Sex

Welcome to The Body Optimist's "Sex" section! Sexuality, love life, and later, marriage (or not!). Love, in whatever form it takes, is what makes us want to get up every morning . It's also the source of many questions. In this dedicated section, we try to separate fact from fiction, make you laugh, evoke emotion, and also reassure you . As a woman, it's normal to have insecurities about intimacy. The real goal is to learn how to overcome them to have a fulfilling sex life and feel in harmony with your body. Let's embark on a beautiful journey...

Having a fulfilling love life takes work.

Just like friendship, love needs nurturing. To have a fulfilling love life, you have to feed it . Especially when you decide to settle down as a couple and build something with someone else. And accepting another person into your life also means being willing to question yourself . Thinking "two," not "one." Sometimes, this involves big changes. We give our all in our relationship, we lay ourselves bare, and we try to navigate our partner's personality every day . Why do they react this way? What do they expect from me? What do I expect from them? We also discuss societal trends that each of us can relate to. For example, did you know that a happy couple tends to gain weight at the same time ? We also take the time to answer your questions . Recently, a reader asked us how to tell his wife he was worried about her weight gain . We also gave the floor to this grandmother who explained that hersecret to longevity was avoiding men ! Besides, we also really enjoy laughing at certain situations . For example, did you know that the couples most likely to last are those who tease each other gently? While we place great importance on the "psychological" side of the couple, we do not forget sexuality.

It's time to break the taboo surrounding women's sexuality

Breaking news: Regardless of her weight, a woman has every right to embrace her sexuality and have the partners she chooses ! Here, there's zero judgment. We're here to advise, offer tips, and above all, remind women that they are entirely free to make their own choices! You've often written to us about this: feeling uncomfortable with your curves makes it hard to let loose in intimate situations. But did you know, for example, that men are crazy about curvy women who love themselves? Yes, your greatest asset for attracting a partner is your self-confidence, ladies ! In fact, we take great pleasure in exploring all aspects of sexuality. We talk about everything from sex toys and naughty apps to some revelations about orgasm . At The Body Optimist, there are no taboos, and everyone is free to speak their mind ! Of course, we are also interested in societal trends, talking to you for example about these robots that may soon replace men or the most frequent erotic dreams and their meaning . We also offer sex tests and are interested in your health too ! For example, did you know that having sex reduces cravings for snacks? Now that's great! As you might have guessed, we really let loose in the "sexuality" section! And we also love telling beautiful stories . Stories so powerful that they often lead to a marriage filled with love...

Marriage: Is it you and me for life?

It's the logical continuation of a beautiful love story and a fulfilling sex life. One day, we decide to take the next step and say "I do" . In the wedding category, we give pride of place to fashion advice. Where to find your wedding dress if you have curves, what outfits to avoid wearing when you're invited to a wedding, what lingerie to choose for your wedding night... We tell you everything ! Of course, we always keep our inveterate humor by telling you the story of this bride who used an Ikea bag to go pee on her wedding day or of this man who asked for a divorce one day after discovering his new wife's buttocks ! We also analyze TV shows dedicated to marriage, such as "Married at First Sight," which draws millions of French viewers. Yes, marriage is a wonderful adventure that we love to talk about. And we're counting on you too! Feel free to share your wedding stories directly on our forum . Between love life, sex, and marriage, we sometimes wonder how we manage to find time for everything else! But let's face it, women are everyday heroines and they also draw strength from this incredible feeling to get through each day . Ladies... We love you.