you feel guilty, wear clothes that fit the body you have today, and thank your body for something it did rather than judging how it looks. Here\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ma-grande-taille.com\/en\/psycho\/bodypositive\/why-body-neutrality-is-increasingly-appealing-to-women-446685\">why body neutrality appeals to more and more women<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Our commitment<\/h2>\n<p>Accepting all bodies has been at the heart of our editorial line since our beginnings in plus-size fashion. We show bodies that are rarely seen without reducing them to a \u201cbefore and after\u201d or a heroic feat, and we reject any message that equates health with thinness. 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